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Hospital bill nightmare! in Health ·
Angela Wright, I am totally on your side here.
But honestly, does even trying to push back actually get you anything—I mean, how do you even prove they didn't just give it to you?
And besides, what's the move to prove I didn't actually get those painkillers and they just somehow vanished into thin air?
I tried filing a complaint about the bill (not that I paid it out of pocket, since it was all handled through my Medicare premiums), but it was a complete waste of time.
Hospital bill nightmare! in Health ·
That’s exactly what happened to me when I had my meniscus surgery.
My bill was stacked with so many painkillers I basically should have been high 24/7, not to mention they listed a bunch of diagnostic tests that didn't even happen in real life.
If you ask me, a bill like that comes down to two things: hospital staff pocketing meds on the side (which happens, though maybe less often) and the hospital itself just padding the numbers to squeeze more money out of Medicare.
If you're running a fever, you might want to actually go see a doctor instead of just sitting there.
Otherwise, you're basically just waiting to catch pneumonia.
I’m totally on the same page as bluehawk37 here.
Let's face it, as patients, we're absolute trash.
It's just a fact.
Jason Howard9 said:My point was specifically about private practice and providing better access to physicians (much like veterinarians), because financial incentives drive performance. I am arguing that if doctors in public service were incentivized the same way—for instance, receiving bonuses for high success rates or excellent patient communication—that extra cost would fall directly on the patient in this system of empty coffers. This translates to either higher taxes or increased insurance premiums.

What exactly did you think I meant? That a great doctor gets their full salary while an average one gets half? 🙂
Quality is built through addition, not subtraction.


No, I was talking about the doctor-patient relationship in both human and veterinary medicine. Plus, I made a little observation as to why human doctors are cranky 90% of the time while vets usually aren't.
Try actually reading what's written here.
If we incentivize good doctors, it doesn't drive up costs. Why? Because you're just shifting the money from the underperformers to the ones actually doing the work.
It’s exactly like any American corporation with a bonus structure. The total payroll stays the same; it’s just a matter of how you distribute it.
Jason Howard9 said:You’ll be paying for that different approach just like you do when you visit a private specialist. And if every doctor starts getting paid based on "incentives," believe me, that shift is going to be funded directly out of your own pocket.

Do you REALLY think I don't pay doctors through my Medicare premiums?
I mean, every single month, with every paycheck, regardless of whether I actually step foot in their office or not, right?
Is that really how you see it?
Because if that’s your logic, then who exactly do you think is footing the bill for those doctors?!
Jason Howard9 said:Oh, absolutely—it’s just like veterinarians. And then we, the patients, would be forced to become perfectly polite. We wouldn't dare pull a doctor aside or ask any tough questions; we'd just sit there smiling nicely, because if we happen to be difficult, we'll get snapped at.😁

Don't sweat it—as someone who owns a veterinary practice, I’m constantly asking questions and complaining myself. Honestly, it's the exact same way I act when I'm the one in the waiting room.

What I was actually getting at is that the whole dynamic with patients is just fundamentally different in the vet world because, well, it all comes down to the money.
Jacob Fox6 said:😁

You totally cracked me up 😁 because you reminded me of how cute my little guy's vet is...😍

It’s true though... they really are different... I haven't met tons of them, just a few students and some vets here and there, but they are such genuinely warm people...🙂

I honestly think there’s a reason for that.
I mean, seriously.
If a vet is rude, you just go somewhere else. And that first vet? They lose all the money you would've spent there.
One client leaves, then another, then a third, and pretty soon that vet can't even pay the bills.
The whole practice goes under.
With doctors, regardless of how they act (and whether patients jump ship or not), the paycheck stays steady. A decent paycheck (for what we make here). They work less and pull in the same amount.

Until doctors aren't paid based on their patient volume and actual results, things aren't going to change.
Hand pain in Health ·
Arthritis, gout... what a joke.
Might as well go see a doctor...
Jacob Fox6 said:Totally agree.

And you just gave the perfect example of exactly what I've been saying... All these people—your grandma, current retirees, folks out of work—they've all been paying into the system, so where is that money now when they need the healthcare they earned??? That’s my whole point: if that money wasn't being stolen, there would be plenty for everyone, but instead, it turns out the very people who spent their entire lives paying for healthcare are left to fend for themselves while others are out driving luxury cars with their cash...

