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rustymaker5 rustymaker5 Regular
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#21 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Let's get one thing straight: stripping away every single desire? That's a pipe dream.
The real grind—the actual spiritual heavy lifting—is about swapping out those shallow, material cravings for something deeper, more spiritual. That’s the whole game.

Thanks for the kind words, I guess. 🕺

But how on earth are you supposed to take something like the urge to eat and somehow trade it for a spiritual longing? 🤔
Or what about the endless mountain of other desires that just tie us down to our physical existence?

I’d argue that the goal should be to let go of the attachment to what we want, rather than trying to delete the desires themselves...
James Miller2 James Miller2 Member
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#22 ·
bluemason3 said:Unlike some suicidal amateur and the Grand Inquisitor😁

Could you elaborate on that?
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 RegularOP
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#23 ·
rustymaker5 said:But how on earth are you supposed to take something like the urge to eat and somehow trade it for a spiritual longing? 🤔
Or what about the endless mountain of other desires that just tie us down to our physical existence?

I’d argue that the goal should be to let go of the attachment to what we want, rather than trying to delete the desires themselves...

Look, once you finally leave this body behind, you basically get a choice: you can reincarnate back into the physical world where you still have to deal with hunger, or you can head off into the spiritual realm where eating isn't even a thing anymore.

When you're staring down the barrel of infinity, these 80 or 90 years we spend on Earth are basically a rounding error—straight up zero.
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#24 ·
James Miller2 said:Understanding what? A child cannot grasp the concept of morality without guidance. People need a compass in life. Without one, they are nothing.

A man without faith is a dangerous man. That is all I have to say regarding the rest of your comment.

Anything, really. But mostly just someone else's business.

James Miller2 said:Understanding what? A child cannot grasp the concept of morality without guidance. People need a compass in life. Without one, they are nothing.

A man without faith is a dangerous man. That is all I have to say regarding the rest of your comment.

Most adults—and yeah, I’m looking at you too—don't actually grasp what morality even is. So why on earth would you expect a kid to have it all figured out? At its core, morality is a pretty straightforward concept, but religious fanatics love to overcomplicate things and twist the logic just to justify their own ridiculous dogmas.

Look, even if you actually had the capacity to interpret biblical allegory properly—instead of clinging to those infantile fantasies about the existence of God—you’re still facing a massive wall: we are talking about values that are two thousand years old. It’s pretty obvious you haven't brushed up on your history, but civilization and our entire value system have shifted so drastically since then that most of those biblical messages are just straight-up irrelevant in the modern world. Then there's the bigger issue: the Bible was written in an era without the internet, back when information sharing was incredibly limited. It was penned by people living in a tiny little corner of the map. It’s like if someone from a small town in rural Alabama wrote a book about local customs and regional traditions, and then tried to force those specific Southern sensibilities on the entire planet as universal truth. That is exactly what the Bible is today: a way for one specific tribe to impose its niche sectarian morals onto a much broader population and demographic. That’s why believers—despite thinking they’re the gold standard for morality—are actually morally autistic in practice. They base their entire ethical framework on the words of a handful of people from a two-thousand-year-old Middle Eastern sect that has zero relevance to the modern age. So, yeah, it’s no wonder people call you narrow-minded. It’s hard not to be stuck in the past when you're trying to cling to Iron Age values in the middle of the Information Age.

James Miller2 said:Understanding what? A child cannot grasp the concept of morality without guidance. People need a compass in life. Without one, they are nothing.

A man without faith is a dangerous man. That is all I have to say regarding the rest of your comment.

It’s an interesting little fantasy, I guess. Especially since thousands of years of actual history have taught us that people driven by religious zealotry are pretty much the absolute worst part of humanity.
Keith Lopez6 Keith Lopez6 Newcomer
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#25 ·
James Miller2 said:Understanding what? A child cannot grasp the concept of morality without guidance. People need a compass in life. Without one, they are nothing.

