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Should we let go of our feelings?

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David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 RegularOP
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#121 ·
bluemason3 said:Even Krishna didn't invent specific rituals; those things develop later.

Rituals have certainly been part of Buddhism since its early days and are documented in the oldest texts, likely starting with those centered around stupas.
All religions are essentially blends. It’s not like Jesus dictated every single Catholic rite either—there’s plenty of pagan influence in there too. And don't even get me started on Hinduism. Even your entire bhakti movement would probably look very different if Islam and Tantra hadn't woven themselves into the foundation, which was already a mix of local tribal cults and Vedic religion.

Our personal goal might be escaping samsara, but if there wasn't a moment of creation and we didn't come from nowhere—if there isn't some spiritual essence that makes an individual separate from conditioned processes, or if nothing began from a recognizable starting point—then where would any inherent purpose come from? We're just a collection of cause-and-effect processes with no clear beginning, just like everything else.

Jesus talked about God, salvation, redemption, heaven, and hell, whereas Buddha focused on how pain begins, how it ends, and the loss of the self—so you tell me which one sounds more like "religion."

Our personal goal might be escaping Samsara, but if there was no moment of creation and we didn't emerge from nowhere—if there's no spiritual essence making an individual something more than just a set of conditioned processes, or if nothing actually started from some recognizable point—then where the hell does any inherent purpose come from? We're just a collection of cause-and-effect processes, just like everything else, with no real beginning.

If we didn't come from nowhere, assuming we were never actually created, then I guess we must have existed somewhere before this 😵 😵
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 RegularOP
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#122 ·
hollowpuma762 said:Look, please, just walk me through your logic. How did you land on this idea of "cleansing oneself of emotions"? What does that even mean to you? And what's your take on that last point I made—about things having the potential to flip into their opposites?

Look, it’s simple: first you have feelings, and then you just... make them go away.

What else do you want me to break down for you? 😠
David Vaughn75 David Vaughn75 RegularOP
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#123 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:You're trying to Distort things. If you look at most faiths, the entire reason and purpose for a human being's existence—just like everything else—really boils down to two words: God's will.

So, it’s not like you were trying to rule or control material reality or anything like that. God willed it, and you don't get a vote. How you choose to deal with that is entirely up to you.

So, it’s not just about what your parents wanted. There, we've finally settled that little debate. 👍
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#124 ·
David Vaughn75 said:So, it’s not just about what your parents wanted. There, we've finally settled that little debate. 👍

We haven't really "settled" anything since I'm not a religious person. Honestly, reading through other people's posts here helped me wrap my head around where your beliefs are coming from, so we can probably move past that. Now, I'm just wondering why you're asking people on a spirituality forum about "clearing emotions" instead of just asking your own guru.🤷
Kenneth Taylor3 Kenneth Taylor3 Newcomer
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#125 ·
David Vaughn75 said:So, it’s not just about what your parents wanted. There, we've finally settled that little debate. 👍

Anyone who skips over this while working According to most religions...🤣
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#126 ·
Yeah, I honestly have to remind him (David Vaughn75) to actually read what he's looking at every other time he posts. He needs to work on his reading comprehension.
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#127 ·
bluemason3 said:The only thing we can call objective knowledge is exact science. Everything else is just daydreaming, philosophical fluff, delusions, or general nonsense.

If science hasn't figured it out yet—meaning there isn't a solid consensus backed by hard evidence—then saying "nobody knows" is perfectly accurate. Beyond that, everything else is epistemologically shaky.

So now that you've ditched that whole scientism dogma, you're acting all offended like people are "pigeonholing" you by calling you a scientist.

Don't be ashamed of what you believe...
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#128 ·
casualmoose82 said:Before Jesus died on the cross, he said, "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit."

So where does the soul fit in there?

It really just depends on what terminology you're leaning on. In biblical terms, when people talk about the soul, they’re usually referring to the mind (the psyche), whereas the spirit is that even deeper layer—something beyond both the body and the mind.
James Miller2 James Miller2 Member
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#129 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:So now that you've ditched that whole scientism dogma, you're acting all offended like people are "pigeonholing" you by calling you a scientist.

Don't be ashamed of what you believe...

That is a cult. 😉
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#130 ·
rustymaker5 said:Yeah, I get that, but the whole thing changes based on how a person actually experiences that reality and how they react to it... because let's be honest, we aren't all walking around experiencing the exact same thing in the exact same way, right?

