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Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#161 ·
rustymaker5 said:Science can't possibly be the sole gateway to truth, if nothing else because its supposed objectivity is a total myth when you consider that every single researcher is inevitably operating from a subjective standpoint... Certain scientific breakthroughs would almost certainly look completely different if they had been achieved by people with entirely different perspectives or worldviews. And honestly, the constant bickering and bitter infighting we see within academic circles just proves my point...
I’m not exactly a man of science myself, but these shifts hit home for me when I think about things like medical breakthroughs or the pharmaceutical industry. It seems like massive changes are brewing in those fields, where the standard American medical model—the kind we've all grown up with—is slowly being pushed aside in favor of something new, like personalized medicine... because people are finally realizing the human body isn't some universal machine, and that every individual is a unique psycho-physical entity, meaning a drug might work for one person but be totally ineffective, or even lethal, for another.
If scientists had actually embraced that kind of holistic approach much earlier, maybe half these illnesses wouldn't even exist, and we wouldn't be living in a world where medicine has "advanced" so much that they can find a specific pill for every single ailment imaginable.

That part about medicine makes sense, but it’s hard to imagine us needing "personalized" physics, math, or chemistry.

As for personalized religion, I've been an advocate for that for quite a while now. People should be free to choose whatever faith fits them best, design their own spiritual path, or just ignore the whole thing entirely. Just as our bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, our minds aren't either. There's really no sense in trying to force a single standard on everyone.
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#162 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:That part about medicine makes sense, but it’s hard to imagine us needing "personalized" physics, math, or chemistry.

As for personalized religion, I've been an advocate for that for quite a while now. People should be free to choose whatever faith fits them best, design their own spiritual path, or just ignore the whole thing entirely. Just as our bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, our minds aren't either. There's really no sense in trying to force a single standard on everyone.

Yeah... it's not even necessary, what's the point...

When it comes to personalized religions, I've been an advocate for that for ages—let everyone pick whatever fits them best, design their own thing, or just ignore the whole mess entirely. Just like bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, minds aren't either, so there's zero sense in forcing one standard on everyone.

That might be spirituality or a worldview... religion and morality can't just be "private phenomena," even if certain faiths keep splintering off endlessly.

Belief, behavior, and belonging ("believe, behave, belong") are the core pillars of any religion...
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#163 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:Yeah... it's not even necessary, what's the point...

When it comes to personalized religions, I've been an advocate for that for ages—let everyone pick whatever fits them best, design their own thing, or just ignore the whole mess entirely. Just like bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, minds aren't either, so there's zero sense in forcing one standard on everyone.

That might be spirituality or a worldview... religion and morality can't just be "private phenomena," even if certain faiths keep splintering off endlessly.

Belief, behavior, and belonging ("believe, behave, belong") are the core pillars of any religion...

In plain English? It's just mind control, behavioral policing, and the comfort of hiding in a crowd.
frozengull2 frozengull2 Active Member
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#164 ·

goldenjackal6 said:In plain English? It's just mind control, behavioral policing, and the comfort of hiding in a crowd.

Hmm...

I’ve been preaching the gospel on personalized religion for a long time now—honestly, just let people do their own thing. If you want to pick a path that actually makes sense to you, go for it. Design your own spiritual vibe or just straight-up ignore the whole messy concept if it doesn't click. It's pretty simple, really. Just like how bodies aren't some cookie-cutter standard, minds aren't either. There's zero point in trying to force a "one size fits all" mentality on everyone when we're all wired differently.

I don't know if you guys have kids or what, but anyone with even a shred of experience knows how this goes. If you let a toddler decide their own menu—like, if you give them the choice between some carrots, broccoli, or spinach—they aren't picking the veggies. Not a chance. They’re going straight for the Milka. Every single time. It's like they're hardwired for sugar.
If you let him have his way, he wouldn't stop snacking on Milka until he literally burst. Seriously.
It’s honestly ridiculous... the second you try to shove even a little bit of healthy greens under someone's nose, they immediately start acting like you're some kind of dietary tyrant. Like, chill out. I was just trying to tell my buddy to eat a salad instead of those greasy burgers he lives on, and suddenly I'm the villain in his life story. It's getting old. (cruel destroyer of freedom of choice)Just wait until the waterworks start flowing...
Movies!

