Fashion for curvy girls

brightrider95 said:Try pairing a skirt with a T-shirt.
I dealt with the exact same headache. I needed something more upscale for a dinner party, but everything I tried was a disaster—either too baggy on the bottom or way too tight up top. In the end, I just threw together a tulle top and a skirt, and honestly? It looked fantastic.
Mind you, I was being pretty picky about my budget; I didn't want to blow more than $100 😬
. If cash isn't an issue for you, go check out Marina Rinaldi—part of the Max Mara group, I believe. I think their prices hover around $500.

I was considering picking up a skirt and a top, but since I’m serving as the maid of honor at this wedding, a dress feels like the more appropriate move. It isn't that money is an issue for me, but I’m already feeling pretty exhausted, and at this point, I just want to be able to zip something up and be done with it. 😁 I'll take a look at that shop you mentioned. Thanks for the tip.

Arthur Kim74 said:In the States, they have size 44, and you can definitely find some really gorgeous dresses there...

I checked out the options there earlier and only came across one dress that leaned toward being formal. Aside from the fact that it didn't quite hit the level of elegance I was looking for, it was black—and I've heard through the grapevine that wearing black to a wedding is a bit of a faux pas. Since I don't find myself attending weddings very often, I’m not entirely sure how strictly that rule is applied these days. If anyone has a different take on the etiquette or some better insight, I’d appreciate the help. 🙂
I'll take another look at this next week; perhaps I'll have something new to share then. 🙂 You're welcome. 🙂

William Nelson4 said:If it helps at all, I'm a size 8/10, and I've had those same boutique workers on Fifth Avenue look me up and down before even asking, "Looking for something for yourself? Oh, nope, we don't carry your size!"
So, seriously, don't let their stupid looks and comments get to you. If they were actually smart, they'd stock clothes they could sell to living, breathing people—people who aren't a tiny size 0 or 2... Maybe our retailers will finally realize that women come in different shapes, just like shoe stores finally figured out how to stock a size 9 or 10 without making it a whole mission. Before that, finding decent shoes was basically impossible.

A saleswoman at a shop recently made the assumption that my breasts weren't natural. She actually looked me in the eye and said, "Since you clearly had enough money for breast implants, you should be able to afford to have this dress tailored." It wasn't exactly funny at the time. 😁

Well, it’s Xnation again, and this time I’m looking for Marina Rinaldi. I’m heading out on a hunt next week, so if anyone happens to remember anything before then, it would be greatly appreciated. 🙂

placidbadger18 said:I was considering picking up a skirt and a top, but since I’m serving as the maid of honor at this wedding, a dress feels like the more appropriate move. It isn't that money is an issue for me, but I’m already feeling pretty exhausted, and at this point, I just want to be able to zip something up and be done with it. 😁 I'll take a look at that shop you mentioned. Thanks for the tip.

I checked out the options there earlier and only came across one dress that leaned toward being formal. Aside from the fact that it didn't quite hit the level of elegance I was looking for, it was black—and I've heard through the grapevine that wearing black to a wedding is a bit of a faux pas. Since I don't find myself attending weddings very often, I’m not entirely sure how strictly that rule is applied these days. If anyone has a different take on the etiquette or some better insight, I’d appreciate the help. 🙂
I'll take another look at this next week; perhaps I'll have something new to share then. 🙂 You're welcome. 🙂

A saleswoman at a shop recently made the assumption that my breasts weren't natural. She actually looked me in the eye and said, "Since you clearly had enough money for breast implants, you should be able to afford to have this dress tailored." It wasn't exactly funny at the time. 😁

Well, it’s Xnation again, and this time I’m looking for Marina Rinaldi. I’m heading out on a hunt next week, so if anyone happens to remember anything before then, it would be greatly appreciated. 🙂

😲 😠 Yeah, it’s not exactly hilarious now either. Just completely uncalled for. I would have just said: "Sorry for trying to burden you with the massive task of finding a decent dress. I didn't realize you were too dim-witted to handle such a heavy workload." Not to mention filing a formal complaint...

Oh my gosh, what a comment! 😲 I’ve honestly only ever shopped at Mrs. Nerri’s boutique over on Main Street. I mean, okay, I did get some sewing done there twice, but the owner is just such a sweetheart. She’s genuinely wonderful—she always went out of her way to give me advice on which colors would actually suit my skin tone and which cuts would make my figure look its best. In the end, she did an absolutely stellar job. 😍

Kenneth Garcia9 said:😲 😠 Yeah, it’s not exactly hilarious now either. Just completely uncalled for. I would have just said: "Sorry for trying to burden you with the massive task of finding a decent dress. I didn't realize you were too dim-witted to handle such a heavy workload." Not to mention filing a formal complaint...

