I had my surgery done in Miami with Dr. Lisec. To save you guys from asking a million questions, here are the main details: Before this, I wasn't really breathing well through my nose and dealt with some mild sleep apnea. On top of fixing my deviated septum, he did a full rhinoplasty—straightened the bridge, refined the tip, and since my whole nose used to tilt to one side, he basically "centered" it on my face. He mentioned that centering it was actually the toughest part to fix. Honestly, the result looks so good that most people don't even realize I had work done, which is wild to me because the change is huge. But the doctor told me upfront that his goal was to make it look incredibly natural, which apparently has been the big trend for the last 20 years.
The initial recovery took about two weeks, which is pretty much what everyone else goes through—you can find tons of videos about it on YouTube. The only weird thing was the bruising; it stuck around for way longer than expected, like 3 or 4 weeks. It was honestly embarrassing walking out of my apartment when people were giving me such strange looks. As for the swelling, that didn't fully subside for several months.
Yesterday marked exactly one year since my surgery. Honestly, I can't even decide what I’m more obsessed with—being able to actually breathe through my nose or just how good it looks. Best decision I've ever made, hands down! 👍
I’m finally going in for nose surgery soon—and I mean FINALLY. After ten years of struggling to breathe through my nose, I’m actually doing this. My doctor (in private practice) originally told me he wouldn't recommend surgery just because of breathing issues, arguing that mouth breathing doesn't really have any side effects unless you're a professional athlete or if I specifically wanted the aesthetic change. I was honestly a little too intimidated by the whole thing, so I backed off. But lately, I’ve been feeling absolutely exhausted and can't get decent sleep; turns out they diagnosed me with mild sleep apnea. So now, the doctor basically gave me the green light, saying, "Now I can finally tell you to go ahead and get it done with a clear conscience." I've read all kinds of horror stories online, but since I've been suffering for so long, I'm honestly just itching to get this over with. They’re doing the aesthetics too, and while I hope it looks great, if I can just breathe normally, that’ll be a massive win for me. I’m counting down the days—my appointment is in two weeks.
Jamie Ruiz said:I just wanted to drop a quick note about my son's rhinoplasty from nine days ago. First off, a massive shoutout to Dr. Glumičić and his entire team—they are absolute masters at what they do. I will say though, this isn't exactly a walk in the park; you need a lot of patience and nerves of steel during recovery. Don't get me wrong, there’s zero actual pain, it’s just that breathing feels incredibly awkward for a bit. If you can handle that part, go for it, because the results are totally worth it. Once again, huge thanks to Dr. Glumičić. He is hands down the best in the business.
I was just watching this soccer player on TV—apparently, he had nose surgery because if he hadn't, his heart would’ve started failing during training due to breathing issues. So why the hell are we regular mortals expected to just live with this crap? I mean, how many times have I passed out mid-summer, woken up with my mouth feeling like a desert, not to mention that constant lump in my throat or the sheer panic when I realize I don't have any tissues handy? 😢
It’s a real shame they shut down the other thread because now I can't even quote my own posts from three years ago...
Anyway, I’ve been struggling with breathing through my nose for about six years now, and for the last three, one side has been constantly blocked...
Every time I see a doctor—and I even went to a specialist once—they all just tell me there's nothing they can do. My nose is crooked and has this little bump on it.
And don't even get me started on the constant throat issues and how much it messes with my sleep...
So here's what I want to know: do I have to go to a private specialist if I actually want to fix this, or can I insist that Medicare covers the procedure?
Also, which route actually gives you better results?
Is it true that recovery is just a matter of a few days these days?
Does anyone have a specific doctor they'd recommend?
Michael Moore3 said:Imagine a moment where you’re facing your own end, fully aware of the finality of it all—everything you’ve built, everything you’ve owned, and the entirety of your physical existence on this planet... And then, with that heavy realization, you’re asked a single question: Would you choose to return to an Earth like this one? You’d start over as a completely different person, free from the baggage and anxieties of your previous life, beginning from scratch with the absolute freedom to design a life exactly how you want it. The only thing that carries over is your core essence, the fundamental "you." Would you actually opt back into a material existence like ours?"
So, would you take that deal? Yes or no, and what’s the reasoning behind it? 🙂
I think I’d say yes. There’s just something incredibly captivating about the way this world works. I can't quite put my finger on it, but I find it absolutely fascinating...
I think we all go through those phases where it feels like everyone else has it figured out and life is just easy for them. 🙂 The reason this stuff is actually getting to me is basically because: First off, I recently crushed a 100% written exam all on my own, only to have my professor look me dead in the eye during the oral part and accuse me of cheating. 😠 Second, I had this group of three friends I hung out with every single day, and we had a blast, until I found out they spent a good chunk of their time gossiping about "what they'd do to me." 🙄 And third, most other girls are pretty much cold toward me—rarely an exception—no matter how hard I try to be friendly and open. I guess it turns out that everything truly does come with its own set of pros and cons. 😉
🙄 I don't consider myself "pretty," more like fit or feminine. When I get in shape, I definitely get noticed, but how people react depends entirely on their attitude.