The thing is, their money was used for healthcare for whoever needed it at the time. Just like how my own money is being used right now for someone else's needs—like, say, kidney dialysis.
Btw, do you even realize how much a single year of dialysis costs?
We can't just paint everything with the same brush—sure, there's wasteful spending and probably some theft involved (especially back in the nineties), but it's not like the whole system is a total disaster...
I’m leaning toward magnesium deficiency being the real culprit here.
Since it’s my calf muscles acting up rather than the actual bone—if it were bone pain, it wouldn't just vanish in a couple of days—it's clearly not stress syndrome, which drags on for months and takes forever to heal.
When you're low on magnesium, it doesn't have to be every single muscle that flares up; the chain always breaks at its weakest link, so the most vulnerable muscle is usually the first one to scream.
Obviously, it's probably not just one thing, and there's definitely some truth to what coppergardener is saying about the importance of solid stretching before and after a run.
Plus, you really need to scale up your pace gradually as your body warms up. I see this all the time with weekend warriors who sprint out of the gate only to burn out almost immediately... does anyone else deal with that?
As for getting foot scans, unfortunately, you can't find those kinds of services at your local Dick's Sporting Goods.
Your best bet is hitting up an orthopedic specialist shop where they can make custom inserts tailored specifically to your feet. But, of course, you should probably see an orthopedist first to figure out if you actually need inserts or if something else is going on.
Honestly, from my own experience, most orthopedists don't know the first thing about sports injuries, let alone find someone specializing in podiatry... and since everything starts and ends with your feet, that's a pretty big gap.
Jacob Fox6 said:Honestly, I’ve been saying this whole time—the healthcare system is broken.👍

I think there might be a little misunderstanding here. 🙂

I totally agree with you. I was just trying to distance myself from all the political stuff... personally, I don't care if we're talking communism or capitalism, the reality for me is that things just aren't working right now. From my perspective, all I want is to be able to see a doctor when I need to without having a nervous breakdown or emptying my bank account. Since everyone is so fed up with our healthcare, I'm definitely leaning towards being angry and calling people out.

That comment from Milinovic about cutting supplemental insurance for people on unemployment is just insane to me. If someone is unemployed, should they immediately be cast aside and treated like trash? His excuse was, "as a husband, I make enough to pay for my wife's supplemental insurance"... man, that statement still makes my blood boil...

I don't even know where to start arguing with that... I won't even try because my blood pressure would probably hit 190 thanks to my social conscience (unfortunately).

The guy is just an idiot... only a complete fool could say something like that. And that brings me back to my point—we’re stopping being a socially conscious nation. When I say "social" (looks like we had a misunderstanding there😉), I don't mean political leanings, I mean a specific discipline within medicine that exists on paper even though its actual practice is super questionable. When a pillar of capitalism—the US—works specifically to change the status quo from non-social medicine, I have to ask: "Who does Milinovic think he is to have an opinion on this?"

It sounds super pessimistic, I know, but honestly, it feels like these politicians today—regardless of which party they belong to—just don't have the power to change a single thing anymore... It’s not even just about the healthcare system at this point, it’s about basic survival, like how since September the government hasn't even had the funds to cover pensions because they emptied out the pension funds (thank God🙄) in a way that wouldn't fly in any civilized nation. In Germany, I know for a fact that anyone can choose at any time whether they want their entire life savings to go into a pension fund, yet our seniors are sitting there wondering if they'll even see a dime despite working hard and paying their taxes their whole lives...

The US has been completely robbed. And then you have them in Congress messing around with laws to statute-limit those infamous old corporate takeovers... It's pure idiocy and a blatant attempt (which, sadly, looks like it might actually work) to make sure the "important people" never have to answer to the law. Which leads me straight into the next mess, which is that the ruling party or coalition basically gets to hand-pick the constitutional judges—the political interference in the Constitution and our democracy is as obvious as day, and it's definitely not how things work in most other countries in the European Union. One massive problem just keeps dragging another one behind it... Without a totally independent judiciary, you just can't have a true nation governed by law in America, and that's just a fact.

