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Are homophobes just closeted?

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silentseal21 silentseal21 Newcomer
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#101 ·
Look, "sexual freedom" is a total myth. You really only have two choices! 🙏

Anyway, these guys and girls are getting way too aggressive with their little "activism" vibes.
When are these hyper-enthusiastic types actually gonna organize a "parade" or a "march" or whatever? It's all just a distraction from the real issues. Our society is already freaking overwhelmed, and this is just one more thing being shoved down our throats instead of being treated like what it is—not a big deal. In the New World Order, "freedom" doesn't even exist. And don't think for a second that a liberal society shows its true colors just by approving some parades. At the end of the day, New World Order minus liberalism equals the WTO, the WHO, monopolies, and the crushing of liberty. Conservatism? It’s basically the same mess, just through a different lens.
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#102 ·
There’s no such thing as "sexual diversity"...
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#103 ·
There’s no such thing as "sexual diversity"...

...Or if what you're saying is actually true, then she’s dangerous in that specific way we talked about earlier. Back in the day, older psychiatrists used to call it "innate promiscuity"... just look at *Girl, Interrupted*—you know, that whole "losing youth" thing with Winona Ryder and Angelina Jolie.

It’s honestly tragic—we really need to be teaching kids that people struggling with severe personality disorders often turn to unnatural and degrading sexual behaviors just to cope. It’s all part of that self-destructive cycle... they're just trying to numb the pain and fill that massive emptiness clawing at them from the inside.

I mean, that’s exactly why they resort to cutting themselves...
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#104 ·
ambertinker51 said:There’s no such thing as "sexual diversity"...

Well, obviously it doesn't exist... at least not in your little bubble. In that Hollywood-style worldview you seem to inhabit, I imagine even the concept of women having the right to vote probably hasn't been invented yet. Honestly, they can all just go jump in a lake.
Sandra Walker4 Sandra Walker4 Member
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#105 ·
ambertinker51 said:...look, I’m no genius. I'm just ambertinker51... you know exactly what I'm about..

Just type my handle into the search bar—Google is your best friend here...

I choose peace. I’m not on a battlefield, and frankly, I have no desire to go toe-to-toe with you. You seem like nothing but trouble.

Look, when you called me an idiot, I had to push back. But honestly? You're right. I'll give you that. 👍

slywolf45 said:So, we're on the same page then..

Are you suggesting it's worse to teach kids about sexual diversity than it is to expose them to religious or nationalistic hatred?
Don't go thinking those kids at the other rallies aren't getting skewed perceptions, even if it all happens amidst a sense of "religious fervor."

I'm not making excuses for either side. Kids shouldn't have any business being at any of these rallies until they have a better grasp of reality—most importantly, an understanding of themselves. But if I were forced to choose, I'd much rather they learn about sexual diversity than learn who they are supposed to hate..

No. We need to raise children with more intelligence and more freedom—exactly what I laid out in my initial post. Parents are just too selfish, far too aggressive in forcing their own truths and symbols onto their kids.

What could a five-year-old possibly learn about sexual freedoms beyond just homosexuality? For heaven's sake, that child isn't even burdened by sex or sexual urges yet.

If I had to choose between my kid showing up at some pointless political rally or facing the hostility of a Pride parade, I’d pick the latter. I’d take the euphoria of being seen and smiled at because we share the same symbols—as long as they don't soak up all that aggressive, exclusionary political nonsense along the way.

I wouldn't act that way. Not because I despise sexual freedom or have some obsession with old-school symbols, but because it comes down to one thing: what kind of environment would make my kid feel most at home?

In my view, my child's welfare comes first. Even if that means bowing to the darker side of things.
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#106 ·
ambertinker51 said:There’s no such thing as "sexual diversity"...

...Or if what you're saying is actually true, then she’s dangerous in that specific way we talked about earlier. Back in the day, older psychiatrists used to call it "innate promiscuity"... just look at *Girl, Interrupted*—you know, that whole "losing youth" thing with Winona Ryder and Angelina Jolie.

It’s honestly tragic—we really need to be teaching kids that people struggling with severe personality disorders often turn to unnatural and degrading sexual behaviors just to cope. It’s all part of that self-destructive cycle... they're just trying to numb the pain and fill that massive emptiness clawing at them from the inside.

I mean, that’s exactly why they resort to cutting themselves...

I want to emphasize the "old-school" part there. If you aren't aware, those kinds of psychiatric interpretations are about as outdated as electroshock therapy. You realize the setting of that movie is the early 70s, right? DUH, rocket scientist!😲

And yeah... they were cutting themselves back when people with your mindset were running the show...👎 👎
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#107 ·
From winning the right to vote to economic independence and then sexual diversity—it’s all just one long slide from starting first grade to working in a brothel...

