"As I see it, love means sticking by someone through the thick and thin; you don't just walk away when they hit a rough patch, you actually try to help them through it."
Of course, did I ever suggest anything else? But love isn't about saying, "this is just who I am, take it or leave it, I'll find someone else who likes me anyway"... 😢
When things get difficult in a relationship, you tackle those issues together, and as long as there’s a shared desire to fix things, there aren't really "problems"—there's just a crisis to navigate. If someone runs from the struggle and tries to frame their avoidance as some kind of moral superiority, then we aren't talking about love anymore; that's just pure selfishness or arrogance.. 😢
"She's already carrying so much guilt and self-discomfort"
I think you're mistaken; she was expressing her discomfort from a distance, offering rational explanations that I simply interpreted from a male perspective.. 😎
"You'd probably just abandon a girl if she were in an accident or left disabled, or if she became seriously ill."
Where on earth did you get that idea? Any "problem" that hits a relationship due to fate becomes a shared burden, and there's no running away from it if you've built an honest connection with that person, regardless of who the "victim" is..
"I don't know, maybe the issue isn't weight control, and people with eating disorders aren't just fat, stupid, or clueless about food. It's a mental, psychological issue."
My point is that the issue lies exactly in that struggle with weight and health—in being able to eat what you love without the constant fear of gaining weight. The actual mental and psychological struggle is the fear of the consequences, like weight gain, when you're trying to enjoy life... 🙂
"Your truth isn't my truth. And you can't argue about truths or tastes"
Exactly; my perspective on the situation remains mine, and my opinion is my own. I'm not trying to force my views on you, so please don't try to push yours on me either. Based on everything said here, Anthony Wood54 will accept whatever she deems most sensible or acceptable, and I don't lose any sleep over it like you do... yet you keep obsessing over "my truth" and "my taste"... why? 😕
Casey Palmer5 said:mistybear4, please try to keep your personal jabs at other members out of what is supposed to be a serious discussion.
The topic is serious enough, I suppose, but if you’re going to lecture me, maybe you should call out nimbledriver81 too, whenever they decide to start throwing their "personal opinions" about my work and my character in my face:
nimbledriver81: "But it's easier to sell expensive supplements to lazy Europeans and Americans using just ONE OF YOUR RECOMMENDATIONS..." 😕
"Unlike you, who is just SPITTING OUT CLICHÉS here..."
"Do you honestly think nobody else here has dealt with snake oil salesmen?"
"My sister and I both deal with psoriasis; hers is mild, so I consider myself lucky."
When someone claims to have "unsolvable" medical issues while simultaneously acting incredibly condescending by waving around a degree from the College of Food Science and Biotechnology and a PhD in biology—all while hurling insults like "YOUR RECOMMENDATION," "SPITTING OUT CLICHÉS," "SNAKE OIL SALESMEN," and "IGNORANT"—it isn't hard to see that those credentials don't do much good when it comes to being a decent, logical human being regarding something like psoriasis...
If anyone thinks they've got everything figured out and doesn't need input from anyone else, they should probably just leave this forum to themselves so those actually looking for info aren't stuck dealing with these mindless outbursts... get it?
ps: sorry, I misgendered nimbledriver81 again, likely due to their supposed "refined manners"... 😁 .. though they could have picked a more gender-neutral handle to avoid the confusion.. 😁
you’re sitting there waiting for every single word to fall perfectly into place, but honestly, you’re just out of luck... 😢
"You forgot to mention that this is all about DEVELOPING nations."
I didn't forget; if anything, this is exactly what's happening right here in the US, where better technology just means more additives in our food and more "brilliant" corporate types looking for a quick buck... 😠
"There's no financial incentive in helping the hungry around the world."
that's such a typical thing to say when someone's perspective is clearly limited... 😁
"If you're bored, have a nice life."
🙂
"That's the issue with psoriasis. It shows up in every fourth knee. Seriously."
you should probably be grateful you only have two legs... and two knees... hmm... 🤔 ... or do you actually have four knees? 😁 😂
"I'd rather take my photos and live in ignorance than let some old lady think it's shameful to be sick and hide it."
well, let's hope your grandmother sticks around, otherwise you're going to end up completely lost... 🙂
Bradley Ramirez5 said:If I had actually paid any attention to what I was eating, I probably wouldn't be dealing with all this right now.