A man without faith is a dangerous man. That is all I have to say regarding the rest of your comment.

However, isn't the man who requires faith just to remain moral even more perilous?
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#26 ·
James Miller2 said:Could you elaborate on that?

Isn't it pretty obvious? 🤔

There’s no reason to assume religious affiliation is such a decisive factor in someone's antisocial behavior, though context matters. I'd argue the best predictor is actually personality structure (or perhaps a dysfunction therein), which remains fixed in adulthood regardless of whether someone embraces or rejects faith.

Low impulse control—especially when paired with "dark triad" traits, specifically certain types of psychopathy (where impulsivity is a core component)—is likely a much more reliable predictor than whether a person is a believer or not.
In short, at the individual level, the dangerous cocktail is poor emotional regulation combined with a lack of empathy. Both are largely fixed personality traits that are nearly impossible to change once you're an adult, making them independent of religious identity.

When you look at group dynamics, however, things shift slightly, particularly when there's a heavy "us vs. them" divide. In those cases, the exact same person can be viewed as a hero by one side and a villain by the other.
While it isn't the sole driver (existential threats and economic conditions play a major role) and we shouldn't reduce complex behaviors to a single cause, intense ideology usually goes hand-in-hand with deeper social divisions, tighter group cohesion, and the demonization of an "outgroup."
In this sense, a highly ideological person is more dangerous to anyone outside their tight circle because they can be easily swayed toward actions against the opposing community (like the aforementioned attention-seeking attacks). This doesn't have to be religious ideology; it could be political or otherwise, but religion certainly possesses that kind of potential.

These elements can overlap quite clearly. Just as someone prone to pedophilia might seek out professions involving children—whether they're a youth soccer coach or a priest at a Catholic parish—someone with antisocial traits is more likely to gravitate toward social positions or groups that accommodate them. But again, that can happen within a religious organization just as easily as any other institution. We could also speculate about an overrepresentation of certain personality structures within group dynamics, but let's not get carried away.

On a more positive note, I'd suggest that a similarly strong ideology can act as a stabilizing force for individuals with moderate, manageable issues with empathy or impulsivity. It functions as a sort of "exoskeleton," provided they don't turn that strength against an "outgroup" as mentioned earlier.
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#27 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Look, once you finally leave this body behind, you basically get a choice: you can reincarnate back into the physical world where you still have to deal with hunger, or you can head off into the spiritual realm where eating isn't even a thing anymore.

When you're staring down the barrel of infinity, these 80 or 90 years we spend on Earth are basically a rounding error—straight up zero.

🤣
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#28 ·
rustymaker5 said:But how on earth are you supposed to take something like the urge to eat and somehow trade it for a spiritual longing? 🤔
Or what about the endless mountain of other desires that just tie us down to our physical existence?

I’d argue that the goal should be to let go of the attachment to what we want, rather than trying to delete the desires themselves...

There are just so many people out there who go absolutely overboard with food and drinks. Like, they’ve made it their entire personality. It's like they think eating is the whole reason they even exist! Honestly, every wise person ever—and even the holy Scriptures—calls that out. They’re basically just gluttons and drunkards, wasting everything they touch. It's like their stomach is their god (Phil 3:19). They don't sit down at a table because they actually need fuel; they do it because they can't help themselves. They just dive in headfirst. Then you’ve got the other crowd. These folks approach eating as a necessity, not a hobby. They don't live to eat; they eat to live. I've always respected that kind of wisdom and moderation. If they could get by without constantly snacking or drinking, they’d probably be thrilled about it. They aren't obsessed with the next meal. They're more focused on staying connected to God. St. Augustine
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#29 ·
James Miller2 said:Understanding what? A child cannot grasp the concept of morality without guidance. People need a compass in life. Without one, they are nothing.

A man without faith is a dangerous man. That is all I have to say regarding the rest of your comment.

