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Kimberly Evans said:--> New Spirituality – can we actually save the human race?Š PLANETS

Right out of the gate, this thread takes a pretty heavy swing at organized religion.
Look, there’s a massive difference between spiritual teachings and how people actually practice them. Let's be honest: we're all pretty flawed creatures.

And besides, you don't need a prayer book to feel connected to the rest of humanity; atheists feel that bond too, just in their own way.
An atheist can lead an incredibly decent, honorable life without believing there's anything existing beyond the material world.
Though, if you ask the religious crowd, they'd tell you that's rarely the case.

If it weren't for the moral frameworks provided by religious teachings, I think the state of our world today would be in a much, much worse position.

Personally, I think this topic would land better if it wasn't framed so pretentiously. As it stands, the whole thing feels a bit overblown and unrealistic, don't you think?

Religious teachings aren't just beliefs—they’re part of a much larger ideological framework that takes hold of the human mind. It's all connected! You pull one ideology away, and you'll see how quickly people scramble to latch onto something else like a lifeline. It’s almost like when I tried to quit caffeine last year; I thought I was fine, but within two days, I was practically vibrating from the need for a latte! People really do crave that structure. Once you remove one set of rules, they'll grab onto any new idea just to feel grounded again. Truly fascinating stuff!
You see, there’s this fundamental truth about us humans: we almost always need some kind of overarching ideology to lean on. It’s just how we're wired! Most people need that shared set of beliefs to navigate life and actually find a sense of purpose within a community. Without that common thread, things can get pretty aimless, don't you think? I remember reading a fascinating study once about how social cohesion works in small towns across the Midwest—it really highlighted how much we crave that collective identity to feel like we truly belong to something bigger than ourselves. It gives life that extra bit of meaning!
Where can I find some good pipes? in Miscellaneous ·
briskmarlin59 said:Hey, check out this site about those hookah varieties we were talking about

Thanks... though I don't really need it since I’m not exactly a fan of the tobacco industry.
I once saw people trying to pull out full-on hookahs on an airplane, which honestly felt just as chaotic as when I try to bring my musical instruments on a flight!
Where can I find some good pipes? in Miscellaneous ·
Timothy Hall85 said:Ever since my buddies and I got back from our trip to Tunis, we've been strictly using water pipes. 😁

How on earth did you carry that on a plane... and where do you even find the "tobacco" these days?
The Guilt Trip in Psychology ·
Chris Sanchez11;11538717 said:
To’s a bit blunt, but let's call it what it is: blackmail.

The big takeaway here is blackmail. It comes in all shapes—some organized by society at large, and some much more intimate, born from our immediate circles when our emotions clash with reality.
It's woven into the very fabric of our lives... from the moment we're born until the day we die.
It's always "If you don't do this, then you won't become...", "you won't be able to," "you won't have"...

Guilt is planted through blackmail. If a toddler refuses to eat his dinner, his mother is miserable. You don't want to see Mom crying, right? So, you eat.

Or take school: "If you don't go to that Ivy League university, you're a failure. We sacrificed everything for you! Dad worked endless overtime at Boeing... and I spend all day cleaning and running the house..."
"Why would you do this to us?"

In relationships, it's: "If you don't agree to my terms, we're over."
"If you don't accept that I'm the one in charge, then this friendship was a lie."
And even in politics or faith: "If you don't believe in Bog, our party, or our leader, then you're the enemy."
Basically, if you aren't with us, you're against us.

But that pattern applies to pretty much every single interaction we have with other people.

It's this eternal matrix of behavior. Because we're social animals who crave security, we find ourselves nodding along to these various forms of blackmail, falling into a cycle that feels impossible to break.
It’s just so much easier to be ordinary and blend in than it is to be the outlier who stands apart.
darkbison81 said:But what exactly are the criteria they're using to draw the line between being mentally ill and being "normal"?
I mean, since they obviously didn't go out and test every single person on Earth, how was this study actually conducted and how did they handle the "sampling" process?

You’d have to take that up with the editors over at Quincy. Honestly, I suspect the parameters were just lifted straight from established Western clinical theories and practices, and then applied globally as if they were universal truths.

When you're wading through a massive forest of data like this, there's always going to be stuff that slips through the cracks—things that raw numbers simply can't capture.
brightpuma11 said:Look, I don’t know enough about clinical psychology to officially label specific individuals as mentally unstable, but honestly? This sounds like it could be spot on.