(P.S. the disproportionately high number of prostitutes meeting the criteria for severe and dangerous personality disorders)
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#108 ·
Sandra Walker4 said:I choose peace. I’m not on a battlefield, and frankly, I have no desire to go toe-to-toe with you. You seem like nothing but trouble.

Look, when you called me an idiot, I had to push back. But honestly? You're right. I'll give you that. 👍

No. We need to raise children with more intelligence and more freedom—exactly what I laid out in my initial post. Parents are just too selfish, far too aggressive in forcing their own truths and symbols onto their kids.

What could a five-year-old possibly learn about sexual freedoms beyond just homosexuality? For heaven's sake, that child isn't even burdened by sex or sexual urges yet.

If I had to choose between my kid showing up at some pointless political rally or facing the hostility of a Pride parade, I’d pick the latter. I’d take the euphoria of being seen and smiled at because we share the same symbols—as long as they don't soak up all that aggressive, exclusionary political nonsense along the way.

I wouldn't act that way. Not because I despise sexual freedom or have some obsession with old-school symbols, but because it comes down to one thing: what kind of environment would make my kid feel most at home?

In my view, my child's welfare comes first. Even if that means bowing to the darker side of things.


I literally just stated that I condemn taking children to any kind of political rally or gathering that they aren't old enough to comprehend... if you weren't paying attention.

I also made a clear distinction between rallies that incite hatred and those that don't.
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#109 ·
...they're cutting now and they'll always be cutting... it’s just part of the expanded clinical picture—as defined by international standards and the AAP...
Sandra Walker4 Sandra Walker4 Member
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#110 ·
I was simply answering your question about which rally I’d take a child to if forced to choose. Personally, I’ll always opt for freedom and love over hatred, but bringing toddlers to any protest—even those championing liberty—doesn't strike me as an act of liberation. It feels more like imposing a lifestyle on kids who aren't even old enough to resist it.

We actually agree on one thing: these kinds of rallies aren't for children. Kids should be with other kids until they grow up and become mature enough individuals to decide for themselves which causes are worth their time.👍
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#111 ·
ambertinker51 said:From winning the right to vote to economic independence and then sexual diversity—it’s all just one long slide from starting first grade to working in a brothel...

(P.S. the disproportionately high number of prostitutes meeting the criteria for severe and dangerous personality disorders)

Alright... you've been talking nonsense for a while now, but bringing up gay men and sex workers in the exact same breath? That’s just incredibly ignorant at best...

And just to follow up on "Girl, Interrupted"—that movie was made specifically for people like you. It exists so you can finally grasp that regressive mindsets like yours are ancient history. In this day and age, everyone should be able to live without facing homophobes and the other prejudices people like you love to throw around.

But clearly, your tiny brain missed the entire point of the film...🙄
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#112 ·
..one of my old professors used to say: nothing snaps a schizophrenic out of catatonia quite like a few rounds of electroshock therapy...I honestly think that still holds water today..

Personally—and let's not waste time with flowery, liberal nonsense—both lobotomies and electroshock are terrifying in their own right. Schizophrenia is just tedious; cerebral cortex disorders are ontogenetically and phenomenologically boring...

We’re talking about midbrain disorders here—specifically the limbic system, that's what this is actually about.
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#113 ·
Your take is just wrong—it’s a total misinterpretation of the movie, both from you and everyone else...

Winona—who has BPD and is naturally promiscuous (or "sexually diverse," according to your logic... she sleeps with a guy one minute, then a nurse the next)—is unfairly stuck in an institution for 15 years just because of some minor bullshit and sheer stubbornness... ah, the joys of modern liberalism...

The whole point of the film is the murder she committed and successfully covered up for her lesbian lover—Angelina (if it wasn't love, at least her "beacon of goodness" before the "splitting" kicks in)

Sadly, that's just how people with BPD are, and those gays aren't any better either.....
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#114 ·
ambertinker51 said:..one of my old professors used to say: nothing snaps a schizophrenic out of catatonia quite like a few rounds of electroshock therapy...I honestly think that still holds water today..

Personally—and let's not waste time with flowery, liberal nonsense—both lobotomies and electroshock are terrifying in their own right. Schizophrenia is just tedious; cerebral cortex disorders are ontogenetically and phenomenologically boring...

We’re talking about midbrain disorders here—specifically the limbic system, that's what this is actually about.

You still haven't told me which school you graduated from, or what kind of job you have that allows you to toss around technical jargon like this—jargon that, frankly, you don't even seem to grasp and likely just lifted from your buddy Google...

Sandra Walker4.. I really don't have the energy to bicker with you, especially since we actually seem to be arguing over something where our views are essentially identical..
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#115 ·
ambertinker51 said:Your take is just wrong—it’s a total misinterpretation of the movie, both from you and everyone else...

Winona—who has BPD and is naturally promiscuous (or "sexually diverse," according to your logic... she sleeps with a guy one minute, then a nurse the next)—is unfairly stuck in an institution for 15 years just because of some minor bullshit and sheer stubbornness... ah, the joys of modern liberalism...

