Posts by cosmicridge5

William Bennett53 said:Listen, I realize things are pretty hectic right now, but it would be wise if everyone weighed in. This is our first time collectively raising our voices in such an organized fashion—both regarding the rules and the moderator—and it would be a genuine shame not to make the most of this opportunity.

I’d love to share my thoughts, but honestly, I don't really feel like digging through all those different sets of rules myself. 😬 Could someone maybe give me a quick summary of how they differ? 😁

redheron12 said:One of my teammates just quit on me—so now I'm really questioning if I’ll be playing next season at all. Still, am I allowed to cast my vote?

Wow, how rude, lol 😁 I'm the one who quit?! 😁 You're the one who ruined our entire season by constantly pulling out, quitting, and self-permabanning... right at the very start 🙄 😁

So I guess you shouldn't be surprised that they aren't offering you a new contract 🤷 😁

Then a warning popped up. Ignoring it or trying to argue with a moderator's warning is actually against the rules and carries a 30-point penalty, though in your case, they just deleted the post. Why on earth did you go and bring that deleted post back?That’s just another rule violation that probably falls under persistent harassment. I guess you only just received your 100-point penalty.

Just so we're clear on this: I didn't actually restore that deleted post like you're claiming. It’s more that I happened to be right there in the middle of things at the exact moments the moderator was deleting it. I edited my post to add an explanation. - ovo: Maybe they should just go ahead and wipe those other posts too, just so potential foster parents don't walk away with the wrong impression.I was actually planning on adding that sentence to my post just to provide a bit more clarification. I guess, well, basically... I went ahead and edited my post before I even realized—since I was typing out an "edit" note—that the moderator had already deleted it! If you actually look at the timestamps on my posts (edit) versus when she started deleting stuff, you’ll see what I mean. I wasn't trying to repost something that had been wiped out; I was just editing my own post—which, for the record, was still live on the thread at the time! It only popped back up because I hit edit, you know?

The moderator actually saw my post while I was attempting to edit it—right at the exact moment she was deleting it. It popped back up because of that edit attempt, not because I was trying to resurrect a deleted message. I guess it would have been fair if she’d taken that timing into account before deciding on the warning and the ban.

So, it wasn't actually a case of me ignoring warnings—and it certainly wasn't some sort of "persistent ignoring," if that’s what people are implying.

Since I personally care quite a bit about how things are written and presented, I don't really think a ban was necessary here. I could see some good intentions behind your posts. In my opinion, maybe instead of treating everything the same way, it would make more sense to just dock some points in cases like this—especially when compared to those posts that exist solely to stir the pot.

Standard procedure is to let the moderator explain themselves first. I don't hang out on that PDF very often, but I guess you deserved some kind of penalty. I didn't want to toss you into the ban corner until I heard back from the moderator. Unfortunately, our schedules just didn't align, and by the time we actually got around to discussing your case, your ban was already about to expire.

I still think a hundred points was overkill, but I guess you earned some kind of penalty.

I mean, if they hadn't already handled it, shouldn't they have just reached out to me? Maybe they should've even replied once my ban expired in the ban corner. 😕 I’d rather not just be left hanging here looking like an idiot, especially since we've already established that my ban was totally unjustified. If we're going to be fair about it, I guess it would make sense to actually get an answer over in the appeal thread where I voiced my concerns. Especially considering the ban period has already run its course—meaning I basically had to sit through an unfair penalty for nothing.

Look, I won't make a habit of teasing you, especially since you’re apparently the only one who actually decided to be fair in the end. So, despite the fact that I'm still pretty annoyed about this whole situation, I guess I owe you a thanks for that. 🙂

rustydrifter10 said:I actually reached out to the Pet Forum moderators to chat about your ban. Personally, I felt like a hundred-point penalty for what you did was way over the top, so I wanted to dig a little deeper to see if I was missing some crucial context behind the decision.

They explained to me that they keep the adoption threads strictly organized because keeping things streamlined is vital for finding homes for the animals—which is the whole point of those threads—and it helps clear out any unnecessary off-topic chatter.

