Fashion for curvy girls

Hey everyone 🙂
It feels like I haven’t posted—or even scrolled through this thing—in forever. Honestly, I wasn't even sure if there was a notification about Oltre launching their online shop.
Has anyone actually tried ordering from them yet?
Look, they aren't cheap, let's be real, but hey, it's still an option on the table if you're looking...

I'm looking for some assistance—does anyone know where I can find women's clothing in sizes 54–56 here in the States or perhaps in a nearby country?

Hey everyone, I need some advice 🙂>

I’m asking for my sister who is having a nightmare trying to find a decent bikini here in the States because of her bust size. In her local department store, she’s looking at the largest cup size available paired with the smallest band (like a 32 band), which basically means she’s stuck with those basic, single-color bras sitting in boxes on the bottom shelf of the clearance section. She can’t find a single actual bikini top in any regular shop that actually fits her proportions.

Does anyone have recommendations for online shops—ideally a few different ones—that actually carry a massive selection of bikini tops? Specifically, she needs underwire, something sturdy, and non-padded. Also, if you’ve ordered from them before, were you happy with the quality? And more importantly, are the sizes actually true to size and do they actually match the measurement charts?

I actually ordered my bikini top from http://www.figleaves.com just the other day! I managed to snag it during one of their sales, which made it about £35 cheaper than anywhere else I looked online. It arrived at my house in just a few days, and honestly, the quality is absolutely fantastic—definitely worth the wait. 👍

Thanks for the link, I think we finally cracked which US size 😁 we're actually looking at here.
Just to be absolutely sure though, shipping is $3.95, right? https://wecc.drct2u.com/system/templ...very-time-cost

Shipping beyond the States
Service
Cost
Delivery window

Standard domestic postal service **

$7.50
Canada, Mexico, Japan, Germany, Australia, South Africa, Taiwan
can drag on for up to 20 business days once it leaves our hands

Everywhere else: typically arrives within 5-10 business days after dispatch

Military APO/FPO: prepare to wait up to 30 days for it to actually reach you

Express* (DHL) $25
1-5 business days from dispatch

swiftheron80 said:Hey everyone, I need some advice 🙂>

I’m asking for my sister who is having a nightmare trying to find a decent bikini here in the States because of her bust size. In her local department store, she’s looking at the largest cup size available paired with the smallest band (like a 32 band), which basically means she’s stuck with those basic, single-color bras sitting in boxes on the bottom shelf of the clearance section. She can’t find a single actual bikini top in any regular shop that actually fits her proportions.

Does anyone have recommendations for online shops—ideally a few different ones—that actually carry a massive selection of bikini tops? Specifically, she needs underwire, something sturdy, and non-padded. Also, if you’ve ordered from them before, were you happy with the quality? And more importantly, are the sizes actually true to size and do they actually match the measurement charts?

I was at the H&M near downtown today and saw bras and swimsuits up to an 80F—they might have even larger cups, so she should check there; she can try them on too.
A D cup is just right for me, and I’ve got a pretty decent shape, so I figure something there might work for her.
Marks & Spencer also carries large cups, but yeah—they’re way more expensive than H&M.

swiftheron80 said:Thanks for the link, I think we finally cracked which US size 😁 we're actually looking at here.
Just to be absolutely sure though, shipping is $3.95, right? https://wecc.drct2u.com/system/templ...very-time-cost

darkbadger88 said:Shipping beyond the States
Service
Cost
Delivery window

Standard domestic postal service **

$7.50
Canada, Mexico, Japan, Germany, Australia, South Africa, Taiwan
can drag on for up to 20 business days once it leaves our hands

Everywhere else: typically arrives within 5-10 business days after dispatch

Military APO/FPO: prepare to wait up to 30 days for it to actually reach you

Express* (DHL) $25
1-5 business days from dispatch

Yes, indeed. 5,95 I was just sitting here thinking about how much of a headache shipping costs can be lately, and honestly, it feels like they’re becoming a total racket. It’s one of those little things that seems minor until you’re at the checkout screen and suddenly realize you’re paying almost as much for the box to get to your door as you are for the actual item itself! I remember back when I used to order stuff online more frequently, the shipping fees felt much more reasonable, but now it feels like every single delivery service in the country has decided to hike up their rates all at once. It really puts a dampener on the excitement of finding something great, doesn't it? You find that perfect thing, you're feeling all happy, and then—bam—the shipping fee hits and you're left wondering if it's actually worth the hassle.
Honestly, I am just so incredibly relieved because they seriously make these bikini tops massive! I finally found a swimsuit that doesn't make me feel like I'm absolutely overflowing everywhere, and for once, it actually fits properly around my back without being way too loose. It feels so good to finally have a win like this!🙂 I actually stumbled upon something while I was out there that I honestly thought I’d never find in my size— ovo. 🎉