But honestly? The dogmatic types and the fanatics... they're way more dangerous.
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#30 ·
coastalwalker9 said:I can't say for certain, but I suspect that as the years pass, many of our emotions simply begin to settle. They quiet down, perhaps even fade away entirely, leaving us to view the world through a lens that is much more grounded and realistic. It isn't necessarily that the feelings vanish completely, but rather that they become diluted, losing that sharp, overwhelming intensity they once held. There is one exception, though. Joy. Perhaps, if we're lucky, that's the one thing that actually deepens as we age.

There are always exceptions though. I mean, have you seen Lubin's (ZEVS) posts over on that philosophy forum? 🤣
But yeah, I guess with age, some kind of wisdom is supposed to kick in eventually...
rustymaker5 rustymaker5 Regular
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#31 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Look, once you finally leave this body behind, you basically get a choice: you can reincarnate back into the physical world where you still have to deal with hunger, or you can head off into the spiritual realm where eating isn't even a thing anymore.

When you're staring down the barrel of infinity, these 80 or 90 years we spend on Earth are basically a rounding error—straight up zero.

Sure, the spiritual realm might be free from material cravings, but while we’re stuck here in physical reality, those desires are just part of being human... and honestly, it makes me wonder how you'd even swap out a basic hunger for food for some spiritual substitute without starving to death during our brief eighty years on this planet... unless, obviously, you've already left the body.
Or take any other physical drive—you know, sex, socializing, the urge to work, traveling... all that stuff.

By the way, that first sentence of yours reminded me of something a woman who had a near-death experience once said: laugh, enjoy yourself, eat as much chocolate as you want, and for heaven's sake, don't take this life too seriously!

I mean, since we've been dropped into this world, gifted with the capacity to feel and to want things, why on earth would we try to suppress or deny that? Finding a balance—yeah, sure, don't be greedy for material things at the expense of the soul, and don't get too attached to specific outcomes because life is unpredictable—but trying to kill off our physical side just to feed a spiritual side that we aren't even consciously aware of most of the time... that just seems like a fast track to misery and total frustration to me...🤷
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 RegularOP
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#32 ·
rustymaker5 said:Sure, the spiritual realm might be free from material cravings, but while we’re stuck here in physical reality, those desires are just part of being human... and honestly, it makes me wonder how you'd even swap out a basic hunger for food for some spiritual substitute without starving to death during our brief eighty years on this planet... unless, obviously, you've already left the body.
Or take any other physical drive—you know, sex, socializing, the urge to work, traveling... all that stuff.

By the way, that first sentence of yours reminded me of something a woman who had a near-death experience once said: laugh, enjoy yourself, eat as much chocolate as you want, and for heaven's sake, don't take this life too seriously!

I mean, since we've been dropped into this world, gifted with the capacity to feel and to want things, why on earth would we try to suppress or deny that? Finding a balance—yeah, sure, don't be greedy for material things at the expense of the soul, and don't get too attached to specific outcomes because life is unpredictable—but trying to kill off our physical side just to feed a spiritual side that we aren't even consciously aware of most of the time... that just seems like a fast track to misery and total frustration to me...🤷

Food is basically the prerequisite that lets you actually *do* anything else in life.
The material world exists to serve the spiritual one.

Nobody is telling you that you can't enjoy material things; I don't see the issue there. 🤷 It's just that if you take a real good look around, the world is absolutely crawling with suffering, violence, despair, wars, hunger, and tragedy. Does that sound like a "good" state of affairs to you, or does it feel like something needs to change? If you think this current mess is fine, then hey, no problem.

All this suffering stems from the illusion that matter is going to bring you happiness. Spoiler alert: it won't. You've got billionaires, actors, pop stars—people who have everything the world has to offer—and they’re still miserable. A person gets exactly what they always wanted, and as soon as they grab it, they start eyeing something new. That's just how the material world works; it's a bottomless pit that can never be filled.
Wealthy nations have access to every resource on the planet, yet they still go to war and snatch resources from other countries.
People were born into this material existence because they wanted to rule, they wanted control, but it's all an illusion. True, absolute control belongs only to God, and once you finally realize that, that's when you actually experience freedom.
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#33 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Food is basically the prerequisite that lets you actually *do* anything else in life.
The material world exists to serve the spiritual one.