I guess if you're willing to admit you messed up, you're basically handing them a free pass to forgive you... which is exactly how it usually goes. 😁
Once you finally commit to tackling all of this head-on, you'll find yourself paying much closer attention to what you eat; honestly, it’s a lot easier to pivot your habits now than it will be when you're older and your body starts making things difficult. 😎
Sure, but taste is entirely subjective—what one person finds appealing, another might find completely off-putting, and vice versa. I appreciate you taking the time to write such an extensive post, but honestly, there was only one single sentence in there that I actually disagreed with, regardless of the topic at hand; besides, you aren't being selfish... you don't have that "this is just who I am and I couldn't care less if you like me" attitude. Of course I’m going to be exactly who I am, regardless of whether some random person finds me appealing or not. It's really not that deep. If one person isn't a fan, there's always someone else who will be. Honestly, if we all felt obligated to undergo plastic surgery or sit around crying about our looks just to avoid being perceived as selfish, life would be a complete disaster.
If you only found one single sentence of mine controversial, you really could have just asked me to clarify my thought process behind it, since looking at it from a different angle can give it an entirely different meaning.
I'll try to explain exactly what I meant when I talked about that particular brand of selfishness... Issues tend to crop up—and honestly, it happens more often than you'd think—when you meet someone who seems to have a perfectly healthy weight, find them incredibly attractive, and end up in a relationship because there’s just that undeniable spark, only to have everything shift suddenly when they end up being twice the size they used to be... so now what? If he starts complaining about her behavior, he’s basically painting himself as this selfish guy who only cares about her looks rather than who she actually is. It makes him look like he's just looking out for himself, which is funny because it ignores the fact that she’s the one who put him in this position to begin with. He's essentially being forced to voice his frustrations, yet people act like he's the problem for not just swallowing his pride for the sake of "love." We always hear that honesty is the bedrock of any relationship, but I guess that rule doesn't apply when things get messy. I’ve always felt that looks matter, sure, but they aren't the end-all, be-all—much like sex, really. 😎
Read it again: I just couldn't bring myself to be intimate because I was stuck in this headspace where I felt completely repulsive, wondering how anyone could possibly find my body exciting... and naturally, things started falling apart between us. Since I hit my period at sixty, I’ve gone back to work and finally ended things with that guy—you know, the one who didn't seem to mind my weight as much as everyone else did.
He didn't care about her weight at all, but she was convinced he did; she just couldn't shake that feeling of being undesirable, which honestly made everything awkward between them. I suspect it stems from her own perspective—if she would feel self-conscious about having a partner with extra weight, she assumes he must be thinking the same thing. It’s actually a sign she isn't selfish, if you think about it.
I also don't find body fat particularly appealing, and if I were with someone who entered a relationship at her ideal weight only to gain it all back while claiming, "this is just who I am and I don't care if you still like me," I’d see that as pure selfishness. To me, it would feel like she simply doesn't value my perspective, and honestly, with that kind of mindset, she'd become a part of my past—so she can go ahead and be that way for someone else instead. 👎 😁 I also can't help but feel that the men who find themselves stuck in these situations, lacking the sheer backbone to speak up or change their circumstances, are really just nothing more than pushovers. 🙂
Managing weight seems so straightforward and solvable to me now that I can't even imagine being stuck in that struggle myself, though I suppose those who still find it a challenge are always welcome to come to me for advice—but honestly, it’s whatever. 🙂
From a guy's perspective, there's a certain hypocrisy among women who claim they want someone brutally honest, yet the moment a man speaks his mind without any sugarcoating, he’s suddenly labeled rude or just plain obnoxious. I've had quite a few women admit to me quite openly that they actually prefer the flattery, the sweet talk, and those empty promises—even when they know deep down it's all nonsense and won't lead to anything, they just enjoy the thrill of being wooed. 😕
You're overgeneralizing here, and honestly, you're just contradicting yourself.
I just can't bring myself to do it; I refuse to lie through my teeth just to lift someone's mood when it isn't sincere. Honestly, the truth is usually the best medicine, even if it feels more like a dose of shock therapy. 🙂
Whenever things start falling apart, the culprit is almost always the same: we aren't drinking enough water.
