Posts by crimsonheron80

Nothing truly exists
Sometimes you pause, sometimes you push forward
The choice is yours, the decision is yours
When will you finally make your move? When?

Is it out of boredom or just pure habit?
Are you too afraid to put your heart on the line?
Perhaps everything will just fall into place, perhaps it all just appears
Spontaneously, just like that

Pure legend 😁

My advice? Feed yourself with positive thoughts. Always stay positive. There really isn't any other way...

Jerry Martinez5 said:goldenwalker5, stop typing in all caps unless you want a warning 🤣

For Royal, it's always some weird code or whatever. It feels like there’s always a moderator handing out bans—by the time I even figure out who it is, someone else has already stepped in to ban me.

I can't stand that lunatic GNKY. Everywhere I turn, she shows up with a new burner account, swearing and acting out. Then I just get her banned immediately, every single time.☕

goldenwalker5 said:THIS PERSON IS COMPLETELY UNHINGED. We aren't talking about a double account here—this guy has a hundred different personalities. A total lunatic.

I agree. Don't even try to deny it. 😉

goldenwalker5 said:Who specifically are you talking about?

Vukasin, Kolasin, Radisin, and about 600 other clones. It's just one person at this point.

So, here we are. ☕ I can't stand those people who follow my every move, or the ones living double lives with a hundred different personas just to pick fights and insult others. It’s pathetic.

Kate Hernandez5 said:😂😂 ......😂

aaaaaaaa😂😂😂😂😂

Roger Morgan4 said:In your mind, you’re probably hosting the greatest party ever

👍😂😂

I'd much rather stay home and [snort lines of coke while trolling people on this forum 😂😂😂

The themes aren't clearly defined. It needs to be more concise.🙏Sorry:

My Facebook profile got shut down. Apparently, I insulted Black people. I should have known—Facebook is basically a Black-run site, and I’m just too much of a radical for them. ☕

Linda Rodriguez38 said:Is there even a way to say that in American English—like, how would you even word that? 🍿

Let's stick to the topic! — keeping things on track, right?
Royal Flush energy! 👑✨ Once you finally start standing up to the people you've been too soft on—seriously, why haven't you yet?—you won't even feel like posting stuff like this anymore!

---------------> New York

Michelle Alvarez8 said:Custom User Text 🤦

What exactly are you talking about? And why the facepalm? Is that supposed to hide your IQ?

Emily Sullivan97 said:You're truly in deep trouble here.
There’s a thread over there about why nobody likes you, and right here, it's just this guy telling you off.
It’s all connected. That’s just who you are. If you don't change, you'll be opening these same types of threads every single year until the day you die.

That actually hurts. I have zero interest in changing, by the way. And your mother is a piece of work—we all know why. ☕

ruggedsurfer said:But you know deep down there is, right? You’re just hurting, so it feels like nothing else matters right now. It’s like, because you always feel left out, any little rejection hits way harder than some random "brush off" would hit someone who isn't as sensitive as you. Nobody actually likes being treated like that. And I guess Drake made a pretty good point when he asked if you’ve ever blown someone else off? I mean, you definitely have, probably, but maybe your lack of empathy just made you miss how much someone else was hurting because of you.

Maybe try to find a balance between what you want and what you can actually handle? Like, try to be uniquely awesome in a positive way instead of just... whatever this is. Control the chaos, let people see the real you, and stop trying so hard to force your "perfection" on everyone. Let them notice it themselves. If they respect you for it, then yeah, take that chance and build up your own self-esteem. But if they don't, just try not to be super harsh about it, because karma usually comes back around.

Btw, I think you're being a bit too hard on the guy, and honestly, he doesn't seem like a total villain in all this. He was pretty upfront from the jump that he wasn't looking for a relationship, which I get felt rude to you, but still. Later on, you said he actually talked to you and found you interesting, so maybe he just wanted to be friends? I don't really buy that he was just playing games in front of his buddies. He shouldn't be held responsible for you catching feelings for something where he already set boundaries. You didn't say anything about him using you for money or anything, so I kind of think you're just calling him a jerk because your feelings are hurt.

Fine, maybe I did brush someone off by being indifferent.🤷 But what does that have to do with anything? Don't worry, I'm not bothered by my lack of empathy.☕

ruggedsurfer said:But you know deep down there is, right? You’re just hurting, so it feels like nothing else matters right now. It’s like, because you always feel left out, any little rejection hits way harder than some random "brush off" would hit someone who isn't as sensitive as you. Nobody actually likes being treated like that. And I guess Drake made a pretty good point when he asked if you’ve ever blown someone else off? I mean, you definitely have, probably, but maybe your lack of empathy just made you miss how much someone else was hurting because of you.

Maybe try to find a balance between what you want and what you can actually handle? Like, try to be uniquely awesome in a positive way instead of just... whatever this is. Control the chaos, let people see the real you, and stop trying so hard to force your "perfection" on everyone. Let them notice it themselves. If they respect you for it, then yeah, take that chance and build up your own self-esteem. But if they don't, just try not to be super harsh about it, because karma usually comes back around.