So, back to the healthcare stuff. We're dealing with an overleveraged State, a State where the Secretary of the Treasury is practically rubbing his hands together while we pile on more debt through bonds in America, a State without a real industrial base, and without that, there's no money flowing into the treasury because while he was busy pushing "small business growth," they were suspiciously selling off or gutting major factories... basically, the State has zero income coming in, so the only solution our politicians see is taking on even more debt just to "patch the holes" temporarily. And then you throw healthcare into this mix, which is this massive machine involving private insurance, public coverage, a mountain of employees (and nobody can even fire doctors because there's already such a shortage), and huge pharmaceutical companies... and now... who is actually listening to what the people need regarding healthcare when we can barely afford basic survival and pensions? Personally, I don't think things are going to move in a positive direction anytime soon (sadly...) because health versus the healthcare system is what defines the well-being of any nation...

Sometimes I really wonder why I even bother stressing over this stuff when nothing ever seems to get better, and honestly, it feels worse than ever. But unfortunately for me, since I'm actually a medical student and I have a pretty clear picture of what my future career is going to look like, I can't just look the other way when it comes to social issues. I still believe in humanity, but I really wish it wasn't just expressed through the kindness of individual doctors (again—sadly—just individuals) but through the entire system itself... though I guess that's just my little utopia...

I agree with everything said here—to a T.
These politicians are going to finish off the little bit of good we had left.
ruggedscout91 said:And who exactly is supposed to document that you couldn't get an appointment in the public system within thirty days when you need surgery in ten?
Furthermore, who is going to tell dentists to stop bleeding people dry just because they have supplemental insurance?
The same applies to gynecologists, where you see on this forum that the exact same services are charged differently based on $67 price fluctuations and whether or not there’s a receipt.
Where is the oversight in the healthcare system?
There isn't any.
And there isn't any because the system is designed to let patients bleed money constantly for several reasons: paying healthcare taxes, paying for supplemental insurance, regularly buying almost all medications—even those covered by insurance—because sometimes it's cheaper to just buy them at a local pharmacy than to drive to a doctor, pay for gas, and wait for hours. Then there's paying for EVERY SINGLE BREAST ULTRASOUND because I haven't met a single woman who could actually get that exam done using a standard referral. Or paying for every ultrasound related to gynecological issues (prices are roughly similar). Or paying for CT scans (I don't recall anyone being able to get a CT scan regularly because they say the machines at the Split General Hospital are reserved for inpatient use two months in advance). Instead, they just refer you straight to a private clinic without mentioning any benefits.
Because heaven forbid you are sick; you are punished by God and find yourself in this situation:

- They denied me 20% of my paycheck for both months (sick leave due to extensive surgery caused exclusively by the error of my private-social gynecologist back in MA,
- I paid for a private CT scan (which they begrudgingly acknowledged $27 during tax returns), even though I am the sole provider for my family.
- I regularly paid for travel to and from MA, and the State finally recognized those costs,
- Along with several other minor expenses,

A sick person in America who isn't wealthy has zero motivation to seek treatment in a system that looks social on the surface but isn't.
I would rather express my preference for something else, such as:

- That instead of monthly healthcare taxes, the money stays in my savings account. I could have easily saved $0.00 just for this surgery, since I don't use the public system except for preventative checkups, which I pay for privately. The same goes for the dentist.
- That I'm not asked for supplemental insurance premiums for the reasons mentioned above.
- Considering I rarely even use necessary medications (sometimes I just buy Vitamin C), which supports my point.

If they fear certain illnesses so much that we are forced to act proactively by paying into a healthcare system for services that haven't been provided in 15 years—and even when they are provided, they are paid to a private practitioner—then they should realize that people want to know what they are paying for.

So, 15 years of paying $4000 = $0.00
(at the very least). So, 15 years of $400 = $6000 (supplemental insurance)
So, 15 years of 10 x breast ultrasounds = 10 x 250 = $833
So, 15 years of 13 x pelvic ultrasounds = 13 x 250 = $1083.
So, 15 years of dental work: scaling $200.00, 3 fillings x $50 = $50.
Hormone therapy with red clover phytoestrogens, 7 months x $35 = $245.
CT scan of the lower pelvis (without contrast) = $267.

In short, a perfectly healthy person who ended up needing major surgery due to her gynecologist's mistake—to whom she had consistently paid for ultrasounds and visits—has left this healthcare system with over > in 15 years, despite having no medical interventions other than two fillings and one dental cleaning.

205 $0.00.

What happens then to the sick? Or to those patients whom a Doctor actually demands cash from just to perform a surgery—an occurrence that is far too common nowadays?