Why does it matter?
Since about 70% of our bodies consist of water, we’re constantly losing somewhere between 1.5 to 2 liters every single day through sweat, breathing, and other natural processes. Because of that constant loss, you really have to balance what you put in with what you're flushing out. If you don't, your bodily fluids end up thick with toxins, waste, and fats, which just puts an exhausting strain on your kidneys as they struggle to filter through such highly concentrated liquid. It's also a major issue when you're trying to lose weight; all the hard work the Program does to mobilize fat becomes pretty much useless without hydration. Think of your veins, arteries, capillaries, and lymph nodes like a network of rivers—a steady current keeps everything moving and cleanses the banks along the way. When there's enough water, the system stays clear and bright, much like a mountain stream fed by a constant source, rather than becoming a stagnant, clogged mess.
When your skin doesn't get enough hydration, it loses its elasticity. You can actually test this yourself by pinching the skin on your forearm; it should snap right back into place immediately. To keep skin looking firm, smooth, and youthful, every single cell needs a steady supply of nutrients, and since water is the primary vehicle that delivers those nutrients, you essentially have to treat your skin from the inside out. They say beauty comes from within, and one of the best ways to maintain that youthful glow is by eating plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables packed with nutrients. Unfortunately, between early harvesting, heavy pesticide use in industrial farming, long-term storage, and overcooking, most of the natural goodness in our food gets stripped away before it even hits the plate.
Michael Jones23 said:I remember seeing this massive blowout on some beauty forum about water intake... people were losing their minds questioning where the whole "drink 2 liters a day" rule even came from, who invented it, if there was actually any proof behind it, and all that nonsense. It turned into a huge argument over whether the standard advice was just one big lie. It’s a shame you can't go back and read that thread now.....
Nowadays, you can find pretty much anything if you have a reason to look for it.. 🙂
If you happen to stumble upon this book: "Your Body's Answer: Water - Fereydoon Batmanghelidj, M.D." I’d suggest giving it a read; here’s the gist of it:
You aren't sick—you're just thirsty. Stop trying to fix thirst with pills. The book dives into the idea that chronic dehydration is actually the root cause behind a lot of degenerative issues we deal with, things like asthma, allergies, high blood pressure, weight gain, and even certain emotional struggles like depression.
It breaks down how staying hydrated can help you: - Slow down the aging process - Ease various pains, from heartburn and lower back issues to arthritis, colitis, angina, and migraines - Manage asthma naturally and effectively - Lower blood pressure without relying on diuretics or other meds - Lose weight naturally without jumping through hoops with strict diets
"It started with a single patient who was hit by unbearable ulcer pain one night. The doctor treated him with 500 cc of water. The pain eased, then vanished completely. The physician was so struck by the result that he prescribed two glasses of water six times a day, ultimately achieving a 'clinical' cure for the ulcer attacks." (The New York Times, Science Section)
"I was particularly struck by Dr. Batmanghelidj's clear explanation of how dehydration is the primary driver of hypertension, a condition affecting 50 million Americans." (Julian Whitaker, M.D., Health & Healing)
"Dr. Batmanghelidj's books are filled with common sense and sound medical advice. His approach targets the actual source of the problem, the root cause of illness, and anyone lucky enough to read them won't regret the investment." (Laurence A. Malone, Ph.D., M.D., Dean of Academic Affairs, The Learning Center for College Sciences, Ohio)
"Thank you for the timely advice to use a combination of salt and water for my asthma... it didn't just soothe my cough, it wiped it out entirely. Thanks again for sharing such insights into these complex issues." (Jose A. Rivera, M.D.)
"This is a well-written, accessible book. I honestly believe it should be required reading in all elementary, middle, and high schools. It could prevent countless illnesses and ailments at almost no extra cost." (Hiten Shah, M.D., San Jacinto Clinic, California)
PS: I'm not selling anything, just passing along some decent reading material, so please don't come for me ahead of time... 😁 👍 👋
"Why should anyone have to bend to societal expectations and force themselves to be someone they aren't?"
