Sarah Harris29 said:Michael Diaz4, Karen Thompson10, thank you both so much for the replies. I guess it really does come down to the individual case. I'm terrified that my situation might be like Michael's, where I'll need both the THD and the traditional surgery. Honestly, the whole thing is weighing on me; I'm only 27, and I can't believe I'm dealing with this already. I haven't even had kids yet. Poor me...
My biggest fear is the recovery period after the surgery. What if there are complications...
Anyway, I'm heading to the doctor as soon as possible. First, I just need them to tell me what stage we're actually looking at.
Michael, I'm wishing you a smooth and painless recovery.
B.t.w. Did you have the traditional surgery done in the same spot as the THD?
Like I said, I suspect my hemorrhoids might be stage 4 too, so I might be facing the same road as you. I've been bleeding quite a bit during bowel movements these last few days, so I'm scared of everything right now.
Thanks again, everyone, and let's stay in touch.
Thanks for the kind wishes.🙂 Don't let fear hold you back—the worst thing you can do is delay seeing a specialist or putting off a necessary surgery. If you're bleeding heavily, don't wait; go to the doctor immediately. I didn't wait. My case was urgent because of inflammation and infection in my internal hemorrhoids, so they had to surgically remove them. The external ones were stitched up...🙄 It’s painful, but it had to be done. I don't know if your situation is as severe as mine, but you have to see a doctor, because hemorrhoids only get worse as time goes on. Find a good surgeon and you'll be fine. Very young people deal with this all the time. In the military, for instance, it's often due to diet and physical strain. A nurse at the clinic told me they just operated on a 23-year-old guy. In my case, there was also thrombosis, which made it dangerous. Mine was a critical case, so the surgery was an emergency. Now I eat normally, but I still make sure to avoid constipation. You want your stool to be soft. It still hurts; I use gauze, and the wound oozes a little sometimes. I have to rinse it frequently, but it gets better every single day. I can't sit down, so I have to lie down or walk to keep my circulation going. I'm on a heavy course of antibiotics. I've endured a lot of pain, and while it still hurts, it's getting manageable. I think I'll be treating the wound for one more week, and according to the director here at the clinic, I should be all set. Seriously, go to the doctor. Living with painful hemorrhoids is impossible, and if things get complicated like they did for me, it can get very serious. The sooner you go, the easier the treatment and recovery will be. Good luck...🙂