The posts were removed because the mods felt they didn't belong there and might actually make it harder for someone to adopt a cat. After that, a warning was issued. Now, ignoring or arguing with a moderator's warning is a direct rule violation that carries a 30-point penalty, but in your case, they just deleted the post. Then, you went ahead and reposted that deleted content, which counts as another violation under the "persistence" category. That’s when you ended up getting hit with that 100-point strike.

Since I care quite a bit about how we communicate here, I don't think the massive strike should have been for the initial post itself, especially since I could clearly see you had good intentions in what you wrote. It seems to me that in situations like this, there should be room for lighter penalties instead of treating everyone the same as the trolls who post just to provoke people.

Usually, the standard practice is to let the moderator explain their reasoning first. Since I'm not on that specific forum all the time, but I knew you definitely deserved some kind of reprimand, I didn't want to push back against your ban until I heard back from the mod. Unfortunately, we weren't online at the same time, so by the time we finally hashed out the details of your strike, your ban was already about to expire.

I still maintain that a hundred points was overkill, even if you did deserve some sort of consequence.

First off, thanks for actually stepping up to comment and finally confirming that the moderator was out of line here. I was honestly starting to get the impression that everyone just blindly backs up whatever their fellow mods decide, which would be incredibly unfair and would pretty much defeat the entire purpose of this subforum. So, thanks for that—even if I did have to bend over backwards a bit to finally squeeze that confirmation out of you (if you can even call it that). 😁I hope that isn't the case—or at least, I hope it stops being a thing from here on out.

I was told that during the adoption process, they hold reviews to make sure everything is looking good. I guess it’s just in the interest of helping everyone settle in, which is basically the whole point. Plus, it helps clear out all that unnecessary off-topic clutter in the process..

See, that’s exactly where the issue lies. If my post was actually off-topic—which I don't personally agree with, but whatever—then why wasn't it deleted along with the rest of the off-topic clutter in this thread? How is it that posts that are clearly, beyond any doubt, off-topic haven't been deleted yet? Is it just because they were written by forum members that the moderator—who apparently "knows" them, unlike me—decided to highlight? 😕 I honestly don't see any other reason for this. Do you actually see one? (Since you mentioned you saw the posts, I'm curious.) I mean, isn't moderating based on that kind of logic pretty unacceptable? It seems like it could be harmful, too—not just for the community members and the PDF, but ultimately for the animals they're trying to help.

Since you mentioned you’ve gone through the thread and are up to speed on the recent posts, I wanted to ask your opinion: do you think those posts where people are trying to comfort the former owner—specifically about getting Lotte back (the cat they're currently trying to rehome in this same thread)—are actually on-topic?

I don't have any issue with "spoiling" them, as my ex-owner used to accuse me of doing. My actual problem is with what potential new owners take away from those posts. I guess they just end up concluding that there's something fundamentally wrong with the cat.

So, does that actually count as being on topic? I guess we'll see. And it’s also in the interest of integration. I guess we're talking about Lotte's cats again—specifically those posts where people are telling their former owner how things are going. It's not like she did anything wrong. Honestly, maybe she should just go find herself a different cat., And then, get this—they just refuse to write it down. (and explain) I guess I'm just wondering why they ended up returning Lotte to the shelter after only a month. She was supposedly being rehomed, but now she's back in the system. Any idea what happened? 😕

Are you noticing nonsense? These posts stay on topic and actually help with rehoming Lotte, but my post where I’m just defending her—that doesn't count? 😕

Even with those posts, that cheeky moderator didn't bother deleting my entire thread—she just wiped my specific post instead. In which I am trying, in a perfectly well-meaning, polite, and well-argued manner, to demonstrate that maybe the cat isn't actually the problem...The one trying to find a new foster home, and the person who started this thread.So, she just deleted my post and then went ahead and nuked my account? A total ban? And on top of that, she actually tried to justify it by claiming my post might somehow mess up the adoption process for a specific cat?! I guess that's one way to handle things. A post where I’m essentially "defending" this cat being rehomed is considered off-topic and harmful to her adoption chances 🤦, but posts telling the former owner she did nothing wrong and suggesting she just get a different cat—all while conveniently hiding why Lotte was returned in the first place—are those posts actually helping find Lotte a new home?

