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Struggling to sleep? Any tips?

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ruggedfalcon2 ruggedfalcon2 Active Member
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joined Jun 2005
#41 ·
placidowl6 said:Every pharmacy carries them—they cost next to nothing, like maybe five cents...

I've been hating them a little bit lately—pushing them in a bit too deep, and now my eardrums are actually starting to ache...😢

Wait, are we talking about Orthopex? Honestly, that brand is miles ahead of the rest—they even have that specialized lubrication for the ear canal. On the other hand, you really shouldn't be shoving them in deep; just making a little plug at the entrance of the canal is plenty... just don't go pushing them toward the eardrum. 😁
Walter Myers4 Walter Myers4 Regular
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joined May 2004
#42 ·
hana said:I've always struggled with taking forever to actually fall asleep...

Look, this is a classic symptom for people who are absolutely terrified of losing control. Think about it—when you're asleep, you're vulnerable. You’re basically out of commission, totally losing grip on yourself and everything around you, and that scares the hell out of you. So, you try to artificially stretch out your waking hours just to maintain that fake sense of being in charge of everything. I know, saying it out loud makes it sound incredibly childish, but honestly? It is. It’s just one of those things where the most complicated, soul-crushing problems we deal with turn out to be painfully simple once you strip away the nonsense.😉
gentlebear8 gentlebear8 Member
17 messages
joined Jan 2007
#43 ·
placidowl6 said:I’d suggest Hesse’s *The Glass Bead Game*. It’s complex enough to exhaust whatever gray matter you have left and send your inner fleet of miniature Ferraris straight to sleep.👍

It feels like a lifetime since I read *The Glass Bead Game*... but if I were giving you advice, I'd point you toward anything by Hammett, Ridley’s *Genome*, or some Rushdie fiction—maybe *The Satanic Verses* or *Midnight's Children*.👍
placidowl6 placidowl6 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Dec 2005
#44 ·
ruggedfalcon2 said:Alright, hold on—are we talking about Orthopex? Honestly, they’re miles ahead of the rest because they actually use specific lubrication for the ear canal. Then again, you shouldn't be shoving them in too deep; just making a little plug at the entrance of the canal is enough... don't go poking at your eardrums.😁

Sadly, it’s not that brand. I tried going without my plugs for a day or two—just to see if I could handle it—and the results were a total disaster. Everything came rushing back: the loud PC, my obnoxious brother, my freezing mother 😁 , even the doors rattling every time there's a breeze. I'm going right back to my peace and quiet with my plugs. It’s honestly amazing—listening to nothing but my own pulse and breathing while everything else just fades into a dull, distant hum...👍
ruggedfalcon2 ruggedfalcon2 Active Member
64 messages
joined Jun 2005
#45 ·
placidowl6 said:unfortunately, it’s not that company. I tried going without my earplugs for a day or two—just to see—and the results were a total disaster. Everything came rushing back: the noisy PC, my obnoxious brother, my cold mother 😁 , even the doors rattling from the draft... I'm heading back to my peace and quiet with my earplugs. It's honestly amazing to just hear my own pulse and breathing as the only surviving sounds—everything else is just a faint echo of what it used to be...👍

Fine, at least tell me the name of those earplugs and where I can get them. ☕
Jamie Clark74 Jamie Clark74 Regular
278 messages
joined Sep 2004
#46 ·
From Pfizer:
Sleep hygiene tips...check this link

🙂 😉 😎
northernskipper41 northernskipper41 Member
24 messages
joined Nov 2005
#47 ·
ruggedfalcon2 said:Alright, just give me the name of those pills and tell me where I can actually pick them up. ☕

E.A.R. earplugs.
Every single pharmacy.☕
Jose Miller3 Jose Miller3 Regular
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joined Mar 2024
#48 ·
Just wanted to vent for a second—lately, my dreams have been absolutely brutal. They’re so exhausting, and honestly, they all feel like the same nightmare on repeat. I wake up feeling totally drained, just completely wiped out... sometimes I even wake up feeling like I’ve been crying all night.
So, does anyone know if taking some Xanax might actually stop the dreaming? Is there any way to deal with these repetitive nightmares? They’re seriously killing me more than if I had just stayed awake all night...
Walter Myers4 Walter Myers4 Regular
355 messages
joined May 2004
#49 ·
Honestly, you're better off just taking some Xanax, maybe 2 or 5 mg.
gentlebear8 gentlebear8 Member
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joined Jan 2007
#50 ·
Jose Miller3 said:I just need to vent for a second: lately, my dreams have been absolutely brutal. They’re exhausting, repetitive, and honestly draining. I wake up feeling completely worn out, like I’ve been through a marathon, and sometimes it feels like I spent the whole night crying.
So, does anyone know if taking Xanax might actually stop the dreaming altogether? Is there any way to deal with these recurring nightmares that leave me feeling more exhausted than if I hadn't slept at all?

...you might want to look into lucid dreaming; it could actually help. 👍
Jose Miller3 Jose Miller3 Regular
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joined Mar 2024
#51 ·
Explain yourself, please!

What am I supposed to make of those five words you dropped with a smiley face at the end?

@Walter Myers4: Honestly, I’d much rather have something a little less addictive than Xanax, if that’s even an option...
Walter Myers4 Walter Myers4 Regular
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joined May 2004
#52 ·
Jose Miller3 said:Explain yourself, please!

What am I supposed to make of those five words you dropped with a smiley face at the end? Seriously.

@Walter Myers4: Look, if possible, I’d actually prefer something a little less addictive than Xanax.

