It’s much like watching a slow-moving river carve its way through a canyon; there isn't much to be said other than observing how the landscape shifts over time. vividfalcon14 says:
vividfalcon14...
Dreams are really just a reflection of our daily experiences, so there's no need to overanalyze them. I have those same dreams where I’m falling or flying—it’s just how things work. You're probably just dwelling on it too much. Honestly, why would you see yourself as a victim? And there's no way God finds any enjoyment in that; don't let yourself think that way, because it isn't true.
I’m flying solo right now, but don't go thinking there isn't anyone out there for you. Just to give you a little proof of concept, try this for a couple of weeks. If you set up a profile on Spark, you'll likely have five different women sliding into your inbox before the day is even over. 😉))))
Look, please don't take my posts too literally. I mostly just write them as a way to vent during my darker moments, if you know what I mean.
I remember opening an account on Spark ages ago just for the hell of it, though if I recall correctly, nobody really bothered to say hello.
I'll look into it, thanks. 🙏
It’s much like watching a slow-moving river carve its way through a canyon; there is a quiet, inevitable force to it that doesn't require any shouting to be felt. vividfalcon14 says:
Look, just take a breath and cool off for a second—maybe try capturing something on tape. It’s like taking all that dark, heavy noise in your head and channeling it into music instead; just let those frustrations bleed out through the notes.
I think this approach offers a bit more substance than just venting on the Forum and lamenting one's own misfortune. 😬
Look, I record whenever the mood strikes, but there are times when you just need to step back and reflect on the bigger picture. We "Scales" tend to go through one or more major life crises, much like a forest fire that clears the brush only to allow for a complete rebirth of the ecosystem. 😁
Robert Mendoza said:God doesn't exist anyway.🙂
So, the only person who assigned you the role of the victim is YOU.
Maybe try becoming an atheist; you'll be a lot happier, trust me. 🙂 I walked away from Catholicism about a year and a half ago and finally feel free 🙂. I realized that I'm the one in control of my destiny, and the only "role" I have in this life is the one I choose for myself.
Falling down is human, but I think it's time for you to get back up.🙂 Sitting there wallowing in self-pity and crowning yourself the king of victims won't accomplish ANYTHING (I know, from experience). No one is going to knock on your door to save you.
Try to find that inner fighter and show those problems that you're bigger than them—because at the end of the day, they're just in your head.
You created them, so you can destroy them too. 🙏
You know, I wouldn't call myself particularly religious—I don't spend much time in church or sitting in prayer—but I can't quite bring myself to agree that God doesn't exist. I went through a phase where I rejected the idea entirely, but being a somewhat spiritual person by nature, I still find myself sensing this strange, divine energy vibrating through everything.
When you step back and look at the big picture, it’s hard to ignore; we were placed on this planet at just the right distance from the Sun to stay warm, experiencing seasons where summer heat gives way to the joy of a winter snowfall. We have an abundance of fresh water, like our Mississippi River, which has flowed steadily for centuries, serving as a quiet reminder that perhaps someone is looking out for us little people living under these bright stars. Between our evolving technology, the ability to connect virtually through this Forum, and the sheer depth of human consciousness and soul... I believe there is "The One," or God, even if it manifests simply as a benevolent energy woven into the cosmos. 🙂
That said, I definitely agree with you that self-pity won't get you anywhere—in fact, it achieves absolutely nothing. 👍
Best to everyone. 🙂
