mellowscout33 said:It’s tacky how things turned out here. I haven't been dragging him, and nobody even mentioned his handle. I don't see where the issue lies; one could have offered condolences anonymously. However, you all opened a thread dedicated to him and ended up spamming everything under the sun. Technically speaking, those of you who claimed to "care" about him are the ones who blew this out of proportion. Not me.
The thread really should have been deleted the moment it was created, which was a mistake by the moderator. It seems she simply wasn't equipped for the situation and didn't anticipate how quickly the topic would spiral. My assumption was that users would offer a polite and dignified farewell to a former colleague, as some have done.
Unfortunately, even threads like this aren't immune to trolling, bickering, insults, and profanity. We saw this recently on the 'Religion' board when a long-time user and former moderator passed away. After just a few posts, the thread devolved into a total brawl. Despite deleting posts and issuing bans, the fighting wouldn't stop, forcing the moderator to finally lock the thread. At least that situation reached a conclusion.
This particular story, however, is far from over...
The user being constantly mentioned here isn't the only person who has passed away since this forum was established. Occasionally, someone revives an old thread—say, in 'Spirituality'—and I see five or six names of forum members who are long gone.
Joseph Bailey41 said:Since you're picking at me, I find that insistence on protecting a deceased person's privacy to be a sign of mental deficiency. When Lastman passed, no one objected to revealing his identity, which allowed us to pay our respects like decent people. Besides, he was quite the provocateur himself. Even more so than most.
Times have changed, and clearly, that kind of decency is no longer possible, as evidenced by the thread for the late Shady on 'Religion.' If Lastman were to pass away TODAY, the exact same thing would happen. People would argue in his thread, insult the deceased, and eventually, the moderator would have to shut it down. If there is a thread for Lastman active today without such chaos, it's only because the veteran users have already forgotten him, and the new users don't even know who he was or care to find out.