I’m convinced that more than half the population is somehow "broken"... actually, let's call it 80%... childhood trauma, deep-seated fears, various complexes, anxiety... just endless stuff. And the kicker? They actually walk around thinking they’re perfectly normal, average, and good people. It's truly tragic.😈

And then they go ahead and praise a life that's such a total wreck... 😛
There isn't even a standard for "normal" anymore, because anyone who is truly normal is messed up in their own unique way, and besides, nobody really pays attention to the crazy ones anyway.
According to some recent news reports and even studies published in the New England Journal of Medicine, it turns out that nearly a third of the entire world's population is struggling with some form of mental health disorder. To make matters even more discouraging, most people aren't getting any real help at all—either they can't access therapy, or the treatment they do find just doesn't hit the mark.
The numbers are pretty staggering, too. It’s estimated that about 23% of global disability is actually caused by mental health issues. That’s higher than heart disease or strokes, which sit at 21%, and way ahead of cancer, which accounts for "only" 11%.

What are your thoughts on these statistics?😳
Resurrection in Spirituality ·
Casey Jackson17 said:Look, it’s not just about the act itself being a "sin," it’s about the fallout—the actual consequences you have to live with afterward. We're talking physical, mental, or spiritual wreckage. It’s not a sin just because some rulebook or legal code says so; it’s a sin because it’s fundamentally destructive to a person. If someone doesn't believe in God, they usually avoid certain sins simply because they fear the tangible fallout. Like, you don't drive like a maniac and ignore every traffic law on the highway because you don't want to wreck your car, wreck yourself, or end up dead. Same goes for the psychological toll. You see cases where women deal with massive guilt after an abortion, leading to PTSD that haunts them for the rest of their lives. Then there are the spiritual consequences, but I won't get into those since most people on this forum think that stuff is just nonsense. To understand that, you need faith in God, and if you look at the history of the Church, the spiritual repercussions of sin are undeniable facts. Usually, you deal with that through prayer and fasting—or in extreme cases, exorcism.

(25) When Jesus saw the crowd gathering, he rebuked the impure spirit:
"I command you, mute and deaf spirit, come out of him and never enter him again!" (26) The evil spirit shrieked, convulsed the boy violently, and left him. The boy fell as if dead, and many thought he had passed away. (27) But Jesus took him by the hand and helped him up, and he stood. (28) When Jesus went inside the house, his disciples asked him privately, "Why couldn't we drive it out?" (29) He replied, "This kind can come out only by prayer." (Mark 9:25-29)

Believing in God doesn't mean you get a free pass from sin. Those consequences? They're life lessons you actually have to learn. You can't just skip them by playing a Joker card featuring Yahweh.
Resurrection in Spirituality ·
Casey Jackson17 said:Look, beating death from a Christian perspective basically boils down to conquering sin, because if you follow the doctrine, sin is the whole reason everything alive eventually kicks the bucket... and let's be real, we can't tackle sin on our own, which is why we're saved through the Resurrection of Jesus if we actually buy in and live by that faith... honestly, the real hurdle is just believing that Jesus Christ is the living God who took on flesh and that He did indeed Resurrect... though, if you think about it, there's way more solid evidence for the Resurrection of Jesus than there is for half the stuff they shove down our throats in American history textbooks that we just blindly accept as gospel truth...

Sin is basically just learning through trial and error. It’s all action and reaction! I mean, can you even make any progress without learning things the hard way?
Serial Killers: Q&A... in Psychology ·
I honestly don't know where to start with this one! It’s just such a wild topic, isn't it? I was sitting here sipping my coffee—the good stuff from that little roastery down in Seattle, you know the one—and I started thinking about how much things have shifted lately. It feels like we're constantly navigating these strange, new waters. Sometimes you think you've got a handle on things, and then—BAM!—everything changes. It reminds me of that time I tried to fix my own sink back in Chicago; I thought I was a regular plumber until the kitchen turned into a swimming pool. Total disaster! But hey, we learn, right? We adapt! Anyway, I just wanted to throw this out there because it’s been rattling around in my brain all morning. What do you all think? Is it just me, or is the vibe totally different lately? Let's chat! kaže:
So, I’ve been hearing things about that guy lately...
Absolutely insane...
Men are physically stronger... maybe that’s why? I mean, you look at the sheer power difference and it just makes sense! It reminds me of watching my old neighbor, a retired linebacker from the Dallas Cowboys, move around his yard—just pure, raw strength compared to the rest of us. There's definitely something to be said about that biological edge!
It’s just a sad reality that some people end up caught in a cycle of heavy drug use. They're struggling to make ends meet, even when they're selling themselves just to stay afloat. It's a tough break, honestly. Anyway, I really hope you get where I'm coming from on this.🙏

