Fashion for curvy girls
in Fashion ·
It’s one thing to suggest a pattern, but it’s quite another to say: "Ma'am, there isn't much I can do for you now that your hips have flared out so much. You're lucky your waistline held steady."
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Kate Foster12 said:Let's be honest... without its main thread, this whole subreddit is basically pointless. 🤷
Chloe Howard29 said:I’m having a really hard time shaking Greater Than US from my mind. It’s just... stuck there. 😁 At first, I wasn't really feeling it—I mean, after hearing Death, who would they think they are offering this to us? But honestly, the track is just incredibly catchy. It’s one of those songs where you just have to lay back and let it wash over you until you absolutely love it.

Nathan Baker said:Honestly, I didn't even have the heart to finish reading through all that clutter; I just caught sight of those same people popping up again, claiming they wear a size 14 or whatever, acting as if that’s somehow "fuller" by my standards, or pretending they don't shop at places like Target or Kohl's. I feel like I've said this a thousand times already—I'm not sure why it’s such a struggle to grasp, though perhaps my way of expressing things is just too convoluted for some. Why the sudden outburst? Just because I mentioned that plus-sized women shouldn't try to squeeze into little dresses because people will laugh? Well, I certainly would. They do laugh. People tell you an outfit looks great to your face, and then they snicker behind your back. And as for those who spend their time trying to convince themselves they aren't actually heavy and that everything fits perfectly... fine, go ahead. That isn't on me, and it certainly isn't a flaw in my reasoning, thank you very much. I don't wear that clothing; it’s worn by people struggling with deep insecurities, trying to force themselves into the same styles as their skinny friends. I'm not twenty years old, so there's no need to lecture me, especially not from the younger crowd who haven't yet navigated the nuances of a professional career. It’s frankly quite rude to call someone stupid or "disconnected from reality," because, frankly, I might be thinking the exact same thing about you, even if I’m too polite to type it out. I wasn't targeting anyone specifically, just speaking generally, so let's try to maintain a little decorum. I've lived enough life to see just about everything when it comes to how larger women dress, both through my university years and throughout my career. Rest assured, whenever a slightly heavier client walked into the office, the reaction from the crowd was always predictable. If a fuller-figured woman walked in wearing a tight little dress, you’d hear people—both men and women—muttering things like, "Did she really not look in a mirror before leaving the house?" So, there it is.
Besides, the whole point of this forum is to offer advice on what to wear and where to find it, not to use the space as a platform for direct insults.
boldhound8 said:it’s not like having 3,000 users frantically smashing F5 is doing any good😁