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Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
Not to sound like I'm repeating myself, but check this out:

the whole story is laid out right there.
Anyway, she's doing fine now.
She was a straight-A student, practically an angel in class.
Goes out every once in a while, doesn't touch booze or cigarettes.

I mean, clearly it was just one unlucky phase in her life, wasn't it?
Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
Every parent really needs to get a clear, objective handle on what their kid is actually capable of.
Then you just have to push them to hit that ceiling.
And don't you dare cave when they start throwing those "I don't feel like it" or "I won't do it" tantrums.

Because one day, once they’re grown, they’re going to realize they never actually reached their full potential—and they’ll look at their parents as part of the reason why, whether it was because we were too lazy to push or just took the path of least resistance.

And trust me, they will hold it against you.
Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
It’s good to see I'm not the only one here who actually gives a damn about being an honest, responsible parent.

So, silverpuma542, Raymond Cruz3, and Harold Flores4—bravo.

If you actually treat your kids this way, you might actually end up raising someone smart, serious, and capable for once, right?
Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
rapidmaker10 said:Quincy:

dustymarlin10 says:

Well, don't act surprised when you can't get those kids under control...

I think you're being a bit harsh on the rest of us...
If your kid turned out fine, great. But not every child is the same. You can't pin everything on parents. Take us, for example—we both gave it our all, but things didn't exactly go according to plan...

I wouldn't say I'm being harsh.
There are just certain lines you don't cross when it comes to kids, right?
Like, skipping school without a damn good reason is one of them.
Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
Scott Howard74 said:If everything else is fine, just excuse the absences for now and try to actually sit down and talk to him.🙂


GIVE THEM A PASS?


How exactly?

And why on earth would I?

Without actually knowing where they were or what they were even doing?

Honestly, don't act surprised when you can't get your kids under control...

My absolute worst memories come from those PTA meetings where parents would just blindly excuse absences without having any clue where their kids actually were or when they skipped. Like, someone would justify missing third period by saying, "Oh, he probably just overslept"...

And then you've got the teacher just standing there with that condescending little smirk on their face...

But hey, at the end of the day, the grades and the behavior usually told you everything you needed to know about both the kids and the parents anyway...
Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
Scott Howard74 said:nah, don't be like that. as long as they're still under your roof, there's hope. if you just throw in the towel, then you really failed as a parent. you can still help them out.


I don't know, feels like the ship might have already sailed on this one.
She's way too set in her ways at this point.

Maybe she'll eventually come back to her senses, but when it comes to things like finishing school or getting her life on track, I'm worried she's already missed the boat.
Dealing with the teenage years is a nightmare in Students & Teens ·
Gregory Wells6 said:Nia got in through her connections. She was a straight-A student back in elementary school—honestly, a 4.0 GPA kind of kid—so getting into her current school was a breeze. But that’s actually where the trouble starts: she just doesn't care about anything anymore. It used to be so different! She was always sketching, attending art workshops, playing tennis, and taking language classes—her English is basically perfect, by the way. Then puberty hit, and suddenly, everything that once sparked her interest just vanished. Now? Her entire world revolves around hanging out at local coffee shops, a cigarette dangling from her lip, a beer in one hand, and some guy in the other. She won't read, she won't engage in hobbies, she's even stopped watching TV. She just retreats to her room to stare at the wall listening to loud, mindless pop music or stays glued to her phone—and even then, I usually have to practically force her to stay indoors. She’d much rather be out on the streets 24/7.
On top of all that, she’s latched onto this "golden boy" who is six years older than her. He’s unemployed, has zero education, a criminal record for theft, and honestly, he has even less common sense than she does right now. Every single second she isn't in class, she’s with him. And if I dare ask her to help out with something around the house? She loses it—starts acting crazy and accuses me of being jealous.
I feel like I've tried everything. I've driven her everywhere, opened every door possible, and offered endless opportunities just to see if something might finally click and reignite her passion. But she refuses to talk to me about her future, and heaven forbid I even mention school—she just shuts down and tunes me out completely.
What would you do if you were dealing with a child like this?

Honestly, I’m worried it might be too late at this point.
You really have to shut that stuff down the second it starts showing up.

My daughter is basically living proof that if you handle things early, everything turns out just fine.
stormyheron4 said:look, speaking as a dentist, I know exactly how dangerous this thing is. I wouldn't even think about dating someone with Hepatitis C because HC is incredibly contagious—way more than HIV—and the fallout from catching it is no joke.


I'm with you on that one.

I’m no doctor, but I am aware that Hepatitis C is a seriously nasty, highly infectious, and incurable disease.
slyseal28 said:I have to admit, the guests were surprisingly chill in the studio. I'm just bummed I didn't get a chance to bring up the issue with all those drugs that aren't covered on the formulary.

It felt like the host was being a little too soft, don't you think?

At least we showed the Department of Health that we've got some teeth. Hopefully they realized we aren't just going to sit back and let them treat us like idiots.


