Susan James said:It’s actually pretty funny to me how we went from a post where a dad was bragging about getting a C in third grade all the way to a deep debate about high school reading lists and the deeper meaning of *Judith*.
First off, high school isn't mandatory, and you definitely aren't forced to read *Judith*.
Second, if someone hasn't developed a love for reading or picked up the habit by the time they hit high school, they probably shouldn't be heading to high school at all—especially not a prep school.
But here’s my main point, speaking strictly as a parent: it honestly scares me how little kids read in the elementary years. We assign reading just once a month, yet with all the books and translations available today, school has become so simplified that it’s basically training kids to be uninformed. They're being raised to show zero interest in anything beyond the bare minimum required for class, and frankly, the requirements are so low it's terrifying.
Not to mention, the reading lists for every grade are public on the library websites. Usually, there's only one mandatory book, and everything else is left up to the teacher's discretion. I mean, what would happen to a poor kid if they actually tried to read that entire list? There are plenty of fascinating stories out there, sure, but there are also some dull ones—that's just part of life.
It's about practicing grammar, capitalization, and building a solid vocabulary.
If they don't pick those skills up in the lower grades, they never will.
As a parent, I make sure to bring home or buy books for my child. My kid reads because we read at home, too, and we’ve been reading together since they were tiny.
Honestly, I feel bad for the school system and for other parents and their kids.
But look, if teachers actually want kids to learn something, they can't just leave it all up to the parents or shrug their shoulders and say, "Well, the kids don't want to, and the parents aren't helping."
At the end of the day, some people are raising the next generation of leaders, while others are just raising people who will be easily manipulated.
Cheers!🙂
(The only real issue is who’s going to foot the bill for the teachers... especially their pensions...🙂).
Regardless, reading is a great thing, even when the books themselves are a bit lackluster.
For heaven's sake, please explain to me why it would be in a teacher's best interest to force a child to learn something specifically when it goes against what the parent wants. I am genuinely asking you to walk me through that logic.
What exactly is this supposed "teacher's interest" you're talking about?
I could certainly give you plenty of examples regarding a teacher's interest in
not pushing back against a parent's wishes.
But I want you to tell me: what is my personal incentive to insist on something that contradicts a parent's will?
Why on earth would I try to force biology on Manchild's kid or John Doe's child—using those specific names Manchild mentioned—or push Faulkner, when at the end of the day, the parent is the customer, and we all know the old adage that the customer is always right?
I clearly see how it benefits society and the community for children to read, to become literate, and to grow more educated. But as for my own personal gain, kill me now, because I simply don't see any.
And if society has such an interest, then society should have the mechanisms in place to make it happen. Instead, society ties my hands behind my back and then expects me to act like it's my personal mission to ensure kids read, even though I have no way to fight for it.