It all points to one thing: poor organization and an overpriced healthcare system.
I could have kept that money in my own account, using it whenever necessary and choosing my own care based on my family's specific genetics and medical needs. Had I saved what I could over the years, I would be sitting here with $136667. I could have navigated all the misery and stress I endured whenever I had to rely on the healthcare system without a single worry.

When you book an appointment, just ask for confirmation of the date they scheduled your screening.

ruggedscout91 said:And who exactly is supposed to document that you couldn't get an appointment in the public system within thirty days when you need surgery in ten?
Furthermore, who is going to tell dentists to stop bleeding people dry just because they have supplemental insurance?
The same applies to gynecologists, where you see on this forum that the exact same services are charged differently based on $67 price fluctuations and whether or not there’s a receipt.
Where is the oversight in the healthcare system?
There isn't any.
And there isn't any because the system is designed to let patients bleed money constantly for several reasons: paying healthcare taxes, paying for supplemental insurance, regularly buying almost all medications—even those covered by insurance—because sometimes it's cheaper to just buy them at a local pharmacy than to drive to a doctor, pay for gas, and wait for hours. Then there's paying for EVERY SINGLE BREAST ULTRASOUND because I haven't met a single woman who could actually get that exam done using a standard referral. Or paying for every ultrasound related to gynecological issues (prices are roughly similar). Or paying for CT scans (I don't recall anyone being able to get a CT scan regularly because they say the machines at the Split General Hospital are reserved for inpatient use two months in advance). Instead, they just refer you straight to a private clinic without mentioning any benefits.
Because heaven forbid you are sick; you are punished by God and find yourself in this situation:

- They denied me 20% of my paycheck for both months (sick leave due to extensive surgery caused exclusively by the error of my private-social gynecologist back in MA,
- I paid for a private CT scan (which they begrudgingly acknowledged $27 during tax returns), even though I am the sole provider for my family.
- I regularly paid for travel to and from MA, and the State finally recognized those costs,
- Along with several other minor expenses,

A sick person in America who isn't wealthy has zero motivation to seek treatment in a system that looks social on the surface but isn't.
I would rather express my preference for something else, such as:

- That instead of monthly healthcare taxes, the money stays in my savings account. I could have easily saved $0.00 just for this surgery, since I don't use the public system except for preventative checkups, which I pay for privately. The same goes for the dentist.
- That I'm not asked for supplemental insurance premiums for the reasons mentioned above.
- Considering I rarely even use necessary medications (sometimes I just buy Vitamin C), which supports my point.

If they fear certain illnesses so much that we are forced to act proactively by paying into a healthcare system for services that haven't been provided in 15 years—and even when they are provided, they are paid to a private practitioner—then they should realize that people want to know what they are paying for.

So, 15 years of paying $4000 = $0.00
(at the very least). So, 15 years of $400 = $6000 (supplemental insurance)
So, 15 years of 10 x breast ultrasounds = 10 x 250 = $833
So, 15 years of 13 x pelvic ultrasounds = 13 x 250 = $1083.
So, 15 years of dental work: scaling $200.00, 3 fillings x $50 = $50.
Hormone therapy with red clover phytoestrogens, 7 months x $35 = $245.
CT scan of the lower pelvis (without contrast) = $267.

In short, a perfectly healthy person who ended up needing major surgery due to her gynecologist's mistake—to whom she had consistently paid for ultrasounds and visits—has left this healthcare system with over > in 15 years, despite having no medical interventions other than two fillings and one dental cleaning.

205 $0.00.

What happens then to the sick? Or to those patients whom a Doctor actually demands cash from just to perform a surgery—an occurrence that is far too common nowadays?

It all points to one thing: poor organization and an overpriced healthcare system.
I could have kept that money in my own account, using it whenever necessary and choosing my own care based on my family's specific genetics and medical needs. Had I saved what I could over the years, I would be sitting here with $136667. I could have navigated all the misery and stress I endured whenever I had to rely on the healthcare system without a single worry.