Nobody is telling you that you can't enjoy material things; I don't see the issue there. 🤷 It's just that if you take a real good look around, the world is absolutely crawling with suffering, violence, despair, wars, hunger, and tragedy. Does that sound like a "good" state of affairs to you, or does it feel like something needs to change? If you think this current mess is fine, then hey, no problem.

All this suffering stems from the illusion that matter is going to bring you happiness. Spoiler alert: it won't. You've got billionaires, actors, pop stars—people who have everything the world has to offer—and they’re still miserable. A person gets exactly what they always wanted, and as soon as they grab it, they start eyeing something new. That's just how the material world works; it's a bottomless pit that can never be filled.
Wealthy nations have access to every resource on the planet, yet they still go to war and snatch resources from other countries.
People were born into this material existence because they wanted to rule, they wanted control, but it's all an illusion. True, absolute control belongs only to God, and once you finally realize that, that's when you actually experience freedom.

Maybe for you. Personally, I was born because my parents felt like hooking up. 🤷
rustymaker5 rustymaker5 Regular
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#34 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Food is basically the prerequisite that lets you actually *do* anything else in life.
The material world exists to serve the spiritual one.

Nobody is telling you that you can't enjoy material things; I don't see the issue there. 🤷 It's just that if you take a real good look around, the world is absolutely crawling with suffering, violence, despair, wars, hunger, and tragedy. Does that sound like a "good" state of affairs to you, or does it feel like something needs to change? If you think this current mess is fine, then hey, no problem.

All this suffering stems from the illusion that matter is going to bring you happiness. Spoiler alert: it won't. You've got billionaires, actors, pop stars—people who have everything the world has to offer—and they’re still miserable. A person gets exactly what they always wanted, and as soon as they grab it, they start eyeing something new. That's just how the material world works; it's a bottomless pit that can never be filled.
Wealthy nations have access to every resource on the planet, yet they still go to war and snatch resources from other countries.
People were born into this material existence because they wanted to rule, they wanted control, but it's all an illusion. True, absolute control belongs only to God, and once you finally realize that, that's when you actually experience freedom.

But how can you possibly claim that this urge to manage things and grab control is the sole reason we even exist in this physical realm? 🤔
What if that’s just one facet of how God exists? I mean, if God is truly absolute—existing within everything and containing everything—then man’s individual desires would have to hang on nothing at all unless they were fundamentally part of God's plan. Unless, of course, you're operating under the assumption that humans are somehow separate or detached from God...?😲
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#35 ·
David Vaughn75 said:Food is basically the prerequisite that lets you actually *do* anything else in life.
The material world exists to serve the spiritual one.

Nobody is telling you that you can't enjoy material things; I don't see the issue there. 🤷 It's just that if you take a real good look around, the world is absolutely crawling with suffering, violence, despair, wars, hunger, and tragedy. Does that sound like a "good" state of affairs to you, or does it feel like something needs to change? If you think this current mess is fine, then hey, no problem.

All this suffering stems from the illusion that matter is going to bring you happiness. Spoiler alert: it won't. You've got billionaires, actors, pop stars—people who have everything the world has to offer—and they’re still miserable. A person gets exactly what they always wanted, and as soon as they grab it, they start eyeing something new. That's just how the material world works; it's a bottomless pit that can never be filled.
Wealthy nations have access to every resource on the planet, yet they still go to war and snatch resources from other countries.
People were born into this material existence because they wanted to rule, they wanted control, but it's all an illusion. True, absolute control belongs only to God, and once you finally realize that, that's when you actually experience freedom.

