Joshua Smith5 said:Look, I have massive respect for Gordon-Levitt, and I’m head over heels for Zooey (damn you, Ben Gibbarde), so being objective about this movie is a struggle. But fine, I'll try...
Setting my biases aside, I liked it. The acting was solid, especially Gordon-Levitt. The script is sharp and funny, offering a twist that most romantic dramedies shy away from, all wrapped up in very competent direction.
It touches on certain pockets of alternative culture—specifically indie music, like The Smiths or Pixies—and you can't shake the feeling that both leads are total hipsters, which is easily one of the most annoying subcultures out there today.
You could argue the film tries a little too hard to be cool, but it works. It’s good. Actually, it’s great. Honestly, I’m glad it didn't sweep the major awards; that whole season was a complete mess anyway.
Can someone—for the love of God—give me a rough definition of what a hipster actually is? I mean, come on, please. 😁
Are hipsters only into The Smiths because they love them? Or maybe it’s just because Summer doesn't look like some overdone, sun-baked mess straight out of a tanning salon—you know what I mean?
I’m actually really curious—what makes you label them as hipsters? And why exactly do you think that's such a bad thing? 🍿
goldenhound32 said:Look, you might think drawing buildings is a complete waste of time, but I actually find it quite engaging.🤷
It looks like something genuinely real, much like those moments shared by couples in love.
I mean, I thought it was honestly so sweet when he was drawing on her hand like that.
It’s like drawing buildings right inside your own apartment—you know, that feeling where you're just sketching out entire skylines from your living room sofa. 😍
Michael Ortiz68 said:Look, I did all sorts of ridiculous things back when I was in love, 😉 and maybe "pathetic" isn't quite the right word... But I was just waiting for a specific cinematic moment, and it happened exactly when I thought nothing would happen.
The whole movie felt like a predictable loop to me: okay, the guy is in love, the girl is this quirky, outgoing type who doesn't believe in long-term commitment. He thinks he'll change her because he's "special," then everything falls apart—that inevitable mid-movie "crisis" required for drama—followed by his doubts about love during some speech at the office, and finally the ending with the moral: When one door closes, another one opens.
It's all been done before; there isn't a shred of originality here.
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Isn't that just how things usually go in life? I mean, isn't it always like that?
I think that’s exactly why the movie hits so hard—it’s just so realistic. It captures how we all tend to make these huge mistakes when we convince ourselves someone is "the one," only to have everything flip 180 degrees in the end anyway. It's kind of a gut punch, honestly.
If you head over to the Lonely Hearts subforum, you'll see plenty of threads where people are venting about how they tried to "fix" their partners—or, you know, how their partners were trying to do the exact same thing to them.
This kind of stuff happens every single day—which, I guess, is exactly why I ended up loving the movie even more.
He managed to lay out some pretty real-life situations—and he did it in such a charming way, too. 🙂
goldenhound32 said:Go ahead then—name another romance novel where they start off by insisting, "this isn't a love story."🙂
And while you're at it, where else can you find that tired little gimmick where the screen splits in half to show what he *thought* was going to happen versus the actual reality of the situation?
That part was honestly brilliant. 😍 Especially those scenes at IKEA and that "penis" scene in the park. 🤣 😍