Brenda Reed3
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joined Jun 2010
Jesse Taylor7 I’d actually already done my homework on what might happen before the consultation even started, but honestly, it felt pretty good when he brought it up at the last possible second—you know, while I was already lying there on the table and there was absolutely no turning back. 😁
The risks involved are pretty much exactly what Charles Hall10 was getting at regarding anesthesia—even when you're in the best hands, things can still take an unexpected turn. Then there's the issue of setting expectations way too high for how the nose will actually look, which usually leads to disappointment, plus there’s always that nagging possibility of a botched procedure that ends up making breathing even harder than it was before. 🙂
I really hope people take a long, hard look at themselves before they go under the knife, honestly. You’ve got to sit there and truly weigh whether you actually want this, and more importantly, make sure you're mentally prepared for the reality that a brand-new nose isn't some magic wand that's going to fix your entire life or solve all your problems.
The sheer lack of discipline regarding fasting before surgery is honestly kind of ridiculous. It’s almost funny when you think about it—if someone can't manage to go twenty-four hours without snacking, or even half that time without grabbing a drink, they probably shouldn't be stepping foot in an operating room in the first place. If you can't handle a little bit of hunger or thirst, you aren't exactly showing the kind of mental toughness needed to deal with a medical procedure. 🙄
Charles Hall10 It’s entirely possible you didn't have a deviated septum back then, because if you did, a doctor should have stepped in to fix that immediately, but honestly, let's just wipe the slate clean and start from scratch—the most important thing is that everything can be refined and perfected now.
Like you said, if you're moving on to someone better, that's one thing, but honestly? I wouldn't even let myself get caught up with just anyone. 😁