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Old souls vs. young souls

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Participants Morgan Bishop4Daniel Murphy11Nicholas Gonzalez8rustymaker5Robert Diaz2casualtiger2Jeffrey Fisher5Justin Garcia7Jacob Sanchez7Ryan Wilson2Michael Gonzalez77Nancy Wilson2Elizabeth Castillo87nimblewolf11Scott Miller4Matthew White4William Roberts3Ronald JonesJohn Evans3
Ryan Wilson2 Ryan Wilson2 Regular
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#61 ·
I was completely unaware that souls could actually secrete hormones that create such an intense emotional tether to a specific location.

How can you truly discern if you are encountering your own ancestors? Powerful entities wander this world constantly, often masking their true nature through various disguises....
Scott Miller4 Scott Miller4 Active Member
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#62 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:I was completely unaware that souls could actually secrete hormones that create such an intense emotional tether to a specific location.

How can you truly discern if you are encountering your own ancestors? Powerful entities wander this world constantly, often masking their true nature through various disguises....

So, how do you actually tell them apart?
Robert Diaz2 Robert Diaz2 Member
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#63 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:I was completely unaware that souls could actually secrete hormones that create such an intense emotional tether to a specific location.

How can you truly discern if you are encountering your own ancestors? Powerful entities wander this world constantly, often masking their true nature through various disguises....

Look, I was just saying that this is my own personal experience, and I even admitted that maybe I'm just losing my marbles a little bit. 😁 But hey, it's what I know, and it's what I've actually lived through.

Regarding that first part, though—maybe it's similar to how someone might lose a limb but still feels the sensation like it's right there. Like, on a higher level, it's still present. So, I guess those heavy emotions tied to a certain personality or mental state just get transferred over somehow. 🤷

That's why I think you shouldn't get too attached! 🧐
Jacob Sanchez7 Jacob Sanchez7 Active Member
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#64 ·
Ryan Wilson2 said:If they are being born, does that imply that souls must die?

I will employ a parable by Alan Watts:
Life is akin to falling off a cliff. You are born at the summit, and then the doctor throws you down. As you descend, you spot a rock and grab onto it with everything you've got; suddenly, that rock becomes your entire universe, and you lose sight of everything else because you are so preoccupied with the stone.
However, you are going to hit the ground whether you cling to that rock or not; the only difference is that the quality of your experience will be vastly different depending on whether you are tethered to that stone. If you aren't clinging to the rock, you still have the freedom to experience the stone, but you aren't necessarily trapped by it.

A murky parable.

If you grab the rock, you will experience the rock, regardless of whether you intended to be tethered to it or not.

Non-attachment doesn't preclude the possibility of experiencing something; it simply offers greater freedom in choosing that very experience, because you maintain a much clearer perspective when you aren't bound to an object.

Water in a glass is clear. Once you stir Nescafe into it, you have tied the water to the coffee; at that point, the water is no longer clear—it has become the coffee.

Therein lies the distinction. In my view, if one does not attach oneself, one cannot truly live through the experience. Since we are physical beings, attachment is the only thing that can actually influence our experience.

The water isn't just "coffee-flavored" water; it is simply coffee. 😁

But you caught on...
Without water, there is no Gatorade. Water is the fundamental element; any additive merely clouds its clarity. In humans, water is clouded by thoughts, feelings, belief systems, and so on. But if you operate like a river, nothing can ever cloud you because everything simply flows through. It’s that moment of realization where you recognize something—not as something "new" or something "earned through struggle," but as something that was always present. It is the base of everything.

Everything beyond that point of recognition must be discovered for yourself. It's an individual experience, and it manifests differently for everyone.

Ryan Wilson2 said:But why would we ever need to forget that we are souls in the first place?

Perhaps this amnesia is intentional, a necessary step to allow us to fully immerse ourselves in this world.

Fixed.

Ryan Wilson2 said:I am genuinely at a loss here.

Is it not the case that emotions are merely a byproduct of our attachment to this earthly existence? Once we reach the realization that we are souls—that we are, in essence, beyond the physical—shouldn't all such attachments simply vanish?