Exactly, which is why I was saying that everyone’s perception of reality is just different.
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#131 ·
James Miller2 said:That is a cult. 😉

A cult of what?

Lisa Jackson7 said:So now that you've ditched that whole scientism dogma, you're acting all offended like people are "pigeonholing" you by calling you a scientist.

Don't be ashamed of what you believe...

Look, it isn't about some "creed of scientism"—it's literally just the only way to actually pin down objective truth. Scientism is basically just worshipping science as a deity, which has nothing to do with what bluemason3 was getting at.

Actually, if you look closely, plenty of Christians have baked scientism right into their religion. You see it all the time where these "Christian scientists" claim they've "proven" something through science just to give their religious arguments a little extra punch.
James Miller2 James Miller2 Member
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#132 ·
goldenjackal6 said:A cult of what?

Look, it isn't about some "creed of scientism"—it's literally just the only way to actually pin down objective truth. Scientism is basically just worshipping science as a deity, which has nothing to do with what bluemason3 was getting at.

Actually, if you look closely, plenty of Christians have baked scientism right into their religion. You see it all the time where these "Christian scientists" claim they've "proven" something through science just to give their religious arguments a little extra punch.

Just Google it.
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#133 ·
James Miller2 said:Just Google it.

I'm not doing that. You tell me—what kind of cult are they running?
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#134 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:So now that you've ditched that whole scientism dogma, you're acting all offended like people are "pigeonholing" you by calling you a scientist.

Don't be ashamed of what you believe...

It wasn't just scientism you brought up; you threw in a whole list of other labels.

To be fair, I'm not even sure about scientism myself—it depends on how you define it. Usually, it implies giving science more weight than it actually carries, using it outside its practical scope.
I don't want to overstate science; I just don't see anything else with more weight behind it.

As for the materialist reductionism that both you and Parsifal suggested, that's definitely not the case.
In areas where science simply can't provide answers, I'm an agnostic and a skeptic (in the strict sense of the words, not the casual way people use them as synonyms for atheism or materialism).
For instance, I've noted before that the idea of an intelligent first cause is a logically viable possibility, which means pure theism can neither be proven nor dismissed. Materialism or something else, (like Buddhism), are equally possible. We lack the tools to verify these metaphysical questions, so claiming to know the answer for certain is pointless.
On the flip side, I can confidently reject every single religious myth and dogmatic worldview I've looked into so far (Christianity, Buddhism, a few Hindu sects).
Among them, Buddhism is the most intellectually and epistemically resilient, but even it is full of holes and ultimately fails to hold up without blind faith and myth.

Generally speaking, there's a human tendency to force people into boxes. If you criticize one specific theology, people assume you must be an atheist. If you're an atheist, they assume you're a materialist—which probably also makes you pro-choice, pro-marijuana, a Democrat, and whatever other stereotypes they feel like piling on.
That's why, even here on this forum, people use association and forced categorization to launch projections and counter-projections, even regarding things I never even claimed (though this is classic Parsifal behavior among those who love to latch onto others).

I prefer to look at individual topics separately and try to avoid the trap of package deals and group identities.

Of course, this constant habit of reducing arguments to personal attacks on the interlocutor is also a sign of the problem. It shows a lack of ability to argue the actual topic, a lack of dialectical discipline, and a preference for propaganda over rational thought.
It's probably my own mistake for not ignoring every ad hominem attempt; occasionally I respond, which is really just a form of going off-topic.

goldenjackal6 said:A cult of what?

Look, it isn't about some "creed of scientism"—it's literally just the only way to actually pin down objective truth. Scientism is basically just worshipping science as a deity, which has nothing to do with what bluemason3 was getting at.

Actually, if you look closely, plenty of Christians have baked scientism right into their religion. You see it all the time where these "Christian scientists" claim they've "proven" something through science just to give their religious arguments a little extra punch.

Common sense. 🧐

That isn't actually the creed of scientism; it’s just the only way to establish objective truth. Scientism is essentially the worship of science as a religion, but that has nothing to do with what bluemason3 wrote.

In fact, many Christians have integrated scientism into their faith. You often see Christian "scientists" claiming they've "proven" something scientifically just to give their arguments more weight.

It's a classic ideological propaganda tactic—first, you attach negative connotations to specific terms (even if those associations are usually questionable at best), and then you try to link your "opponent" to those terms. It's a way to defame them through false associations without ever actually addressing the subject or the arguments at hand.

Just the usual religious games and emotional manipulation.
James Miller2 James Miller2 Member
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#135 ·
goldenjackal6 said:I'm not doing that. You tell me—what kind of cult are they running?

