placidbadger18 said:I'm not entirely sure if this is the right thread for this, but I'm getting desperate enough to try my luck here.
I need a formal dress, but because I have a larger bust, nothing I try on actually fits. 😢 I wear a size 8 on the bottom, but my top is more like a size 14.
Are there any other women dealing with this same issue, and where do you usually shop for dresses?
I’ve already combed through everything on Fifth Avenue and near Madison, hit up the malls like Roosevelt Field and Mall of America, checked both Importante locations, and wandered through countless boutiques downtown, but I've come up empty.
I also looked in stores that carry plus sizes—thinking I could always tailor the bottom if the fit was right—but every single dress there feels way too serious. Can anyone recommend a shop with a more youthful, modern vibe?
After being practically kicked out of a few shops by salesclerks who basically told me they didn't carry anything for someone like me, I'm hoping someone here might actually have a useful suggestion. 😢
Thanks!
If it helps at all, I'm a size 8/10, and I've had those same boutique workers on Fifth Avenue look me up and down before even asking, "Looking for something for yourself? Oh, nope, we don't carry your size!"
So, seriously, don't let their stupid looks and comments get to you. If they were actually smart, they'd stock clothes they could sell to living, breathing people—people who aren't a tiny size 0 or 2... Maybe our retailers will finally realize that women come in different shapes, just like shoe stores finally figured out how to stock a size 9 or 10 without making it a whole mission. Before that, finding decent shoes was basically impossible.