To me, that's just completely illogical. Don't you think?

The posts were deleted because the moderator decided they didn't belong there and might make it harder to find the cat a home.

But it wasn't judged that the posts which *actually* make it harder to find the cat a home are the ones left by the moderator herself, specifically the posts making it obvious that the former owner returned the exact same cat after only a month, while everyone on the thread is busy comforting the former owner and telling her, again, that she isn't to blame (so the cat must be?) and that she should just pick out a different cat?! Won't those specific posts and others like them hurt Lotte? Won't any potential adopter see those posts and conclude something is wrong with Lotte, causing them to leave the thread to look for some other "normal" cat?! And those posts are still right there.

And can someone tell me (since the moderator ignored these questions, and I really think it pertains to the quality of moderation on this forum), is it actually okay to withhold the reason why the former owner returned the cat? It seems like the very first question any potential adopter would ask when they see a thread about a returned cat, especially when they see posts saying she should just get a different cat since she isn't at fault for having to return this one?? Do you see what I'm trying to point out here, or why this feels so absurd to me?

Sorry for the long rant, but I honestly don't know how else to phrase this to highlight how nonsensical this logic is and how poorly this thread has been moderated.

I get attacked immediately after asking the most logical and expected question possible— why was the cat returned and what was the actual issue if the former owner is truly blameless—only to have the moderator delete my post, give me a warning, and ban me?

You mentioned you're familiar with the topic, so tell me: does it look to you like this thread is being moderated properly, fairly, and in a way that actually helps this cat?? Because that's what's bothering me most. What kind of adopter is going to take this cat? Doesn't this drastically lower her chances of finding a new home?! How can this kind of moderation be acceptable if the goal is supposed to be helping animals get adopted?!

You can say I'm being dramatic, but please let me be extra sensitive about this, given that I have a cat myself (I'm sure I'll be accused of talking about my own pet again 😁), whom I found small, miserable, and sick. Her well-being means everything to me, and that experience living with my own cat has made me incredibly protective of cats and their fates... So, yeah, maybe I am being dramatic.

Lately, I've been spending more time on the Pets forum and planned to keep trying to help other cats, but this whole situation with Lotte's thread has been exhausting... That's why I don't want to just let it go (if I had just received some random warning elsewhere, I probably wouldn't be writing about this for weeks), but I want the moderation on this forum to be reviewed. I want answers to these questions and for it to be determined if the moderation policy used on Lotte's thread is actually acceptable. If it isn't, it needs to be reported to the people in charge so we can improve the quality of the forum and, ultimately, better serve these animals.

That’s really my main concern, mostly because I feel a bit foolish—or maybe just intimidated—by the idea. I guess what I mean is that moderation over there should probably stay strictly professional. Given all the existing friendships and connections within the community, it feels like the only thing worth policing should be whether people are actually looking out for animal welfare. At the end of the day, we're talking about lives and well-being, so that's really where the focus ought to be. Living beings....not about cars or interior design (and I really don't mean to offend those subforums). 😁So, I guess you really have to watch out for that kind of stuff over there.

With the other PDFs, I honestly didn't care much about whether a moderator would take sides just because someone is their friend or not. But here? Given everything that’s gone down, it actually stung quite a bit. It wasn't just about me, either—even if I did manage to survive a three-day ban. 🙂 😁It’s not just about being annoying; it’s that this kind of policy—the exact same stuff we saw in Lottin's thread—actually hurts the animals. It honestly just lowers their chances of finding a new home.

Maybe there should be some kind of explanation on their profiles when someone adopts an animal only to end up returning them later? It feels like we should probably know why they were brought back. I guess potential new foster parents joining this thread can just judge the situation for themselves. Who's to blame?And does anyone actually care, or are they just going to breeze in here and skim through everything I’ve already laid out?

If we’re really going to insist that the reason the cat was returned is strictly confidential, then wouldn't it make sense to just scrub the posts where people clearly mention she was sent back? Especially those comments telling the former owner to "just go get a different cat." As it stands, this thread doesn't feel like it's actually about Lotta anymore. It feels more like a commentary on the former owner, which makes it seem like all the talk about her is on-topic while anything regarding Lotte's own temperament is somehow off-topic. I guess it also ends up making it look like there's something wrong with the cat itself.