Nice work.
I caught the segment, and honestly, the Undersecretary's attitude was a joke. It’s unbelievable—it's like those people are living on Mars instead of in America!

Anyway, keep fighting the good fight, you guys are definitely on the right track.👍
Smith Sr. - 2.75 BAC in Close to Politics ·
lonecrane42 said:We need to start hitting people with fines based on what they actually make, like they do in Finland. Their top athlete got slapped with a 19 miles speeding ticket in the
$250,000...

It’s a lost cause here.
All our elite athletes are basically living paycheck to paycheck, though honestly, that applies to pretty much everyone. I really wonder what kind of income someone like John Doe actually reports.
Like, do they even pay taxes in Monaco? Or maybe somewhere like Papua New Guinea?
Smith Sr. - 2.75 BAC in Close to Politics ·
Like father, like son...

And honestly, it’s got everything to do with politics.
Do you really think they’d act this way if they didn't have such massive political backing behind them?
What's the best mall? in Miscellaneous ·
You’ve gotta be kidding me.

Seriously, what does any of this have to do with people who actually care about the environment—isn't that literally what the subheadline says?

Any mods out there?..........
How would you choose to go? in Health ·
ruggedpanther64 said:I hadn't really given it much thought, but yeah, definitely quick and painless

Same here.
Commuting to work by bike in Cycling ·
quietpilot87 said:Give me a break, the guy just wanted some advice, not a detailed itinerary of how long your daily bike commutes take 😁
I'm looking at you two specifically, Frankie 🙂

And you're acting like you weren't bragging too?
Commuting to work by bike in Cycling ·
I’ve been biking to the office for, what, 20 years now?
Rain or shine, summer or winter.
I don't even break a sweat since I don't ride like a maniac—so really, what's the big deal?
I might have some extra context to add here.
So, my wife’s aunt just got home after spending three weeks in rehab following open-heart surgery.
Honestly, she couldn't be happier with how they treated her and the way the staff handled everything.
The facility was spotless, kept in great shape, and even the food wasn't half bad.
She had her therapy sessions scheduled in the mornings, which left her afternoons totally free.
Lateral meniscus tear in Health ·
Lawrence Lee said:So, about a month ago, I took a nasty spill playing soccer and ended up with a torn lateral meniscus. The docs told me surgery is basically the only way to fix it, though they said it’s not exactly an emergency.
I'm trying to figure out which surgeons in the States are actually worth seeing—anyone have specific recommendations? Also, what’s the deal with recovery? How long am I looking at, and can I actually expect to get back to 100%?
Hoping someone here has been through this and can weigh in. Thanks in advance!

First off, every meniscus tear is its own special brand of chaos, so trying to compare one case to another is pretty much useless, isn't it? Plus, everyone’s body reacts and heals in its own unique way.

I'll give you the rundown of what happened with me.

I tore my lateral meniscus five years ago after a bad landing—basically just landed wrong during a jump.
The surgery was arthroscopic (just two little 2cm incisions to slide the tools in), and the whole thing wrapped up in about 50 minutes.

I spent three days total at the hospital and actually walked myself home the day after the procedure. People told me I was crazy, so don't go thinking that's exactly how it's supposed to go.

I started exercising the very first day. They pulled my stitches out after a week, and since the waitlist for physical therapy was a ridiculous month long (!), I just handled my own rehab at home.
I was out of work for two weeks total.
I eased back into jogging about a month after the surgery.

Recovery was totally complete. I have zero lingering issues, and honestly, I can't even tell which knee it was unless I stop to think about it. There aren't even any visible scars.

My surgeon was Dr. Mlakar over in Cleveland.

If I were you, I'd just pull the trigger on the surgery because it really seems to be the only way to fix the problem for good.
Douglas Allen79 said:The bar isn't set at one! 🙂 And here I am, attempting to offer you some clarity despite how much my own understanding of these complex ideas might fall short... ☕


Ideas?
Give me a break. If "ideas" means using a vocabulary that's basically sub-literate, tossing out random historical facts without any logic, and then twisting them maliciously—all coming from someone who couldn't even win a local election and is now just throwing shade—then sure, call it an idea. I know George H.W. Bush wasn't exactly a genius, but this is honestly taking it to a whole new level of ridiculous...
I really regret wasting my time reading those 16 pages of pure garbage... ☕>

Catch you in six months, or maybe five if I feel like it...
Douglas Allen79 said:You asked for this, so here it is!

http://www.schiller-institut.de/hrva...cast170108.pdf


Not only is this thing just a massive pile of generalizations and insults without a single shred of actual logic, but it’s also an incredibly poorly done translation...

My rating? A solid -2...☕👎
wearyeagle2 said:If we knock France out, will you eat your words? 🙂

She probably will, but let’s be real—our chances of actually taking down the French are pretty slim.
Not when our defense is this shaky and the offense is all over the place.