Just a heads-up, you know—with their system, the alignment is always slightly off, with one word sitting just a bit lower than the European figures. 😉

I was scrolling through some tabs earlier today while sipping my morning coffee—the good stuff from the local roastery near my place—and I stumbled upon this incredibly helpful resource for anyone trying to navigate the sometimes confusing world of bra sizing. It’s one of those little corners of the internet that actually delivers exactly what it promises without all the fluff. If you've ever felt like you were guessing your size at a department store like Macy's or Nordstrom, only to find out later that the fit was totally off, this guide is a lifesaver. It breaks down the measurements in such a clear, logical way that it takes all the guesswork out of the equation. Honestly, I think we could all benefit from having these kinds of straightforward tools handy; it just makes the whole shopping experience so much more seamless and less frustrating. It’s definitely worth bookmarking for the next time you're updating your wardrobe!

Looks like she finally pulled the trigger on ASOS. Honestly, can't blame her—charging 6 bucks just for shipping is a total rip-off.

Anyone here actually dealt with ASOS sizing before? Specifically this one:
http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-FULLER...=21&gridsize=3

So, if the list says 75 F, based on that chart you posted, she should be looking at a 32 E? That’s basically what we got when she was playing around with the measuring tape and checking those UK sites.

swiftheron80 said:Looks like she finally pulled the trigger on ASOS. Honestly, can't blame her—charging 6 bucks just for shipping is a total rip-off.

Anyone here actually dealt with ASOS sizing before? Specifically this one:
http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-FULLER...=21&gridsize=3

So, if the list says 75 F, based on that chart you posted, she should be looking at a 32 E? That’s basically what we got when she was playing around with the measuring tape and checking those UK sites.

A 75 is a 34 in UK sizing.

I’m totally obsessed with these styles

bra 1

bra 2

bikini

Honestly, I can only deal with full coverage, underwire, and no padding. And if they have really wide straps, even better.

Last year I picked up this bikini, and it covers everything perfectly and feels super sturdy, though I wasn't a huge fan of how it gave me those weird, pointy Madonna-style boobs 🤣

Hey, I’m looking for a smooth, plain white strapless bra in a 90-95C size.
The issue is finding anything that actually fits my proportions. It seems like every brand out there just focuses on massive cup sizes, while finding the right band circumference is where everyone falls short.

Rachel Kim2 said:Heading to a wedding and this is the dress I’m thinking of buying.

Need advice and suggestions on what to wear over it. The wedding is in May, so it'll be chilly and I need some kind of layer. Is a blazer too formal? I'm looking at this or this

Hey, did you end up buying the dress? Did it arrive yet?

Where do you guys shop for jeans, leggings, or whatever online? (I’m mostly looking for things like jeggings). I'm a size 112 in the hips, so I honestly have no clue what size to grab—it feels like everything depends on the cut and the fabric. I really love that super tight fit.
I was browsing the MANGO site earlier and they have some cute stuff. Does anyone know how long shipping usually takes, and can I actually return them if they don't fit right?

Alexander Richardson8 said:
Ugh, I need a smooth white strapless bra in a 90-95 C.
It’s such a struggle because of the band size. Everything I find has huge cups, but my actual circumference is the issue.

Why not just grab an 85C and use a bra extender?

Alexander Richardson8 said:Hey, I’m looking for a smooth, plain white strapless bra in a 90-95C size.
The issue is finding anything that actually fits my proportions. It seems like every brand out there just focuses on massive cup sizes, while finding the right band circumference is where everyone falls short.

I mean, I’m pretty sure brands like Victoria's Secret or maybe even Triumph have those specific sizes—you know, those tiny little minimizers? The ones that actually stay in place because of the wire, but still feel soft when you touch them and just... I don't know, they last forever. Anyway, you should totally hit up their actual stores—like, their official boutiques, not some random department store—and just ask. I really think they'll have them. Just let me know if you end up finding anything.