The whole point of the film is the murder she committed and successfully covered up for her lesbian lover—Angelina (if it wasn't love, at least her "beacon of goodness" before the "splitting" kicks in)

Sadly, that's just how people with BPD are, and those gays aren't any better either.....

Oh, you poor, misguided soul... if you were any more lost, you'd need a map just to find your own thoughts. At this rate, you'd probably watch Schindler's List and conclude it was actually a documentary about the architectural merits of building camp walls.

Honestly, I’m done. I’ve decided I’m officially retiring from trying to hold a meaningful conversation with someone whose IQ is roughly equivalent to their shoe size. It’s just a lost cause at this point.
ambertinker51 ambertinker51 Member
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#116 ·
Man, this one is a joke
talking to someone whose IQ is roughly equal to my shoe size

..just let this thread die..I'm going to bed and I'm not gonna sit here and tell you my IQ is proportional to the length of my dick...

in inches
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#117 ·
ambertinker51 said:Man, this one is a joke
talking to someone whose IQ is roughly equal to my shoe size

..just let this thread die..I'm going to bed and I'm not gonna sit here and tell you my IQ is proportional to the length of my dick...

in inches

But you went ahead and replied anyway...🤣 🤣

Hey, Strauss... you actually managed to drag people (and everyone else) into your orbit with this debate... even me!!

You should be proud!😉

Hope you had a good time out there.🙂
Sandra Walker4 Sandra Walker4 Member
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#118 ·
slywolf45 said:You still haven't told me which school you graduated from, or what kind of job you have that allows you to toss around technical jargon like this—jargon that, frankly, you don't even seem to grasp and likely just lifted from your buddy Google...

Sandra Walker4.. I really don't have the energy to bicker with you, especially since we actually seem to be arguing over something where our views are essentially identical..

It feels like we've stopped fighting and just synced up our views. Even though I have my preferences in women, much like yours, it shouldn't get in the way of us talking. My one hard line is against anyone who abuses children. That might sound harsh, but I despise them. There is absolutely no excuse for that behavior, whether they realize the damage they're doing or not.

That’s why I spoke up here. Sometimes I react too intensely—maybe even too aggressively—but I can't help it.
It’s absurd how a single image can trigger such a visceral, negative reaction. Honestly, I didn't have an issue with the LGBTQ+ community until I saw that specific photo. Seeing a small child standing next to semi-nude people at a pride rally... it made me want to smash everything in my room. It felt nauseating. It’s pure injustice, especially coming from a group that claims to champion diversity and inclusion.

I probably need to see a psychiatrist. In certain moments, the rage is just impossible to control.

No wonder I keep circling back to this subforum. Anyway, I'm heading out. Later.🙄
slywolf45 slywolf45 Regular
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#119 ·
Sandra Walker4 said:It feels like we've stopped fighting and just synced up our views. Even though I have my preferences in women, much like yours, it shouldn't get in the way of us talking. My one hard line is against anyone who abuses children. That might sound harsh, but I despise them. There is absolutely no excuse for that behavior, whether they realize the damage they're doing or not.

That’s why I spoke up here. Sometimes I react too intensely—maybe even too aggressively—but I can't help it.
It’s absurd how a single image can trigger such a visceral, negative reaction. Honestly, I didn't have an issue with the LGBTQ+ community until I saw that specific photo. Seeing a small child standing next to semi-nude people at a pride rally... it made me want to smash everything in my room. It felt nauseating. It’s pure injustice, especially coming from a group that claims to champion diversity and inclusion.

I probably need to see a psychiatrist. In certain moments, the rage is just impossible to control.

No wonder I keep circling back to this subforum. Anyway, I'm heading out. Later.🙄

Just try not to judge the entire LGBTQ+ community based on one single photo or one isolated incident...

By that same logic, I try not to judge every straight person based on their billions of screw-ups, you know what I mean?😉

Anyway, goodnight.😘
Jonathan Kim4 Jonathan Kim4 MemberOP
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#120 ·
ambertinker51 said:
What have those homophobes actually done to warrant our sympathy or make us understand your tragedy?

The person closest to me was never given a chance to see what they were dealing with—no access to actual psychosocial treatment. My kids didn't grasp what a "borderline mother" was doing to them, nor did they realize the devastating impact Parenteral Alienation was having on their lives...

All because the people in charge—the ones who were supposed to help—refused to acknowledge how personality disorders fuel all these massive public health and social issues...

And they won't, because the Pride movement has clouded their vision by pushing their own dysfunction as the new normal...!!!!

hahahahaha

So, let me get this straight—you're basically framing homosexuality as some sort of Masonic conspiracy theory?

In your mind, they aren't even actually gay; they're just putting on an act specifically to annoy you, right?

Truly ridiculous.

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