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dustyskipper3 said:I mean, maybe you can help someone without them asking, but then you shouldn't be making such a huge production out of it. You know? Like, don't go ringing every bell in the house to announce "look at me, I helped," and then expect some kind of big thank you or a favor in return later on. 😉
True. I have to admit, though, I rarely run into people actually that selfless. Most of the time, I've felt like I had to be either incredibly grateful or completely submissive just to get by. That kind of dynamic is exactly what fuels the ego of the helper. They turn into emotional parasites. But there are still those rare, genuine people out there—it's just a shame they're so hard to find.