If we’re claiming the reason the cat was returned is a secret, then shouldn't all those posts telling the former owner to just go get a different cat be scrubbed from the thread? Those comments don't really have anything to do with Lotta, and honestly, they might just end up hurting her. I guess it doesn't make much sense to leave them up. That's exactly the question. Sent a message to the moderator. I guess someone should probably just delete posts like that too.So, I got a warning, and then I got banned. Just my luck, I guess. 😕

frozenowl3 said:My sister—who honestly spends way more time on these forums than I ever would—completely walked away from this entire community because of how they handle pet discussions. Apparently, she ended up stuck in the ban corner just because a moderator was having a bad day. From what she told me, the mod had spent the previous day deleting posts about lizards and throwing tantrums about how she didn't know anything about reptiles, insisting everything had to be consolidated into one specific thread or else. It was pure ego. My point is, it's incredibly easy to get slapped with a ban on a platform like this. That’s my experience with the place, and frankly, I find myself being extra cautious about what I post just to avoid dealing with those kinds of power-tripping mods.

Good luck.

I suspect your sister isn't the only one who got hit with a ban or pushed off the entire site due to stuff like this. It’s just that most people probably left quietly. Personally, I don't plan on going quietly. When the people in charge are this stubbornly insistent on breaking their own rules—rules they selectively enforce against "regular users" but seem to ignore themselves—then I guess I'll be just as stubborn about demanding explanations. According to their own guidelines, I have a right to those answers, and apparently, they're even guaranteed on this platform.

The funny part is that I was banned for supposedly persistently ignoring a moderator's warning—a ban that doesn't even actually exist (and if it did, I assume 😍 would have said something by now). Yet, now that very same moderator, along with her superiors, persistently ignores providing the explanations that the forum rules state are mandatory! 🙏 Truly a stellar example of polite and professional behavior. 😍

What isn't funny, though—it's actually pretty tragic—is that one of the core purposes of the Pets subforum is to help abandoned animals. There is this constant claim, or maybe just a fact, that there aren't enough people on this platform to actually help the animals being posted, and then they go and drive away the very people who joined specifically to help those animals. 😕

Anyway, thanks to this persistent ignoring of the rules, I'll keep bumping this thread until judgment day, or at least until one of these "super" and "hyper" moderators decides to be fair and actually respond.

Given this whole mess—not just the rule-breaking, but the dishonest and arrogant way those meant to protect us are acting—I don't really have much desire to participate here anymore. But, it won't be a problem for me to pop in every now and then just to bring this topic back to the top.

Can someone from management explain what the actual purpose of the ban corner is? Or is its existence here just a formality? Is it just there to create this illusion that there’s some kind of mechanism to protect users from biased or, frankly, aggressive moderation that clearly contradicts the forum's own rules regarding how moderators should interact with the community?

I guess, since I’ve been on this forum for over 10 years without ever being banned, I was living under the blissful delusion that the ban corner actually served a reason and fulfilled a purpose. 😕 But after getting an entirely unjustified ban about a week ago—and then being completely ignored when I appealed multiple times in the ban corner—it’s become pretty clear. Not only was my ban not lifted (which I expected would happen if I followed the rules, perhaps being a bit naive), but not a single moderator even bothered to look at my specific case, let alone write a single response to my appeal. 😕 Even the moderator who banned me without cause didn't bother answering the polite questions I posed there, which I think are relevant both to my situation and to the overall quality of how this sub-forum is run.

My question is—is this just how things work now? Is this considered okay? 😕 I mean, please, just tell me so I know. I’m asking all the moderators, super-mods, and admins.

Specifically, it's about this, so I don't have to repeat the whole story here:

And I received the ban on this thread: though, since the moderator deleted my posts, I suppose nobody can see them now except the staff... But that isn't really the main point anymore. What I'm interested in now (since my ban has obviously served its time) is a comment on this situation. Why did nobody bother responding to my appeal? And is this type of conduct by those in charge actually correct? It seems perfectly allowed, given that I'm sure no one will be held accountable for it. When it comes to moderator oversight, this forum doesn't seem nearly as ambitious as it is when handing out cards and bans (based on what seems to be the current mood of the moderator or maybe just 🤷 who they're getting along with on a thread).

