Thomas Patel65 said:Thanks for filling me in. Honestly, it’s a damn shame if they really were like that... It’s just a sad reality when people act like everything is too expensive to bother with—they end up killing the whole vibe instead of actually making things happen. 😢
I don't know how much they were looking for you specifically?! That info is huge for me if you can share. We had a public fundraiser, and maybe I'm wrong, but once they heard the amount we pulled in, it felt like they just stopped trying. I think we messed up by not speaking up sooner, too. We actually had an agreement: if after, say, three songs—something fun—they didn't connect with the crowd, they’d switch up the setlist. But they totally blew off that deal. Looking back, they played two songs, then some Midwest tunes, then a bunch of choral and party stuff. If the party had wrapped up by 1 AM, I would've been thrilled because they were killing it until then; after that, it was just pathetic. It's probably on us, though—neither the groom nor I are from the Midwest. We'd only ever heard them online, not live. When we walked into the hall where dinner was happening and heard them, we were stoked, thinking we made a killer choice. Honestly, I stopped paying attention to the band because I just assumed, "Yeah, these guys are pros, they'll get the job done." Turns out, I should've kept them on a shorter leash all night.