Look, I’m not advocating for "conforming to what everyone wants," and I never said this trend was justified, but I am talking about COLD, hard FACTS. And the facts suggest that when people find something pleasing to their senses, they generally put in more effort—even in their sex lives. You can be kind, brilliant, and the best woman on the planet, but if a man is going to turn his head for a great body or a certain look, just find me one guy who won't blink at that and I'll congratulate you publicly..
"Are you aware that by giving such stupid and reckless answers, you're actually doing the girl a disservice?"
First off, she was the one who noticed the issue in her own environment. If I were to tell her the exact opposite of what she's seeing, it could backfire; she might start thinking she’s being foolish because she's "seeing things wrong"—whereas I think she has a perfect radar for her surroundings and is incredibly sharp. She shouldn't fall into a deeper hole; instead, she needs to face the situation, weigh all the available options, and choose whichever one fits her best.. The line between what's "stupid" and what isn't is pretty thin. One thing viewed from different angles can look completely different, which is exactly why you need to look at things from multiple perspectives. If you only ever look through one lens, you end up with a distorted view of EVERYTHING.. and please, don't try to play judge here. Personally, I think my responses are quite measured, and if anyone disagrees, well, good for them—they can go listen to someone else. Everything in life comes down to choice... 🙂
"And just so you know, not all men are addicted to supermodels and skinny girls; there are plenty who prefer thicker women."
There's really no point wasting breath on personal tastes, and I wouldn't bother debating why someone prefers a certain body type, just as I wouldn't debate why some prefer certain types of men or those who enjoy being submissive—there are endless examples out there.... everyone should do whatever they want, as long as they stay out of my business.. 😁
"And then there are those who aren't superficial, those who treat their partner as a person rather than an object for their own satisfaction—someone who isn't allowed to be 'selfish' or have their own opinion, but must instead submit to the mental and physical demands of their 'master'."
The expected response, haha, is obviously yes: you should treat a person as a human being. I never tried to argue against that. But if your "personal opinion" is that being overweight and soft is "desirable," then I have zero interest in having a "deep" conversation with someone like that.. 😁
Selfishness is demanding from others something you aren't capable of providing yourself. For instance, if I'm overweight, where is my moral authority to expect a woman not to be? Let's circle back to my original point: "when people find something pleasing to their senses, they MOST OFTEN put in more effort." That is my opinion, and those are the realities we see around us. Wishing things were different doesn't change the truth; it just creates problems. Once we realize that external opinions aren't necessarily personal attacks, but just a way to refine our own stance, we'll actually get somewhere in life.. 🙂
Opinions that exist only to validate oneself just hold us back from growing.. 🙂
darkbison81 said:I always assumed you had to be both at once—someone who masters both psychology and metabolism—or at least find a clinic with a full team capable of handling both sides of the coin simultaneously... In reality, while a psychologist or psychiatrist is essential for treating the root cause, I feel a metabolic specialist is just as vital for addressing the physical fallout that follows... and we shouldn't just brush that aside. The way I see it, this ideal practitioner would be a psychiatrist specializing in Eating Disorders who has also undergone intensive biochemical training in metabolic physiology...
darkbison81, you hit the nail on the head there; having expertise overlap across different fields is really what drives the best results... though, if I were calling the shots, I’d probably just send any psychiatrist dealing with Eating Disorders through some heavy-duty nutritional training instead. 🙂 😎
The dynamic between a patient and their doctor—or psychologist—is fundamentally a meeting of two human beings, both arriving with their own entire worlds and heavy baggage in tow. Sure, psychiatrists and psychologists go through years of training to learn how to adapt to different personalities, but at the end of the day, a certain core part of who they are always remains visible. ... As someone studying to become a psychologist, I can't help but look at how some psychiatrists handle people dealing with Eating Disorders and wonder where they actually went to school and what kind of fundamental empathy they were taught.
It’s a solid way to approach solving problems; focusing on that "connection between two humans." When you're trying to fix someone's life, feedback is everything. If a doctor isn't completely full of themselves and doesn't have an ego that thinks a degree is the only measure of worth, they can actually build that closeness with a patient and offer real help. Another issue is that you see some psychiatrists treating nutrition-related issues when they don't actually know the first thing about diet, simply because it wasn't covered in their medical curriculum, so why would they bother wasting their time learning it later?😕
I have a lot of respect for any physician or doctor who stays hungry for knowledge, someone willing to double-check everything if there's even a slight hint it might help the people they're treating, all for the sake of genuine expertise and self-improvement.👋
Hannah Davis18 said:Out of respect for the people who actually benefit from psychiatry, just stop posting this garbage.