Btw, I think you're being a bit too hard on the guy, and honestly, he doesn't seem like a total villain in all this. He was pretty upfront from the jump that he wasn't looking for a relationship, which I get felt rude to you, but still. Later on, you said he actually talked to you and found you interesting, so maybe he just wanted to be friends? I don't really buy that he was just playing games in front of his buddies. He shouldn't be held responsible for you catching feelings for something where he already set boundaries. You didn't say anything about him using you for money or anything, so I kind of think you're just calling him a jerk because your feelings are hurt.

I'm not perfect. As for others, I doubt they are either... ☕

ruggedsurfer said:But you know deep down there is, right? You’re just hurting, so it feels like nothing else matters right now. It’s like, because you always feel left out, any little rejection hits way harder than some random "brush off" would hit someone who isn't as sensitive as you. Nobody actually likes being treated like that. And I guess Drake made a pretty good point when he asked if you’ve ever blown someone else off? I mean, you definitely have, probably, but maybe your lack of empathy just made you miss how much someone else was hurting because of you.

Maybe try to find a balance between what you want and what you can actually handle? Like, try to be uniquely awesome in a positive way instead of just... whatever this is. Control the chaos, let people see the real you, and stop trying so hard to force your "perfection" on everyone. Let them notice it themselves. If they respect you for it, then yeah, take that chance and build up your own self-esteem. But if they don't, just try not to be super harsh about it, because karma usually comes back around.

Btw, I think you're being a bit too hard on the guy, and honestly, he doesn't seem like a total villain in all this. He was pretty upfront from the jump that he wasn't looking for a relationship, which I get felt rude to you, but still. Later on, you said he actually talked to you and found you interesting, so maybe he just wanted to be friends? I don't really buy that he was just playing games in front of his buddies. He shouldn't be held responsible for you catching feelings for something where he already set boundaries. You didn't say anything about him using you for money or anything, so I kind of think you're just calling him a jerk because your feelings are hurt.

Where did I say he made it clear at the beginning? Where did I call him a jerk? I have no interest in commenting on the rest of this nonsense. ☕

Matthew Williams42 said:okay
If I were in your shoes, I’d try to find a balance between your online persona—where you're super blunt—and your real-life self, which is almost too reserved... there's just such a massive gap between the two.
If you brought a bit more of that Royal Jelly energy into your daily life, people wouldn't be able to walk all over you quite so easily. In a situation like this, you might have gotten a different reaction—one that wasn't based on feeling humiliated or dealing with nonsense. Just snap out of it and tell people where they stand; it would do wonders for your confidence, and others would see you aren't just some pushover they can treat however they want...

In any case, I think working on that would really help your self-esteem, which would eventually help with that feeling of rejection—you just wouldn't feel it as intensely.

BINGO 👍You hit the nail on the head; people treat me however they please👍 and I have zero intention of changing my ways.👍I'm perfectly capable of giving anyone the finger, online or in person,👍 but unfortunately, I still have a soft spot for certain people.😍

Michelle Alvarez8 said:I’ve gotta be honest with you.

Nobody in the history of this forum—or even custom user Text—has ever had a more genuine CUT.

What kind of CUT???

hollowtrucker77 said:...cut the crap

or have you just never actually pulled something like that off before??

Not even close☕

rustyskipper7 said:If that really happened to you, honestly, you should just go wreck him. He sounds like absolute trash...
I'm ready to break his arm right now; just tell me where he is.
And you aren't pathetic. Very few people have the guts to get up every single morning and say, "Alright, here we go again. Life sucks today, but whatever. I have a right to be happy, and by God, I'm going to grab that happiness and make it mine."

Is every new day really just that—a chance...
You could spend it staring at a computer screen, or you could be out at a bar with some guy who insults you and dumps you...
You won't get anything out of the computer, but at a bar (or wherever he dumped you), at least you experienced some kind of emotion. Some emotion is better than none at all, or worse, a fake emotion.

fine, thanks

bluefalcon122 said:I honestly feel like every girl went through that same phase in her teens, totally crushing on some older guy...☕

Well, he wasn't even older than me. But the point remains: I keep running into this. That awful sense of rejection.

Matthew Williams42 said:What kind of way is that to treat someone from the local community? She was just trying to offer some advice—or maybe just check in to see what happened—and you basically snapped at her because she isn't one of those regulars who hangs out here constantly giving everyone pats on the back. Honestly, her main forum gives her plenty of experience with these kinds of topics anyway.🙂

And I think you might have misread the situation regarding him being in love with you—it just doesn't really square with the part about him feeling sorry for you and making fun of you... if he actually said that, you might want to wonder if it's all just a distraction.

Look, when someone clearly isn't grasping the situation, I have no interest in wasting my breath dealing with their local idioms and nonsense. And how am I supposed to know if it was a distraction? He told me. Whether he was lying or telling the truth is something we could debate endlessly, but how would I ever truly know? 🤷 Speaking plainly, it doesn't seem to add up. But if you look at what might be driving all this—complexes, ego, the need to prove something—then why couldn't it be true? There are plenty of reasons to believe him, but I won't dwell on that; it isn't the point. Besides, why would he lie about something like that? No... what's actually bothering me is this sense of rejection.