Robert Clark2 said:I was slapped with psoriasis when I was just 21—specifically, generalized plaque psoriasis—and now I’m 58, which means I’ve been stuck in this battle for exactly 37 years.
If there were actually a cure, I’d be cured by now, but unfortunately, for me and everyone else suffering through this, there isn't one.
In all this time, I’ve tried absolutely everything under the sun, from high-end pharmaceutical creams and ointments to every weird alternative remedy suggested by herbalists and "healers." None of it worked. Period. On my doctor's advice, I just stick to neutral moisturizers now just to make life slightly less miserable for myself and those around me.
Over 37 years of pure hell and misery, I’ve burned through a literal fortune—not that I regret spending it—if only I had seen even a shred of actual progress.
My skin has gotten so thin it’s basically the thickness of a sheet of cigarette paper.
I’ve handled this disease pretty damn well, if I do say so myself.
On top of the standard psoriasis, I’ve also dealt with erythrodermic psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis (who knows what else is coming for me?), but honestly, if God is listening, this is already more than enough.
As someone dealing with this, I’m a regular at the American Academy of Dermatology conferences, where the biggest names in the field show up from places like Athens, Sofia, Belgrade, Podgorica, Vienna, Ljubljana, Prague, and Munich. If these geniuses can't help me, then who on earth can???
To put it bluntly, psoriasis is a chronic, incurable disease.
I’m not giving up, though; I’m trying to make life easier, and I refuse to let this thing define my self-esteem because I always say, "Hope for the best for others, and hope for it for yourself too."
I’m asking the honest members here not to hold it against me if I get blunt in certain posts or react strongly when people start talking about "cures."
For now, I won't take it upon myself to keep posting about psoriasis unless someone specifically asks—which I doubt they will—but hey, you never know. I’ll just stick to lurking and following this forum.
If anyone is absolutely certain they can cure me, go ahead and announce it publicly, and I’ll write you into my will—I'll leave you my house on the coast of the Mediterranean Sea—but first, show me some proof that you've actually cured someone.
Warm regards.
Dear friend Nebojša,
You’re more than welcome to just follow the forum, but if you leave us without your posts and your takes, this community is going to lose its edge. Your experience is incredibly valuable to everyone fighting psoriasis, especially the poor souls who have just joined our ranks. Even if you can't find a way to help yourself, you can still help others, and you can do that better than any of us. Because of your insight and what you've lived through, this forum stays a place where people can get real advice and the kind of support they actually need.
If my previous post made you feel like you shouldn't write anymore... well, I apologize, but even so, I was just speaking my truth—what I know, what I think, and how I feel.
Because, listen, if over these last 15 years instead of slathering on every cream imaginable, jumping from doctor to doctor, scouring libraries and the internet for any scrap of news on a cure, or running from herbalist to herbalist hoping for a miracle... instead of all that, I had just humbly and sincerely prayed to God for my neighbors, for the sick, for the hungry, for the suffering, for the downtrodden, for all of humanity, and even for my own healing... I am certain that today I wouldn't have even a single spot. If I had spent that time praying instead of chasing cures, I'm sure I wouldn't have psoriasis at all.
Nebojša, I wish you nothing but the best from the Lord, and I pray God grants you healing
just like He does for everyone else...
Here, take my hand!