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What should a meditation session look like? in Spirituality ·
Daniel Castillo11 said:There is a vast array of techniques and approaches, much like there are endless definitions for meditation itself.

In the West, meditation—particularly within the Christian tradition—often involves contemplating sacred texts and teachings. In the Orient, however, meditation is typically centered on suspending all conscious processes except for pure observation, often developing concentration through a specific focus, such as a mantra, a sound, a color, a symbol, or a deity. Interestingly, what we call contemplation in the West is essentially what is practiced as meditation in the Orient. This leads to quite a bit of confusion, as many people claim that Christians don't meditate, which is fundamentally incorrect. For Christians, contemplation refers to a state of being where one exists without thought, transcending the usual sensations of space and time.

We can distinguish between active and passive meditation. Passive meditation is receptive; the greater value lies not in "doing" anything or observing, but in the sheer direction of the concentration itself. In its active form, the emphasis shifts toward a more vigorous concentration and a very precisely defined, structured process of focus. Meditation can be loosely structured, entirely unstructured, highly organized, or even ritualized. It truly all depends on the tradition from which it emerges and the intention behind the practice.

Abrahamic mysticism and spirituality tend to favor active contemplation, which serves not to empty the mind, but to fill it while pondering divine mysteries.

I don't believe any single form is superior to another; instead, I see them as complementary methods that simply start from different assumptions. Personally, I utilize both. The "lectio divina" technique (divine reading of Scripture) in Christianity remains my most cherished form of meditation because it weaves together reading (lectio), reflecting on the text (meditatio), prayer (oratio), and finally, abiding or surrendering (contemplatio). That final stage of contemplation reminds me so much of Eastern practices where one lets go of all mental concepts and simply exists, surrendering to the Absolute. To me, it feels like a very logical progression of practice, as it engages every level of human consciousness: the intellect, the emotions, and ultimately, surrender (the letting go of both preferences). It is a gradual ascent from a state of fragmented consciousness toward the experience of unified consciousness.

Does that imply that a specific posture isn't necessary for reflection or observing a problem? Does it perhaps mean you don't need to belong to some specific group to be taught what meditation is?
Doesn't it perhaps mean that simply directing one's psychosomatic abilities in a single direction is enough?

That really depends on the framework you are using to view the matter. In Western traditions, posture doesn't hold much special significance—though it might play a role in Sufism (dhikr) or Prophetic Kabbalah—but in Christianity, it is almost entirely incidental. In the Orient, however, the physical posture is practically half the practice, as the emphasis is placed on maintaining steady concentration throughout the session; the mind tends to settle much more easily if the body remains still (reducing the heart rate, stopping unnecessary itching, or easing muscle tension, etc.). Psychosomatics are kept to a minimum unless specifically prescribed by the practice (like the Kabbalistic rocking found in the practices of Abraham Abulafia, or the ecstatic breathing seen during group dhikr among Sufis).

In certain circles, there’s this intense, almost overwhelming emphasis on belonging to a specific system—you see it quite often within traditionalist groups where everything is strictly structured. However, in the landscape of modern, free-form spirituality, we’re seeing a much stronger shift toward a more individualistic approach, where people tend to forge their own unique paths rather than following a pre-set map.

It’s actually pretty interesting to dive into this kind of cultural and historical deep dive.
I don't think one way is inherently better than the other; I see them more as complementary methods that just happen to start from different assumptions. Personally, I use both. For me, the "lectio divina" technique—that whole divine reading thing in Christianity—is easily my favorite meditative practice because it follows a flow: you read (lectio), you chew on the text (meditatio), you pray (oratio), and then you just sit and surrender (contemplatio). That final stage of just being really reminds me of Eastern practices where you let go of all those mental constructs and just exist, surrendering to the absolute. It feels like a solid logical progression because it hits every level of consciousness—intellect, emotion, and finally that total surrender where you drop all preferences. You basically move from a fragmented state of mind toward an experience of unified consciousness.

