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Tyler Scott3 Tyler Scott3 MemberOP
29 messages
joined May 2006
#1 ·
Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂
Tyler Scott3 Tyler Scott3 MemberOP
29 messages
joined May 2006
#2 ·
Hey.

The way you guys have been treating me is insulting and honestly pretty degrading.

I’ve brought nearly half a million views to this Reddit community through my threads, yet your staff just labels me a troll or a nutcase while ignoring my complaints or letting moderators sweep them under the rug.

At the very least, I deserved a little recognition—a kind word, a gesture, or even just a simple congrats—instead of this cold, heartless treatment.

Thanks for nothing, Reddit. Find yourselves another user with half a million hits since I’m clearly done responding to you.

Only an apology from Anderson would keep me on this site; I don't want to hear from anyone else on the lower levels. They had plenty of time to make it right.

Peace.
ruggedstag7 ruggedstag7 Newcomer
1 message
joined Dec 2008
#3 ·
I am in total agreement here, and you have my full support.
I’m standing right there with Tyler Scott3 on this one. Honestly, until he decides to show his face back on Reddit, I’m sitting this one out too. No more participation from me on this thread.
hollowcanyon6 hollowcanyon6 Member
12 messages
joined Feb 2009
#4 ·
Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

To be honest, I don't see who should be getting banned in this case. Do you seriously think it's worse to point out how problematic someone is than to brag about how you killed people and that you're proud of it? 😕
Is it worse to mock someone's opinion than to call a person unnatural?
Is it worse to call someone a "relic of the past" than to threaten them?

Seriously.
boldgull19 boldgull19 Member
36 messages
joined Sep 2007
#5 ·
This is my last post until Tyler Scott3 decides to show up here again.
You’ve driven him away, along with Amanda Wood3, Salaf, FMN, and the list goes on... you're driving me out too, just like you did before.

Your tactics are rock bottom.
Way to go, genius!


Never seen anything like it, thanks ruggedstag7

As for Dervish, anyone who doesn't get it knows those million threads are just Techies cluttering up this Reddit.

I'm out. Thank God Dervish made things easier for me just now.

👋

Later!
rapidmaker6 rapidmaker6 Newcomer
5 messages
joined Dec 2008
#6 ·
Tyler Scott3 said:Hey.

The way you guys have been treating me is insulting and honestly pretty degrading.

I’ve brought nearly half a million views to this Reddit community through my threads, yet your staff just labels me a troll or a nutcase while ignoring my complaints or letting moderators sweep them under the rug.

At the very least, I deserved a little recognition—a kind word, a gesture, or even just a simple congrats—instead of this cold, heartless treatment.

Thanks for nothing, Reddit. Find yourselves another user with half a million hits since I’m clearly done responding to you.

Only an apology from Anderson would keep me on this site; I don't want to hear from anyone else on the lower levels. They had plenty of time to make it right.

Peace.

...or you can just grow a backbone. You'll see how every insult eventually flips on its head, and as for the mods? God help us.

The absolute worst of them is that one total jerk.
Scott Nguyen2 Scott Nguyen2 Member
18 messages
joined Dec 2002
#7 ·
rowdyhawk10, man, props to you. Keep tearing it up while everyone else is busy hating. It’s like the wolves just swallowed Joseph whole.

_______

Whoever decides to follow those who have lost their way, he
will only end up hitting a dead end, losing his mind in the process.

Go out there and be fierce toward the non-believers,*
lay the very earth upon the hearts of your enemies.

Watch out for those who don't share your views—be sharp with them.
Don't act like a fox; be more like a lion.

If you act like a fox, lurking in the shadows, watch out that others don't
get let down by you,
because that’s a thorn in their side, and thorns are nothing but trouble.

Lull them to sleep with the rustling grass, because the wolves are hungry,
and those wolves are the enemies of Joseph. **

_____
Mesnevi, 123-127
...................................
* commentary on verse 48:29
** commentary on verse 12:13
_____

I'm done posting on Reddit for a while—joining everyone else in the boycott.