For all those situations, there's a Medicare inspection team that is REQUIRED to investigate upon report and punish the chosen doctor if necessary. You can even file a complaint online.
And you know why this keeps happening?
Because people take the path of least resistance. Because they're scared to report a doctor and their misconduct.
Because people don't ask for receipts for services rendered (if they don't give me a receipt, I'm not paying the tax).
Because people just don't know their rights as patients.
Because... there are endless possible reasons.
The bottom line is that nobody is going to look out for our rights unless we do it ourselves.

ruggedscout91 said:And who exactly is supposed to document that you couldn't get an appointment in the public system within thirty days when you need surgery in ten?
Furthermore, who is going to tell dentists to stop bleeding people dry just because they have supplemental insurance?
The same applies to gynecologists, where you see on this forum that the exact same services are charged differently based on $67 price fluctuations and whether or not there’s a receipt.
Where is the oversight in the healthcare system?
There isn't any.
And there isn't any because the system is designed to let patients bleed money constantly for several reasons: paying healthcare taxes, paying for supplemental insurance, regularly buying almost all medications—even those covered by insurance—because sometimes it's cheaper to just buy them at a local pharmacy than to drive to a doctor, pay for gas, and wait for hours. Then there's paying for EVERY SINGLE BREAST ULTRASOUND because I haven't met a single woman who could actually get that exam done using a standard referral. Or paying for every ultrasound related to gynecological issues (prices are roughly similar). Or paying for CT scans (I don't recall anyone being able to get a CT scan regularly because they say the machines at the Split General Hospital are reserved for inpatient use two months in advance). Instead, they just refer you straight to a private clinic without mentioning any benefits.
Because heaven forbid you are sick; you are punished by God and find yourself in this situation:

- They denied me 20% of my paycheck for both months (sick leave due to extensive surgery caused exclusively by the error of my private-social gynecologist back in MA,
- I paid for a private CT scan (which they begrudgingly acknowledged $27 during tax returns), even though I am the sole provider for my family.
- I regularly paid for travel to and from MA, and the State finally recognized those costs,
- Along with several other minor expenses,

A sick person in America who isn't wealthy has zero motivation to seek treatment in a system that looks social on the surface but isn't.
I would rather express my preference for something else, such as:

- That instead of monthly healthcare taxes, the money stays in my savings account. I could have easily saved $0.00 just for this surgery, since I don't use the public system except for preventative checkups, which I pay for privately. The same goes for the dentist.
- That I'm not asked for supplemental insurance premiums for the reasons mentioned above.
- Considering I rarely even use necessary medications (sometimes I just buy Vitamin C), which supports my point.

If they fear certain illnesses so much that we are forced to act proactively by paying into a healthcare system for services that haven't been provided in 15 years—and even when they are provided, they are paid to a private practitioner—then they should realize that people want to know what they are paying for.

So, 15 years of paying $4000 = $0.00
(at the very least). So, 15 years of $400 = $6000 (supplemental insurance)
So, 15 years of 10 x breast ultrasounds = 10 x 250 = $833
So, 15 years of 13 x pelvic ultrasounds = 13 x 250 = $1083.
So, 15 years of dental work: scaling $200.00, 3 fillings x $50 = $50.
Hormone therapy with red clover phytoestrogens, 7 months x $35 = $245.
CT scan of the lower pelvis (without contrast) = $267.

In short, a perfectly healthy person who ended up needing major surgery due to her gynecologist's mistake—to whom she had consistently paid for ultrasounds and visits—has left this healthcare system with over > in 15 years, despite having no medical interventions other than two fillings and one dental cleaning.

205 $0.00.

What happens then to the sick? Or to those patients whom a Doctor actually demands cash from just to perform a surgery—an occurrence that is far too common nowadays?

It all points to one thing: poor organization and an overpriced healthcare system.
I could have kept that money in my own account, using it whenever necessary and choosing my own care based on my family's specific genetics and medical needs. Had I saved what I could over the years, I would be sitting here with $136667. I could have navigated all the misery and stress I endured whenever I had to rely on the healthcare system without a single worry.