Actually, I find it quite amusing now. 🙂
Even if she had a point, there was no way she should have spoken like that. Given that her colleague didn't even flinch at the remark, I assumed it wasn't just an isolated instance of bad manners, and arguing wouldn't have changed the outcome anyway.

Peter Gray2 said:Oh my gosh, what a comment! 😲 I’ve honestly only ever shopped at Mrs. Nerri’s boutique over on Main Street. I mean, okay, I did get some sewing done there twice, but the owner is just such a sweetheart. She’s genuinely wonderful—she always went out of her way to give me advice on which colors would actually suit my skin tone and which cuts would make my figure look its best. In the end, she did an absolutely stellar job. 😍

I can't recall the exact name of Mrs. Nora's shop right now; I walk past so many boutiques in that district that they all blur together, but I can look it up. 🙂 Do you happen to remember their general price range?

It’s one of those spots right near Chase Bank, just across from the local pub, if you know what I mean 🙂 I paid about $500 for my sewing because they provided all the fabric (it was silk, and let me tell you, we used a ton of it), plus they tend to bump up the price a bit since they're a high-end bridal boutique. I assume their other prices are in that same ballpark, though I wasn't really paying much attention to the rest of the dresses.

Does anyone know where I can find something slightly more formal in larger sizes here in Omaha?

I have weddings to attend and absolutely nothing to wear. Any ideas? Just please don't suggest dresses or skirts... those are completely off the table.😁

Two years ago at a wedding, I went with a grey blouse—silk, black and white combo. Paired it with some sharp black trousers and high-heeled sandals. I was happy with the look; felt perfectly dressed for the occasion.

Elizabeth Gomez3 said:Does anyone know where I can find something slightly more formal in larger sizes here in Omaha?

I have weddings to attend and absolutely nothing to wear. Any ideas? Just please don't suggest dresses or skirts... those are completely off the table.😁

Ugh, I don't know, but I’ll probably be in the exact same boat—only my situation is in Chicago, because I have these weddings looming over me this summer. I’ve put on a bit of weight lately and just can't fit into anything nice from my wardrobe over the last few seasons. Besides, I live in athleisure and casual gear almost constantly, so I don't really have a "special occasion" backup plan. T-shirts and tops aren't an issue, but finding decent, dressy trousers? That feels like a mission impossible. To be honest, half the stuff I see wouldn't have looked right on me even when I was thinner, let alone now that my options for stores carrying my size feel so limited.

And I absolutely loathe wearing gray. I really don't want to deal with the headache of hunting down the perfect cut or specific fabric. Good grief, it has been ages since I’ve been to a wedding! I truly am at a loss for what to wear that looks sophisticated but actually feels comfortable. Comfort is everything to me—I am definitely not one of those people who insists on squeezing into something they never wear, just to end up struggling to move or worrying about how to sit down properly. Or, heaven forbid, forcing myself into uncomfortable shoes. 🤣 I was thinking perhaps a tunic or a nice top paired with some slim 3/4 length or cropped pants, but that sounds easy to imagine and incredibly hard to actually find. Maybe I'll just cave and buy one of those trendy maxi dresses? It might actually suit me better since I don't do high heels, though I still think I'd feel much more secure in pants.

The funniest part? I personally love wearing white, but that is a bit awkward for a wedding, isn't it? There is always that one person who points a finger at you, and since I don't know the bride well enough, I have no idea if she would find it offensive or not.

And sandals are another nightmare. 🙂 I have foot issues—I'm seeing a physical therapist for them—so if I try to buy something as flat as a pancake, I end up in absolute agony. Modern footwear is just terribly uncomfortable, even those designer sandals that go for $200 or $300.

I think I might actually pass out if someone accidentally asks me to be a bridesmaid. Okay, okay, that’s drifting way too far from the topic... 😬

What a total ramble this post turned into. What I actually wanted to ask was:

Do you guys know if Macy's ever has good sales? 🙂

coppergardener... that cat in your avatar is a perfect metaphor for you. It’s an exact reflection of your posts. 🤣🤣😍

I was planning on wearing some brown formal 3/4 trousers—they have that silky sort of texture—paired with black heeled sandals I already have at home. 😁

But now... what should I wear on top? That is my current dilemma.

Hey ladies... it’s been forever since I popped into this thread... but oh my god, I have to tell you guys about my recent trip to Target—it was kind of a letdown, honestly! Every single T-shirt they had was way too short... and it's not even like I'm super tall or anything... but I am seriously obsessed with shirts that actually cover my butt!! I am such a sucker for that look, it's my absolute weakness!! 😉 So, I didn't exactly have a "eureka" moment while browsing... I managed to snag just one single shirt that was actually a bit longer...