Man, this whole chocolate obsession thing just reminds me of that old New Age "do what thou wilt" nonsense—you know, that whole "your will shall be the whole of the law" vibe. It’s exactly like that. It’s all about that obsessive, hyper-focused self-centeredness where you just insist on doing whatever you want, regardless of how much chaos or fallout it causes for everyone else. Just total ego trip stuff.
She's talking; I basically lived on nothing but chocolate growing up, and honestly? Nobody was ever gonna tell me "no." It was my whole world... just pure sugar bliss, shubi dubi dubi...!
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#165 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:Yeah... it's not even necessary, what's the point...

When it comes to personalized religions, I've been an advocate for that for ages—let everyone pick whatever fits them best, design their own thing, or just ignore the whole mess entirely. Just like bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, minds aren't either, so there's zero sense in forcing one standard on everyone.

That might be spirituality or a worldview... religion and morality can't just be "private phenomena," even if certain faiths keep splintering off endlessly.

Belief, behavior, and belonging ("believe, behave, belong") are the core pillars of any religion...

That's pretty rough.

But hey, if that kind of thing works for someone... who am I to judge?
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#166 ·
frozengull2 said:Hmm...

I’ve been preaching the gospel on personalized religion for a long time now—honestly, just let people do their own thing. If you want to pick a path that actually makes sense to you, go for it. Design your own spiritual vibe or just straight-up ignore the whole messy concept if it doesn't click. It's pretty simple, really. Just like how bodies aren't some cookie-cutter standard, minds aren't either. There's zero point in trying to force a "one size fits all" mentality on everyone when we're all wired differently.

I don't know if you guys have kids or what, but anyone with even a shred of experience knows how this goes. If you let a toddler decide their own menu—like, if you give them the choice between some carrots, broccoli, or spinach—they aren't picking the veggies. Not a chance. They’re going straight for the Milka. Every single time. It's like they're hardwired for sugar.
If you let him have his way, he wouldn't stop snacking on Milka until he literally burst. Seriously.
It’s honestly ridiculous... the second you try to shove even a little bit of healthy greens under someone's nose, they immediately start acting like you're some kind of dietary tyrant. Like, chill out. I was just trying to tell my buddy to eat a salad instead of those greasy burgers he lives on, and suddenly I'm the villain in his life story. It's getting old. (cruel destroyer of freedom of choice)Just wait until the waterworks start flowing...
Movies!

Man, this whole chocolate obsession thing just reminds me of that old New Age "do what thou wilt" nonsense—you know, that whole "your will shall be the whole of the law" vibe. It’s exactly like that. It’s all about that obsessive, hyper-focused self-centeredness where you just insist on doing whatever you want, regardless of how much chaos or fallout it causes for everyone else. Just total ego trip stuff.
She's talking; I basically lived on nothing but chocolate growing up, and honestly? Nobody was ever gonna tell me "no." It was my whole world... just pure sugar bliss, shubi dubi dubi...!

You actually posted this in the wrong section. The 'Parenting' forum is a few floors up. 🙂
frozengull2 frozengull2 Active Member
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#167 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:

You actually posted this in the wrong section. The 'Parenting' forum is a few floors up. 🙂
You actually posted this in the wrong section. The 'Parenting' forum is a few floors up. 🙂
I mean... honestly? It's pretty damn hard to quit sugar.
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#168 ·
frozengull2 said:You actually posted this in the wrong section. The 'Parenting' forum is a few floors up. 🙂

I mean... honestly? It's pretty damn hard to quit sugar.
Yeah, I double-checked. They're still there.
mistybison mistybison Regular
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#169 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:Yeah... it's not even necessary, what's the point...

When it comes to personalized religions, I've been an advocate for that for ages—let everyone pick whatever fits them best, design their own thing, or just ignore the whole mess entirely. Just like bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, minds aren't either, so there's zero sense in forcing one standard on everyone.

That might be spirituality or a worldview... religion and morality can't just be "private phenomena," even if certain faiths keep splintering off endlessly.

Belief, behavior, and belonging ("believe, behave, belong") are the core pillars of any religion...

If we set aside the element of faith, then behavior and belonging are actually common traits found in any group or community, including this forum...
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#170 ·
mistybison said:If we set aside the element of faith, then behavior and belonging are actually common traits found in any group or community, including this forum...