Yeah, sure, but honestly, just taking it on faith—you know, accepting an assumption as valid without any actual verification or even knowing what the premise is built on—that believing there's an absolute or a God based solely on a book is just plain wrong.
So, what's the deal here? What's driving you to act like that?
(and don't give me that "input vs. output" ratio nonsense)
Belonging to a system is heavily emphasized in some circles (usually traditional ones), while in others, it's less of a thing. In modern, free-form spirituality, everything seems to be shifting toward a more individual approach.

I wouldn't call it an "individual" approach, because individual technically means indivisible or whole; I'd call it a personal approach instead.

The "personal" approach has nothing to do with "modern free spirituality," because that's the only way it actually works if you're trying to achieve true individuality.
What should a meditation session look like? in Spirituality ·
Based on what’s been posted here so far, it seems like everyone thinks meditation is just whatever some guru tells you it is... but honestly, that's not it. Meditation isn't defined by how modern influencers try to spin it or how they use it today; the whole concept is basically hijacked by whoever decided to translate that simple term in the first place...

But look, wouldn't it be way easier and more accurate—if you actually care about the truth behind a word—to just check an etymological dictionary? You know, see where the word actually came from and what it meant to the people who originally coined it, rather than listening to people trying to twist the meaning to fit their own agenda?

For instance, anyone hanging out on this forum is only a few clicks away from an etymological dictionary etymonline - meditation.

So, what does that actually imply? Doesn't it suggest that you don't need some specific, rigid posture just to contemplate or observe a problem? And doesn't it mean you don't have to join some cult or follow a specific sect just to be taught what it means to meditate?
Maybe it just means focusing all your psychosomatic energy in one single direction is enough?

Isn't it enough to just understand the tool you're using—which is language? (Just a side note here—that last rhetorical question might be a bit of an oversimplification, but I think it hits the nail on the head regardless)
Lisa Hernandez3 said:I only edited the part that was actually off-topic—the bit about the admins—since that isn't really the subject here, which I assume you realize. I mostly did it to save the rest of your post, as there were some interesting points in there.

Anyway, if you guys are struggling with something, maybe just send a private message to whoever is responsible—if there isn't a more appropriate place to ask.

@ duck - I won't jump on everything, but regarding this idea of objective moderators versus subjective users—I don't think it's just an idea. Often, a moderator has to step back from their own preferences to ensure they act consistently, regardless of how they personally feel about a user or a certain opinion. There are certain things a moderator simply can't allow, even if a user tries to push them. Then again, the way those duties are carried out and how freedom is defined is pretty personal, so I guess moderators can be quite subjective in their own style. You can probably see that most clearly in how different PDF files are profiled by the various moderators.

In a perfect world, yeah, that's how it works, but let's be real—it rarely is.
Which brings me back to my point about there being this perceived divide instead of the actual, fair division that's supposed to exist. And it's not just about the bad calls that actually get carried out (whether those mistakes get fixed later isn't even the point here), it’s also about this constant "us vs. them" mentality that starts forming.
Quincy:
On the flip side, though, the way these responsibilities are handled and how freedoms are defined is totally individual, so mods end up being subjective in their own unique style. You can see it most clearly in how certain sub-forums get shaped by the specific mods running them.
The thing is, when looking at the sub-forums under a mod's control, you should really only notice shifts in tone or style; the "shaping" of a community shouldn't be the mod's "job," it should be the users who actually want to be there doing that.

A mod shouldn't be "profiling" or curating their own little corner because that isn't "democratic." Instead, they should act strictly as the enforcer of the rules—rules that, obviously, shouldn't be applied based on personal whims or individual interpretations. Plus, a mod needs to maintain a "big picture" perspective beyond just their own sub-forum to carry out their duties clearly and effectively.