Later.🙂
Jack Hernandez Jack Hernandez Member
14 messages
joined Jul 2009
#8 ·
Look, nobody's really going to answer you because your little grievance doesn't even touch on a single actual rule on this Reddit

Seriously, telling someone they aren't allowed to violate rights guaranteed by the Constitution isn't an insult or a threat—it’s just stating a fact. 🤷
Kenneth Peterson5 Kenneth Peterson5 Active Member
124 messages
joined Nov 2007
#9 ·
Hey Tyler Scott3, Black & White, boldgull19, and Scott Nguyen2,

First off, sending big love to all of you—please, seriously, just honor your word and get back to posting here on this Reddit.
Why?
Because by walking away from a space where the minority is being labeled "bad," you’re basically telling the rest of us—the majority—that you just don't care about them.
By ditching an environment where a minority is viewed as "bad," you aren't accepting them for what they are—and let's face it, being different is hard. If you label a minority "bad," you're essentially calling them "sick," and by leaving, you're stripping away the "healthy" presence they need to balance things out. That just makes the minority even more unstable, which eventually ends up threatening the "healthy" majority even harder.

Look, I totally get why you're all revolting. There’s been a string of injustices, mostly coming from that moderator rowdyhawk10—which really hit a breaking point when he banned Black & White. But honestly, wasn't it enough to just tell that moderator you're done talking to him because, frankly, he isn't worth your time? At least, that's how I handled it.

You guys are all incredibly smart, fair, and good people—at least, that's how I've seen you, especially after spending so much time deep-diving into everything happening on the Religion subreddit over the last year. It just doesn't make sense to me why you can't accept that it's impossible for a single admin to see through all the insincerity and hypocrisy dripping from someone who seems so damn polite, articulate, and seemingly understanding (and no, I'm not talking about Nicole James here). Are you really arguing that an admin—or the owner, if you're naive enough to think Tyler Scott3 is the boss—has to spend six months in constant contact with someone, become a scholar of the Quran, and obsessively track every single thread on the Religion sub just to know who they really are?
How on earth can you expect that from any admin (or even the owner)? Like, seriously? These people have their hands full managing the whole site, and when you add the fact that they have actual, real-life, non-virtual problems to deal with in the real world—???—do you even hear yourselves?

So, my friends, please, take back what you said. You aren't achieving anything by leaving except depriving yourselves of the comfort of being here—which still exists, despite those moderators, especially that one guy who thinks he "knows better than everyone" and is "always right," whom nobody talks to anymore anyway. Plus, you're robbing plenty of other users, myself included, of the joy of reading your posts and chatting with you.

Just chill out, think about it, listen to your heart, and FORGIVE that pathetic rowdyhawk10 and Nicole James—at least enough so that their presence doesn't bother you so much that you feel the need to abandon yourselves and the rest of us users who actually respect you.

Peace be upon you 🙂
feralpilot0 feralpilot0 Active Member
142 messages
joined Jul 2018
#10 ·
rapidmaker6 said:...or you can just grow a backbone. You'll see how every insult eventually flips on its head, and as for the mods? God help us.

The absolute worst of them is that one total jerk.


😂
rowdyhawk10 rowdyhawk10 Active Member
123 messages
joined Oct 2009
#11 ·
Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

It may turn out that he isn't actually biased. We are all human and prone to mistakes, so I suppose it’s quite easy for an error to slip in with him, just as it does with me or anyone else... but fundamentally, I don't think he's being subjective.

Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

The first link isn't really an issue since it just addresses the state of society. As for the second one, I feel like it doesn't really break any of the long-standing boundaries we have here on Reddit. Maybe there’s room for some mild criticism—I suppose a moderator should probably maintain a higher level of seriousness and avoid that kind of tone—but that isn't quite enough reason to put someone on public trial. Unfortunately, that seems to have become almost standard practice on this forum. If we actually sanctioned every single post like that, I imagine this place would easily shrink down to about 200 members.

Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

So? 🙄 We aren't on... www.catholics.orgI guess it's either this, or that. www.muslim.com Or on similar sites. A lot of things posted in the "Religion" subreddit could be seen as offensive to various faiths, believers, or churches... but we can't exactly police opinions. If we started sanctioning everything that an individual believer didn't like, this Reddit would probably die within three days. Or it would turn into some sort of church or mosque... where the clergy would just get a standing ovation for everything they say. Our community isn't built like that. And thank God it isn't. You aren't right here, brother.

Tyler Scott3
here a user is being insulted.

That’s post #349. You might have missed that the same user just nine posts ago (back in #340) was threatening the Cosa Nostra (by suggesting they "silently" wipe out homosexuals), here is the link. Given that kind of garbage, it makes sense that someone would call them out, which is what Ethan did, so I don't think his post was offensive.

Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

Even if it was provoked, that post could still be flagged as trolling since it refers to Yivan as a father—so I guess I'll handle it now. My issue with you guys on the subreddit is that you didn't report that post as offensive, yet now you're complaining about why there weren't any consequences. Nobody reported him. Not a single person.

Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

Same as before. That post could also be viewed as trolling. And once again, I have to point out—mostly to you, since you're the one complaining—that you didn't report that post as offensive either. Work together and use the report button to make things easier for us! If we don't take action after that, only then should you complain about a lack of discipline. It isn't our job to monitor every single thing posted; honestly, that's impossible. 🤷

Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

Again, nobody reported it. I just issued a ban a minute ago. Please report inappropriate posts in the future.

Tyler Scott3 said:Hey there.

I won't beat around the bush. Nicole James acts as a moderator on the Religion board and on http://this thread, and she's being incredibly biased.

On this link, she shared her opinion just like any other user, but over here, her language as a moderator is pretty questionable.

Here are some posts from people who haven't been banned for staying civil.

In this one, the Catholic priesthood is being insulted.
Right here, a user is being insulted.
Another user gets insulted here.
And another insult here.
This right is the peak of failed moderation due to targeting users with insults.

If you look at the posts that actually got flagged, they're easy to find in the thread, and most of them come from the opposing side.

The topic is sensitive, sure. But moderating this way just forces the discussion into whatever direction the mod wants, which kills the natural flow of the conversation.

Like I said, I don't want to ramble, so I'm just pointing out the key moments that show she isn't being objective. As a regular user, she’s entitled to her opinion—nobody's disputing that.

Later.🙂

Just to reiterate, please report rude or offensive posts more frequently; I’d really appreciate it if you all did that more often moving forward.

Finally, I only noticed this thread yesterday and finally found a moment today to reply. I am sorry if you have decided to leave; I hope you might reconsider. 🙂 Peace
rowdyhawk10 rowdyhawk10 Active Member
123 messages
joined Oct 2009
#12 ·
ruggedstag7 said:I am in total agreement here, and you have my full support.
I’m standing right there with Tyler Scott3 on this one. Honestly, until he decides to show his face back on Reddit, I’m sitting this one out too. No more participation from me on this thread.

You won't. Not at all. To participate. 🙂

Kenneth Peterson5 said:Hey Tyler Scott3, Black & White, boldgull19, and Scott Nguyen2,

First off, sending big love to all of you—please, seriously, just honor your word and get back to posting here on this Reddit.
Why?
Because by walking away from a space where the minority is being labeled "bad," you’re basically telling the rest of us—the majority—that you just don't care about them.
By ditching an environment where a minority is viewed as "bad," you aren't accepting them for what they are—and let's face it, being different is hard. If you label a minority "bad," you're essentially calling them "sick," and by leaving, you're stripping away the "healthy" presence they need to balance things out. That just makes the minority even more unstable, which eventually ends up threatening the "healthy" majority even harder.

Look, I totally get why you're all revolting. There’s been a string of injustices, mostly coming from that moderator rowdyhawk10—which really hit a breaking point when he banned Black & White. But honestly, wasn't it enough to just tell that moderator you're done talking to him because, frankly, he isn't worth your time? At least, that's how I handled it.

You guys are all incredibly smart, fair, and good people—at least, that's how I've seen you, especially after spending so much time deep-diving into everything happening on the Religion subreddit over the last year. It just doesn't make sense to me why you can't accept that it's impossible for a single admin to see through all the insincerity and hypocrisy dripping from someone who seems so damn polite, articulate, and seemingly understanding (and no, I'm not talking about Nicole James here). Are you really arguing that an admin—or the owner, if you're naive enough to think Tyler Scott3 is the boss—has to spend six months in constant contact with someone, become a scholar of the Quran, and obsessively track every single thread on the Religion sub just to know who they really are?
How on earth can you expect that from any admin (or even the owner)? Like, seriously? These people have their hands full managing the whole site, and when you add the fact that they have actual, real-life, non-virtual problems to deal with in the real world—???—do you even hear yourselves?

So, my friends, please, take back what you said. You aren't achieving anything by leaving except depriving yourselves of the comfort of being here—which still exists, despite those moderators, especially that one guy who thinks he "knows better than everyone" and is "always right," whom nobody talks to anymore anyway. Plus, you're robbing plenty of other users, myself included, of the joy of reading your posts and chatting with you.