Raw power isn't even the main driver here. It’s not that they care about being strong, per se. It's more about that mindset—that deep-seated belief in their own heads that they’ve been hand-picked for the job. They truly believe they're on some grand mission to scrub the world clean of "trash and filth." It gives them this perfect, built-in excuse, doesn't it? They can justify just about anything by claiming they're doing us all a massive favor!
It’s one thing to play the part of a janitor on the side, just cleaning up the mess, but it's a whole different story when they actually start enjoying it. They begin playing games with their victims, acting like some kind of self-righteous vigilante angel!
It’s the same old pattern: deep-seated resentment toward women, an inability to actually connect with them, and that overblown obsession with their mothers. It turns them into these bitter people just looking for payback. Honestly, they have the exact same profile as Trebeth.
Lost in space in Psychology ·
Raymond Martin25 said:I’ve always struggled with this one thing: I am seriously, terribly bad with directions! Honestly, I feel like I could get lost in my own neighborhood—and it’s not even an exaggeration because I genuinely struggle to find a specific street even when someone gives me super detailed directions...😢
The stakes are even higher now because I’m heading to Italy in a few days to visit my friend SAMA, and I’ll have to navigate everything on my own. No one is coming along to guide me this time, and I’ve been dealing with this mounting paranoia about the trip for weeks now...
Is there any way to actually fix this? What should I do?😕

Look, you can't just give up! You totally can! Seriously, there are so many ways to get your bearings. You could try studying maps, or even better, use those tall church steeples as landmarks—it’s like an old-school way of navigating. Plus, you can always track the sun's movement across the sky to figure out where you are. Honestly, if all else fails, just go ahead and ask someone for directions! There's no shame in it.

Honestly, you should just be glad it’s Italy! Seriously, thank goodness it isn't somewhere like Egypt or Morocco.🙏 ?
Is spirituality a form of personal growth? in Spirituality ·
Hannah Morris3 said:Is it actually possible to fully strip away society's influence from your psyche? Has anyone ever truly pulled that off?

Only if you're a highly successful autistic person with decades of practice under your belt...
The Truth in Psychology ·
steelridge58 said:We’re living in an era defined by universal deception, but honestly, I think the most devastating lie of all is the one we tell ourselves about who we are, what we actually need, and what we truly want from life. It feels like this process starts almost entirely beneath our radar—you don't even realize how much outside influences are shaping you, or how much you're quietly consenting to them, effectively letting your own identity be molded by forces that have nothing to do with your conscious choices or the direction you actually want your life to take. To really steer your own ship, you need this sense of "distance," a bit of perspective to step back and distinguish your genuine needs from the noise, which is the only way to actually learn something about yourself. And once you finally wake up and see the fraud for what it is, you end up feeling like a stranger in a world that can't possibly offer a substitute for the authentic life you now realize you have to build for yourself.

That "distance" is a luxury most people never find. Most folks are far too busy clinging to external distractions rather than stepping back to look inward.
That's why so few people actually know how to be comfortable in their own skin.
The Truth in Psychology ·
swiftcobra15 said:I wouldn't say it's "better" not to know; I'd just say it's easier. It’s more comfortable, sure, but that doesn't make it right.
We shouldn't confuse convenience with what's actually good for us, because so much of the world's trouble comes from our desperate attempt to dodge
the inevitable growing pains required to actually live a meaningful life. 🙂

👍
The Truth in Psychology ·
steelridge58;8536535 said:
It’s better to know. Honestly, how something is communicated matters immensely, but that’s just one of those unfortunate circumstances we have to deal with. We're at the mercy of the other person's sensitivity, and there isn't much we can do to ensure the truth is delivered in a way that minimizes the sting. Avoiding the truth for the reasons > mentioned basically means you're just enabling a farce. You're clinging to an illusion that only exists because of ignorance. But hey, maybe I'm getting way too deep for the example provided by bzbzbz!

