Posts by Karen Morgan6

My first move is always to pull over, assess the scene, and call 911...

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If I’m reading you correctly, you’re sixteen and still navigating high school. You actually find fulfillment in your studies and staying productive—that’s a rare quality. Don't let go of that drive. But have you considered picking up a hobby? Maybe you enjoy running, spending time outdoors, or getting involved in sports? How are you spending your time when you aren't buried in textbooks?
I was once exactly where you are: a socially awkward loner.
My advice is actually quite straightforward. Stop actively hunting for friends or trying to force your way into a social circle. Instead, find a genuine interest or a hobby, and you’ll naturally stumble upon people who share those same passions. That’s how real connections happen.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying your own company, but don't let solitude become your permanent identity. I noticed you quoting the Bible. Are you attending church services? Are you active in your local congregation? And how much weight do you give to basic etiquette and manners?
A simple smile, a polite "good morning," or a bit of small talk—it might seem trivial or even pointless to you right now, but those tiny interactions are the fundamental difference between being an outcast and being perceived as a "normal" member of society. Approach people who actually pique your curiosity, show a sincere interest in what they care about, and the conversation will follow.
So, my final takeaway is simple: stay persistent in pursuing your goals and don't waste your energy on nonsense.

It’s better to be the hammer than the nail...

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Mark Twain once remarked, "If people knew how little intelligence actually governs the world, they would die of fear." There’s a kernel of truth in your argument, but you might be surprised to find a surprising number of level-headed individuals holding sway in politics, big business, and the military. In other words, within those sectors where making high-stakes, difficult decisions is part of the job description, competence does exist. Yet, the moment things get heavy, everyone runs to weep and lament in the arms of priests, preachers, imams, spouses, therapists, gurus, psychics, and all that other nonsense. At the end of the day, a job is just a job, and we’re all just human beings... don't you think?

Look, let’s start with some practical advice: go see a psychiatrist. Once you actually have a formal diagnosis in hand, then you can sit down and follow a professional's guidance. At the very least, following those clinical recommendations might give you a bit more energy and momentum to work with.

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Diet, exercise, daily walks, religious principles, hitting the sauna, socializing, weekend trips, hiking, working in the orchard, a massive library of psychology books, online forums, video games, alcohol (definitely wouldn't recommend), cigarettes, coffee (also a no). I’ve been microdosing nicotine—still experimenting, but I’m leaning toward the conclusion that alcohol was the bigger issue.
Dietary supplements like fish oil, magnesium, and zinc. Reading, browsing the web, TV, resting, learning how to unwind, and knowing when to unplug.
Looking back at everything, I honestly think what helped me most was simply time and having my family's support. I refused to take antidepressants, and I actually walked out on my psychiatrist after just one session. In hindsight, that was probably a mistake; I could have saved myself two years of struggle if I had stayed.

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Goals, goals, goals—it’s all anyone ever talks about.

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First piece of advice: hit the gym. Consistency is everything when it comes to training. Second: adopt a bit of that Fight Club philosophy. You have to realize that we’re all just human beings, and everyone feels fear. The difference is, you aren't afraid of getting into a scrap; you’re afraid of the embarrassment. Let me tell you from experience—back when I was your age, I once laid out some local tough guy. And his big move? He called the cops on me... All this talk about walls and ego... Look, if someone actually jumps you, call the police and leave it at that. Don't overthink the fights. Just get out there, enjoy life, and meet someone great. If some girl tries to egg you on to go fight someone, don't fall for it. Just tell her straight up that she's being immature, and walk away. Avoid girls who push you toward violence; they’re usually nothing but trouble. Best regards. Oh, and I forgot to mention: I used to be exactly like you, but you should never stop learning as long as you're alive!

I find myself dropping by less and less often. These days, I’m mostly lurking—reading more than I actually contribute. It’s actually quite helpful, though; you can find some solid advice from people navigating similar struggles. The main reason I'm spending less time here? I'm finally starting to feel better.

It’s an excellent tool, and everyone seems to be wielding one. On the flip side, someone with a truly strong backbone won't be intimidated by it. Ultimately, it all boils down to a simple reality: if you aren't willing to speak up for yourself, other people will gladly step in and do it for you—usually much louder and less gracefully...