Just chill out, think about it, listen to your heart, and FORGIVE that pathetic rowdyhawk10 and Nicole James—at least enough so that their presence doesn't bother you so much that you feel the need to abandon yourselves and the rest of us users who actually respect you.

Peace be upon you 🙂

People really ought to listen to Kenneth Peterson5. I mean... Tyler Scott3, boldgull19, and Scott Nguyen2 should probably take his lead. As for that fourth guy—ruggedstag7, the one who identifies as Black & White—he's finished his time on this Reddit, at least from my perspective. Whether he decides to post here again is really the least of anyone's concerns.

We have provided Tyler Scott3 with more than enough explanation regarding where his judgments fall short and why his expectations lack any real foundation. Boldgull19 will return once Tyler Scott3 returns. As for Scott Nguyen2, quite a bit was already explained to him via private message earlier, so I suppose I can only hope he takes some time to reconsider his decision. Best to everyone. 🙂
Tyler Scott3 Tyler Scott3 MemberOP
29 messages
joined May 2006
#13 ·
I politely asked that the following people stop addressing me. For example, rowdyhawk10, you don't have a clue what I'm actually complaining about here. Honestly, I'm worried you're just talking to hear yourself speak, because your explanations are so transparent and empty they make me feel lightheaded.

The whole point of your response is just to suck up to the admins. You don't give a damn about me or any other user on this site. So, back off.

Dear Anderson, the way you treat us users is a disaster. There’s constant pressure being put on us, and you're constantly trying to guilt-trip us.
I have to ask: what did I ever do wrong by writing posts that reach half a million views? Isn't that enough proof that I'm actually contributing something useful?

And what was my reward for that?

Some lowlife bows before the king, and the king rewards him.
'Our king' rewards us by simply allowing us to exist.😢

You don't owe me an apology; it's your platform. Fine, let me apologize to you instead—I apologize for wasting three years of my life on this site, which has gone from being a promising community to one filled with hypocrisy. I have no desire to write on a place like this. My demand for an apology isn't really about that; it's an appeal for you, as the owner, to take the first step toward fixing the relationship between the users and the administration. The current staff can't do it because they're all too busy chasing their own careers.
Because if you, the owner, don't care about improving these relationships, why should we? We have to be here regardless, and we do it with our heads down because we respect the rules and the authority of this place. But honestly, I just don't have the motivation to contribute anymore. As things stand right now, I feel like a criminal on this site.

That's all from me.
rowdyhawk10 rowdyhawk10 Active Member
123 messages
joined Oct 2009
#14 ·
Tyler Scott3 said:I politely asked that the following people stop addressing me. For example, rowdyhawk10, you don't have a clue what I'm actually complaining about here. Honestly, I'm worried you're just talking to hear yourself speak, because your explanations are so transparent and empty they make me feel lightheaded.

The whole point of your response is just to suck up to the admins. You don't give a damn about me or any other user on this site. So, back off.

Dear Anderson, the way you treat us users is a disaster. There’s constant pressure being put on us, and you're constantly trying to guilt-trip us.
I have to ask: what did I ever do wrong by writing posts that reach half a million views? Isn't that enough proof that I'm actually contributing something useful?

And what was my reward for that?

Some lowlife bows before the king, and the king rewards him.
'Our king' rewards us by simply allowing us to exist.😢

You don't owe me an apology; it's your platform. Fine, let me apologize to you instead—I apologize for wasting three years of my life on this site, which has gone from being a promising community to one filled with hypocrisy. I have no desire to write on a place like this. My demand for an apology isn't really about that; it's an appeal for you, as the owner, to take the first step toward fixing the relationship between the users and the administration. The current staff can't do it because they're all too busy chasing their own careers.
Because if you, the owner, don't care about improving these relationships, why should we? We have to be here regardless, and we do it with our heads down because we respect the rules and the authority of this place. But honestly, I just don't have the motivation to contribute anymore. As things stand right now, I feel like a criminal on this site.

That's all from me.

Why shouldn't I step in to defend a colleague facing what seem to be several mostly baseless accusations? This is a Reddit thread, after all. I was simply trying to explain that you might be mistaken and that it would be better if you stayed on the platform, since we can't exactly redesign the entire Religion PDF to satisfy everyone's specific preferences. Everyone has their own opinions, I suppose. We tried to establish some order and find a middle ground through the community guidelines. It seems more productive to stay and suggest new rules, doesn't it? 🙂

Tyler Scott3 said:I politely asked that the following people stop addressing me. For example, rowdyhawk10, you don't have a clue what I'm actually complaining about here. Honestly, I'm worried you're just talking to hear yourself speak, because your explanations are so transparent and empty they make me feel lightheaded.