Anything outside of that becomes subjective and totally inappropriate, which is something you see far too "often" (and honestly, more than enough) around here.
Lisa Hernandez3 said:Well, there you have it. I suppose asking why people bother with blogs is much like the question in the original post—why on earth would anyone write one? No one pays you for it, you might spend two or three hours carefully crafting a coherent, engaging piece, and then... nothing happens, really, other than people reading it and connecting with you over shared interests. But that little bit of value—that sense of intimacy, even on a larger scale—is worth it, even if Jurica Pavičić might dismissively call you an anonymous nobody. It's the same story here. It would be such a shame if everything we did was calculated; even blogging still resists full commercialization, with only a handful of creators following the lead of someone like Anđelko Kaćunko to turn their passion into a business. I tend to agree—true, independent thought and action mostly happen within those little pockets of amateurism.

I don't buy it. Honestly, I just can't get on board with that.
First off, how did we even get to this point where you have to attach some kind of qualifier to describe how much you actually stand behind something? Like that whole "truly independently thinking and acting" nonsense. It’s pretty simple, right? You either think for yourself or you don't. There is no middle ground. Unless, of course, you count being "sort of independent" as just a fancy way of describing a total collapse of thought processes—which usually leads to a complete meltdown in how people actually speak, too, probably because everything is just falling apart in so many different ways.

Look, here’s the thing—this whole "amateur" label isn't just some simple title you slap on someone. It’s way more complicated than that because independence is baked right into the definition, but only if you aren't already part of that polished, mainstream establishment. It gets messy, honestly. You end up with these weird paradoxes where something might look like a total pro to one person, but then someone else looks at that exact same thing and sees nothing but an amateur playing at being a professional, or some other bizarre combination of the two. It’s all relative, really, and quite frankly, it's a headache if you overthink it too much.
Honestly, this whole idea of freedom you’re clinging to feels like nothing more than a bunch of pretty words on a page—purely poetic, really. It’s all just declarations and vibes. I mean, think about it: who actually *is* free? From what exactly are we supposed to be breaking loose? And more importantly, what kind of massive price tag comes with that kind of liberty? It’s all just talk until you figure out what you're actually paying for.

Quincy:
I honestly don't even know where to start with this whole mess, because it feels like we're all just circling the drain at this point, but here I am, rambling on again while everyone probably rolls their eyes at me. It’s just one of those things where you look at the situation and realize how much of a headache it actually is, though I'm sure some people think I'm just being dramatic—which, okay, maybe I am, but that's not really the point. Anyway, I was thinking about what was said earlier, and it just hits differently when you actually sit down and process it, you know? Like, you can't just brush it off and pretend everything is fine when clearly, it isn't. So, yeah, just my two cents, even if nobody asked for them and I'm basically just talking to myself in an empty room most of the time. kaže:
Group A is basically just the owner's buddies, family, and those random hangers-on who just show up to tag along.
Group B: It’s all about that desperate craving for any kind of power, just like a few of you folks have already pointed out around here.
Group C: honestly, these folks actually give a damn about the topics they're moderating, and they aren't doing it just to power trip or cause drama for the sake of it.
I’d say if you look at who’s actually gunning for those moderator spots, it’s mostly Group C people leading the charge, followed by Group B, then Group A. But honestly, from what I’ve been seeing, a ton of the folks in Group C get totally intoxicated by the tiny bit of authority they grab. It’s like this weird power trip that changes them—whether they even realize they're doing it or not—because it just seeps into their entire personality, you know? It crawls into every little crack of their daily lives until Group C basically just turns into a messy hybrid of BC.

I honestly feel like the best way to wrap your head around this whole BC mix is to look at the N/A, because that’s where you really start seeing the massive, undeniable divide between us and you people.

(this part doesn't apply to anyone's quote anymore)
And honestly, this whole fake-deep idea that there’s some line between "objective moderators" and "subjective forum users" is just plain nauseating. It’s such a tired, pretentious way to look at things, and frankly, it makes me want to roll my eyes into the back of my head.
I mean, what are you even supposed to do when most of the moderation crew just flat-out refuses to sit on the "therapy couch" and actually deal with their issues?