🙂

Spot on—you're getting pretty close to what I'm driving at...

Seriously, these three traits of being part of a community are universal—just like culture, which is everywhere. No group or individual is ever truly "outside" of it.

Religion and culture are "relatives"... religion provides the orientation and the standards for a community so its members can actually find their place or identity in the world.

Also, when is belief actually "set aside"... when do you stop "believing in God as a person"? That's a massive oversimplification.

Is it something that might "transcend earthly reality"?
That could just as easily be the power of the state or capital—basically Julius Caesar and Mammon stepping in after "God is dead" and the moral order collapses.

"The space of the sacred is never empty..."—not even in an age of total secularization... and certainly not in a space filled with idolatry.

Does art help? For some, yeah, sure.
Science? Less and less...

Joseph Bailey41 said:That's pretty rough.

But hey, if that kind of thing works for someone... who am I to judge?

Nobody is "outside," and sometimes one type of attachment acts as a counterweight to another—if nothing else, it lets us see those finer layers of the web.

Of course, when religion just becomes another tool in Caesar's kit, then things get really ugly...
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#171 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:🙂

Spot on—you're getting pretty close to what I'm driving at...

Seriously, these three traits of being part of a community are universal—just like culture, which is everywhere. No group or individual is ever truly "outside" of it.

Religion and culture are "relatives"... religion provides the orientation and the standards for a community so its members can actually find their place or identity in the world.

Also, when is belief actually "set aside"... when do you stop "believing in God as a person"? That's a massive oversimplification.

Is it something that might "transcend earthly reality"?
That could just as easily be the power of the state or capital—basically Julius Caesar and Mammon stepping in after "God is dead" and the moral order collapses.

"The space of the sacred is never empty..."—not even in an age of total secularization... and certainly not in a space filled with idolatry.

Does art help? For some, yeah, sure.
Science? Less and less...

Nobody is "outside," and sometimes one type of attachment acts as a counterweight to another—if nothing else, it lets us see those finer layers of the web.

Of course, when religion just becomes another tool in Caesar's kit, then things get really ugly...

That’s exactly it... nobody and nothing exists "outside" because it's simply impossible. Everything that exists is defined by its relationship to something else. I don't think we're necessarily talking about that suffocating, almost parasitic kind of clinging—just basic interconnectedness. It's a concept that science, art, and spirituality can all weigh in on; it really just comes down to what resonates with you personally. For some, religion provides that framework for relating to other people, the world, and life itself. But that hasn't sat well with everyone for a long time, and you can't exactly turn back the clock on history. In my opinion, we don't need to try and transcend our physical reality; we just need to stop being stuck in our own mental trenches. We have to accept that there isn't one single, universal truth for everyone, other than the fact that we are all human.
neonmarlin39 neonmarlin39 Active Member
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#172 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:Yeah... it's not even necessary, what's the point...

When it comes to personalized religions, I've been an advocate for that for ages—let everyone pick whatever fits them best, design their own thing, or just ignore the whole mess entirely. Just like bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, minds aren't either, so there's zero sense in forcing one standard on everyone.

That might be spirituality or a worldview... religion and morality can't just be "private phenomena," even if certain faiths keep splintering off endlessly.

Belief, behavior, and belonging ("believe, behave, belong") are the core pillars of any religion...

I mean, it really just depends on how you look at it and how you define your terms. What you listed there isn't necessarily enough to call something a religion on its own, at least not technically speaking. If we're talking practical stuff, if a system hits one or more of those markers—like rituals, prayer, chanting, pilgrimages, or even idol worship—then yeah, you could call it a religion. From there, it can be anything from super institutionalized to totally individualistic. There are definitely spiritual paths out there that push back against all those traditional religious practices and don't bother with them at all (actually quite the opposite), though those types of systems are pretty rare. By those technical definitions, they wouldn't count as religions. You also see plenty of "spiritual" systems that distance themselves from organized religion—you actually see people like that on this forum all the time—but they still end up using clearly religious practices. At the end of the day, religion is defined by those traits, among plenty of others.

Lisa Jackson7 said:Yeah... it's not even necessary, what's the point...