The whole point of your response is just to suck up to the admins. You don't give a damn about me or any other user on this site. So, back off.

Dear Anderson, the way you treat us users is a disaster. There’s constant pressure being put on us, and you're constantly trying to guilt-trip us.
I have to ask: what did I ever do wrong by writing posts that reach half a million views? Isn't that enough proof that I'm actually contributing something useful?

And what was my reward for that?

Some lowlife bows before the king, and the king rewards him.
'Our king' rewards us by simply allowing us to exist.😢

You don't owe me an apology; it's your platform. Fine, let me apologize to you instead—I apologize for wasting three years of my life on this site, which has gone from being a promising community to one filled with hypocrisy. I have no desire to write on a place like this. My demand for an apology isn't really about that; it's an appeal for you, as the owner, to take the first step toward fixing the relationship between the users and the administration. The current staff can't do it because they're all too busy chasing their own careers.
Because if you, the owner, don't care about improving these relationships, why should we? We have to be here regardless, and we do it with our heads down because we respect the rules and the authority of this place. But honestly, I just don't have the motivation to contribute anymore. As things stand right now, I feel like a criminal on this site.

That's all from me.

I'm not apologizing, because I didn't send them a DM or anything like that... And it isn't true that I don't care; I do care. How could you possibly say that? I actually suspect you don't even mean that yourself. Selam. 🙂
rowdyhawk10 rowdyhawk10 Active Member
123 messages
joined Oct 2009
#15 ·
I forgot to mention... this happened right while we were here tackling important issues. 🙄
I suspect you would have been much more constructive (both you and everyone else) than you were with this protest over some ''perfected act''.

And it really isn't right to let Kenneth Peterson5 be correct when he wrote: "By abandoning the environment,
where the minority is considered 'bad,' you are showing the rest of you—the majority—that you simply don't care about her..."


Give that some thought! 🙄
Lisa Ortiz2 Lisa Ortiz2 Member
39 messages
joined Oct 2005
#16 ·
Tyler Scott3 said:I politely asked that the following people stop addressing me. For example, rowdyhawk10, you don't have a clue what I'm actually complaining about here. Honestly, I'm worried you're just talking to hear yourself speak, because your explanations are so transparent and empty they make me feel lightheaded.

The whole point of your response is just to suck up to the admins. You don't give a damn about me or any other user on this site. So, back off.

Dear Anderson, the way you treat us users is a disaster. There’s constant pressure being put on us, and you're constantly trying to guilt-trip us.
I have to ask: what did I ever do wrong by writing posts that reach half a million views? Isn't that enough proof that I'm actually contributing something useful?

And what was my reward for that?

Some lowlife bows before the king, and the king rewards him.
'Our king' rewards us by simply allowing us to exist.😢

You don't owe me an apology; it's your platform. Fine, let me apologize to you instead—I apologize for wasting three years of my life on this site, which has gone from being a promising community to one filled with hypocrisy. I have no desire to write on a place like this. My demand for an apology isn't really about that; it's an appeal for you, as the owner, to take the first step toward fixing the relationship between the users and the administration. The current staff can't do it because they're all too busy chasing their own careers.
Because if you, the owner, don't care about improving these relationships, why should we? We have to be here regardless, and we do it with our heads down because we respect the rules and the authority of this place. But honestly, I just don't have the motivation to contribute anymore. As things stand right now, I feel like a criminal on this site.

That's all from me.

Dervish, I am right there with you. 😍
The whole concept of Religion on this Reddit has completely gone to hell.😁
Amanda Wood3 Amanda Wood3 Newcomer
1 message
joined Dec 2008
#17 ·
Of course, I am siding with the group from the Religion section; there is really no need for me to explain my reasoning, as my previous complaints speak for themselves.
Kenneth Peterson5 Kenneth Peterson5 Active Member
124 messages
joined Nov 2007
#18 ·
Look, please don't be lazy—just read through my signature a couple of times. If you actually wrap your heads around it (which I’m pretty sure you can), maybe ask yourselves why we’re still obsessing over every ugly thing that was said or done when there's so much beauty out there in the world?