Look, I’m just gonna drop this topic right here because I’ve learned my lesson—I know how much people hate it when you actually point out the truth about their situation, especially when they’re being stubborn as hell about it. It’s like, why even bother? People around here have been dodging reality for a long, long time now, and honestly, I don't have the energy to fight someone who refuses to see what's staring them right in the face.

p.s.
I didn't even bother getting hung up on just the whole "why does someone become a moderator" thing because honestly, that felt like way too little substance to actually sit down and write a full-blown post about, so I just sat back and expanded my scope to see what else was going on.
Faith and hope: a necessity or a delusion? in Spirituality ·
dustyraven26 said:My apologies🙏

While you didn't ask, if what he has envisioned in his head is known—something tangible and real—he doesn't exactly need belief to confirm it is possible, does he?
If he possesses all the necessary preconditions to achieve it, what purpose does hope serve?
And if he lacks them, what use is hope? He should simply determine whether they can be met and act in accordance with reality.

There is a saying:
If you can change it, don't stress, just change it;
if you cannot change it, don't stress, because you won't be able to change it regardless.
(And who is the one prone to stressing? The individual whose expectations are rooted in mere belief and hope.)

Is there anything more important than LOVE!?
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Identify the problem, solve the problem, move on!

And honestly, this ties perfectly into what Paul Jones7 has in his signature right now—basically saying that love without truth isn't really love, and truth without love isn't really truth.🙂
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
Joseph Miller41 said:we're talking about realistic goals here, not just daydreaming!

No, I haven't fallen under any kind of influence—I haven't even read that stuff... I just wanted to see what everyone on this forum actually thinks about it.

I stumbled upon this passage that actually applies perfectly to how they pitch things through the > and all those other shallow, cash-grab books out there.

These memes work because they seemingly explain away the customer's own experiences by using every psychological trick in the book. They prey on that basic human fear of uncertainty and the dread of making the wrong call in an incredibly messy, complicated world. Most people end up scrolling through media when they're going through a rough patch and desperately need some direction. That makes them way more vulnerable to claims about higher powers or having some special kind of insight. These memes also bank on the so-called "illusion of control." Stress levels drop when you feel like you've got a handle on a situation—and if you can't get actual control, the illusion does the trick just fine.
Literally thousands of experiments have proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that astrological claims are total nonsense...

(from the same book)
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
neongardener2 said:I haven't actually read The Secret, I just watched a documentary on it recently. And way before that, I've gone through plenty of non-commercialized books on these topics.
I don't really vibe with your response... maybe I *should* pick up a book, though.

Here are some actual science-based, deep dives: Divine Matrix by Gregg Braden and belief biology by Bruce H. Lipton.

I guess they're worth a read.

Look, I'm gonna pass on those right out of the gate... I mean, seriously, how can a book with "Divine" in the title have anything to do with actual science? Plus, I skimmed the summary and one source, and it just feels like more of that pop-science fluff...

As for that second one, it sounds like it's mostly just talking about having an internal locus of control.

But hey, whatever, the way you're explaining this makes it seem like you don't actually grasp the subject matter.
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
Nathan Kelly5 said:I wouldn't call them foolishness or a scam, though I don't read those books myself. I think anyone who has ever taken a sport seriously could explain it better: without desire and absolute faith, you can't achieve anything at all. It isn't a magic bullet, but without it, you aren't going anywhere.

