Dealing with hemorrhoids

I'm dealing with that exact same mess. They actually suggested surgery for me, so I just bailed. 🙂

Elizabeth Palmer4 said:I've got issues with that too. They told me I needed surgery, so I just bailed. 🙂

I get it. I've watched people walk into a waiting room, then hear someone come out of the doctor's office with a heavy sigh, and the whole group just starts drifting toward the exit.
😲 😲

If doctors are already telling you that you need surgery, things have probably hit rock bottom, haven't they?

Hell yeah :-)

It’s really not as bad as people make it out to be. Those who get the procedure done end up coming back. I was actually performing these surgeries about 12 years ago, and I haven't had any issues at all. They just trim both the external and internal parts under an epidural. You spend three days in the hospital, and after about 20 days, you're basically as good as new.

I would truly appreciate any and all suggestions you might have on how to effectively resolve this issue.😕

Unfortunately, it’s looking pretty slim. 🙂
We could work on making those triggers less frequent and much less painful.
Diet is everything. You should try to eat solid foods less frequently, and focus on meals rich in spices and healthy fats. Avoid alcohol and soda entirely. Instead, stick to homemade fruit compotes—just make sure you choose fruits that won't cause constipation. A plum compote works wonders for digestion. Also, make sure you're getting plenty of yogurt rather than milk; look for acidophilus and high-quality probiotics.
In my experience, the best options are definitely the ointments and the lozenges. My only concern is that if you rely on them for too long, your body starts to get used to them, which can weaken your overall immunity and make the treatment less effective—assuming, of course, someone has been self-medicating for two years without ever actually seeing a doctor.
Since hemorrhoids are essentially just small intestinal vessels protruding outward during... 😬 I have always believed that maintaining a regular routine is essential for overall health. It’s one of those fundamental aspects of wellness we often overlook. 😬 You really need to keep an eye on the toilet paper after you wipe to check for any blood. If you notice anything, it could indicate a more serious inflammation, and you definitely need to call your doctor right away. There's a significant risk of bleeding if it isn't addressed.
I had a friend who was too embarrassed to see a doctor about some bleeding he was experiencing. He kept it all to himself until he suddenly collapsed on the floor and lost consciousness. 😲 Blood. We all know what that implies. It’s a near-certain death sentence. That’s why you just can't take risks when things get this heavy, even if those situations don't happen very often.
The absolute worst-case scenario is having to go under the knife for surgery, only to end up stuck at home for three months because you can't even sit down comfortably.
Everything I’ve shared here comes strictly from my own limited perspective and personal experience.

I found this hemorrhoid cream based on propolis that actually works pretty well. I'll check the label later and let you know the name.

Brandon Thomas89 - it's called Hemopropin.
nobrainatati - seriously, wow... I haven't seen such a "perfectly fitting" username in a long, long time 👎

They usually suggest eating dried prunes soaked in warm water after surgery. Honestly, right after the procedure, you can't even sneeze without tearing up. But man, I haven't thought about those things in over 10 years.

since hemorrhoids are just small intestines popping out when you poop

Small intestines?

🙂

You can totally find stuff about this on the Health forums if you just search for it. People were definitely talking about it back in October 2005 when I dealt with a nasty flare-up. Got it after sitting on a concrete floor while I was messing around installing some outlets at home, tinkering with wires and laminate.

Actually, it’s even genetic. I definitely inherited mine from my old man. He had surgery right around the September 11 attacks before I headed off to basic training. I went into the service without any kind of send-off because the pain was so bad he couldn't even get out of bed.

The predisposition is genetic, but you also get them from catching colds, eating poorly, or having a bad diet—lots of hard, dry foods. It’s also triggered by poor hygiene, sitting too much, and not moving enough. And interestingly enough, about 40% of pregnant women get them. For them, it’s due to the blood vessels in the pelvic area expanding and contracting during pregnancy.

Mine were external and they were brutal. Everything felt inflamed, probably even a couple centimeters deep because I could feel it in my prostate too. I couldn't even pee, and don't even get me started on trying to take a real dump—it was a total nightmare. What helped was taking cold chamomile baths for two weeks, using Fact ointment, and some Voltaren gel, which acts as a local anesthetic for that area; it took the edge off the pain and itching a bit.

The whole thing flared up again just a few days before my wedding, so my honeymoon ended up being pretty painful too.

Oh, forgot to mention... alcohol makes it worse, especially red wine and hard liquor. While you're recovering, you seriously need to cut out the booze, especially the strong stuff.

I actually found some herbal ointments that worked even better than the famous Fact cream.