I believe in God, but I don't claim any specific religion. That said, reading through different faiths, I've always been drawn to Islam. As far as I can tell, there’s just one Quran containing the thoughts and guidance of the Prophet Muhammad—who, from what I’ve gathered, was an incredibly humble and righteous man. His message is straightforward and easy to grasp, so I honestly don't get why you guys are constantly bickering or acting like you know better than what's actually written in the Quran. All you're doing is dragging down the image of Islam and all of you Muslims as a whole.
Instead of—all of you, collectively—showing off the wisdom within the Quran and proving how Islam is a single, universal path meant for everyone.

I get that back in the day, certain primitive groups might have interpreted the Quran differently, but in this day and age, at our current level of civilization, that shouldn't even be an issue anymore.

Sorry if I'm being blunt here, but hey, that’s just the take of someone who isn't part of a religion and is just watching from the sidelines.

I feel bad about the Black & White situation; I’m still sticking to my guns that he was treated unfairly.
I feel bad about the massive crackdown on the Religion sub-forum, but that's just how these forums work, just like politics. I can't even imagine how things would be if the situation were different.
It's a shame there's such a lack of motivation to post on the Muslim.com forum lately...
It's a bummer that you all teamed up to be negative instead of coming together for something positive.

Change what you can, and let's just move on.

Bottom line:
It feels like you’re all forgetting why you’re even here, because this is a Reddit thread—it’s supposed to be a place for fun.
Kate Phillips40 Kate Phillips40 Newcomer
8 messages
joined Dec 2008
#19 ·
I’ve been thinking about this whole situation for a while now, and I’ve realized that acting this way won't get us anywhere. I agree with most of you, but I truly believe we can fix everything just by staying active and participating here on Reddit, rather than leaving or trying to hide behind burner accounts. If I decided to boycott or stay silent, or if I put someone like Kate Phillips40 in "quarantine" while secretly posting under a fake name, I'd just be lying to myself. I’d much rather stand my ground using my one real username—even if people criticize me because they don't quite get 😁—because that feels more honest. It's better than pretending I stopped posting when I actually haven't. 🤷
Sure, there are moments of injustice and plenty of issues, but I think we can clear them up the same way they started: through conversation.
In this thread, Dervish criticized how Nicole James handles things, and others have pointed fingers at rowdyhawk10. Honestly, if the moderators are willing, it would be great if they stepped up here so we can clear the air. It looks like rowdyhawk10 is already open to making compromises, and I’m sure Nicole James will show up soon too. Plus, we have private messages, so if the mods messed up, let's just handle it privately.
I really miss Scott Nguyen2 and Dervish because your posts are what make this community what it is. Come back, everyone. Don't let anyone push you to the point where you give up after all this time.

I'm with Kenneth Peterson5 on this:

"Fix what you can and move on."

Since you mentioned it, Kenneth Peterson5, I just want to clarify one thing you said regarding the Quran, specifically when you noted:

"As far as I know, there's only one Quran containing the thoughts and advice of the Prophet Muhammad..."

Actually, the Quran doesn't contain Muhammad's personal thoughts or advice; it contains the direct words of God, which Muhammad was commanded to deliver to all of humanity.
Just a small correction, but it matters. 👍

I also hope Nicole James and rowdyhawk10 show some good faith here so we can find a positive way forward.

Come back, we miss you guys!

Peace and all the best. 👍
rowdyhawk10 rowdyhawk10 Active Member
123 messages
joined Oct 2009
#20 ·
I honestly wish Tyler Scott3, boldgull19, and Scott Nguyen2 would come back; I’m sure they know they should. As for me, I'll share my thoughts when the time comes, though I feel I already understand everything necessary. I suppose I have to learn how to learn in order to know what I know. And that is why I know. 😛 🤣 I'm feeling pretty exhausted tonight, so I can't really write much more. Maybe Nicole James and I will show up tomorrow (provided I don't head out on my trip). If I do leave, then, God willing, I'll be back the day after. Regardless, please don't let the Reddit community fall apart just because of some mistake of mine—or perhaps a few mistakes. You can see for yourselves that things aren't quite right there anymore. Perhaps ruggedstag7 could try using a luckier username... while still following the same recommendations I made previously. The goal should be building up rather than tearing down. We need to forget the past and start fresh, without falling back into those old habits. It might take a little longer to rebuild that trust, but I don't think it's impossible. For someone with a friendly disposition, it shouldn't be too difficult. Peace

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