I've pulled off a 100% grade plenty of times (not to brag, but still 😍). People can look at me however they want, but I'm not going to act stuck up; I'll just answer the question. I'll hand over an A+ transcript, and there's no way anyone walks away from a conversation with me thinking I'm stupid. If someone comes in with a prejudice before even meeting me or asking for my registration, I just say, "Thanks, but no thanks, I'm not ruining my GPA for you." Then they actually talk to me and realize they were wrong to think my IQ was sub-50. 😁
Girls, if they reject your attitude, it's because I'm gorgeous and everyone assumes that means I'm dim-witted, so they avoid me out of pure spite. 😬
Alex Rogers96 said:A total lack of self-respect. Self-respect is something your family either gives you or they don't. And since most families are just a bunch of dysfunctional psychos, that's usually a losing game.
esotericist said:I'm busy. Look, it's been ages since I actually felt emotionally wounded. Take this scenario: You have a close friend you hang out with almost every single day. Then, they steal from you. You know it was them because you literally saw it happen or found your stuff exactly where they left it. Would that mess with your head? Most people would. Me? I just moved on. I suppress the experience and leave it at that. I have other things to focus on. Especially since my job doesn't allow me to show any emotion. So, I learned how to shut down. Simple as that.🙂
quote: 'To a wise person, the whole world is a teacher, but to a fool, the entire universe is full of enemies. That’s why the wise move forward while the fool just stands there wondering what's going on.'
Edward Green said:Is this idiot seriously unable to remember her own doctor's name?
btw, if she was wearing two-week contact lenses for a month and a half past their expiration date, it’s a damn medical miracle they didn't cloud up or make her eyes feel like they were on fire. 🙏 🙏
Of course they stung and hurt, just not immediately. It took a while before things went south. And since they keep shuffling patients around at places like Mayo Clinic, she probably didn't catch the name... I don't know anything about contacts myself since I don't wear them, but that's what she told me.
I’ve gotta mention this too—back when my dad was battling cancer and nearing the end, we asked if he could stay at the hospital. This nurse actually laughed in my dad's face. She basically goes, "Oh, you want to stay here? Do you have any idea how many beds we actually have?" 😲
Honestly, I think they’re all just burnt out because they’re constantly running errands for doctors, so instead, they take it out on the patients to make themselves feel superior. It’s pathetic, really.
So, a girl I know from my university classes in San Diego was getting contact lenses at the clinic. The doctor told her they need to be swapped out every two months, so she ended up buying a 12-pack to cover the whole year.
Fast forward one year later: her eyes start hurting like crazy. She does some digging online and realizes those lenses actually need to be replaced every two weeks(honestly, that doctor probably just wanted to pad her own pockets), and when she finally went back for an exam, her prescription had tripled compared to last year!! She went right back to that same clinic to demand answers, but they wouldn't even tell her the doctor's name or anything else because they all "stick together" to protect each other. 😲 😲 😲 😲
I swear, if that had been me, I would have absolutely lost it.
South Korea said:It’s true that you miss things. We all do. Sometimes life forces stuff on us, and sometimes we’re just the ones to blame. Look, the main thing is that you already have what matters: self-belief. You’re right about that, and you’ve got value. Honestly, if everyone just focused on fixing themselves first, society would actually function better. It starts with you. As for getting people to like you? That’s easy. Your behavior dictates how they treat you. If you want them to act a certain way, act that way toward them. They say kind words can open iron doors, and it's true. Don't overcomplicate it—just develop a habit of being high-quality. Show genuine interest in their problems and give them credit for their solutions. People are narcissists; they love talking about themselves, so just be there to listen. You'll make a million real friends that way. Let them think they're right—unless they let you weigh in, then give a tiny correction. Just make the lives of those around you better by being there. That's your mission. If you do that, people will accept you sincerely. Stop talking about yourself so much; it’s unnecessary. And don't vent about your problems to everyone. If you really need to unload, tell me, and we'll tackle it together. Best to you and your family from someone who cares...
South Korea said:First impressions? If someone works hard to leave a great one, my take is they’re usually just highly educated types playing a game. They intentionally curate this image to feed their own ego. It’s a way to build a narrative about themselves. They spend years chasing this sense of being an "expert" in everything, and it drives them to constantly hunt for a new audience. They don't stay put. Instead of investing precious time in one person, they’d rather go find a new listener or fan to impress. You can't change that from the outside; trying to do so just backfires. They aren't turning inward—they're always looking for the next person to charm. Cheers everyone. ........ps. they don't retreat; they just pivot to someone new.
Finally!!! 🙏
Man, you’re the only one who actually gets what I’m going through😢...I’ve got plenty of "experts" around me, and I always shine at first. But the problem is, eventually, I end up creating that exact counter-effect they talked about. Plus, if I spend too much time focusing on just one person, I feel like I'm missing out on life. But honestly, I'm in a long-term relationship now and have a few solid friends who truly care about me, and I don't want to lose them. Those other people I felt the need to impress? They aren't even worth the effort.
Come on, give me some advice. I'll take anything.😁
[QUOTE It’s become such a common thing with kids these days. They just don't have the confidence. After maybe one or two hangouts, they start ghosting everyone because they're already convinced they won't fit in or that the group isn't "their vibe." It's pure insecurity.
Henry Garcia10 said:You’re just trying too hard to protect that perfect first impression you made. You end up backfiring because you're terrified of "ruining" the image people have of you.
I know for a fact—speaking from experience here 😁—that whenever I meet someone new, they always think I'm charming. But after a little while, it’s like they suddenly get spooked. They start worrying about being handled the wrong way or just feel awkward, so they pull back, avoid me, and go silent. Honestly, the only people I actually get along with today are the ones who didn't take my retreating personally and kept picking on me and pushing through it 😕
But look, this isn't just a vent session about myself 😍. I want to know what you all think. Why would someone act like that? It sounds weird, I know, but in those moments, I just don't understand my own behavior 🤣