boldhound8 said:Nah, it’s actually the exact opposite lately. I’ve got less and less energy for this, and honestly, even less patience for people. The newbies act like they own the damn place—I don't even know how else to put it—instead of actually taking a second to read the rules when they first show up. And the old-timers? They just refuse to learn anything. Breaking the rules is clearly way more fun and easier for them than actually following them. Of course, there are exceptions in both groups, but man, most of them are just exhausting.
Even if the Prime Minister doesn't have that specific post to back him up, it’s crystal clear that getting those people banned was totally justified. Honestly? It was more than justified.
Oh, so I’m "good" just because I’m not posting on your pathetic little corner of the internet? Please. If I actually started hanging out on your board and you had to drop a few bans on me just to keep up, then suddenly I’d be the bad guy. Give me a break.😁 I’m telling you, it’s all just a matter of perception.🙂
Look, I wasn't even trying to defend him. I told you straight up, I have no clue what's actually going on here. But if you're gonna stand there acting like you've got all the facts, then maybe—just maybe—that red card was a bit much.
Look, I know some people here think I’m living in a dream world, but let's get real. I'm not even trying to make excuses for us, but damn, we’re dealing with five times the headache they are. When their site hits peak traffic, maybe 400 people are online at once. Here? We’ve got 3,000 to 4,000 users hitting it all at once. They barely have 4,000 total members, while we’re sitting here with over 100,000. It's not even a fair fight.
You know what I’m trying to say here? Seriously, just look at that nightmare of a dream you had—thinking you're looking at 13 threads that need deleting in just five days. Now, stop and actually do the math. Think about how many individual posts have to be nuked, how many warnings have been handed out, all those random emails, and all this other garbage we deal with... it adds up to way more than that.
Look, cousin, whatever you want to say, all I'm saying is there's just no comparison here.😉
I'm with you on this.
Can you even imagine? Even us moderators sometimes feel awkward because we don't have a boss looking over our shoulders.
I mean, on paper, we do, but in reality, it often feels like the moderators are the highest authority. To me, that feels stupid sometimes. Because when a user files a complaint and I shut it down with solid arguments, I actually need someone above me to look at the situation and back me up—to confirm it because they believe in the logic, not just because I'm some "big shot"
It's the same thing when I screw up. I need that higher-up to discipline me. When I mess up, I *want* to be punished, because I don't want it to look like I'm the "bad guy" who can just do whatever the hell I want. We're humans! Someone pushes my buttons, I say something stupid, I get a strike—it's insane.🙂
That's why I keep saying the FBI needs a total overhaul, and I think better oversight would come from that reform...
Oh, come on, you know exactly what's happening.
The only thing I can't wrap my head around is whether this user we're talking about already has a warning on file for this kind of thing.
If he does, then the red card stands. If he doesn't, then it would be fair for the admin to step in, pull the card, post a note saying it was premature, and apologize to the guy—but also give him a heads-up to watch out for similar threads next time and point him toward the help subforum if he's confused.
But honestly, boldhound8, you'd need some serious guts to actually do that.
And I get why you won't jump into the debate and why you're hedging with that "I don't know what's happening" line.
I'm not going to push my opinion on you, because you're cool enough that I don't want to force you into writing something that’ll just land you in hot water with the "colleagues," the "mods," and the "big boss."
I know exactly what I would do in this spot, and frankly, that's enough for me.
I'm really curious to see if the admin or a mod actually weighs in on this thread regarding our young, confused forum regular...
God, I feel like the kid is using some old-school Venetian defense strategy, and I've got a bad feeling his appeal is going to end in an auto-ban...
If it goes south, I'm holding you personally responsible for my chess match with my little cousin....
🙂