Posts by coastalwalker9

I tend to be quite particular about hygiene, so if I have any say in the matter, I’ll go out of my way to avoid eating from a container that looks like it hasn't been properly cleaned.
That said, if I ever found myself in a situation where hunger and sheer desperation truly took over, I suppose even a trash can wouldn't bother me.

Just set aside your own portion, and if he’s really that insistent on eating straight out of the pot, let him have his way.
He might just be messy, or perhaps there's something more going on. It's possible he's overcompensating by trying to maintain this rigid sense of control, thinking that way somehow limits how much he consumes—rather than just sitting down at the table, plating a meal, and having a decent, proper dinner.

It strikes me as well that this friendship is rooted entirely in self-interest.
I find it rather tragic that her friend has latched onto her like this, likely spending his days merely waiting for whatever scraps she might deign to toss his way.
It’s a shame, really. He could have found genuine happiness and shared it with someone capable of reciprocating in a meaningful way.

Nancy Martin93 said:

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Wait, does that Walmart close at 5 PM? — Just checking! 🤦
And of course—they’re closing on Sundays! So, I guess it's whoever makes it in time wins, and if you miss out, well, just order everything online—right? Honestly, if someone doesn't have reliable internet access, they probably aren't worried about whether the local Walmart stays open until 5 PM or shuts down entirely anyway!👍
Do you really think people are just going to stay cooped up at home forever—without any personal needs or a desire to get out?—because, honestly, that seems unlikely!
Imagine getting home after work around 4:30 or 5:00—depending on the commute, of course—only to realize you have to sprint to the grocery store! It’s such a stressor—constantly worrying if there will actually be any bread or milk left on the shelves by the time you get there. You know how it goes, though—stores start cleaning up and closing down the deli counters just ten minutes before they shut their doors. But hey, what good is cheese and deli meat if you don't even have a slice of bread to go with it?
Maybe someone could just head home—grab a peaceful lunch, catch a quick nap—and then hit up the store around 7 or 8, or whenever they can finally get there! It’s such a hassle when all those specialty shops close by 4 or 5—you can barely squeeze in two visits in a single day—so now they really ought to be racing against the clock as much as they are focusing on nutrition.
Hey—maybe take a second to think things through before posting something so random? Just a thought!—:)

Stores should really be allowed to set their own hours—it just makes sense! Plus, there’s a huge difference between running a shop in a small town like Ann Arbor or Naperville versus being right in the middle of a major hub like San Jose.
Well, honestly—only people actually working in that industry would really get it anyway!

Restricting store hours is honestly one of the most nonsensical moves yet—it really makes you question their whole "expertise," doesn't it? Like, they can stay open until 5 PM normally, but then because it’s Easter, suddenly they close at 8 PM to somehow limit the spread?? The amount of misinformation coming from the task force lately is just... concerning. If the goal is actually to stop people from getting sick in shops, they should just be open from 6 AM to midnight! I’d happily go grab my groceries at 11 PM when nobody else is around—that would actually minimize risk—instead of cutting hours and forcing everyone to cram into the aisles all at once, which just causes a total collapse. And waiting out in the heat for an hour outside the store? Yeah, that sounds like a brilliant safety plan to me. Give me a break! If stores just operated like they should, there wouldn't be such massive crowds inside or even hovering around the entrances.

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Spot on.

Sophia Moore6 said:Let’s be honest: we would all be perfectly fine if every single retail shop and business operated on a strict schedule, closing their doors by 5:00 PM or maybe 6:00 PM at the absolute latest, regardless of whatever pandemic nonsense is going on. It really just comes down to habit, doesn't it?

So why is it that some people refuse to accept this simple reality?
If you're one of those lazy types who demands "flexibility" just because you've grown accustomed to having everything available at your whim, don't even bother replying with your endless list of excuses.
And please, spare me the nonsense about how limited hours will stifle consumer spending. That is a ridiculous argument.
People will always find a way to spend their money, whether the shops are open late or not. 😉