Hannah Davis18, I'm sorry, but that wasn't me—it was Anthony Wood54, and if you look closely at my quote marks, you'll see I was just repeating what they said...
I honestly don't get why you're making such a fuss about it; if we talked more openly about incompetent doctors, maybe they’d actually feel some pressure to improve, which would be a win for everyone actually needing their help. We shouldn't be silencing public opinion like this—what kind of democracy is that anyway? 😕
"No one understands me better than I do, and honestly, no one can help if I don't want them to... I'm smart enough to realize what my issue is, but I just haven't found the nerve to actually face it and fix it... That’s where I get stuck."
Trust me when I say you’re much braver than you feel right now. The real issue is how the world reacts to mistakes; everything seems built on this paralyzing fear of messing up or failing.
Think back to your days in elementary school—were you constantly terrified of your grades? Worried you wouldn't know the answers during a test? Did you dread what your parents would say, or how the other kids in class would look at you if you weren't perfect? Every single one of us is unique, wired differently with our own specific strengths. You can't just shove people into neat little boxes. If someone isn't as fast at taking a standardized test as the kid next to them, it doesn't mean there's something broken inside them. But that's exactly what happens. They get labeled as failures or losers. In the American school system, we are basically conditioned to be afraid of making mistakes. We aren't stupid; we just learn how to adapt to the system by learning how to avoid errors entirely. But in the real world, the people who actually make it—the ones who go the furthest—are the ones who made the most mistakes. They were the ones who weren't afraid to fail and actually learned from the wreckage. They used those blunders as lessons.
"It’s just easier to eat and purge, easier to walk through life with a fake smile plastered on your face, pretending everything is fine while lying to yourself..."
Maybe that feels like the path of least resistance right now, but believe me, the easy way is rarely the right way. There's an old saying that life wraps its greatest gifts inside our toughest problems. If we don't confront them and figure out how to resolve them, we never really grow. We never learn how to "fix" the parts of ourselves that feel broken, which is exactly what you touched on when you said, "No one understands me better than I do." 👍
PS: You have so much potential in you. I truly believe you can work through this. Who knows, maybe you'll end up becoming an expert in this field someday; after all, real-world experience often carries more weight than a college degree. 🙂
I find myself drifting back to the story of Little Red Riding Hood, which honestly feels like better reading than most of the professional textbooks out there. Just some loud thoughts of mine—maybe someone else will see eye to eye with me on this.
If I stick to something light like a bowl of soup with some steamed veggies, maybe some fish, or even just one of those small student-sized portions of pasta in sauce, I don't feel that overwhelming urge to kiss the pot because, honestly, I actually managed to eat a decent amount for once.
You're likely just aware that you ate something healthy and low-calorie, so your brain is sending you that signal that it won't actually lead to weight gain. 🙂
It honestly feels like my stomach is starting to bloat... though I suppose there’s a perfectly logical reason for it, considering I haven't been able to use the bathroom in days and the discomfort is getting pretty intense.
Most digestive issues really just boil down to a lack of plant fiber, which usually stems from picking out processed junk that offers zero nutritional value... It’s a depressing reality, but about 70% of people living in the US these days are struggling with digestive problems. 😢
The worst part is that this isn't just a one-off thing; I’ve lived my entire life taking the path of least resistance, always drifting toward whatever is easiest rather than actually standing my ground.
Don't sweat it, you aren't alone in feeling this way; I've been through those exact same stretches myself, though I've noticed that for some people, taking the path of least resistance seems to work a lot better than it does for others. That’s why getting your hands on the right information is everything—the more you actually know, the fewer traps you'll end up falling into. 🙂
Back during the period when I weighed around 175 pounds, everything just seemed to click into place; life felt effortless and I was actually getting along with everyone. I was pulling straight A's in school, had a boyfriend who truly cared about me, a massive circle of friends, and plenty of nights out just enjoying myself. Back when I was around 20, I completely skipped my period because I just couldn't wrap my head around wearing a mini skirt—which happens to be the standard uniform at my job here in the States. I avoided going out altogether because I knew everyone would be staring, judging how much I’d shrunk into this tiny little athletic frame. It was honestly miserable having to go to the grocery store or pick up food, always feeling like the cashier was looking right through me, thinking about how much I eat despite being so small.