Don't go taking it every single day. Use it once when you absolutely need to crash, and then your body's natural rhythm should snap back into place. And honestly? This stuff keeping you up—you probably already know what's actually eating at you. You've gotta untangle it, vent to someone, or just figure it out yourself. To me, it looks like guilt, or anxiety, or maybe some deep-seated fear about what's coming next. Who knows. Heck, maybe your bed is just in the wrong spot. 😉
gentlebear8 gentlebear8 Member
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joined Jan 2007
#53 ·
Jose Miller3 said:explain yourself, please!

What am I supposed to make of those five words you dropped with a smiley face at the end?

If I recall correctly—though I could be wrong—there’s already a thread on this forum dedicated to lucid dreaming. With enough practice, you can actually master the technique. I don't have a specific link to hand you, so you might want to just give it a quick search on Google. 😉
ironangler22 ironangler22 Member
13 messages
joined Mar 2006
#54 ·
Honestly, I’ve been tossing and turning for about a week now—just flipping from one side of the bed to the other, hunting for a pillow to drag along with me. It’s a bit of a struggle since I’m using a tiny pillow on a huge king-sized bed. I usually don't actually drift off until maybe 3 a.m.
I’m pretty sure it’s just stress, though—my finals start in three weeks, and the pressure is definitely starting to kick in.
silverfalcon7 silverfalcon7 Member
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joined Apr 2006
#55 ·
Hey everyone! I definitely went through my own rough patch dealing with insomnia paired with those terrifying night terrors—you know, when you barely catch a few minutes of sleep before waking up in a panic... For me, it all boiled down to the sheer stress of everything going around and seeing how many of you were struggling too... It’s just one of those things where a specific situation, a certain phase of life, or even a setback can trigger this kind of stress, but it might not actually show up physically until months later, which is why so many people are left scratching their heads wondering what's happening to them... Anyway, the main thing is getting your circadian rhythm back on track. I made sure to eat and go to bed at the exact same time every single day. In my case, being prescribed Paxil really helped pull me through. I was able to finally kick the insomnia after about a month......
Now, I’m facing the complete opposite problem!!! Lately, I can't seem to stop sleeping 🙂 So, I'm trying to find some balance... But honestly, I am hitting nothing but dead ends!!!!
lonefox26 lonefox26 Newcomer
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joined Jan 2006
#56 ·
sheila said:I've been struggling with insomnia for over a year now.
Things have improved slightly, I suppose, but the fallout remains.
I am chronically sleep-deprived, constantly exhausted, and my eyes just burn incessantly...
😢
but I think the real key might be your circadian rhythm. If you try to go to bed at the same time every single night—ideally by midnight—then eventually, maybe, things start to correct themselves.
It's a classic approach.
There was a period where I couldn't sleep at all, and after about a week, I actually started hallucinating.😱 But that's in the past, I guess.
Still, these sleep issues continue to plague me. I've tried various medications, but nothing seems to work. I've experimented with things like Valerian, various over-the-counter sleep aids, and even prescription options... and absolutely nothing! For instance, last night I went to bed at midnight—being a very good girl—only to wake up at 5 AM because I simply couldn't drift off anymore. And I am just completely wiped out.
Well, who really knows...☕

I actually dealt with the exact same thing a few years back, and honestly, it lasted much longer than yours did. It wasn't just my eyes burning, either; the entire area around my eyes and my cheeks felt terrible. It was awful! Not to mention the dark circles under my eyes. I'm not sure if you've seen a specialist yet, but in Washington, D.C., there is the Sleep Disorders Center. Perhaps there is a more effective therapy suited for you; there are so many different medications available, and I imagine it depends heavily on the specific dosage. They also tend to suggest psychotherapy, though I personally avoided that route.

In addition to everything else mentioned, they advised me to stay away from the TV and the radio in the evenings. Oh, and for those dealing with milder sleep disturbances, there are Valerian drops taken with sugar, or perhaps lemon balm tea. Those didn't do much for me, I guess, but I know plenty of people who swear by them.

Generally speaking, most of these issues seem to have a psychological foundation. Nothing provided lasting relief for me until I fell in love again and finally managed to resolve some deep-seated issues from my past; that's when things finally began to improve. I suspect that after such intense, difficult periods in life, one might need something beautiful to happen to truly calm down and recover. I don't know, maybe some people can manage it on their own, but I certainly couldn't do it by myself.
Noah Harris50 Noah Harris50 Active Member
116 messages
joined Mar 2007
#57 ·
Whenever I’m stressed out and exhausted, I hit the sack thinking I'm finally gonna pass out, but then my body just jolts me awake. It’s like this sudden, violent twitch right as I'm drifting off, and it happens over and over again. Honestly, now I’m just lying there getting anxious about it—scared of the jerk itself and terrified I won't get any sleep at all when I clearly need it.
Anyone else dealt with this crap? How do you handle it?
Sam Hughes5 Sam Hughes5 Active Member
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joined Sep 2008
#58 ·
You're clearly under a ton of stress, man. Honestly, maybe go see a psychiatrist or something? Just get them to prescribe some mild sleep aids, like Ambien or Lunesta, to take the edge off.
Noah Harris50 Noah Harris50 Active Member
116 messages
joined Mar 2007
#59 ·
What's actually in those pills? You ever dealt with anything like that before?
Sam Hughes5 Sam Hughes5 Active Member
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joined Sep 2008
#60 ·
Yeah, I've definitely been there... I actually went through that myself. Those pills are from Pfizer—you should go check out their website to see what they're about. In the beginning, they really helped me because they're pretty mild, you know? But since my issues were way deeper than just everyday stress, the standard dose eventually stopped doing much for me. Still, for what you're dealing with, it should be plenty.

http://www.pfizer.com/Default.aspx?sid=24

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