But anyway, since we're all chatting about weddings... I can't even begin to imagine myself in those tight little dresses or silk slips and stuff like that. But lately, it feels like weddings are being thrown at me left and right! So, I headed over to Old Navy (I’ve mentioned them before and yeah, I’m a loyal customer through and through) and picked up these gorgeous cotton pants—straight leg style—and a tunic to go with them. And get this—the tunic is FINALLY long enough! It's also cotton, fits perfectly, and has this amazing printed design on it. It washes totally fine, too. It’s such a cool piece!!! And trust me, it looks SO good!!! 😍😍

When she first showed it to me... I'll be honest, I totally blanked for a second. I actually thought the sales clerk had lost her mind—like, how on earth am I supposed to wear this to a wedding? My first instinct was just... nope, no way... 🤷 But then, once I actually put it on... wow... I was stunned! I couldn't believe how flattering it was and how much it elongated my whole silhouette!!
It’s this beautiful earthy brown color with a floral print that has these stunning copper and chocolate tones... it's seriously amazing!! Plus, it's incredibly comfy. And the best part? I've been wearing the pants every day to work lately because it's been so hot out, and they are just so breezy and easy—just wide, straight legs. Honestly, I felt like I wasn't wearing anything at all!!! 😍😍
I'm already planning to grab a different printed tunic for the next wedding in July—maybe a sleeveless one this time, because I bet it's going to be absolutely scorching out there!!

So, yeah, that's all the help I can offer regarding wedding attire, since I'm definitely not the type for dresses, skirts, or fancy button-downs...

I really hope you all find exactly what you're looking for!!! 😍😍

Sorry for the massive wall of text, but I just had to share this with you all since I know the struggle of hunting down the perfect outfit for a wedding is REAL!!

Ugh, I can't believe she wrote all that entire saga just to totally blank on the actual question at the end... and then she rolls up to this thread acting like she’s checking if anyone even mentioned it—like, girl, I *know* where to look! Anyway, what I actually want to know is—where are you guys picking up those breezy little summer shorts right now?? You know, the ones perfect for hitting the beach or just lounging around the house when it's boiling out? Are we talking 100% cotton or some other comfy vibe??

darkpilot532 said:Ugh, I can't believe she wrote all that entire saga just to totally blank on the actual question at the end... and then she rolls up to this thread acting like she’s checking if anyone even mentioned it—like, girl, I *know* where to look! Anyway, what I actually want to know is—where are you guys picking up those breezy little summer shorts right now?? You know, the ones perfect for hitting the beach or just lounging around the house when it's boiling out? Are we talking 100% cotton or some other comfy vibe??

on those Chinese sites!!

I found some truly lovely pairs... perfect for the beach or just hanging out at home... and they only cost $12 per piece... plus they carry sizes from Small all the way up to XXXL. 😍

I took photos of two different pairs. These grey ones have a sweatshirt-like material... very soft. When you put them on, they fit quite snugly through the top, while the legs are wide and straight-cut.


As for these olive ones, they are an 80% cotton and 20% polyester blend. 😉

Legice, where exactly are the leggings located? And I guess... maybe there are other colors available?

Bradley Jones3 said:Legice, where exactly are the leggings located? And I guess... maybe there are other colors available?

Over in Osage, on Kapucin Street... I picked up the gray, purple, black, and dark green ones, but I believe they have yellow and orange available as well.😁

Where can I find that lady? Thanks.😉

Lady XXL is over at 65 Tratinja... in downtown Chicago... it’s right in that sweet spot between the Chase Bank and the old vacant lot near the expressway... super close to the Wells Fargo too... don't even bother calling because you can spot it easily from the CTA train—plus, if you're driving, you can pull up right to the front door... if you need a more detailed breakdown, just hit my PMs... I don't wanna clog up this thread with a whole novel right now.
sorry it took me forever to get back to you--I haven't been hanging out on this forum much lately.

darkpilot532 said:Lady XXL is over at 65 Tratinja... in downtown Chicago... it’s right in that sweet spot between the Chase Bank and the old vacant lot near the expressway... super close to the Wells Fargo too... don't even bother calling because you can spot it easily from the CTA train—plus, if you're driving, you can pull up right to the front door... if you need a more detailed breakdown, just hit my PMs... I don't wanna clog up this thread with a whole novel right now.
sorry it took me forever to get back to you--I haven't been hanging out on this forum much lately.

Thanks!👍

Where can I pick up a two-piece swimsuit in a size 50 that doesn't look like something my grandmother would wear?

Elizabeth Gomez3, the pants arrived. They're great. 😍

copperpanther50 - maybe check ASOS? they've had a plus-size line for a while now. I picked up their tankini and I'm pretty happy with it, I guess. 🙂

Hi ladies, I’m serving as a bridesmaid this coming September. I was wondering if any of you have come across some elegant evening gowns in a US size 8 to 10 that don't look particularly dated or dowdy? I'd really love to find something ready-to-wear so I can avoid the whole headache of buying fabric and sewing everything myself from scratch.