The power of desire is immense, but only when used to commit yourself to a single objective. "Tonight, I don't need company or a shoulder to cry on; I have poured everything I am into this one goal. I will either be a winner or a loser, and my name will reflect that. No one else can provide the motivation to try again. I have to do it all alone, and I am alone. That is why tonight, I feel completely solitary." 😍🤣

If you aren't reading that stuff, then you clearly don't get what we're talking about here.
The whole thing is just tabloid trash; basically an anthem to stupidity and shallow thinking.
but honestly, the best way to wrap your head around this is to talk to people who actually took a sport seriously. You can't get anywhere with absolutely NOTHING if you don't have that drive and some kind of deep-seated belief. It doesn't mean that alone is enough, obviously, but without it, you're just spinning your wheels.

Belief isn't a requirement; desire might work, or it might not serve as motivation at all; look, I've played all sorts of sports and I'm working out right now, so I know how it goes.
neongardener2 said:But I'm wondering, if this is all just total nonsense like people say, how do you explain people's actual experiences that seem to back up what's in The Secret and stuff? Like, people who actually got what they wanted?

For example, my own experience when I was terrified of a specific situation and then it happened in real life exactly word-for-word how I imagined it. Or even a wish I had that came true perfectly, which I don't really want to get into here either.

They say the more specific the wish, the faster it happens. Like, I pictured someone saying a specific sentence, and then it actually happened just like that.

So, how would you explain that?

p.s. Ever since I stopped believing in coincidences and started noticing little signs and patterns, I see numbers like 111 or 222 almost every single day (your post was kind of symbolic too, maybe, since it was 1111). Or I'll be thinking about some random topic and then suddenly see an article about it in the news or on TV that same day. There was also this one time during an interview process. There was this show on, doesn't matter what, and my mom tells me, "Hey, that might be a question they ask you" (just general knowledge stuff). Then I get to the interview and the very first question is exactly what she predicted. Even with my boyfriend, we'll call each other at the exact same time or think the same thing.

So, what is all that? How do you make sense of it?

Maybe this will give you something to chew on regarding an explanation...

(part one) Alternative medicine survives by feeding on fear; fear of pain, fear of getting sick, fear of death. It plays on basic human experiences that (for most of us) are impossible to fully articulate—like that feeling of walking out of a therapist's office feeling better. There’s no denying that people generally feel improved after visiting an acupuncturist, a herbalist, a chiropractor, or a homeopath. In many cases, they've dropped a serious amount of cash on that visit or those "treatments," which is especially true in a place like the US where conventional medical costs are often handled by insurance. The theory of "cognitive dissonance" explains why this matters—anyone who shells out fifty bucks for an ineffective treatment is going to deal with cognitive dissonance because they're faced with the idea that they were either totally foolish or just threw money down the drain. They soothe that dissonance by convincing themselves they actually feel better (and the more expensive the bill, the harder they have to convince themselves). That "illusion of control" also lowers stress levels and some symptoms, simply because you feel like you're doing *something* about your health. Then there's social pressure; when your practitioner asks if last week's session worked, you feel obligated to say yes, or at least say something encouraging. Once you give that affirmative answer, the desire for consistency drives you to actually believe it yourself. We all know how powerful the placebo effect is, and it's even stronger when the practitioner carries themselves with authority, uses impressive-sounding techniques, and gives you these deep, incomprehensible explanations.

(part two) The visual world is so incredibly complex that trying to store even tiny fragments of a changing image would overwhelm a storage system as massive as the human brain. That’s why the brain tosses out most data and instead relies on our ability to just take another look.

(part three) Probably the hardest thing to deal with is dealing with desires, hopes, and inclinations—stuff like "hopefully it arrives on time," "I have to pass this exam," "I hope I live a long life and get rich and famous," or "I want that strawberry one." All these hopes and cravings are built on the notion of an "inner self" that has to stay happy, and their emergence just feeds the ego complex. The trick is to simply refuse to participate in any of them. If there is no "self," there is no point in hoping or wanting things for someone who doesn't exist. All those things belong to some other moment, not this one. They don't matter when there is nobody there to care about them. Life is perfectly possible even without hope.
It feels kind of backwards when you think about it, right? Like, you’d expect this way of living to make people more indecisive, but actually, they end up being way more decisive than before. But if you really sit down and chew on it, it’s not even that weird. From a meme perspective, the ego complex isn't some tool designed to help you make choices, or make you happy, or make life easier; its whole damn purpose is just to spread the memes it’s built from. By breaking that thing down, you finally get the space to act spontaneously and actually fit the situation. A smart brain—one packed with all those various memes—is perfectly capable of making moves without that messy ego complex constantly tripping it up.