Man, why do you have such an intense, almost desperate need to be controlled by God?
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#36 ·
rustymaker5 said:But how can you possibly claim that this urge to manage things and grab control is the sole reason we even exist in this physical realm? 🤔
What if that’s just one facet of how God exists? I mean, if God is truly absolute—existing within everything and containing everything—then man’s individual desires would have to hang on nothing at all unless they were fundamentally part of God's plan. Unless, of course, you're operating under the assumption that humans are somehow separate or detached from God...?😲

The way they put it sounds pretty dualistic, like they're splitting things into two worlds—the spiritual side and the material side. It makes me wonder though... where do thoughts fit into that split? They aren't purely spiritual, but they definitely aren't just physical matter either. 😁
James Miller2 James Miller2 Member
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#37 ·
goldenjackal6 said:Anything, really. But mostly just someone else's business.

Most adults—and yeah, I’m looking at you too—don't actually grasp what morality even is. So why on earth would you expect a kid to have it all figured out? At its core, morality is a pretty straightforward concept, but religious fanatics love to overcomplicate things and twist the logic just to justify their own ridiculous dogmas.

Look, even if you actually had the capacity to interpret biblical allegory properly—instead of clinging to those infantile fantasies about the existence of God—you’re still facing a massive wall: we are talking about values that are two thousand years old. It’s pretty obvious you haven't brushed up on your history, but civilization and our entire value system have shifted so drastically since then that most of those biblical messages are just straight-up irrelevant in the modern world. Then there's the bigger issue: the Bible was written in an era without the internet, back when information sharing was incredibly limited. It was penned by people living in a tiny little corner of the map. It’s like if someone from a small town in rural Alabama wrote a book about local customs and regional traditions, and then tried to force those specific Southern sensibilities on the entire planet as universal truth. That is exactly what the Bible is today: a way for one specific tribe to impose its niche sectarian morals onto a much broader population and demographic. That’s why believers—despite thinking they’re the gold standard for morality—are actually morally autistic in practice. They base their entire ethical framework on the words of a handful of people from a two-thousand-year-old Middle Eastern sect that has zero relevance to the modern age. So, yeah, it’s no wonder people call you narrow-minded. It’s hard not to be stuck in the past when you're trying to cling to Iron Age values in the middle of the Information Age.

It’s an interesting little fantasy, I guess. Especially since thousands of years of actual history have taught us that people driven by religious zealotry are pretty much the absolute worst part of humanity.


Regarding morality, such conclusions can only be drawn on your own behalf, not on behalf of all mankind.
Without religious communities, man would struggle to find a sense of how to distinguish good from evil.

Most faiths preach peace, love, community, and forgiveness.
These are instructions for a happier life. Fantasy develops when a person refuses to engage with the world around them and stays trapped within the bubble of their own ego.

And I ask that people who have never practiced faith do not write about it. Passive observers should stay silent.

Keith Lopez6 said:However, isn't the man who requires faith just to remain moral even more perilous?

Sopdet, a believer has an authority above themselves. Someone watching and recording every thought and action.

An atheist has no one but themselves. They are "responsible" only to themselves.
That is a very dangerous territory for the development of the human spirit and soul.

bluemason3 said:Isn't it pretty obvious? 🤔

There’s no reason to assume religious affiliation is such a decisive factor in someone's antisocial behavior, though context matters. I'd argue the best predictor is actually personality structure (or perhaps a dysfunction therein), which remains fixed in adulthood regardless of whether someone embraces or rejects faith.

Low impulse control—especially when paired with "dark triad" traits, specifically certain types of psychopathy (where impulsivity is a core component)—is likely a much more reliable predictor than whether a person is a believer or not.
In short, at the individual level, the dangerous cocktail is poor emotional regulation combined with a lack of empathy. Both are largely fixed personality traits that are nearly impossible to change once you're an adult, making them independent of religious identity.

