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Exactly, there are several ways an abortion can happen... and one way is through dilation and evacuation, you clueless girl!!!!!!!! There are contractions induced, and then the fetus is slowly removed; that process takes anywhere from 10 to 48 hours. After the fetus is out, they remove the placenta, and if any part stays behind, they have to perform a curettage... Did you seriously think you just take a pill and you're done? No, they extract it, and if it doesn't come out whole, it comes out in pieces... Or maybe you think you just take some "pills" and bleed it out? You could do that too. Either way, the result is the same: you kill a human being. Honestly, besides the ignorant fools who seem to think condoms were invented just for sheep, I feel so sorry for every girl who thinks an abortion is some painless, beautiful experience!!! You can call me stupid all you want, but what does that make you—someone who doesn't know basic biology, or someone who just doesn't care about "removing" their own child? It makes me sick to see girls like that. And hey, laugh at me all you want; maybe I am "uneducated" like you said, but I truly wouldn't want to be in the shoes of a girl who feels nothing for her own baby... because at the end of the day, that’s a child, whether it's 1 mm or a meter and a half long!!
And please, just stay quiet when you're this poorly informed and clueless.......
I feel for all the women who have had or are thinking about having an abortion. I feel for everyone who felt they had no choice, but that isn't the only way. And honestly, to anyone looking to do this, I advise you to think long and hard and stop listening to the "well-meaning" advice from girls who act like experts but haven't the slightest clue what they're talking about!
Abortion isn't the answer! Not for a 16-year-old and not for a 36-year-old!! I'm not talking about girls who were raped or anything like that; I'm talking about girls who CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE NOT TO PROTECT themselves, and then they come here to cry and whine on forums just looking for validation from other hens that an abortion is perfectly fine. You just show up, get it done, and go home! Sorry, but that's just how primitive people think. If you love someone, prove it, but to do something like this, you really have to be a piece of work, not a decent human being! It's not like buying pills and condoms is some massive financial burden for a woman or a girl, especially if they end up spending $150-$200 on an abortion later anyway! Or do you still insist on calling that the "best solution"?
And one last comment regarding what you said about your mom... mine got pregnant at 40. We didn't have money either, and people advised her to get rid of it for the sake of her health since she could have died during childbirth. She refused. We scraped by, I gave up so many things, and my parents helped so we could let that child live! Now, I have a mother I can hold hands with for courage and a sister I love more than life itself! But you? You have your "best solutions"... though I wonder, best for whom, dear...?
I won't say anything else. You think this is right, I don't. There's no point in dragging this out...
Take care
And please, just stay quiet when you're this poorly informed and clueless.......
I feel for all the women who have had or are thinking about having an abortion. I feel for everyone who felt they had no choice, but that isn't the only way. And honestly, to anyone looking to do this, I advise you to think long and hard and stop listening to the "well-meaning" advice from girls who act like experts but haven't the slightest clue what they're talking about!
Abortion isn't the answer! Not for a 16-year-old and not for a 36-year-old!! I'm not talking about girls who were raped or anything like that; I'm talking about girls who CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE NOT TO PROTECT themselves, and then they come here to cry and whine on forums just looking for validation from other hens that an abortion is perfectly fine. You just show up, get it done, and go home! Sorry, but that's just how primitive people think. If you love someone, prove it, but to do something like this, you really have to be a piece of work, not a decent human being! It's not like buying pills and condoms is some massive financial burden for a woman or a girl, especially if they end up spending $150-$200 on an abortion later anyway! Or do you still insist on calling that the "best solution"?
And one last comment regarding what you said about your mom... mine got pregnant at 40. We didn't have money either, and people advised her to get rid of it for the sake of her health since she could have died during childbirth. She refused. We scraped by, I gave up so many things, and my parents helped so we could let that child live! Now, I have a mother I can hold hands with for courage and a sister I love more than life itself! But you? You have your "best solutions"... though I wonder, best for whom, dear...?
I won't say anything else. You think this is right, I don't. There's no point in dragging this out...
Take care
