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Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#181 ·
copperfox22 said:What a load of absolute garbage. You’re all living in a total fantasy land, but none of you have the guts to admit it, so instead, you're just blowing smoke up my ass. 🤣

Alright, fine. Now that we've finally settled the theory, it’s time to get down to the actual practical side of things. 😁

Look, if someone isn't acting like a complete coward, they can find a doctor anywhere—they have everything you could possibly need. The problem isn't availability; the problem is that you don't have what he's looking for. Or better yet, you don't give him a single reason to actually "freeze" anyone out.

I'm waiting to hear more of these brilliant insights from you guys. 😍

There is always something, isn't there? Always. I shall refrain from being uncouth by listing the flaws of my unchosen "perfect" match.😁
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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#182 ·
Mark Hughes36 said:Is there actually anywhere to pick up those damn chemicals? 😁

I was just watching a documentary on the subject on National. Your so-called "chemistry" is really just a cocktail of testosterone, oxytocin, and vasopressin. I think I even read somewhere online that they might actually manufacture a "love potion" one day... But the real question remains: how exactly do you plan on convincing someone to drink that cocktail once you've tracked it down? 😁
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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joined Feb 2008
#183 ·
Walter Peterson said:There is always something, isn't there? Always. I shall refrain from being uncouth by listing the flaws of my unchosen "perfect" match.😁

I haven't met a single one of mine that I didn't find something to dislike about 🙈

And honestly, that's exactly why he's such a 🤣
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#184 ·
copperfox22 said:I haven't met a single one of mine that I didn't find something to dislike about 🙈

And honestly, that's exactly why he's such a 🤣

Because you weren't actually looking. You’re still wearing those "bubblegum pink" styles.😉
northernwolf3 northernwolf3 Member
14 messages
joined Oct 2009
#185 ·
Walter Peterson said:Because you weren't actually looking. You’re still wearing those "bubblegum pink" styles.😉

Well, I found out😁
looking at his foot, he has one toe that’s way longer than his big toe, almost up to the next knuckle😁
and honestly, it became immediately obvious to me that his ego just wouldn't be able to handle me pointing out my own mistakes😁
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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joined Feb 2008
#186 ·
Walter Peterson said:Because you weren't actually looking. You’re still wearing those "bubblegum pink" styles.😉

Not really, honestly. I’ve spent the whole time telling myself the problem lies with those naughty kids, and by extension, with my own head.😬

But the real question is: how are you supposed to convince someone to drink that cocktail even if you actually manage to get your hands on it?😁

Seriously, what did you put in this wine?
this strange concoction
that you pulled a fast one on me with


🙂

No, really, there aren't any flaws here.😍
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
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joined Oct 2009
#187 ·
Quote:>
copperfox22 says:
No way, I've been blaming those damn kids this whole time, when really the issue is right here in my own head...😬

What did you put in my wine?
Some weird concoction
you tried to pass off to me
>

🙂

Seriously, there's no such thing as perfection😍>
Everyone has flaws
And if we refuse to see them or just sweep them under the rug, that’s on us
If we're unlucky enough to end up with someone whose hidden flaws don't actually exist yet they'll just wreck the relationship down the road
God, what a mess...😁
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
63 messages
joined Nov 2012
#188 ·
copperfox22 said:Not really, honestly. I’ve spent the whole time telling myself the problem lies with those naughty kids, and by extension, with my own head.😬

But the real question is: how are you supposed to convince someone to drink that cocktail even if you actually manage to get your hands on it?😁

Seriously, what did you put in this wine?
this strange concoction
that you pulled a fast one on me with


🙂

No, really, there aren't any flaws here.😍

That is the first time you have actually stated that clearly. I had the impression you were merely dancing around the issue, hoping someone else would step in and provide a meaningful diagnosis.

copperfox22 said:Not really, honestly. I’ve spent the whole time telling myself the problem lies with those naughty kids, and by extension, with my own head.😬