When you look at group dynamics, however, things shift slightly, particularly when there's a heavy "us vs. them" divide. In those cases, the exact same person can be viewed as a hero by one side and a villain by the other.
While it isn't the sole driver (existential threats and economic conditions play a major role) and we shouldn't reduce complex behaviors to a single cause, intense ideology usually goes hand-in-hand with deeper social divisions, tighter group cohesion, and the demonization of an "outgroup."
In this sense, a highly ideological person is more dangerous to anyone outside their tight circle because they can be easily swayed toward actions against the opposing community (like the aforementioned attention-seeking attacks). This doesn't have to be religious ideology; it could be political or otherwise, but religion certainly possesses that kind of potential.

These elements can overlap quite clearly. Just as someone prone to pedophilia might seek out professions involving children—whether they're a youth soccer coach or a priest at a Catholic parish—someone with antisocial traits is more likely to gravitate toward social positions or groups that accommodate them. But again, that can happen within a religious organization just as easily as any other institution. We could also speculate about an overrepresentation of certain personality structures within group dynamics, but let's not get carried away.

On a more positive note, I'd suggest that a similarly strong ideology can act as a stabilizing force for individuals with moderate, manageable issues with empathy or impulsivity. It functions as a sort of "exoskeleton," provided they don't turn that strength against an "outgroup" as mentioned earlier.


Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Have you ever been a believer? Have you actually experienced what you are writing about?

Stories about seeing believers do non-religious things are nothing but old wives' tales.
You can find people like that on both "sides."

I am interested in your personal experience if you have ever been involved in this.
Then we might actually have a constructive conversation. You could present the facts that troubled you or things that didn't make sense to you.

The way you view faith is so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.
It is all ideology, psychology, and philosophy.

If you lack the personal experience of feeling even a small amount of faith, you will never truly understand it; it will always remain within the realm of fantasy to you.

It is a different matter if you tried it and found it didn't work, or if too much remained unclear to you.
Otherwise, further discussion from my end is pointless. It would just be a waste of your energy and mine, and our precious time.
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 RegularOP
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#38 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:Maybe for you. Personally, I was born because my parents felt like hooking up. 🤷

Look, man, if you really think that’s the whole story, then fine—believe whatever helps you sleep at night. 🤷 Just don't come crying to me when reality hits, because honestly? Your take is like 1% of what people actually think. If anything, I should be the one looking at you like you've lost your mind. 😁

rustymaker5 said:But how can you possibly claim that this urge to manage things and grab control is the sole reason we even exist in this physical realm? 🤔
What if that’s just one facet of how God exists? I mean, if God is truly absolute—existing within everything and containing everything—then man’s individual desires would have to hang on nothing at all unless they were fundamentally part of God's plan. Unless, of course, you're operating under the assumption that humans are somehow separate or detached from God...?😲

I don't know, I just believe it because it actually makes sense to me.
If life in this world just happens regardless of what we want, then it feels fundamentally unfair. Why does one guy end up with all the cash while another is broke? Why is one person loved by everyone and another totally isolated? Why is one person healthy while another is struggling with illness?

Karma is the only thing that adds up, but let's face it—we can't control the laws of karma even if we tried our hardest. Only God can mess with the laws of nature.

neonmarlin39 said:The way they put it sounds pretty dualistic, like they're splitting things into two worlds—the spiritual side and the material side. It makes me wonder though... where do thoughts fit into that split? They aren't purely spiritual, but they definitely aren't just physical matter either. 😁

It's that classic moment where some guy is mocking you, but he's talking such absolute nonsense that you can't help but laugh in his face. 🙏 🙏
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#39 ·
James Miller2 said:Regarding morality, such conclusions can only be drawn on your own behalf, not on behalf of all mankind.
Without religious communities, man would struggle to find a sense of how to distinguish good from evil.

Most faiths preach peace, love, community, and forgiveness.
These are instructions for a happier life. Fantasy develops when a person refuses to engage with the world around them and stays trapped within the bubble of their own ego.

And I ask that people who have never practiced faith do not write about it. Passive observers should stay silent.

Sopdet, a believer has an authority above themselves. Someone watching and recording every thought and action.