These are just the facts, and when the facts aren't in our favor, they tend to push us straight into this headspace of insecurity and fear. Society operates exactly how it does, and honestly, we don't have the power to go around reshaping everyone else around us. It’s much easier to focus on changing ourselves—if we shift, then eventually the way people treat us might shift too—but even if we know that deep down in our subconscious, there isn't some kind of magic fix waiting for us.
I just couldn't bring myself to be intimate because I was stuck in this headspace where I felt completely repulsive, wondering how anyone could possibly find my body exciting... and honestly, that's where things started falling apart between us.
Most men are visual creatures by nature, and when they find someone genuinely attractive, you see them put in much more effort—even behind closed doors—so what you’re saying makes perfect sense. You've got a very grounded perspective and aren't being selfish at all; you aren't one of those people who just says, "this is who I am, take it or leave it," without caring if there's any actual attraction there. I can already hear the inevitable wave of "selfish" accusations coming from certain corners of the internet. 😁
It’s honestly hard to wrap your head around how much the entire world shifts once you drop the weight... you have no idea how many doors swing wide open just because you're considered attractive, because of your smile, or even just because of the skirt you happen to be wearing. I’ll never truly get over it, and the realization just keeps looping in my mind like a broken record. You have to be beautiful, thin, and smiling to get that kind of access. It’s a grim thing to realize after experiencing it firsthand, and frankly, it leaves me terrified of gaining even an ounce, because as repulsive as it is, the truth remains: people value looks above all else.
Beauty isn't the only key to success, but let's be honest—it’s usually the one that swings the doors open first, and that's where the whole "path of least resistance" thing really kicks in. For those who don't have that kind of aesthetic leverage, you're forced to actually put in the work and think twice just to find an opening. It creates this cycle where the attractive crowd never feels the pressure to sharpen their skills because things just slide into place for them, which only fuels that tired old stereotype that being beautiful and being bright are mutually exclusive. 😎
It all stems from this warped sense of human value, really—this massive wave of people who refuse to think for themselves and instead just follow whoever happens to be leading the pack. Usually, those leaders aren't thinking much at all, and when they do, their ideas only serve their own interests while leaving everyone else to deal with the fallout, though most people are too checked out to even notice.
You're right, the reality is just that people have become incredibly shallow; they judge everyone based on surface aesthetics and refuse to invest even a second of their precious time into actually getting to know someone. We’re all just retreating further into our own shells, becoming increasingly isolated, until eventually those superficial types "win" because it makes sense to them—why would I bother trying to reach someone who isn't even willing to open up, effectively wasting my own time in the process?
"Do you honestly know what psychiatrists are actually for? They exist to tell you the things you already know deep down but refuse to acknowledge because facing the truth hurts too much..."
It's funny how most people find it impossible to admit they've messed up to themselves, seeing it as a total defeat, yet the moment a "man with a degree" says the exact same thing, it suddenly carries this heavy, undeniable weight and importance. Once we finally grasp that our mistakes are what actually shape us, and that making more of them is really just building the resilience needed to handle life's various "growing pains," then maybe we can finally call ourselves adults. 🙂
Hannah Davis18 said:I finally caught on; you're basically arguing that eating a decent meal is impossible unless people buy those pills you're peddling.👎
I guess I misread the room, my mistake, but that isn't really what this is about... Up until early 2004, the World Health Organization used to suggest supplements as an option, but since then, they've been essentially signaling that if you actually care about staying healthy, supplementation is a necessity. They aren't just saying this to be dramatic; they're looking at the rising statistics of chronic illnesses caused by the massive vitamin and mineral deficiencies found in the processed junk we call food today.. 😢
I’m just trying to educate people, or rather, appeal to their common sense, though whether you choose to listen or ignore me is entirely up to you—just like which specific vitamins you decide to go with is your call. For the last time, I am not selling anything, so let's move past that. 😎
Honestly, I'd be much happier if people would finally contribute something useful or constructive to this thread; it's getting pretty tedious reading these empty comments. If you don't have any actual knowledge or experience to offer, there's really no point in chiming in with nonsense.. 😁
nimbledriver81 said:My dad is dead, since you brought him up. Also, you've been flagged for spamming. Aggressive self-promotion isn't allowed here. 🙂
I'm sorry for your loss; my father passed away too, and if I had possessed the knowledge I have now back then, he probably would still be around, so if I can't bring him back, the least I can do is try to help someone else avoid the same fate.. 😢
I honestly don't see what you mean by aggressive advertising here? I’m just laying out the facts and pointing out the issues, and if there's a way to fix someone's problem, I feel a moral obligation to share it so they can protect their health (or get it back).. that's why this Forum is called "Health" (not "Sickness") 😕 😁
nimbledriver81 said:Look, next time you feel that hunger hitting, just try to remember that food travels through your entire bloodstream to nourish every single cell in your body. It’s what gives you the strength to lift your hand and type out a post, or open your eyes, or even manage a smile. I know how pathetic that sounds, really, but you have to shift your perspective on yourself and on eating. If you do, maybe you won't feel the need to go overboard.
