#2041 ·
Alex Barnes8 said:I have to address this: "why don't you just ask your doctors?".
I honestly don't know where people find these approachable physicians who actually want to talk and answer questions. Everywhere I go in the States, doctors act like you're killing them just by asking a question. I really can't get anything out of anyone. I've tried communicating normally so many times, but it just doesn't work.
It's not like I'll stop seeing doctors altogether... But I've just gotten used to leaving appointments feeling confused. They seem superficial, arrogant, and frankly, pretty rude. Most lack basic manners. And even the ones who claim they are "constantly training" or whatever—they're always away at some symposium or seminar, traveling constantly. You couldn't get a moment of their time if you were a billionaire.👎
Maybe try changing your approach? 🤷 There are all kinds of doctors and all kinds of patients out there... let's not paint everyone with the same brush. If a physician refuses to give you straight answers, tell them you aren't satisfied with their bedside manner and that you'll be finding a new provider. Though, sometimes it might be easier just to stay quiet and maintain a good rapport, even if you leave feeling confused.
I've encountered my fair share of difficult personalities too. Honestly, my primary care physician would never have ordered blood work unless I practically begged her for it; she'd otherwise just prescribe antibiotics based on a guess. Perhaps try a different tactic? Don't be afraid to remind them that, as a patient, you have every right to ask questions, even if they find it inconvenient.