Honestly, you spiritualists are impossible to pin down; no matter how I approach the argument, you always find a way to slip through the cracks.😁

Emotions are essentially a bodily sense. They signal various chemical balances and imbalances occurring within the body, as well as certain things outside the body (intuition is one such emotion). The actual chemical life of an emotion lasts from five seconds to five minutes max. Anything lasting longer than that is just mental repetition, not sincere emotion. Basically, emotions that live longer than that are illusions; they have no basis in reality, only in our heads.
Matthew White4 Matthew White4 Active Member
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#65 ·
Like !!!
William Roberts3 William Roberts3 Active Member
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#66 ·
Jeffrey Fisher5 said:😉
writing on this forum... likewise

I suppose I am an old soul in that regard; it has always been clear to me that I won't be taking anything from this material world with me when I go (and I realized that long before reaching retirement age). A small part of me finds people rather predictable—their actions rarely catch me off guard—I often have this feeling: *deja vu*.
Even as a child, I possessed a temperament far beyond my years; I was self-taught—or rather, I recall being able to—to read and write well before even starting elementary school, picked up foreign languages without any real struggle, read serious literature by the age of ten, and harbored a profound, soul-deep loathing for mathematics...😂 I knew instinctively it wouldn't serve me much (and indeed, outside of basic daily needs, it hasn't).
I genuinely enjoy people; I like helping them whenever and however I can. People generally enjoy talking, and many have told me that a conversation with me brings them a sense of calm—though I am certainly no licensed therapist😉—and I find it remarkably easy to connect with anyone, anywhere; I can almost immediately sense what is weighing on the person I'm speaking with...
I am a decent listener...
But truthfully, I am happiest in the tranquility of my own home, surrounded by my roses, my animals (and I don't just mean pets), and my books... I take great pleasure in doing everything for my children, yet I find even more joy in exchanging thoughts and experiences with them without ever overstepping into their private lives.

If I am, by chance, already so close to fulfillment, well... I think I would much rather be a young soul. Just so I could continue gathering experiences in the future, because I am genuinely curious to see what becomes of things in 100, or 500 years, and so on.

ah... maybe you're already there, and as you just need one tiny little "shift"🙂
William Roberts3 William Roberts3 Active Member
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#67 ·
Jacob Sanchez7 said:But you caught on...
Without water, there is no Gatorade. Water is the fundamental element; any additive merely clouds its clarity. In humans, water is clouded by thoughts, feelings, belief systems, and so on. But if you operate like a river, nothing can ever cloud you because everything simply flows through. It’s that moment of realization where you recognize something—not as something "new" or something "earned through struggle," but as something that was always present. It is the base of everything.

Everything beyond that point of recognition must be discovered for yourself. It's an individual experience, and it manifests differently for everyone.

Fixed.

Emotions are essentially a bodily sense. They signal various chemical balances and imbalances occurring within the body, as well as certain things outside the body (intuition is one such emotion). The actual chemical life of an emotion lasts from five seconds to five minutes max. Anything lasting longer than that is just mental repetition, not sincere emotion. Basically, emotions that live longer than that are illusions; they have no basis in reality, only in our heads.

🙂 So cool! 👍
William Roberts3 William Roberts3 Active Member
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#68 ·
Robert Diaz2 said:Yeah, I guess when that passion fades, people either move on to something else or they actually build a more mature relationship. But honestly, in both scenarios, you're still dealing with intense emotions and attachments—which is exactly the kind of stuff those "old souls" we're talking about are trying to dodge.

I’m actually posting on this thread and that other one about soulmates at the same time, and I’m starting to lose track of which is which since they're becoming pretty much the same thing anyway. 😁

🙂 And they really are the same! You start feeling that "sameness" and just get lost in it. The lines just blur... because they're basically talking about the exact same thing.
William Roberts3 William Roberts3 Active Member
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#69 ·
Robert Diaz2 said:Yeah, I guess when that passion fades, people either move on to something else or they actually build a more mature relationship. But honestly, in both scenarios, you're still dealing with intense emotions and attachments—which is exactly the kind of stuff those "old souls" we're talking about are trying to dodge.

I’m actually posting on this thread and that other one about soulmates at the same time, and I’m starting to lose track of which is which since they're becoming pretty much the same thing anyway. 😁

Just wanted to jump in here with one thought regarding this whole "star soul" idea...
The whole point of being a "star soul" is that they don't try to avoid anything, not even getting attached. A true "star soul" just lives life head-on, without trying to stay detached from existence or anything in it...

Detachment isn't some kind of "spiritual" win or milestone. Honestly, detachment just causes suffering. If you're totally detached, you aren't even really living. It creates a wall against life (way more useless and damaging than the Berlin Wall), a block that disconnects you and forces you into a struggle against life itself. Detachment splits you apart just as much as attachment does...
nimblewolf11 nimblewolf11 Member
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#70 ·
There’s a massive difference between being connected to someone and being addicted to them—and for most people, it’s actually an addiction. An addict doesn't just feel sad when they lose their "person"; they experience a total emotional meltdown because their entire world was anchored to that one object. Honestly, how many people can truly move on without some serious psychological scarring? For someone caught in that cycle—regardless of whether they're a man or a woman—their whole existence ends up revolving entirely around their obsession. It’s a brutal situation for everyone involved; it’s just as devastating for the person struggling with the dependency as it is for the person they're clinging to...
Morgan Bishop4 Morgan Bishop4 Active MemberOP
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#71 ·
I mean, who actually says you have to be completely detached and cold toward everyone just to live in total isolation?! :/ I honestly think you can live a normal life, though I guess it might be a little easier in certain situations if you’re just fully aware of how fleeting everything is... how insignificant we all are, how small we really are, and that whole sense of being unattached to it all...
casualtiger2 casualtiger2 Regular
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#72 ·
Theosophical concepts regarding reincarnation—maybe they actually hold some answers to the questions we've been asking.
Part two
nimblewolf11 nimblewolf11 Member
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#73 ·
Morgan Bishop4 said:I mean, who actually says you have to be completely detached and cold toward everyone just to live in total isolation?! :/ I honestly think you can live a normal life, though I guess it might be a little easier in certain situations if you’re just fully aware of how fleeting everything is... how insignificant we all are, how small we really are, and that whole sense of being unattached to it all...