I’m with you there; once we start viewing food as a necessary tool—almost like preventative medicine—and actually take ownership of our own health and lives, our relationship with actual medication will change too, because we'll realize we can bypass a lot of them when we see how one "helpful" pill often leaves ten nasty side effects in its wake... 😲
It's the exact same story with psychiatrists who just keep handing out dangerous prescriptions to patients, knowing full well there's usually no turning back once that cycle starts. 👎
"Don't get worked up, but this psychiatry you're talking about was outdated ages ago... and all it really did was create a generation of permanently sick, unhappy people. I know we haven't quite reached that point here in the States yet, but treating psychiatry as a more humane medical field is the only way doctors will finally realize the human psyche isn't just a collection of firing neurons, but that an Eating Disorder is a legitimate mental illness."
I'm in total agreement with everything northernfalcon30 said, mostly because she actually uses her own brain—unlike some people—and tries to frame things logically.. 👍
It’s been obvious to me for a long time now that there’s far too much blind faith placed in doctors who, frankly, know next to nothing about nutrition (not that I need to repeat myself on why), and so when they face a problem like Eating Disorders, they react in a way that makes it impossible to grasp from any angle. They just focus on what's "in the head," which is how THEY decided to label it as a psychological disorder, and then they scramble to find a solution, even if it's a bad one.. The brain is arguably the least understood part of the body, something every con artist and fraudster knows perfectly well; if they need a sick day, it's easiest to just claim a massive headache or say they aren't feeling right to snag a few days off, because they know the people making those calls can't exactly call their bluff since it's such an uncharted territory for them too.. 😁
To be clear, I'm not dismissing the value of talk therapy, even from a psychiatrist, but it infuriates me when a "patient" is shoved into a category where they are treated as their own worst enemy, or when any form of help outside of the doctor's office is rejected simply because they're the only ones holding a "degree"... but really, what kind of degree? Most of them finished their schooling back when these specific issues weren't even on the radar.. 😕
It’s actually pretty fascinating how much you can improve your own health and skin clarity—not to mention just general hygiene—simply by drinking more water. It's one of those rare "prescriptions" that doesn't cost a dime, yet it can make a massive difference if you actually stick to it... 🙂
"When I picked up that water bottle for my bike, the manual specifically warned against putting Cole in it, otherwise I’d lose the warranty."
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"Look, here's the thing. These are just my observations and what I've personally dealt with regarding this drink. Is it the absolute, universal truth? Of course not. I'm not claiming that. I'm just sharing my own experience. As for all the talk about chemicals and specific elements inside Coca-Cola, honestly, I couldn't care less. I'm not a chemist, I'm not a nutritionist, and I'm certainly not trying to be. I'm just an average person weighing in on Coca-Cola. What, am I supposed to have a PhD just to comment on it? The mere fact that it might not contain harmful ingredients doesn't mean anything to me. That's not really the point. I've stated my opinion and my stance on Coca-Cola, and at the end of the day, whether someone wants to drink it or not is entirely up to them."
Susan Miller65, hats off to you, you're absolutely right... 👍 👏