#2161 ·
Maybe try sending an email, though even then they don't always get back to you. In my case, it feels like for every little thing, the doctor sends over a home health nurse who honestly doesn't have a clue what they're doing. I feel like I know more than she does at this point, yet she just keeps inserting herself into everything. She’ll ask me what I’m using on his skin, and I'll just say whatever I think is helping him in the moment. I can, you know, use logic. I guess avoiding home visits might be better right now given the COVID-19 situation, but sending someone who lacks basic competence really seems pointless. Even the staff from home care mention when she’s supposed to come by to check his skin. So, what’s the purpose? It's almost like she needs to move in with us. I never know when she’s going to show up; most of the time, she just appears without any notice. On top of that, she’s constantly asking questions—who has been by, where people work... I mean, why does that even matter? I don't owe her an account of my life. I suppose during a pandemic, it's definitely better to limit the number of people visiting, especially an elderly person, and frankly, I haven't really welcomed visitors before anyway.