Retailers closing at 5 PM? 🤦
And naturally, we should close everything on Sundays too—if you make it in time, great; if not, I suppose you can just order online. As for those without internet access, they probably can't afford bread anyway, so it shouldn't matter to them whether the store stays open until 5 or shuts down entirely.👍
Do you honestly believe people will be perpetually confined to their homes without any personal needs or schedules?
Consider someone who finishes work at 4 PM. By the time they get home, it's somewhere between 4:30 and 5:00, depending on their commute. They would be forced to sprint to the grocery store every single day, living under the constant stress of wondering if they can grab a loaf of bread and some milk before everything is sold out. We all know that ten minutes before closing, staff start cleaning up the aisles and the deli counters. But sure, who cares about cheese or deli meats if there's no bread left.
Perhaps a person might want to come home, eat lunch in peace, rest for a moment, and then head to the store around 7 or 8 PM. Many specialty shops already close by 4 or 5, making it nearly impossible to visit more than two in a single day; now, we're expected to race against the clock just to pick up groceries.
Please, do try to think logically before posting such an incoherent sentiment.

Businesses should be allowed to decide their own operating hours. Besides, there is a massive difference between running a shop in a small town (like San Jose, Ann Arbor, or Naperville) versus a major metropolitan area.
But then again, I suppose that's a nuance only those actually working in the industry would understand.

rowdyhawk14 said:Let's try to clear up this confusion about heading out into the field for some fresh air.

Basically, if I live in Municipality A, but I own land over in Municipality B, and I need a permit to travel to Municipality B—who am I actually supposed to deal with? Do I go to the local Emergency Management headquarters in Municipality A, or should I be contacting the authorities in Municipality B?

And what does "getting a permit" actually entail here? Am I asking Municipality A for permission to leave, or am I asking Municipality B for permission to enter?

The permits are issued by FEMA based on your primary place of residence.
If you reside in Municipality A, that is who you approach to request a permit to leave and return to your home. In other words, the FEMA authorities in Municipality A issue the pass that allows you to travel to any other municipality as needed (B, C, D, etc.).

quietfox38 said:That’s how it worked until now. But this new pass has to have a QR code and looks totally different. They haven't explained how employers are actually supposed to issue them. 🤷

The documentation suggests you can print them if they arrive via email, alternatively you can use your phone, or go fully digital.
It's likely they'll be issued within about 14 days at most; things are shifting by the hour, so I imagine they're just adjusting their rollout to match the current situation.

Lisa Jackson7 said:It’s not exactly funny though... I just got my e-Wallet from my boss and now it’s basically garbage.

A few days ago, I was also issued an e-Wallet so I could bring food and medicine to my father, and now I'm stuck having to apply for a new one.
I’m not overly worried about the bureaucracy, even if I have to request a new permit every single time I leave; as long as I eventually get it, it's fine. It would be devastating if I couldn't reach him. Besides, he lives practically across the street from me—it isn't like there's any 3.1 miles preventing me from getting there.

As for employers, don't worry; they aren't sitting around waiting. They'll issue the passes just as quickly as before.

Adam Collins4 said:Sure, you have the instructions—the real issue is that what they’re telling you to do actually isn't possible on the site itself...😬

When you click the "digital pass" link, it’s supposed to toss you straight onto a login page for the passes... if that makes sense...

But instead, that link just dumps you onto some promotional landing page full of videos... there isn't even a "login" option anywhere, despite what they show in the video...

And when I go directly to the eCitizen site and log in, there isn't a single shortcut to actually get to the pass section...

Instead of having a pop-up window jump out at you and take over your entire laptop screen...

Or maybe I'm just being an idiot...

You aren't. They likely designed it that way on purpose, just to give people something to fiddle with while they sit at home doing nothing at all.😁

quietfox38 said:I just don't get it—does this mean every local FEMA office is going to start issuing passes with QR codes? Here’s what Davor Božinović said:

Starting today, everything moves through the online portal system. Permits will be issued by authorized legal entities, primary care doctors, or FEMA, depending on whether you need them for one day or up to two weeks. If any of those offices can't handle the request, FEMA will step in to take care of it.

The government is looking at rolling out some fresh updates soon. Basically, they’re working on new measures to tighten things up. It's like when a big retailer like Walmart changes its logistics—it feels like a lot of moving parts, but the goal is just to make everything run smoother under the current rules. We'll have to see how these shifts actually play out once they hit the books.

How exactly are businesses and institutions going to issue these QR code passes?