Which leads us straight into some pretty terrifying territory. I mean, if I’m living by this truth—if there isn't some "inner me" pulling the strings and taking responsibility for everything I do—then what happens to morality? Some people would argue that living like this is basically a fast track to being selfish, cruel, immoral, or just a total disaster. But is it, though? Honestly, when you live this way, one of the biggest side effects is that you stop forcing your own little whims onto the world around you or onto the people you run into. And honestly, that alone is enough to change everything.


Susan Blackmore - The Meme Machine (give this a read and maybe things will start clicking for you)

p.s.
We should be reading stuff like this instead of wasting our time on junk like The Secret.
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
I honestly don't even know where to start with this whole situation because it feels like everyone is just talking in circles and nobody is actually listening to a damn word anyone else says, you know? It’s like watching a slow-motion train wreck where the conductor is asleep at the wheel and the passengers are too busy arguing about the snack menu to realize we're heading straight for a ditch. I was sitting there thinking about how much energy we waste on these petty little disagreements when, at the end of the day, most of it doesn't even matter, but then again, maybe it does, and I'm probably just being cynical again—which, let's be honest, is kind of my brand at this point. Anyway, I’ve been staring at this screen for an hour trying to figure out if I should even bother weighing in, but since I'm already here and clearly have nothing better to do than overthink things, I might as well just lay it all out there. It's exhausting, really, dealing with the constant noise, but I guess that's just life in the States, isn't it? Just endless chatter and zero substance. kaže:
Our thoughts are just as damn real as our own hands.

Where exactly is the actual proof for this kind of sensationalist garbage? Seriously, where is it?
I don't even know where to start with this one, honestly. I was sitting there just thinking about how much everything seems to be shifting lately, you know? Like, you think you have a handle on things, and then suddenly the ground moves under your feet. It’s like that feeling when you're driving down a backroad in the middle of nowhere and realize you took a wrong turn miles ago—you can't exactly undo it, so you just have to sit there with your own bad decisions. Anyway, I was reading through some of the stuff being said online, and man, people really love to hear themselves talk. It's constant. Every single day it's someone shouting into the void, expecting the world to stop spinning just because they have an opinion on something they barely understand. It gets exhausting, truly. I find myself staring at the screen sometimes just wondering if anyone is actually listening or if we're all just performing for an audience of ghosts. It’s a lot to process, and I’m probably just overthinking it, which is my specialty, I guess. I'll probably regret even bringing this up because I know how much I love to ramble, but there's just something about the way things are moving right now that feels... off. Just off. I can't even begin to wrap my head around what this guy is actually trying to say here, honestly. It’s like he’s speaking a completely different language or just throwing words at a wall to see what sticks, which—let’s be real—is basically all he does. I was sitting here, probably wasting my own time too much, just staring at this mess and thinking, "Is there a point buried in here somewhere?" But no, it's just more of the same rambling nonsense that makes you want to throw your phone across the room. It’s exhausting, really, dealing with this kind of logic, or lack thereof, especially when you're just trying to have a normal conversation without feeling like your brain is being slowly sanded down by sheer stupidity.
I mean, hey, some people actually pull it off, I guess!