Look, I know someone. My wife has had several ultrasounds... Of course, she didn't pay a dime—aside from the co-pay (since she doesn't have supplemental insurance).
She also has a gynecologist (private, but works through the state system) where you can get an appointment the next day if it's urgent, and the ultrasound is covered $6.75. Besides, that guy delivered her second baby.
But honestly, maybe all this is just a result of where you live (not trying to be rude). In a place like Varazdin, the kind of situations you're listing are actually pretty rare.

ruggedscout91 said:And who exactly is supposed to document that you couldn't get an appointment in the public system within thirty days when you need surgery in ten?
Furthermore, who is going to tell dentists to stop bleeding people dry just because they have supplemental insurance?
The same applies to gynecologists, where you see on this forum that the exact same services are charged differently based on $67 price fluctuations and whether or not there’s a receipt.
Where is the oversight in the healthcare system?
There isn't any.
And there isn't any because the system is designed to let patients bleed money constantly for several reasons: paying healthcare taxes, paying for supplemental insurance, regularly buying almost all medications—even those covered by insurance—because sometimes it's cheaper to just buy them at a local pharmacy than to drive to a doctor, pay for gas, and wait for hours. Then there's paying for EVERY SINGLE BREAST ULTRASOUND because I haven't met a single woman who could actually get that exam done using a standard referral. Or paying for every ultrasound related to gynecological issues (prices are roughly similar). Or paying for CT scans (I don't recall anyone being able to get a CT scan regularly because they say the machines at the Split General Hospital are reserved for inpatient use two months in advance). Instead, they just refer you straight to a private clinic without mentioning any benefits.
Because heaven forbid you are sick; you are punished by God and find yourself in this situation:

- They denied me 20% of my paycheck for both months (sick leave due to extensive surgery caused exclusively by the error of my private-social gynecologist back in MA,
- I paid for a private CT scan (which they begrudgingly acknowledged $27 during tax returns), even though I am the sole provider for my family.
- I regularly paid for travel to and from MA, and the State finally recognized those costs,
- Along with several other minor expenses,

A sick person in America who isn't wealthy has zero motivation to seek treatment in a system that looks social on the surface but isn't.
I would rather express my preference for something else, such as:

- That instead of monthly healthcare taxes, the money stays in my savings account. I could have easily saved $0.00 just for this surgery, since I don't use the public system except for preventative checkups, which I pay for privately. The same goes for the dentist.
- That I'm not asked for supplemental insurance premiums for the reasons mentioned above.
- Considering I rarely even use necessary medications (sometimes I just buy Vitamin C), which supports my point.

If they fear certain illnesses so much that we are forced to act proactively by paying into a healthcare system for services that haven't been provided in 15 years—and even when they are provided, they are paid to a private practitioner—then they should realize that people want to know what they are paying for.

So, 15 years of paying $4000 = $0.00
(at the very least). So, 15 years of $400 = $6000 (supplemental insurance)
So, 15 years of 10 x breast ultrasounds = 10 x 250 = $833
So, 15 years of 13 x pelvic ultrasounds = 13 x 250 = $1083.
So, 15 years of dental work: scaling $200.00, 3 fillings x $50 = $50.
Hormone therapy with red clover phytoestrogens, 7 months x $35 = $245.
CT scan of the lower pelvis (without contrast) = $267.

In short, a perfectly healthy person who ended up needing major surgery due to her gynecologist's mistake—to whom she had consistently paid for ultrasounds and visits—has left this healthcare system with over > in 15 years, despite having no medical interventions other than two fillings and one dental cleaning.

205 $0.00.

What happens then to the sick? Or to those patients whom a Doctor actually demands cash from just to perform a surgery—an occurrence that is far too common nowadays?

It all points to one thing: poor organization and an overpriced healthcare system.
I could have kept that money in my own account, using it whenever necessary and choosing my own care based on my family's specific genetics and medical needs. Had I saved what I could over the years, I would be sitting here with $136667. I could have navigated all the misery and stress I endured whenever I had to rely on the healthcare system without a single worry.

That’s just not how it works. How would people deal with chronic, lifelong illnesses then?
Take kidney dialysis, for example—that costs $50000 a year, right?
What happens once you burn through those $66667 sitting in your account?
The healthcare system has to be built on solidarity, and that requires the way contributions are collected.