In my estimation, an employer would provide you with a pass for work purposes; I assume it would need to include personal details, along with the firm's address and the employee's info.
For other circumstances, such as my own situation regarding caring for an elderly relative, the pass is issued by the local FEMA branch based on your municipality of residence.

Steven Ramos5 said:How long are these new passes actually good for?
Is it 1, 7, 14... how many days we talking?
Or are they just gonna play it by ear on a case-by-case basis?😕

It'll be handled on a case-by-case basis.

Robert Diaz2 said:Could someone help me out here? Can I still do this through email after April 6th? I don't have an eCitizen account, and honestly, I'm pretty lost with all this tech stuff.

There are three different ways to go about it. Personally, I find doing it through email to be the most straightforward method.
You just need to make sure the request is submitted before that date.

wiredotter89 said:I hear what you're saying, and I get the logic behind it, but there's a major disconnect here. In the YouTube tutorial video, they're showing links for registration that simply don't exist on the actual website.

Since I haven't signed up for an eCitizen account yet, I'll just be trying to handle this via email again this time.

wiredotter89 said:Is it just me, or is the homepage still totally unresponsive?

btw. how on earth is the system supposed to handle the crash once everyone starts rushing to grab their passes...

The documentation states you can request it via email and print it out yourself. Plus, there's a mobile version coming since it includes a QR code for scanning on your phone.

Tyler Morales2 said:How long did you guys have to wait to get yours? Were you specifically hunting for a one-month turnaround, or is that just whatever they decide on?

I waited about three or four days for her, though I have to admit, I submitted my request right at the peak of the rush.
I hear things are moving at a much faster pace now.
In the application at that time, it clearly stated that I needed to specify the exact timeframe for which I was requesting the permit. Following those instructions, I requested one for a duration of one month, and that was what I ultimately received.

Nicholas King Quote : man
Starting April 6th, leaving your residence will only be permitted if you have an e-pass, according to an announcement made on Wednesday by Secretary of the Interior Davor Božinović, who also serves as the head of the FEMA Emergency Operations Center.

Davor Božinović stated during a press conference held by FEMA that digital passes will be issued within a timeframe ranging from one to 14 days, depending on the specific reason for the request.

"If any authorized pass issuer finds themselves unable to issue an e-pass due to legitimate circumstances, FEMA will step in to handle it on their behalf," he stated.

He made it clear that anyone who has already been issued physical passes is required to switch over to the e-passes by April 5th.

Thank you. I’ll send off an email later today to ensure I get a response in a timely manner. Given that this involves elderly care, I am hopeful that the permit will be processed within the standard two-week window.

I was issued a travel permit a few days ago so I could go visit my dad, and it’s valid for one month.
Does anyone know if this type of permit can be swapped out for a digital version, even though it was issued by the Emergency Operations Center? Or does that digital transition only apply to the ones being handed out by employers?

A few days back, I submitted my application for a visitor's pass so I could drop off some meals for my dad—he’s only about a five-minute drive away, but the restrictions make it a whole ordeal. I was hoping to swing by two or three times a week just to check in and bring him food, but I haven't heard a single word back from the facility yet. I spent yesterday making endless calls to the administration because I have to head over there again today, and I'm still stuck in limbo.
Of course, you can never get a straight answer out of anyone.

I’ve been taking B vitamins from Nature Made, Centrum multivitamins, along with some collagen powder and hyaluronic acid capsules.

mistybison said:I’ve actually been thinking about how we might preserve our DNA somewhere—perhaps they could reconstruct us once the technology catches up. My only concern is that our raw, unedited genetic code, with all its inherent flaws and imperfections, might not be particularly high-quality material for future generations to work with.🤔 😁

And just imagine if some shady organization, a criminal syndicate, a cult, or even aliens got their hands on that biological data. They’d exploit it relentlessly, running endless experiments on you and cloning you over and over again without a second thought.😲

I can't say for certain, but I suspect that as the years pass, many of our emotions simply begin to settle. They quiet down, perhaps even fade away entirely, leaving us to view the world through a lens that is much more grounded and realistic. It isn't necessarily that the feelings vanish completely, but rather that they become diluted, losing that sharp, overwhelming intensity they once held. There is one exception, though. Joy. Perhaps, if we're lucky, that's the one thing that actually deepens as we age.