thumbelina said:Or do they just become that way over the course of their lives?
Look, let's take the most obvious example: would Hitler have been Hitler regardless of the circumstances he was born into? 🙂
My take? I believe humans are fundamentally, inherently malevolent creatures. We are wired for darkness—it's just that social norms and upbringing train us to strive for what we call "goodness" and force us to mask our shadow side. Consider an extreme case you see on the news all the time: a domestic homicide where everyone in town claims the perpetrator was "always such a quiet, kind, and gentle soul." Well, that's nonsense. He wasn't "good"—he was just as malicious as anyone else, he was simply performing for society because that's what was required of him. It’s impossible that someone is a saint one day and a monster the next; rather, at that breaking point, they simply stopped pretending to be
good and finally revealed their true nature. Now, the difference lies in execution: some people snap over the smallest triviality and stop hiding behind the facade of
goodness, while others manage to suppress their primal instincts so effectively that they spend their entire lives successfully masquerading as decent citizens. That is just my humble opinion, mind you—I’m certainly no psychologist or anything of the sort.
P.S. I can already hear someone shouting from the back of the room: "If we are naturally evil, why do we even attempt to be good? It's a contradiction." My answer? I don't know.