Fate said:Fine... let’s just call it a sickness if that makes you feel better.🙂
But it sure is strange how much this happens to men who aren't allowed any sexual outlet—men who are starved for even a little bit of spontaneous contact with women.🤷, OR just some basic human closeness.
I’ve already mentioned those ``secret traditions``😉 from the >... though we could easily wander back into Ancient Greece, where > was practically a formalized... well, an institution. Take >, for example.😁
To me, these scandals involving the Catholic Church seem to have very little in common with your average predator you'd run into on the street... they seem much more like a byproduct of intense sexual frustration.
Actually, > *is* a product of sexual frustration. Most of these guys are divorced, and their resentment is aimed at women in general—they aren't looking for someone vulnerable, they're looking for a way to "validate" themselves against any woman they can get.
The Catholic Church has been debating celibacy since the dawn of time, and celibacy doesn't lead to >; it leads to... let's call them "romantic excursions." > is a disease.
People on this forum are just throwing everything at the wall here—half of you don't even seem to grasp what > actually is, or what constitutes sexual abuse...
If you look online, you can find data on every registered case within the Catholic Church in the US.
The US has actually gone further than anyone else in addressing this, which is honestly something worth praising.
Fate said:I'm not ruling out the possibility that the Church serves as a sanctuary for people running away from ``themselves''... individuals who likely suppress their sexual urges within an institution that formally denies them. I suppose it's easier to hide from your own nature inside a religious community that provides a built-in excuse through its formal prohibitions.
I'll say it again: > doesn't stem from sexual repression. Sure, gay men might come to church while suppressing their sexuality—that's a valid point—but that is a completely different conversation.