It’s a trap. I won't fall for it.
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#136 ·
James Miller2 said:It’s a trap. I won't fall for it.

Actually, you already fell for it twice by dodging a dead-simple question both times.

Maybe a third stroke of luck is coming, but what kind of cultist scientists are we even talking about here?
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#137 ·
bluemason3 said:It wasn't just scientism you brought up; you threw in a whole list of other labels.

To be fair, I'm not even sure about scientism myself—it depends on how you define it. Usually, it implies giving science more weight than it actually carries, using it outside its practical scope.
I don't want to overstate science; I just don't see anything else with more weight behind it.

As for the materialist reductionism that both you and Parsifal suggested, that's definitely not the case.
In areas where science simply can't provide answers, I'm an agnostic and a skeptic (in the strict sense of the words, not the casual way people use them as synonyms for atheism or materialism).
For instance, I've noted before that the idea of an intelligent first cause is a logically viable possibility, which means pure theism can neither be proven nor dismissed. Materialism or something else, (like Buddhism), are equally possible. We lack the tools to verify these metaphysical questions, so claiming to know the answer for certain is pointless.
On the flip side, I can confidently reject every single religious myth and dogmatic worldview I've looked into so far (Christianity, Buddhism, a few Hindu sects).
Among them, Buddhism is the most intellectually and epistemically resilient, but even it is full of holes and ultimately fails to hold up without blind faith and myth.

Generally speaking, there's a human tendency to force people into boxes. If you criticize one specific theology, people assume you must be an atheist. If you're an atheist, they assume you're a materialist—which probably also makes you pro-choice, pro-marijuana, a Democrat, and whatever other stereotypes they feel like piling on.
That's why, even here on this forum, people use association and forced categorization to launch projections and counter-projections, even regarding things I never even claimed (though this is classic Parsifal behavior among those who love to latch onto others).

I prefer to look at individual topics separately and try to avoid the trap of package deals and group identities.

Of course, this constant habit of reducing arguments to personal attacks on the interlocutor is also a sign of the problem. It shows a lack of ability to argue the actual topic, a lack of dialectical discipline, and a preference for propaganda over rational thought.
It's probably my own mistake for not ignoring every ad hominem attempt; occasionally I respond, which is really just a form of going off-topic.

Common sense. 🧐

That isn't actually the creed of scientism; it’s just the only way to establish objective truth. Scientism is essentially the worship of science as a religion, but that has nothing to do with what bluemason3 wrote.

In fact, many Christians have integrated scientism into their faith. You often see Christian "scientists" claiming they've "proven" something scientifically just to give their arguments more weight.

It's a classic ideological propaganda tactic—first, you attach negative connotations to specific terms (even if those associations are usually questionable at best), and then you try to link your "opponent" to those terms. It's a way to defame them through false associations without ever actually addressing the subject or the arguments at hand.

Just the usual religious games and emotional manipulation.

If we don't have the tools to verify metaphysical questions, then there's zero basis for "confidently rejecting" every individual religion or worldview.

You're contradicting yourself... you can't reject the big metaphysical questions entirely while claiming you can "reject specific myths"... Based on what?

People generally love to force labels on you. If you criticize one specific theology, people automatically assume you must be an atheist; if you're an atheist, they assume you're a materialist, and apparently, that also makes you pro-choice, pro-marijuana, pro-Democrat, and whatever other random stuff they want to bundle together.
That's why on this forum, people start projecting all kinds of things and then attacking those projections, even when I never claimed any of it (honestly, that's the classic move for the trolls who just want to latch onto someone).

I try to avoid those kinds of generalizations...

But...
Common sense 🧐

And "common sense" can rot too... it isn't infallible.
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#138 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:If we don't have the tools to verify metaphysical questions, then there's zero basis for "confidently rejecting" every individual religion or worldview.

You're contradicting yourself... you can't reject the big metaphysical questions entirely while claiming you can "reject specific myths"... Based on what?

People generally love to force labels on you. If you criticize one specific theology, people automatically assume you must be an atheist; if you're an atheist, they assume you're a materialist, and apparently, that also makes you pro-choice, pro-marijuana, pro-Democrat, and whatever other random stuff they want to bundle together.
That's why on this forum, people start projecting all kinds of things and then attacking those projections, even when I never claimed any of it (honestly, that's the classic move for the trolls who just want to latch onto someone).

I try to avoid those kinds of generalizations...