You’re never truly rid of them, even after surgery, because new ones will eventually pop up. You just have to learn how to live with it and keep things under control. Fix your diet: cut out spicy food, salty stuff, dry snacks, and alcohol. Eat more fiber and grab some probiotics like kombucha, kefir, or yogurt. Don't sit on cold surfaces, stay dry, and most importantly—if you feel even the slightest itch and your hand starts drifting toward your butt, grab the ointment immediately and apply it preventatively. Otherwise, once they swell up, it gets ugly fast. I was on sick leave for two weeks because I couldn't stand, lie down, or walk...

MilaMalaPlava said:Brandon Thomas89 - it's called Hemopropin.
nobrainatall - honestly, bravo, I haven't seen such an "on the nose" username in ages.👎

Bingo. I was just about to say the same thing. 👍

They aren't external, they're internal. It’s quite painful when I go to the bathroom, and there's bleeding involved.
I tried using some Fact suppositories, but honestly, they haven't provided much relief at all...
If anyone happens to know of an effective remedy for these internal hemorrhoids, I would be incredibly grateful for any advice you could offer.

I’d been noticing this little bump right at the entrance for a while now—and honestly, my first thought was, "Oh great, please don't let this be hemorrhoids."
I basically ignored it for a few months until the thing actually started poking out, which turned into a whole ordeal of irritation, itching, and stinging... just lovely.
So, I finally went to see my doctor, picked up some Voltaren gel, and I'm using that now. I also know I need to watch what I eat, so I already grabbed some fiber supplements... but what's the deal with nuts? I've heard people mention pumpkin seeds, walnuts, and I'm assuming almonds or pistachios work too?

First off, I seriously don't get people who are too embarrassed to see a doctor about this kind of thing.
I mean, your ass becomes a massive problem once it stops working right, doesn't it?

Once you realize you're dealing with hemorrhoids, you have to change your diet for good to make sure they don't keep coming back.
Another huge misconception is thinking they just go away on their own. They don't.
Once you have them, they're basically there forever—they just lay low until you make one wrong move and they flare up again.
I already listed everything you should and shouldn't eat above, so I'm not repeating myself.

People suggest yogurt because the coldness helps soothe the itching and burning around the anus for a bit.
There aren't really meds that stop the pain while the hemorrhoids themselves are active, but there are definitely things that help with the pain after surgery.

After fighting this for over 15 years, I finally decided to just go in for surgery.
It’s not like getting a tooth pulled; you go in hoping that one day you'll finally be fine and never deal with this again.
(I've talked to plenty of people who had the surgery and haven't had a relapse. I'm not saying it's impossible, but if you get a few years of peace without pain, why wouldn't you?)
The surgery itself isn't the painful part. It's the recovery. It's long and slow because the doctor cauterized everything, and now those spots need to fall off and the tissue needs to heal.
And you have to have a bowel movement every single day during that time. If you get constipated again, it's a total disaster.
If you stick to a proper diet, you can regulate everything. It works, you just have to be disciplined.
I went to a private clinic in Chicago, and honestly, I can't say enough good things about my doctor (DM me if you want his info).
He was careful, gave me all the meds and creams I needed, and I could call him anytime if things got worse or if I had questions.
Now that I'm recovered and back at work, I've kept up with a lighter diet, and those days where I was only going every four days are gone.
So,
mI just don't understand people who say they wouldn't recommend surgery because the pain is "too much" or whatever...

Only someone who has never experienced a single painful trip to the bathroom would say that.

And look, if you're struggling with constipation and hemorrhoids, don't let it get to the point where you feel like you're dying on the toilet for hours.
Just get some adult enemas to clear things out; it makes a huge difference.
When the stool is hard and the hemorrhoids are flared up, it's a nightmare. Just go to the pharmacy and make your life easier.

I've tried every medication and cream out there.

For me, surgery was 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙂 🙂 🙂

Which doctor are we talking about here?
I'm asking because I've been reading conflicting stuff online—one article says if you have a visible lump, you're already looking at surgery, while another claims you only need to go under the knife if there are multiple ones, they're causing painful inflammation, or if there's bleeding. Honestly, I have no clue which one to actually trust...🙄

dustyowl29 said:which doctor are we talking about?
I'm asking because some articles say if a hemorrhoid is visible as an external lump, you need surgery right away. Then other places claim you only go under the knife if there are multiple ones causing painful inflammation or bleeding. I don't know which one to believe...🙄

Dr. Jack Filati, a proctology surgeon.

Alright, but where exactly is his office located?

Dr. Jack Filati
16 Štoosov St
Chicago

01 23 15 561
098 27 45 20

I think he was on vacation until August 22nd... just give him a call and see.

thanks..👍