An atheist has no one but themselves. They are "responsible" only to themselves.
That is a very dangerous territory for the development of the human spirit and soul.

Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Have you ever been a believer? Have you actually experienced what you are writing about?

Stories about seeing believers do non-religious things are nothing but old wives' tales.
You can find people like that on both "sides."

I am interested in your personal experience if you have ever been involved in this.
Then we might actually have a constructive conversation. You could present the facts that troubled you or things that didn't make sense to you.

The way you view faith is so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.
It is all ideology, psychology, and philosophy.

If you lack the personal experience of feeling even a small amount of faith, you will never truly understand it; it will always remain within the realm of fantasy to you.

It is a different matter if you tried it and found it didn't work, or if too much remained unclear to you.
Otherwise, further discussion from my end is pointless. It would just be a waste of your energy and mine, and our precious time.

There goes that massive ego of yours again with the whole "you can't" routine. Honestly, how incredibly arrogant do you have to be to tell someone you don't even know what they can or can't do?

I can, I am, and I damn well will in the future, because I possess these data-input devices known as senses—specifically sight and hearing—which, when paired with my information processor known as the brain, give me the ability to draw logical conclusions from the world around me.

James Miller2 said:Regarding morality, such conclusions can only be drawn on your own behalf, not on behalf of all mankind.
Without religious communities, man would struggle to find a sense of how to distinguish good from evil.

Most faiths preach peace, love, community, and forgiveness.
These are instructions for a happier life. Fantasy develops when a person refuses to engage with the world around them and stays trapped within the bubble of their own ego.

And I ask that people who have never practiced faith do not write about it. Passive observers should stay silent.

Sopdet, a believer has an authority above themselves. Someone watching and recording every thought and action.

An atheist has no one but themselves. They are "responsible" only to themselves.
That is a very dangerous territory for the development of the human spirit and soul.

Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Have you ever been a believer? Have you actually experienced what you are writing about?

Stories about seeing believers do non-religious things are nothing but old wives' tales.
You can find people like that on both "sides."

I am interested in your personal experience if you have ever been involved in this.
Then we might actually have a constructive conversation. You could present the facts that troubled you or things that didn't make sense to you.

The way you view faith is so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.
It is all ideology, psychology, and philosophy.

If you lack the personal experience of feeling even a small amount of faith, you will never truly understand it; it will always remain within the realm of fantasy to you.

It is a different matter if you tried it and found it didn't work, or if too much remained unclear to you.
Otherwise, further discussion from my end is pointless. It would just be a waste of your energy and mine, and our precious time.

And here’s another incredibly stupid and totally inaccurate mantra. Most of the evil in human history was actually committed by believers acting in the name of their own authority.
Religious groups don't actually help people distinguish right from wrong; they just force their own specific ideological version of what they want you to believe is good or bad.

James Miller2 said:Regarding morality, such conclusions can only be drawn on your own behalf, not on behalf of all mankind.
Without religious communities, man would struggle to find a sense of how to distinguish good from evil.

Most faiths preach peace, love, community, and forgiveness.
These are instructions for a happier life. Fantasy develops when a person refuses to engage with the world around them and stays trapped within the bubble of their own ego.

And I ask that people who have never practiced faith do not write about it. Passive observers should stay silent.

Sopdet, a believer has an authority above themselves. Someone watching and recording every thought and action.

An atheist has no one but themselves. They are "responsible" only to themselves.
That is a very dangerous territory for the development of the human spirit and soul.

Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Have you ever been a believer? Have you actually experienced what you are writing about?

Stories about seeing believers do non-religious things are nothing but old wives' tales.
You can find people like that on both "sides."

I am interested in your personal experience if you have ever been involved in this.
Then we might actually have a constructive conversation. You could present the facts that troubled you or things that didn't make sense to you.

The way you view faith is so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.
It is all ideology, psychology, and philosophy.

If you lack the personal experience of feeling even a small amount of faith, you will never truly understand it; it will always remain within the realm of fantasy to you.