I mean, that's the only conclusion I can draw from this. I am certain the ban I received wasn't deserved and that the moderator acted against the moderation guidelines when she handed it out. I'm fairly sure at least 90 percent of the moderators see that too. So, is that why no one replied? My thread sat at the top of the ban corner for days, it has over 700 views, and moderators were active on other threads in the sub-forum in the meantime, so no one can claim they didn't see the appeal.

Is this fair? Is this how the forum is managed now, and is this how you all as moderators agree to operate? 😕

What is the ban corner even for, then? If it's useless, you might as well just shut it down and turn the whole forum into a ban corner. je 🙏 Because based on this lovely experience, it's pretty clear to me that I can expect a random, nonsensical ban whenever a moderator feels like it (especially if you're relatively new to the sub-forum and haven't quite settled in with the group or the mods yet).🙄 ) So, everyone in management is just going to suck up to them? It’s not just that nobody is stepping in to fix this mistake—it’s that nobody is even willing to speak up. Honestly, if you ask me, it feels like the fox is eating the donkey.

In my ten-plus years on this forum, I haven't just avoided getting banned; I haven't even racked up nearly as many penalty points in a decade as this moderator slapped on me all at once alongside the ban. I wouldn't even go as far as to say some of those old infractions were real—some were basically handed out as an inside joke with one of the mods. So, the issue here isn't that I'm some troublemaker whose appeal gets ignored because I'm constantly picking fights.

So why is this happening? Is it because nobody wants to "get their hands dirty" by correcting a fellow moderator's call? Or maybe it's because management couldn't care less about maintaining a fair relationship with the "regular users," or about running a decent, high-quality forum, so they don't even bother looking at appeals or letting anyone review the strikes? Either way, if that's the case, why did you take these positions in the first place?? 😕

Thanks in advance.

Oh boy, I’m just now seeing all of this... Man, oh man 😁

Anyway, here are my two cents.

First off, I have to express how much this whole idea of shutting down the Paddock bothers me. I mean, seriously, you don't shut down a bank just because someone occasionally robs it! 😬

No joke (and I’m with Paški and Dorian on this one), why should everyone be punished? And why on earth is there even talk about potentially killing off the Paddock? It’s the heart and soul of this entire subforum! Other threads might be the body and mind of NASCAR, but the Paddock is the soul. The soul! 😁

People can argue that it's just people talking about things other than racing, but that’s not what it's for. There are other threads for the technical stuff; this space exists so we can actually hang out. It’s our local pub, the neighborhood dive bar where forum members gather—people who were brought together by NASCAR 😍 (just like the chat threads in other subforums serve the same purpose). So, where exactly are they planning to take that away from us? Our neighborhood hangout? The one place we can actually socialize during those long, empty stretches between races? It's our little chaotic, lovely oasis... where we can just be ourselves. 😬

In all seriousness, is closing the Paddock actually going to improve the quality of the subforum? Maybe it’ll prevent a few arguments here and there (though there are probably less drastic ways to handle that), but I’m pretty sure we’ll all lose way more than we gain. Besides, I’m fairly certain 90 percent of the regulars here are against shutting down the Paddock... and maybe that carries at least some weight?

If the Paddock goes, where are we supposed to hang out?? :-( Because after years of basically talking every single day on the Paddock, whether we ended up loving each other or hating each other 😬 , we actually want to hang out!! 😁 And we want to talk about things that aren't strictly about racing. Isn't that the case for every other subforum? Doesn't almost every subforum have its own chat thread? They do. And there's a reason for it. It's because the regulars eventually get to know each other through the forum, creating a genuine need for that kind of direct interaction. 😁 The Paddock is a staple of our community, and it would be a huge mistake (if not a total crime 😳) to just scrap it...

To our dear moderators: look, I wouldn't want to be in your shoes, but you really need to find a different way to deal with subforum issues. You can't just come at it with an axe and take everyone's heads off... it isn't fair, and it isn't helpful for the community. I mean, if you have problems in the US, you don't fix them by abolishing the country!! 😬

So, please, find another way... Sigh...