Linda Johnson15 said:Why not just grab an 85C and use a bra extender?

But look, it’s just not the same thing. And honestly, the cup size actually scales up a bit as the band size increases. So, like, an 85C is going to be a measurably smaller cup than a 95C. I know exactly what I'm talking about because I use those bra extenders myself, and let me tell you—it never, ever feels the same as the original fit.

So, my question is: Where the hell am I supposed to find these UK sizes? I’m looking at like a 105-110C, and honestly, I have no clue how to actually pick a size when I'm trying to order stuff online. It's such a headache.

Edit: Turns out I was wrong, I just checked and it’s actually 48°C.

What do you guys think about this?
I was just scrolling through eBay—because apparently, that’s how I spend my life now—and I stumbled onto this listing for a full coverage something-or-other. Honestly, looking at these things makes me wonder if anyone actually buys this stuff anymore or if it's all just digital clutter. It looks okay, I guess? Maybe? I can't quite tell from the photos. They always look better in the listing than they do in real life, which is kind of the problem with everything lately. Anyway, I don't know. Just felt like sharing because my brain is fried.

I mean, let's be real here—we just don't want it to end up being nothing more than a scrap of fabric that doesn't actually hold anything together. I guess you could say it's all about structure, right? Because if it doesn't have that, well, what's even the point? It's just... wasted material. Maybe I'm overthinking it, but still.

So, here's the deal:
Where can I actually order a 48C that actually looks like what I posted and—this is the big one—actually holds everything in? And please, let's not go crazy on the price... I'm looking for something without those weird ridges halfway up the cup. You know, like someone mentioned wanting that "Madonna-style pointed look."🤣 I want it to be nice and "smooth," more like those Triumph or La Senza minimizers...

Kimberly Chavez56 said:I mean, I’m pretty sure brands like Victoria's Secret or maybe even Triumph have those specific sizes—you know, those tiny little minimizers? The ones that actually stay in place because of the wire, but still feel soft when you touch them and just... I don't know, they last forever. Anyway, you should totally hit up their actual stores—like, their official boutiques, not some random department store—and just ask. I really think they'll have them. Just let me know if you end up finding anything.

But look, it’s just not the same thing. And honestly, the cup size actually scales up a bit as the band size increases. So, like, an 85C is going to be a measurably smaller cup than a 95C. I know exactly what I'm talking about because I use those bra extenders myself, and let me tell you—it never, ever feels the same as the original fit.

So, my question is: Where the hell am I supposed to find these UK sizes? I’m looking at like a 105-110C, and honestly, I have no clue how to actually pick a size when I'm trying to order stuff online. It's such a headache.

Edit: Turns out I was wrong, I just checked and it’s actually 48°C.

What do you guys think about this?
I was just scrolling through eBay—because apparently, that’s how I spend my life now—and I stumbled onto this listing for a full coverage something-or-other. Honestly, looking at these things makes me wonder if anyone actually buys this stuff anymore or if it's all just digital clutter. It looks okay, I guess? Maybe? I can't quite tell from the photos. They always look better in the listing than they do in real life, which is kind of the problem with everything lately. Anyway, I don't know. Just felt like sharing because my brain is fried.

I mean, let's be real here—we just don't want it to end up being nothing more than a scrap of fabric that doesn't actually hold anything together. I guess you could say it's all about structure, right? Because if it doesn't have that, well, what's even the point? It's just... wasted material. Maybe I'm overthinking it, but still.

From what I gather, her main issue is that a larger band automatically means a bigger cup. If an 85C actually fits her cup size perfectly, using an extender would give her the extra room she needs around the ribs while keeping that specific cup size intact.🤷

cosmicnomad6 said:Where do you guys shop for jeans, leggings, or whatever online? (I’m mostly looking for things like jeggings). I'm a size 112 in the hips, so I honestly have no clue what size to grab—it feels like everything depends on the cut and the fabric. I really love that super tight fit.
I was browsing the MANGO site earlier and they have some cute stuff. Does anyone know how long shipping usually takes, and can I actually return them if they don't fit right?

About 4-5 business days. You can definitely return anything that doesn't work out.👍

Moving on to the bra...

I found this one on a list, and honestly, the added coverage makes it look great.
It’s a 90C—just enough to pick up the girls while smoothing out those little bits of extra fluff around the edges.😵