Which one?
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
David Green11 said:I wouldn't say that's quite the case; I truly believe one ought to finish the book and sit through the film before we dive into such a spirited debate! 🙄 Tamo se govori o sljedećem:
Quote : The Secret

And there you have it—mission accomplished! 👍

Which is exactly why they want you to shell out for the book and pay for a ticket to see the movie in the first place... 🤦
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
Joseph Miller41 said:Is it actually possible to manifest your dreams just by having massive faith and an intense desire to make them happen?
I’ve been doing some deep dives into this lately, and I’ve even heard some people share stories about how, if you just want something bad enough—like, truly believe in it with everything you've got—and then just let go and trust the process, things magically fall into place. It's like you set the intention and then just step back and let the universe do its thing.
Has anyone else here actually experienced something like this??

Man, I’ve heard all sorts of theories floating around, but honestly, I don't buy anything until I can put it through the ringer myself. This was a good little thought experiment to chew on.

Look, if you want something, you’ve gotta actually put in the sweat equity (and let's be real, most of those "overnight success" stories you hear about in the States are actually just the result of years of grinding away behind the scenes). If what you're after is actually within the realm of reality, then sure, it's doable.
What's also happening is that you start subconsciously positioning yourself and acting in ways that align with that goal.
Most of your day-to-day moves end up being geared toward making that thing happen, which naturally bumps up the odds of it actually working out.
That’s really where the intensity of your will meets a realistic "desire."
The Power of Manifestation in Psychology ·
Megan Williams5 said:I honestly have no idea where this modern brand of instant psychology came from—this nonsense like Quote : The Secret that claims you can manifest anything just by wishing for it. Either people are completely misinterpreting these philosophies, or they're just delusional. Anyone with half a brain should see how absurd this logic is. How is anything supposed to materialize through sheer desire alone? For instance, I can sit here and wish for a mansion, a Ferrari, a yacht, and everything else under the sun. I can wish and wish and wish until I'm blue in the face, but poof—suddenly it all appears? Yeah, right. Even a toddler understands that's not how the world works.

On the flip side, it is undeniably true that a positive mindset can help you reach a goal. It’s vital to visualize what you want, believe it’s achievable, and put in every ounce of effort required to actually make it happen. That means putting in the work, trying, testing, and staying persistent even when it feels like you're drifting further away from your target. You have to maintain that belief, especially when things get tough. You don't just sit there, lounge around, believe, wish, and wait. Because that certainly leads nowhere.

It’s nothing but pure profit, really. Just a massive cash grab targeting suckers.
People who would much rather deal with the exhaustion of actual hard work
than the literal backaches from sitting on their butts all day.
Instead, they try to manifest their dreams
through that ridiculous concept of Quote : The Secret,
which is just absolute, bottom-of-the-barrel stupidity.
Any real difference in how they work? in Spirituality ·
Maria Hughes52 said:Quick question for everyone; is the actual title of this subforum "pro and contra Christianity in a thousand different ways," or am I just imagining things?

I mean, why isn't it Islam, Hinduism, or Buddhism? :next:
Any real difference in how they work? in Spirituality ·
wearyowl29 said:I’ve got a rabbit's foot and a medallion featuring a Catholic saint.

Now, I don't personally view them as mere fashion accessories—though I know some people might disagree with me there😲—but I truly believe they have a deeper purpose. So, I wanted to ask you all: which one should I carry when I head out the door?

Who or what will provide the best protection and keep any kind of evil from touching me while I'm on my journey?🤷

What is the actual difference in how they work—you know, having a rabbit's foot tucked in your pocket versus wearing a saint's medallion around your neck?

So... thoughts?

Honestly, both of those are just pure superstition.

Just go with whatever you're more "hardcore" about. That's how this whole thing works—you try to fill a void by leaning into some superstition to compensate for what's missing. If you base the whole damn thing on those heavy, intense emotions, the impact is going to hit differently. It’s all about that psychological feedback loop, I guess.