Sigh...

*blink* *blink* *blink*

darkmarlin16 said:Pat, go check your damn DMs 😁

And seriously, we’re all sitting here waiting for you to design those podium setups for the championship, especially for the VN Malaysia 😍

I think I actually replied to you about that over on the Paddock a few days ago—you might want to dig through your notifications and check. 😬 I can't seem to find my old plates anywhere, and honestly, I don't really have the time—or much of the motivation—to deal with the whole plate situation right now. 😁 I was thinking about putting together some new ones for this season, but then I got stuck wondering how to design them so they’d actually be simple enough for everyone to follow. 😬 😁

Podiums? Sure, I could probably put them together. Just don't ask me when. 😬 Sorry, I'm caught up in the chaos... you can see I'm barely hanging on here at the Paddock, and since I basically live and breathe this stuff, I guess it's pretty obvious how late it is. 😁 I'm currently working on getting my life together from scratch, basically starting at zero. 🤣

ruggedfox28 said:maybe someone pointed out a loophole in the rules to her 😬

🤣

It was obvious to me right away, the little rascal 🙂 🤣

By the way, I wasn't playing any tactical games, nor did it have anything to do with training; I simply forgot that I needed to post the offer on Tuesday, and later I wasn't sure if I could even post it anymore since there wasn't an old one left to reply to... and by the time TBF confirmed it, it was already too late 😁 Just shoot me a text next time 😳 😍 😁

Congrats to the winner 🙂

Jenson Button - Lewis Hamilton
Michael Schumacher - Nico Rosberg
Paul di Resta - Kimi Raikkonen
Pastor Maldonado - Daniel Ricciardo
Sergio Perez - Kamui Kobayashi

Is it too late to send in an offer, or am I out of luck? 😬

stormybadger8 said:Nico Rosberg vs. Michael Schumacher.
Kovalainen - Petrov
Daniel Ricciardo - Jean-Éric Vergne
Jenson Button - Lewis Hamilton
Narain Karthikeyan - Pedro de la rosa

Nico Rosberg - Michael Schumacher
Heikki Kovalainen - Vitaly Petrov
Jean-Éric Vergne - Daniel Ricciardo
Jenson Button - Lewis Hamilton
Narain Karthikeyan - Pedro de la Rosa

p.s. Sorry about the lists; I've been more swamped than usual and haven't had a second to breathe 😢

I haven't even glanced at the minutes or read a single line about F1 lately... I guess I'm totally out of the loop 😵

Anyway, I'm looking forward to the new season and hanging out with this group of heavy hitters 🙂 😁
Hi everyone 😍 and welcome to FER 🙂

Joshua Newman2 said:Just wanted to update this thread with my current headspace: I have no intention of playing in the super league this season.

(Though I still maintain that for the sake of the competition's integrity and the benefit of the team champions, those results really ought to be stripped from the entry list. 👍 ☕)

Good luck to everyone planning to play, especially cosmicridge5 and Christian Williams61, since they're easily the most popular members in the league. 😍

😢

Don't change your mind, 🙂

Come on, 🙂

stormybadger8 said:Fast as hell 🤣🤣🤣

Real woman 😍
Says I'll get on it right now, and then it shows up in five days😬🤣

But you know how I am 🙈 😬😬

Login 🙂

Baby's right where she belongs 😁

Forest Gump 🎉 Forest 👋 😁

Mercedes 🙏

stormybadger8 said:Do you really think he would've overtaken Vettel if he'd been behind Mark Webber last year?😬

He didn't show anything of Fernando Alonso in Miami.😉
Felipe Massa probably would have performed better.

I guess Alonso's time won't come until the British Grand Prix, or maybe even after.

Come on, Massa isn't going to be better than Fernando Alonso, even if Kylie Jenner Sebastian Vettel lent him a hand.🙂 😁 😁

stormybadger8 said:I’m expecting flames shooting out of Ferrari's engines, followed by nothing but ashes once they inevitably burn themselves out. 😬

🙂

I'm expecting Vettel to go wide again under pressure, but this time it’ll be because of Fernando Alonso. 😍 😁😁