ruggedscout91 said:And who exactly is supposed to document that you couldn't get an appointment in the public system within thirty days when you need surgery in ten?
Furthermore, who is going to tell dentists to stop bleeding people dry just because they have supplemental insurance?
The same applies to gynecologists, where you see on this forum that the exact same services are charged differently based on $67 price fluctuations and whether or not there’s a receipt.
Where is the oversight in the healthcare system?
There isn't any.
And there isn't any because the system is designed to let patients bleed money constantly for several reasons: paying healthcare taxes, paying for supplemental insurance, regularly buying almost all medications—even those covered by insurance—because sometimes it's cheaper to just buy them at a local pharmacy than to drive to a doctor, pay for gas, and wait for hours. Then there's paying for EVERY SINGLE BREAST ULTRASOUND because I haven't met a single woman who could actually get that exam done using a standard referral. Or paying for every ultrasound related to gynecological issues (prices are roughly similar). Or paying for CT scans (I don't recall anyone being able to get a CT scan regularly because they say the machines at the Split General Hospital are reserved for inpatient use two months in advance). Instead, they just refer you straight to a private clinic without mentioning any benefits.
Because heaven forbid you are sick; you are punished by God and find yourself in this situation:

- They denied me 20% of my paycheck for both months (sick leave due to extensive surgery caused exclusively by the error of my private-social gynecologist back in MA,
- I paid for a private CT scan (which they begrudgingly acknowledged $27 during tax returns), even though I am the sole provider for my family.
- I regularly paid for travel to and from MA, and the State finally recognized those costs,
- Along with several other minor expenses,

A sick person in America who isn't wealthy has zero motivation to seek treatment in a system that looks social on the surface but isn't.
I would rather express my preference for something else, such as:

- That instead of monthly healthcare taxes, the money stays in my savings account. I could have easily saved $0.00 just for this surgery, since I don't use the public system except for preventative checkups, which I pay for privately. The same goes for the dentist.
- That I'm not asked for supplemental insurance premiums for the reasons mentioned above.
- Considering I rarely even use necessary medications (sometimes I just buy Vitamin C), which supports my point.

If they fear certain illnesses so much that we are forced to act proactively by paying into a healthcare system for services that haven't been provided in 15 years—and even when they are provided, they are paid to a private practitioner—then they should realize that people want to know what they are paying for.

So, 15 years of paying $4000 = $0.00
(at the very least). So, 15 years of $400 = $6000 (supplemental insurance)
So, 15 years of 10 x breast ultrasounds = 10 x 250 = $833
So, 15 years of 13 x pelvic ultrasounds = 13 x 250 = $1083.
So, 15 years of dental work: scaling $200.00, 3 fillings x $50 = $50.
Hormone therapy with red clover phytoestrogens, 7 months x $35 = $245.
CT scan of the lower pelvis (without contrast) = $267.

In short, a perfectly healthy person who ended up needing major surgery due to her gynecologist's mistake—to whom she had consistently paid for ultrasounds and visits—has left this healthcare system with over > in 15 years, despite having no medical interventions other than two fillings and one dental cleaning.

205 $0.00.

What happens then to the sick? Or to those patients whom a Doctor actually demands cash from just to perform a surgery—an occurrence that is far too common nowadays?

It all points to one thing: poor organization and an overpriced healthcare system.
I could have kept that money in my own account, using it whenever necessary and choosing my own care based on my family's specific genetics and medical needs. Had I saved what I could over the years, I would be sitting here with $136667. I could have navigated all the misery and stress I endured whenever I had to rely on the healthcare system without a single worry.

Why not just opt out of the supplemental coverage?
For the exact reasons I mentioned before...

ruggedscout91 said:And who exactly is supposed to document that you couldn't get an appointment in the public system within thirty days when you need surgery in ten?
Furthermore, who is going to tell dentists to stop bleeding people dry just because they have supplemental insurance?
The same applies to gynecologists, where you see on this forum that the exact same services are charged differently based on $67 price fluctuations and whether or not there’s a receipt.
Where is the oversight in the healthcare system?
There isn't any.
And there isn't any because the system is designed to let patients bleed money constantly for several reasons: paying healthcare taxes, paying for supplemental insurance, regularly buying almost all medications—even those covered by insurance—because sometimes it's cheaper to just buy them at a local pharmacy than to drive to a doctor, pay for gas, and wait for hours. Then there's paying for EVERY SINGLE BREAST ULTRASOUND because I haven't met a single woman who could actually get that exam done using a standard referral. Or paying for every ultrasound related to gynecological issues (prices are roughly similar). Or paying for CT scans (I don't recall anyone being able to get a CT scan regularly because they say the machines at the Split General Hospital are reserved for inpatient use two months in advance). Instead, they just refer you straight to a private clinic without mentioning any benefits.
Because heaven forbid you are sick; you are punished by God and find yourself in this situation:

