Emily Ward3 said:Did I actually say that? No. What I actually said was:
In plain English, that means those people were decent folks—mostly Muslims on paper, much like how I identify as Catholic—and nobody was forcing their lifestyle on me. Nobody felt the sudden urge to pull a grenade in my living room just because they felt inspired. Nobody gave me grief for offering them a $10 cookie instead of some high-end pastry, and nobody trashed the couch I was sitting on. Does that clear things up?
I should probably add a quick disclaimer: that doesn't mean every Muslim I know is a saint. There have certainly been others who were the complete opposite, and I made sure to distance myself from them early on. It's also worth noting that they tend to act much bolder in a pack than they do alone; when they're in a group, it becomes a competition to see who can be the most devout.
And once again, you are completely missing the point. You are looking at religion through a single lens, treating it as the sole cause of the problem.
If things were truly as your mind perceives them, those people you met would be the very last ones you'd ever want to cross paths with.
We actually agree on certain points, but by twisting the entire context and fixating solely on religion, you've become one-dimensional. Religion itself isn't the root cause of everything. It seems to me you're mostly preoccupied with the symptoms rather than the disease.
Consequently, you care less about who is actually starting these wars or why people are dying simply because it isn't "our" America.
Maybe it would be easier for you if you just ignored everything that reminds your mind of that universal evil—the stuff you either don't see or simply don't care about. It might make things a little less uncomfortable for you.