But the real question is: how are you supposed to convince someone to drink that cocktail even if you actually manage to get your hands on it?😁

Seriously, what did you put in this wine?
this strange concoction
that you pulled a fast one on me with


🙂

No, really, there aren't any flaws here.😍

I'll be sure to ask you about this in a few years when the next "real" one finally rolls around. 😍
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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#189 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:Quote:>
copperfox22 says:
No way, I've been blaming those damn kids this whole time, when really the issue is right here in my own head...😬

What did you put in my wine?
Some weird concoction
you tried to pass off to me
>

🙂

Seriously, there's no such thing as perfection😍>
Everyone has flaws
And if we refuse to see them or just sweep them under the rug, that’s on us
If we're unlucky enough to end up with someone whose hidden flaws don't actually exist yet they'll just wreck the relationship down the road
God, what a mess...😁

even worse, 😳

I actually found those parts quite appealing 🤣

Quote:
it's just plain crude😁
crude? you bet it's crude😳

Walter Peterson said:That is the first time you have actually stated that clearly. I had the impression you were merely dancing around the issue, hoping someone else would step in and provide a meaningful diagnosis.

I'll be sure to ask you about this in a few years when the next "real" one finally rolls around. 😍

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

Quote:
I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄
Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣
northernwolf3 northernwolf3 Member
14 messages
joined Oct 2009
#190 ·
copperfox22 said:Not really, honestly. I’ve spent the whole time telling myself the problem lies with those naughty kids, and by extension, with my own head.😬

But the real question is: how are you supposed to convince someone to drink that cocktail even if you actually manage to get your hands on it?😁

Seriously, what did you put in this wine?
this strange concoction
that you pulled a fast one on me with


🙂

No, really, there aren't any flaws here.😍

But how can it be flawless when they won't even give me a chance?😲
I mean, honestly, nothing could possibly go wrong beyond that point.😁
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#191 ·
copperfox22 said:even worse, 😳

I actually found those parts quite appealing 🤣

it's just plain crude😁

crude? you bet it's crude😳

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

Quote:
I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄
Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣
crude? you bet it's crude😳

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

Quote:
I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄
Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣
You asked earlier if perhaps you were choosing the wrong people, which sparked that whole debate we all had... Now, you've gone and said it quite plainly: that's exactly where the problem lies.

copperfox22 said:even worse, 😳

I actually found those parts quite appealing 🤣

it's just plain crude😁

crude? you bet it's crude😳

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

Quote:
I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄
Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣
crude? you bet it's crude😳

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

Quote:
I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄
Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣
Exactly. Honestly, she ought to be happy; I’d say her future looks bright. But for now...His poison is still running through your veins; the dose was simply too high.If you truly want to grasp the reality of this situation—and actually anticipate what's coming next, much like I do—you need to look closer. 😍
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#192 ·
northernwolf3 said:But how can it be flawless when they won't even give me a chance?😲
I mean, honestly, nothing could possibly go wrong beyond that point.😁

Precisely. That is the first step toward cooling things down.👍
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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joined Feb 2008
#193 ·
Walter Peterson said:crude? you bet it's crude😳

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄

Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣

You asked earlier if perhaps you were choosing the wrong people, which sparked that whole debate we all had... Now, you've gone and said it quite plainly: that's exactly where the problem lies.

crude? you bet it's crude😳

what do you mean "first time"? I laid it all out right there in my opening post🤣

I'll ask you again in a few years when a new "Real One" comes along 😄

Oh, so now we're adding "clairvoyance and magic" to the list of categories😍
Honestly, I could have just asked what Mike thinks about this whole situation of mine🤣
Exactly. Honestly, she ought to be happy; I’d say her future looks bright. But for now...His poison is still running through your veins; the dose was simply too high.If you truly want to grasp the reality of this situation—and actually anticipate what's coming next, much like I do—you need to look closer. 😍
Honestly, we're going to kill ourselves with all this psychology; we were already rolling on the floor laughing 🤣
we've got to get back to being miserable 😬

northernwolf3 said:But how can it be flawless when they won't even give me a chance?😲
I mean, honestly, nothing could possibly go wrong beyond that point.😁