It is a different matter if you tried it and found it didn't work, or if too much remained unclear to you.
Otherwise, further discussion from my end is pointless. It would just be a waste of your energy and mine, and our precious time.

Yet another piece of nonsense. Religion preaches love and unity exclusively among its own kind, while simultaneously judging and persecuting anyone who thinks differently—which you just practically demonstrated with your next statement:

James Miller2 said:Regarding morality, such conclusions can only be drawn on your own behalf, not on behalf of all mankind.
Without religious communities, man would struggle to find a sense of how to distinguish good from evil.

Most faiths preach peace, love, community, and forgiveness.
These are instructions for a happier life. Fantasy develops when a person refuses to engage with the world around them and stays trapped within the bubble of their own ego.

And I ask that people who have never practiced faith do not write about it. Passive observers should stay silent.

Sopdet, a believer has an authority above themselves. Someone watching and recording every thought and action.

An atheist has no one but themselves. They are "responsible" only to themselves.
That is a very dangerous territory for the development of the human spirit and soul.

Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Have you ever been a believer? Have you actually experienced what you are writing about?

Stories about seeing believers do non-religious things are nothing but old wives' tales.
You can find people like that on both "sides."

I am interested in your personal experience if you have ever been involved in this.
Then we might actually have a constructive conversation. You could present the facts that troubled you or things that didn't make sense to you.

The way you view faith is so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.
It is all ideology, psychology, and philosophy.

If you lack the personal experience of feeling even a small amount of faith, you will never truly understand it; it will always remain within the realm of fantasy to you.

It is a different matter if you tried it and found it didn't work, or if too much remained unclear to you.
Otherwise, further discussion from my end is pointless. It would just be a waste of your energy and mine, and our precious time.

Look, we all know how to practice believing; it's one of the most primitive cognitive processes in humans, present from birth. Little kids who don't know anything yet definitely know how to believe.

The problem is that a good portion of people, due to their own intellectual shortcomings or emotional baggage, never actually mature. They stay stuck in that primitive way of functioning well into adulthood, and when they run into more mature individuals who don't play along, they think they're somehow special or misunderstood.

It’s honestly hilarious watching believers act like faith is some unsolvable cosmic riddle. Like, man, it’s not that deep—faith is about as complex as breathing. We all know how to believe in something; the only difference is that some of us actually take the time to choose what we're putting our trust in.
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James Miller2 said:Regarding morality, such conclusions can only be drawn on your own behalf, not on behalf of all mankind.
Without religious communities, man would struggle to find a sense of how to distinguish good from evil.

Most faiths preach peace, love, community, and forgiveness.
These are instructions for a happier life. Fantasy develops when a person refuses to engage with the world around them and stays trapped within the bubble of their own ego.

And I ask that people who have never practiced faith do not write about it. Passive observers should stay silent.

Sopdet, a believer has an authority above themselves. Someone watching and recording every thought and action.

An atheist has no one but themselves. They are "responsible" only to themselves.
That is a very dangerous territory for the development of the human spirit and soul.

Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Have you ever been a believer? Have you actually experienced what you are writing about?

Stories about seeing believers do non-religious things are nothing but old wives' tales.
You can find people like that on both "sides."

I am interested in your personal experience if you have ever been involved in this.
Then we might actually have a constructive conversation. You could present the facts that troubled you or things that didn't make sense to you.

The way you view faith is so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.
It is all ideology, psychology, and philosophy.

If you lack the personal experience of feeling even a small amount of faith, you will never truly understand it; it will always remain within the realm of fantasy to you.

It is a different matter if you tried it and found it didn't work, or if too much remained unclear to you.
Otherwise, further discussion from my end is pointless. It would just be a waste of your energy and mine, and our precious time.

Yes.

You can find people like that on both sides.

That's exactly the point.

The way you view faith is just so lifeless, hollow, and purely factual.

The fact that religions are based on claims doesn't bother me.😁

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