But...
Common sense 🧐

And "common sense" can rot too... it isn't infallible.

Specific myths usually lean on pseudo-scientific or pseudo-historical claims that are easy to debunk.

The problem is, once those are stripped away, there isn't enough left to sustain a particular religion. None of them really stand on philosophical theism or pure metaphysics alone; they rely on a cluster of myths, paranormal claims, and beliefs in esoteric mechanisms.

Take Christianity, for example. It doesn't survive solely—or even primarily—on the idea that God exists, an idea shared by plenty of other faiths. The core is the Jesus myth: the sacrifice, salvation, esoteric initiation "mysteries," and those pseudo-scientific attempts to prove things through fake miracles (as I mentioned in a previous post about logical fallacies), and so on.

Even with the purely philosophical elements, I wouldn't say they're wrong, but I'd also argue their proponents can't claim they're definitely right.
It’s just one option among many, none of which carry a high statistical probability of being true.
bluemason3 bluemason3 Veteran
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#139 ·
I’ll use Buddhism as my example here, mainly because it’s probably the most rational one—there's just less to argue about.

Sure, it comes with a whole catalog of myths, but you can toss those aside without any trouble and still call yourself a Buddhist. For instance, I could doubt whether (Gautama)Buddha actually existed physically, or question the various mythological tales and local cultural elements that have layered on over time.
No one is going to argue that you can't still identify as a Buddhist, whereas for about 99% of Christian denominations, it’s practically impossible to be a Christian if you start doubting Jesus, baptism, Bible stories, or prayer.

However, at the same time, you can't just discard the idea of karma and reincarnation—the metaphysical transfer of ethical consequences beyond a single lifetime—if you want to maintain the integrity of that specific religious metaphysics. If you strip that away, all you’re left with is modern Western secular Buddhism, and I’m honestly not sure that should even be called by that name.

Similarly, some ancient schools of Buddhist logic actually advocate for an epistemology that closely mirrors the scientific method (rejecting authority and texts as primary instruments of knowledge), though they then perform all sorts of philosophical acrobatics to force the scriptures, Buddha's authority, and "mystical insights" back into the equation.

I still can't completely rule out the possibility that karma and reincarnation exist, but I can reject all the arguments and epistemological foundations used to try and prove they definitely do. And if those foundations fail, everything else comes into question.

Even if it turned out one day that they were right, they still wouldn't be *right*. In that scenario, them being correct would just be a pure fluke—a total cosmic accident—rather than actual knowledge, since they lack the epistemology required to provide solid reasons for believing they have any insight beyond mere blind faith.

Generally speaking, my reason for rejecting certain religions is always fundamentally epistemological rather than metaphysical. If their epistemology is unsatisfying, there's no point in wasting time. On the flip side, if they had a sound epistemological basis, then the likelihood of all their other ideas being accurate would naturally increase. Unfortunately, none of them do.
Kenneth Taylor3 Kenneth Taylor3 Newcomer
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#140 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:If we don't have the tools to verify metaphysical questions, then there's zero basis for "confidently rejecting" every individual religion or worldview.

You're contradicting yourself... you can't reject the big metaphysical questions entirely while claiming you can "reject specific myths"... Based on what?

People generally love to force labels on you. If you criticize one specific theology, people automatically assume you must be an atheist; if you're an atheist, they assume you're a materialist, and apparently, that also makes you pro-choice, pro-marijuana, pro-Democrat, and whatever other random stuff they want to bundle together.
That's why on this forum, people start projecting all kinds of things and then attacking those projections, even when I never claimed any of it (honestly, that's the classic move for the trolls who just want to latch onto someone).

I try to avoid those kinds of generalizations...

But...
Common sense 🧐

And "common sense" can rot too... it isn't infallible.

Mhm. So, just because we lack the equipment to test metaphysical claims—which is total nonsense, by the way—that somehow means we have to accept them? With certainty? Are you serious? Is that the expectation? That we should just nod along and say 2+2=4 even though we haven't even learned how to add yet? We don't even know what numbers or addends actually *are*. Should we just be making wild guesses?
There's the logic for you...🤣

You're contradicting yourself... you can't reject metaphysical questions as a whole, but you can reject "individual myths"... Based on what?

How can I not reject them? Read what I wrote above!

I try to avoid generalizations of that kind...

But...

And "common sense" can fail too... it isn't infallible.

Oh, and reason fails too, apparently, when it comes to scientific precision? Give me a break...
Sure, if you go off to get a PhD in Common Sense Failure Studies. 😁

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