It’s so easy to get stuck—just frozen in some beautiful memory or those sweet, rosy dreams of the past. Honestly, that sweetness is such a trap! It offers this false sense of security and beauty that "big-shot" spiritual gurus love to cling to just to look attractive. Of course, everyone chooses their own path, and there's really no arguing with that. But they don't say "all good things must pass" for nothing, right? That's what I'm getting at—the illusion part. I'm not talking about isolation, which can sometimes stem from psychological issues. Being connected to your surroundings and being emotionally attached to something... well, those two things aren't the same thing at all!
Jacob Sanchez7 Jacob Sanchez7 Active Member
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#74 ·
There’s this story about a Zen monk who broke down in tears after hearing about the passing of a close relative. When one of his peers stepped in to suggest that such a display of personal attachment was beneath the dignity of a monk, he simply replied: "Don't be foolish; I'm crying because I want to cry."
rustymaker5 rustymaker5 Regular
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#75 ·
It’s not about being stuck, it’s about the neck, ha! 😁

I honestly feel like we aren't all on the same page when it comes to what "attachment" actually means... To me, it isn't about living life without any emotional ties at all, or becoming these cold, unfeeling, supposedly "soulless" people. I think the real issue is more about how we handle those deep connections we have—you know, with a child, a spouse, a close friend, or anyone else important—and whether we express that bond by suffocating them with this overbearing protective instinct or by trying to mold them into something else just to fit our own expectations...
It’s perfectly natural to be deeply attached to the people closest to us, but as long as we aren't making our lives a burden for them, and instead we respect them as independent individuals we simply enjoy spending time with, then I don't think that counts as negative attachment, and it seems to me that's exactly how a star soul carries themselves...
It’s the same thing when you look at material possessions—for instance, if someone accidentally breaks an old family heirloom passed down from your great-grandmother, and you're suddenly hit with this tidal wave of rage and grief because you feel like a link to your heritage has been severed, and then you let that resentment poison your relationship with that person... well, that's where the attachment turns toxic, even though the actual joy of holding onto such a memory isn't a bad thing at all... 🤷
nimblewolf11 nimblewolf11 Member
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#76 ·
An invisible web lies underneath everything—unconditionally linking the living and the non-living alike... distance doesn't matter here, nor does any perceived isolation. It’s all about interconnectedness, or perhaps an (unconscious) bond with the entire universe.
This cosmic state of being connected can only be superficially "sabotaged" by becoming attached...😁

The thing is, addictive attachment eventually demands its toll—it never offers a discount on the amount of suffering you have to endure. That kind of clinging actually strips away your true sense of self, leaving a person feeling utterly miserable and lost whenever their object of obsession isn't around to act as that "good old" anchor.
Ronald Jones Ronald Jones Active Member
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#77 ·
People tend to tell me I have a star soul. 😵 😵
John Evans3 John Evans3 Newcomer
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#78 ·
Morgan Bishop4 said:So, I was scrolling through this site the other day and stumbled upon this whole deep dive regarding old souls and stuff like that:

http://personalityspirituality.net/a...-the-old-soul/

They’ve got links at the bottom for all the different soul types too, if you're feeling adventurous enough to read through them.

I’m dying to know what you guys think about any of this... do you actually buy into this kind of thing or is it just nonsense?
And more importantly, which type are you?

Honestly, I don't think I've ever come across a better breakdown of personality archetypes in my life. Usually, I'm the first person to roll my eyes at trying to shove people into little boxes, but somehow everything here just... clicked for me. 🤷
It just feels right, you know?
I mean, obviously the percentages they throw out for how many people fall into each category are probably total BS, and that part where they try to guess which celebrity belongs to which soul type seems like pure guesswork to me 🙄 but the rest of it... man, I'm actually kind of obsessed... 🙏

Spot on... honestly... it’s such a perfect breakdown of how different spirits work...

Thanks for sharing this 🙂

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