Well, damn, that’s a reality check right there—it's not really a flaw if it's out of your hands 😁
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#194 ·
copperfox22 said:Honestly, we're going to kill ourselves with all this psychology; we were already rolling on the floor laughing 🤣
we've got to get back to being miserable 😬

Well, damn, that’s a reality check right there—it's not really a flaw if it's out of your hands 😁

Finally, a glimmer of energy. Why does everything in that psych lecture always have to be so bleak? I'm convinced the sun starts shining whenever I walk in with my "positivity." 😬
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
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joined Oct 2009
#195 ·
copperfox22 said:Honestly, we're going to kill ourselves with all this psychology; we were already rolling on the floor laughing 🤣
we've got to get back to being miserable 😬

Well, damn, that’s a reality check right there—it's not really a flaw if it's out of your hands 😁

Where is it... 😳
Can't see straight... 😳
Doesn't understand a single thing... 😳
Doesn't have a clue what's actually good... 😳
As thick-headed as a brick... 😳
Just look at that sudden drop in mana... ridiculous... 😲
Still dreaming... and exhausted...
Green light...
Come on people, let's get to the summit...
Excuse me, just some typos... 😁
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
63 messages
joined Nov 2012
#196 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:Where is it... 😳
Can't see straight... 😳
Doesn't understand a single thing... 😳
Doesn't have a clue what's actually good... 😳
As thick-headed as a brick... 😳
Just look at that sudden drop in mana... ridiculous... 😲
Still dreaming... and exhausted...
Green light...
Come on people, let's get to the summit...
Excuse me, just some typos... 😁

Everything except the bulb 👍
Jeremy Torres5 Jeremy Torres5 Member
10 messages
joined Oct 2009
#197 ·
Walter Peterson said:Everything except the bulb 👍

It isn't a cat, it's a beast, an absolute monster...
it's a cat, just a quick little upward...
like that massive sledgehammer you use to smash rocks🤣🤣
I swear to God, I can't believe I'm even saying this...😁
copperfox22 copperfox22 Active MemberOP
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joined Feb 2008
#198 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:Where is it... 😳
Can't see straight... 😳
Doesn't understand a single thing... 😳
Doesn't have a clue what's actually good... 😳
As thick-headed as a brick... 😳
Just look at that sudden drop in mana... ridiculous... 😲
Still dreaming... and exhausted...
Green light...
Come on people, let's get to the summit...
Excuse me, just some typos... 😁

🙏

So, basically, he's just a blind fool 🤣

Someone should probably send him some reading glasses, the idiot 😁

Night, folks 🙂
Walter Peterson Walter Peterson Active Member
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joined Nov 2012
#199 ·
Jeremy Torres5 said:It isn't a cat, it's a beast, an absolute monster...
it's a cat, just a quick little upward...
like that massive sledgehammer you use to smash rocks🤣🤣
I swear to God, I can't believe I'm even saying this...😁

Aha 🤷 Well, listen, I'm a West Coast guy.
hollowbadger17 hollowbadger17 Member
21 messages
joined Dec 2006
#200 ·
Failures? Self-sabotage? Let’s call it what it really is: I’m calculating. If I feel like I actually have the emotional bandwidth to handle a person, then—and only then—do I dive in. But if I sense that the emotions might hit too hard, too fast, or if someone is just so magnetic that I fear losing my footing entirely, I start pulling the trigger on myself, them, and the whole situation. It’s a mess. That’s the hardest part, because those are the connections that pull at me with this almost primal intensity. And frankly, given everything I’ve been through 😢, I’d much rather walk away than play a dangerous game of experimentation.

Lately, I can't see myself being in any kind of relationship, near or far. If anything, I’m feeling a growing sense of repulsion

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