One little tangent -> suddenly we're talking about superstitions 🙂
Man, society, progress, and spirituality in Spirituality ·
Lisa Morales4 said:Well, let’s see how these two manage to sort this all out 🙂

Nathan Perez5 and Peter Phillips32—come on, give us a masterclass so we can teach all these outsiders a thing or two...
Here we go... at least it’ll be a one-act drama with a happy ending, of course 🙂

As far as I'm concerned, it's all happy beginnings from here, of course. 🙂

I mean, I clearly have nothing better to do than sit around feeling empty and needing to fill my void by watching people lose their minds and suffer. Yeah, I don't do that kind of work anymore.
Man, society, progress, and spirituality in Spirituality ·
Nathan Perez5 said:😁...honestly, I was actually thinking about pulling you into my own dreams today, but then I realized that little duckling over there started analyzing me and poking at me, and since I'm a pretty jumpy person, I think I'll just let the whole thing pass me by without making a scene...😬

But listen, I’d much rather you actually have a real connection with me instead of just clinging to that weird image you've built up in your head—that version of me you think is out here just trying to push your buttons.
Man, society, progress, and spirituality in Spirituality ·
Ronald Rogers27 said:The first girl I ever slept with was an American. She was five years older than me. And honestly, she was from Des Moines, not some far-off place like Australia. 😬

Why on earth would I hate you? 😲

I feel like I’m constantly packing my bags and moving from one country to the next. It’s become a way of life for me. Back in 2007, I was living in the States, then I spent a little time over in Denmark, moved back to the US, and then spent two years in Canada. Honestly, the constant moving is starting to wear me down. Right now, I'm staying in Mexico, but man, I can't help but smile thinking about being back in America.

I’d honestly love to just head out to Munich and spend my last twenty years of work there. For me, that’s more than enough. 👍 But man, that’s going to be a real uphill battle. 👎

Life is beautiful... But ONLY if you live outside the North America! 😬

Ronald Rogers27

So, did you actually have sex, or was it just a lot of awkward staring? 🤷
Man, society, progress, and spirituality in Spirituality ·
slymaker9 said:🤔
7 cm
Where did you get that figure from, and what state are we talking about—7 cm flaccid or erect? 😕🤷

I remember some old debate going on over on a forum once. But hey, if we're talking an erection, then yeah, we're definitely looking at Dick the Mighty.
Brian Foster3 said:"Whatever women"? Give me a break... I seriously doubt there are that many out there who actually think like that, let alone that they all do! 😁

In theory, maybe most of them, but in reality, most of the time they won't even get to the sex part anyway.
Man, society, progress, and spirituality in Spirituality ·
Tyler Baker6 said:Maybe then you'll finally see what we're actually dealing with 😍

Honestly, it doesn't matter if you're stuck in the middle, at the bottom, or hitting the heights... as long as you're putting in the work and doing what actually works for you, rather than just chasing what you think you *should* be doing.

I'd say there’s definitely a baseline level of "size" that acts as a threshold—whether people are satisfied or not, that part is one thing, but anything beyond that is really just down to individual tastes, physical capabilities, and whatever else comes into play...

Like, take a 2.7-inch guy (that's the bare minimum), he can still satisfy a woman; anything beyond that is just playing into visual preferences or specific sensory stuff...
Logical fallacies and inconsistencies in Philosophy ·
Anonymous said:Whoops! So, being rational means bowing down to reason? Being logical means surrendering to logic? ... It sounds like a total power trip—denying me the freedom to be completely unrealistic while still discussing reality, or to just do whatever I want and then blame "reality" for being unfair.
Take a closer look at what I said regarding the brain—specifically its capacity to ditch illusions the second it recognizes the truth, no matter how much we clung to them before. Where exactly is the abuse in that?

I mean, seriously, do you actually control your own reason? Do you have any say over logic itself?
Just look at what I was getting at regarding how the brain works—specifically its capacity to ditch illusions the second it hits on a truth, no matter how much you believed those delusions before. How on earth is that an act of oppression?

You used the word "control." Either find a better way to phrase that, or you're essentially handing me an oxymoron on a silver platter.