Bradley Wright said:I have a quick question if anyone here happens to know the answer
do I need to have an even or an odd number of bridesmaids, or is that
even not a factor at all?????
I don't think the even or odd thing matters to you at all. I've honestly never heard of such a rule.
I mean, sure, traditionally there’s a balance of bridesmaids and groomsmen on both sides—girls and guys, basically unmarried people. But things have changed so much from how they used to be. It really depends on what part of the US you're from, or even which specific town or neighborhood you grew up in. It varies wildly. 🙂
Since my future husband isn't American, we're having 5 bridesmaids at our wedding here in the States, one of whom is from his side. As for the groomsmen—either 3 or 5... 🙂 Personally, I think it looks nice if the numbers match, but that's just a thought. He actually chose to be a best man simply because he thought it was interesting, since they don't really do that where he's from; they just have witnesses for the civil ceremony, but we already took care of that beforehand.
I bought the bridesmaid dresses myself at a Trade store in Washington, D.C.; I thought it would be fun to dress them all. The dresses are the same style, just in different colors. I guess I've become a bit Americanized in that regard, but in the end, it doesn't really matter.
Just do whatever works for you; whatever makes sense to you. This is your and your groom's day, and everyone else is supposed to follow your lead. 🙂
Good luck!