Megan Nguyen22 said:I believe the fundamental flaw in modern spirituality is how people cherry-pick elements from various traditions just to suit their own whims. They craft this personalized spiritual cocktail to make it easier to keep doing exactly what they’ve always done. Essentially, they focus on treating the symptoms caused by a lack of true spirituality without ever touching the core—they never actually change who they are at the center. When life gets messy, it’s always someone else's fault; the environment is "evil" or "toxic," and they use spirituality as a convenient excuse for their own behavior. If everyone starts viewing themselves as their own god, then everyone else becomes nothing more than an object. Now, I’m not saying this applies to everyone. There are those who sincerely seek spirituality—which, to me, means striving to be better people, shedding hatred, envy, and malice... I think those souls will find fertile ground.
It honestly saddens me how everything is constantly masked in mysticism, wrapped up in being "secret" or "incomprehensible" through special techniques and methods, when true spirituality is actually about simplicity. There is no such thing as "instant spirituality." It is an exhilarating process of growth in understanding and humanity. There is no point in trying to play God; it is enough to simply strive to be a truly authentic human being. I
and I know this because I see my own hypocrisy: I can talk about spiritual matters beautifully, making everything sound wonderful, only to turn cold or irritable toward the very people who need me most. If I could just be kind to those who need it, that would be enough for me.
Those who pay back evil with good... I suppose they are my enemies; because, well, I try to follow what is good.
Psalm 38:20
False witnesses have risen up against me, accusing me of things I haven't even done.
They repaid my goodness with evil, seemingly just to bring about the ruin of my soul.
Psalm 35:11,12
Suppose King David truly aspired to be a better man. I mean, he didn't exactly want to pay evil with evil, though he certainly had to endure the things that were done to him. But even then, he never really embraced that whole "turn the other cheek" philosophy, nor did he follow that idea of hitting back harder when someone wrongs you. Not that it matters much, I guess. But my thought is, the moment he decided not to return evil in kind—rejecting that old "eye for an eye" mentality—it suggests he just bore it all in silence. It implies he was a spiritual person. Maybe.
I suppose I've been wondering lately... if someone keeps doing good for others, even when they're being paid with pure evil, does that make them a fool? Maybe. I guess it’s hard to say for sure without knowing the heart behind it. It feels like such a complicated question, really.
I suppose I should say that this whole idea of relativism doesn't actually exist in any real sense... maybe. I mean, we all face the exact same choices, regardless of whatever specific spiritual path or religious practice someone decides to follow. It feels like that to me, anyway. We can sense when someone is doing us good or if they are being evil, even if some philosopher argues that good and evil aren't even real things—you know, claiming everything is just subjective or relative. But the feeling remains, I guess.
Returning good for good... well, I suppose that isn't exactly profound wisdom. It’s just what everyone does—gangs, the mob, crooked relatives, cronies, and all those other shady characters you see in closed-off cults. It feels almost too simple, I guess. If we respond to evil with more evil, then maybe we aren't actually any different from the people causing us harm; we're just matching their level of spirituality, or lack thereof. Perhaps the real path lies elsewhere. Maybe it's about returning kindness even when faced with malice, or simply enduring the hardship and trying, quite earnestly, to become a better person through it all.
If we decide to go all in from the start—you know, by adopting this completely open, tolerant stance toward everyone—we eventually run right into that situation described in the Bible. It’s like what David was talking about regarding false witnesses and those who repay evil with good. If we take that path, they’re going to bleed us dry. I guess... maybe it's because they see our tolerance as a sign of being fools. They basically want to bait us into retaliating, forcing us to start paying evil with evil. It feels like a trap designed to pull us into a cycle of evil, or at the very least, to leave us with no choice but to just sit there and suffer through it.
I suppose someone who is trying to ascend in spirituality—trying, you know, to actually become a better person—might find themselves suddenly feeling too weak or incapable of doing any real good on their own. It’s a heavy thing. So, they might think, maybe it would be easier to do good if they joined some organized group or followed a traditional religion. But then... well, there's a catch. By joining, they end up limiting their openness to all sorts of outside influences. They basically narrow their focus to just returning kindness for kindness within that specific circle. They aren't really doing much more for the world at large, other than making their own lives feel a bit smoother and easier. And this is where it gets messy. Someone could easily end up agreeing to be a false witness against an opponent just to show love to the people who were kind to them. In those moments, I guess you could say they become exactly what people describe: a false witness, or someone who returns good for evil. Because, ultimately, the priority shifts from what is truly right to tribalism—it becomes about settling scores between clans and backing your own side, rather than focusing on what is actually good.
I suppose... if one truly follows the path of absolute Good, they are essentially always alone. They only ever have the company of that very Good they are pursuing, which requires opening oneself up as much as possible to every kind of influence. It isn't really about focusing on one's own suffering, I guess, or obsessing over the presence of evil and how toxic the world seems to be. Instead, the focus remains on the Good itself—and perhaps that is the only way to avoid falling prey to it, or being swept up by evil. If we assume—and this is just a thought—that someone like an atheist or a New Ager could experience this kind of Good, then maybe they could be just as spiritual as any traditional believer. In that case, I think we could say that their own high level of spirituality and wisdom helps them survive the onslaught of evil, much like how God helps a believer through the same struggles.