- They denied me 20% of my paycheck for both months (sick leave due to extensive surgery caused exclusively by the error of my private-social gynecologist back in MA,
- I paid for a private CT scan (which they begrudgingly acknowledged $27 during tax returns), even though I am the sole provider for my family.
- I regularly paid for travel to and from MA, and the State finally recognized those costs,
- Along with several other minor expenses,

A sick person in America who isn't wealthy has zero motivation to seek treatment in a system that looks social on the surface but isn't.
I would rather express my preference for something else, such as:

- That instead of monthly healthcare taxes, the money stays in my savings account. I could have easily saved $0.00 just for this surgery, since I don't use the public system except for preventative checkups, which I pay for privately. The same goes for the dentist.
- That I'm not asked for supplemental insurance premiums for the reasons mentioned above.
- Considering I rarely even use necessary medications (sometimes I just buy Vitamin C), which supports my point.

If they fear certain illnesses so much that we are forced to act proactively by paying into a healthcare system for services that haven't been provided in 15 years—and even when they are provided, they are paid to a private practitioner—then they should realize that people want to know what they are paying for.

So, 15 years of paying $4000 = $0.00
(at the very least). So, 15 years of $400 = $6000 (supplemental insurance)
So, 15 years of 10 x breast ultrasounds = 10 x 250 = $833
So, 15 years of 13 x pelvic ultrasounds = 13 x 250 = $1083.
So, 15 years of dental work: scaling $200.00, 3 fillings x $50 = $50.
Hormone therapy with red clover phytoestrogens, 7 months x $35 = $245.
CT scan of the lower pelvis (without contrast) = $267.

In short, a perfectly healthy person who ended up needing major surgery due to her gynecologist's mistake—to whom she had consistently paid for ultrasounds and visits—has left this healthcare system with over > in 15 years, despite having no medical interventions other than two fillings and one dental cleaning.

205 $0.00.

What happens then to the sick? Or to those patients whom a Doctor actually demands cash from just to perform a surgery—an occurrence that is far too common nowadays?

It all points to one thing: poor organization and an overpriced healthcare system.
I could have kept that money in my own account, using it whenever necessary and choosing my own care based on my family's specific genetics and medical needs. Had I saved what I could over the years, I would be sitting here with $136667. I could have navigated all the misery and stress I endured whenever I had to rely on the healthcare system without a single worry.

It’s definitely not perfect—it’s clearly poorly organized and expensive.
Obviously, we need better streamlining and tighter oversight.
I totally get why you're frustrated, but as patients, we kind of have to change our own behavior to force improvements. How many times have we been the ones handing "tips" or bribes to doctors and nurses?
We basically trained them to act that way, thinking they might treat us better if we grease their palms...
Jason Nelson64 said:That exam was back in 2007. That option didn't even exist yet... unfortunately.


Bummer...
Three words for you:

magnesium, magnesium, and more magnesium.
Hey Jason Nelson64, just so you know, Medicare actually reimburses you if you had to pay out of pocket for a screening because the US healthcare system couldn't get you in within a month...
Paul Long6 said:ruggedscout91, everything you just said is the absolute TRUTH.

I can't say I agree with everything being said here.
I see my dentist regularly, twice a year—and yeah, naturally, it's all covered by my insurance.
They clean off the tartar once a year.
The occasional filling here and there.
I haven't had to shell out a single cent (I have supplemental coverage through my provider, though I haven't bothered showing the card).
So, how is it that she’s stuck footing the bill for dental work while I get it for free?!
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wearyotter81 said:Magnesium, magnesium, magnesium. 🧐

Can't argue with that.
Yeah, because it’s totally the cyclist's fault when some idiot leaves their car parked right in the bike lane and then swings the door wide open without even looking, sending you flying over the roof like some kind of stuntman...
Of course, you won't see a single cop around to deal with it either...
Jerry Lee32 said:I think you're missing the point... the "extreme" isn't your hospital visit; it's the case of a drunk guy where doctors simply can't be polite. If someone shows up intoxicated or aggressive, the doctor might have to match that energy just to manage them... hopefully, you see what I mean. As for the whole kindness thing, I won't even comment—that's subjective. But in life, that attitude often comes at a cost. A kind word doesn't always open doors, at least not here in the States.

Alright, I hear you.
But personally? I'm still sticking with being kind...