Of course it's better to know, even if it makes accepting the hard reality—that we actually have to change ourselves or our habits—so much tougher.
I mean, look around! We live in a world built on illusions. That's just how we perceive everything. Just look at American media, big-budget advertising, politics, or any major ideology. They all peddle this curated image of beauty, youth, and endless success. It creates this automatic assumption that if you just hit those three marks, happiness will follow. They act like aging, sickness, or obstacles don't even exist. They frame everything as external factors, when the truth is that real happiness is tucked away deep inside us, yet we're constantly sold this lie that it's something we can find out there in the world.

Be who you are, not who others want you to be.

Spot on! True freedom is being your authentic self. But here's the kicker: most people would actually choose their own lack of freedom over true liberty. Real freedom means waking up every single day and fighting to remain yourself, rather than conforming to someone else's checklist.
The Truth in Psychology ·
I honestly can't even begin to wrap my head around this one! It’s just total chaos, isn't it? I was sitting there with my coffee this morning—the good stuff from that little roaster down in Seattle—just staring at the screen, thinking, "How did we even get here?" It feels like everything is moving at a hundred miles an hour. Sometimes you just have to step back, take a breath, and realize that none of this makes any sense! Just pure, unadulterated madness. Anyway, what do you guys think? Is it just me, or is the whole thing spinning out of control? kaže:
Why is the truth such an unpleasant pill to swallow? Honestly, it’s fascinating. People treat the truth like it’s some kind of unwanted guest at a dinner party—as soon as it walks through the door, everyone starts looking for an excuse to leave. It feels abrasive, even repulsive to most. If we had our way, we’d just pretend it doesn't exist! I was chatting with a buddy of mine over coffee the other day—we were sitting in a little cafe in Chicago, just watching the crowds go by—and we started spiraling into this exact topic. He argued that people prefer a beautiful lie because it keeps things comfortable. And he's right! A lie is like a warm blanket on a snowy night, whereas the truth is often a cold splash of water to the face. It wakes you up, sure, but nobody actually *wants* to be jolted awake when they're cozy. It's all about ego, isn't it? Facing the facts means admitting we might have been wrong, or that things aren't as perfect as we imagined. That’s a hard sell for anyone. We crave the comfort of our own illusions. We want the world to bend to our narrative, not the other way around. It’s much easier to live in a curated fantasy than to deal with the messy, unvarnished reality of how things actually work. Truth is blunt, it's unpolished, and frankly, it can be downright rude. But hey, that's life!

Truth is a bit of a double-edged sword, isn't it? Most of the time, once you finally face the music and see things for what they really are, you're staring down the barrel of change. And let’s be honest—change is exhausting. It takes grit, it takes sweat, and frankly, it can be a total grind. I was thinking about this while waiting in line at Starbucks this morning, watching everyone just go through the motions. It hit me: a lot of people would much rather stay in the dark than deal with the fallout of knowing the truth. If you don't know, you don't have to act. But once that light flips on? Suddenly, you're forced to overhaul your entire way of life—your habits, your mindset, your whole perspective. It’s much easier to just keep cruising along blindly than to do the heavy lifting required to actually evolve. Sometimes, ignorance feels like a shortcut, even if it's a fake one!
Dealing with low self-esteem in Psychology ·
quietranger14 said:So, quick question... I can talk about the abuse now without breaking down—I mean, it still hits me occasionally, but it's rare. Is that just my brain using some defense mechanism like isolation of affect, or what?

It probably is. But honestly, that doesn't mean the trauma is healed. It just means you've swept it further under the rug.
Dealing with low self-esteem in Psychology ·
Noah Sanchez7 said:Don't just rush through it! I don't want to finish a book only to find the ending totally underwhelming. The ending is huge, maybe even the most important part.
So take your time, you have all the time in the world..
😘

You are absolutely spot on, and honestly? Even a snail would be outpacing me right now!🤣
Dealing with low self-esteem in Psychology ·
Noah Sanchez7 said:I want to buy your book!🙂

Coming soon, coming very soon!😛
Dealing with low self-esteem in Psychology ·
Noah Sanchez7 said:👏

aren't you some kind of writer?

Well, maybe, maybe...😛