Kenneth Barnes4 said:If you're wearing a choker just because it's "fashion"... stop.

I don't.

Kenneth Barnes4 said:It’s just frustrating. People can rarely draw an actual logical conclusion, and when they do, it just exposes how their own heads work. Exhausting.

Then again, sometimes categories actually exist. 😉 But it’s on us to find where we fit. We need to put in the work. If someone tries to pigeonhole you, prove them wrong. Simple as that.

MOSTLY, the whole thing is just draining. Personally, I'd take animals over people any day of the week.🤣

Being pigeonholed is an irritant for just about everyone, yet it’s exactly what necessitates a rebuttal. You simply demonstrate why the label doesn't stick. Take me, for instance. People frequently write me off as a devout religious type, and for the longest time, I couldn't quite pin down why they thought that. Eventually, it clicked: it was all because I spent a brief stint volunteering for a non-profit organization founded by people with close ties to a local cathedral...

analogviper9 said:As an outside observer, I have to ask: why does this fascinate you so much?
What is it about her situation that captures your curiosity so intensely?

I have to agree. Why do you care so deeply about how she chooses to live her life?

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The description seems fitting for someone with a bit of a melancholic streak. It’s not like anything is inherently broken or disturbed. Besides, I'm pretty sure the forum rules prohibit us from playing armchair psychologist and analyzing people's personalities.

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Look, girl, just let loose. Go out there and make some new friends—preferably guys. Grab a drink, head out on the town, and just enjoy yourself. There are zero strings attached, and trust me, you’re far too young to be stressing over things like this right now.

This is an excellent subject. I honestly think it’s perfectly normal for boys growing up in American society through elementary and high school to engage in some physical scrap—you know, those friendly little scuffles. It’s part of the process of breaking down that innate fear of confrontation as you mature. Conflict is an inescapable part of life; the only difference is that over the years, active aggression tends to evolve into something more passive. However, if you want to talk about true strength—the kind that actually allows you to navigate disagreements—it comes from standing your ground based on your own experiences, intelligence, and core values. You could also probably help yourself quite a bit by picking up a couple of books on effective communication.

Amy Ramos93 said:Ever since I was a kid, I’d decided my life would follow one path: either joining the military or, if that fell through, becoming a police officer. Those childhood dreams eventually turned into actual long-term ambitions.

Those two career paths were basically what kept me going through middle and high school. I was a top student—really threw myself into everything from coursework to extracurriculars—because I saw it all as just another step toward reaching those goals. I played sports, read tons of technical books and journals, and tried to build some discipline—waking up early, staying organized, being thorough, you know the drill.
Then, life happened. Toward the end of my junior year, I was diagnosed with Crohn's. I knew right away my plans were shot, so I immediately went to find out where I stood. The military labeled me "completely unfit," and the police department called me someone with "permanently limited capabilities."

Aside from being—and still being—mentally crushed by it, I just didn't know what to do next. What should I study? What am I supposed to do with my life? I decided against college altogether. A lot of friends, parents, and teachers tried to talk me out of that decision; they even sent me to psychologists and psychiatrists, though nothing really worked. I spent countless hours scrolling through the "become a student" site, hoping to stumble upon a major that actually fit. Eventually, I enrolled in a public administration program just to get everyone to stop breathing down my neck. Later, I realized it was an even worse choice than I thought. Just a useless degree, I guess.

I'm 22 now, taking a gap year and working shifts through the Student Union. I've been seeing a child and adolescent psychiatrist for about two years, but there's no real progress. My diagnosis is moderate to severe depression and an adjustment disorder, but I haven't heard any real solutions from him.

Any advice? Is there any career or field of study remotely similar to what I originally wanted?

Maybe it's worth mentioning that for a while now—and more actively lately—I've been thinking about suicide, just to finally end all this nonsense. I'm fed up. It's either win big or lose everything... and the second option feels more likely.

*please, if possible, no hateful, ironic, or sarcastic comments, no toxic remarks or anything like that

Just finish your degree; that's the most important thing. You might feel like it isn't right now, but it is.