Angela Campbell84 said:Up until now, we've always assumed the Socializing and Coffee thread would be a bit more laid back than the rest, since its whole purpose—as you put it—is just hanging out and joking around.
Sometimes editing a post is just that—socializing and banter. This rigid moderation kind of kills the whole vibe. But hey, it's your call how you want to run this thread; I assume you have your reasons 🙂
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Something similar happened in the chat the other night, when you both were deleting things like crazy and tossing out posts over totally unnecessary stuff. For instance, when someone wrote something to me in the style of 'Angela Campbell84, you jerk,' it wasn't even an insult, and there was zero need to delete it or hand out sanctions. You saw for yourself that I responded in a joking tone and the conversation could have easily kept going... but still... deletion. I find this insistence on keeping the social thread so hyper-sterile a bit strange. Personally, I don't see the point or any benefit to the users here 🤷
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Look, you'll eventually realize that it’s actually pretty tough for a moderator to tell who is joking with whom and who is actually poking at someone. Rules exist to ensure everyone is treated equally; otherwise, they aren't really rules. When you frame it the way you did, it sounds like a total utopia, but it isn't quite like that, which is evidenced by the complaints moderators constantly deal with. And sure, the rules might be a bit softer here, but these still aren't the casual off-topic threads where everything is on a completely different level of chill.
Editing posts isn't allowed anywhere on the forum, except maybe in the off-topic sections. Though, I'm not entirely sure it would go any smoother there if the original author decided to file a complaint about their post being changed.