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Here’s the question: how much does it actually matter if a musician is a jerk? Even more importantly, how much do you care if they don't align with your specific moral or political code? For example, if someone pops up whose music absolutely blows your mind, but they openly promote Nazism, violence against women, or something similar—would you still listen? And how did you all feel about this back when you were teenagers?
I find it kind of (sarcastic) funny how a certain segment of the (anarcho)punk scene—which is supposed to be all about individuality—actually demands that people stay "punk," meaning they have to fit a specific mold with their behavior, clothes, and whatnot. A buddy of mine recently tried to set up a booth at an anarchist book fair, and the punks wouldn't let him because he didn't "fit the vibe." 🙏
Personally, I couldn't care less what someone is like; all that matters to me is the music... Lou Reed was a total piece of work to me, yet the Velvet Underground is genius, and *Transformer* is a masterpiece. Kurt Cobain and Curtis Mayfield ended up taking their own lives and leaving daughters behind, some guys like Eddie Vedder can be total assholes (though sometimes they're great), John Lennon was a messy hippie, and Johnny Cash used to cheat on his wife with basically every woman he met, but none of that stops me from loving their music. When I was a teen, though, you basically had to fit a very specific pattern for a musician or band to even be worth listening to...
I find it kind of (sarcastic) funny how a certain segment of the (anarcho)punk scene—which is supposed to be all about individuality—actually demands that people stay "punk," meaning they have to fit a specific mold with their behavior, clothes, and whatnot. A buddy of mine recently tried to set up a booth at an anarchist book fair, and the punks wouldn't let him because he didn't "fit the vibe." 🙏
Personally, I couldn't care less what someone is like; all that matters to me is the music... Lou Reed was a total piece of work to me, yet the Velvet Underground is genius, and *Transformer* is a masterpiece. Kurt Cobain and Curtis Mayfield ended up taking their own lives and leaving daughters behind, some guys like Eddie Vedder can be total assholes (though sometimes they're great), John Lennon was a messy hippie, and Johnny Cash used to cheat on his wife with basically every woman he met, but none of that stops me from loving their music. When I was a teen, though, you basically had to fit a very specific pattern for a musician or band to even be worth listening to...
In thirty-five years of marriage—thirty-five whole years!—he never once, and I mean absolutely never, stepped out on June Carter Cash. He’s just a class act... truly the greatest.