When it comes to personalized religions, I've been an advocate for that for ages—let everyone pick whatever fits them best, design their own thing, or just ignore the whole mess entirely. Just like bodies aren't one-size-fits-all, minds aren't either, so there's zero sense in forcing one standard on everyone.

That might be spirituality or a worldview... religion and morality can't just be "private phenomena," even if certain faiths keep splintering off endlessly.

Belief, behavior, and belonging ("believe, behave, belong") are the core pillars of any religion...

Let me give you a real-world example. In your book, is it "moral" to run experiments—the kind that are non-human and involve extreme pain or even death—on animals (or humans, if we're going there) if that experiment leads to a breakthrough that helps everyone else down the road?
silverwolf98 silverwolf98 Member
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#173 ·
hollowpuma762 said:Spot on.

And let’s not forget how you constantly troll this board with ignorant nonsense—just pure products of brainwashing, one-track minds, and neurotic little power trips.
Now this guy thinks he’s some enlightened rebel against "spirituality" just because he didn't have the same psychedelic breakthroughs while sitting in a lotus position. It’s not about character, it's just ego.

And I couldn't agree more. That claim is statistically and scientifically irrefutable, especially when you look at the whole Beljkić situation. Ever since he was forced to step down from his moderator seat, he's suddenly become a world-class psychiatrist overnight. Now, he spends his time tossing out "objective" diagnoses and insults at almost everyone on this forum, unless, of course, they happen to be sucking up to him.
Meanwhile, over on the more science-focused boards, you won't find three sane people there, other than those who think their ability to skim Wikipedia makes them experts.
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#174 ·
Lisa Jackson7 said:🙂

Spot on—you're getting pretty close to what I'm driving at...

Seriously, these three traits of being part of a community are universal—just like culture, which is everywhere. No group or individual is ever truly "outside" of it.

Religion and culture are "relatives"... religion provides the orientation and the standards for a community so its members can actually find their place or identity in the world.

Also, when is belief actually "set aside"... when do you stop "believing in God as a person"? That's a massive oversimplification.

Is it something that might "transcend earthly reality"?
That could just as easily be the power of the state or capital—basically Julius Caesar and Mammon stepping in after "God is dead" and the moral order collapses.

"The space of the sacred is never empty..."—not even in an age of total secularization... and certainly not in a space filled with idolatry.

Does art help? For some, yeah, sure.
Science? Less and less...

Nobody is "outside," and sometimes one type of attachment acts as a counterweight to another—if nothing else, it lets us see those finer layers of the web.

Of course, when religion just becomes another tool in Caesar's kit, then things get really ugly...

Religion and culture are both types of Cult; one reaches for transcendence while the other handles the grit of daily life. They intertwine so tightly they're practically siblings, kept alive by our innate need for social connection.

When religion provides that orientation, we end up with these eternal conflicts—internal struggles and external enemies. And political ideologies? They love that. They thrive by parasitizing those feelings of being under threat.

As for beliefs that go beyond the physical realm, there is spirituality, which is distinct from organized religion. Some religions have gotten way too full of themselves, thinking they hold the only monopoly on heaven.
Since spirituality isn't something you can just mass-produce or consume like a fast-food burger, it might actually be completely immune to Mammon and all the other distractions.
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#175 ·
wearyowl29 said:Religion and culture are both types of Cult; one reaches for transcendence while the other handles the grit of daily life. They intertwine so tightly they're practically siblings, kept alive by our innate need for social connection.

When religion provides that orientation, we end up with these eternal conflicts—internal struggles and external enemies. And political ideologies? They love that. They thrive by parasitizing those feelings of being under threat.

As for beliefs that go beyond the physical realm, there is spirituality, which is distinct from organized religion. Some religions have gotten way too full of themselves, thinking they hold the only monopoly on heaven.
Since spirituality isn't something you can just mass-produce or consume like a fast-food burger, it might actually be completely immune to Mammon and all the other distractions.

If you elevate yourself through culture enough... do you eventually enter that transcendental realm? 🤔
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 Regular
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#176 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:If you elevate yourself through culture enough... do you eventually enter that transcendental realm? 🤔

One doesn't automatically lead to the other.
Besides, culture is just too massive and varied for there to be a single answer to that question.
Joseph Bailey41 Joseph Bailey41 Veteran
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#177 ·
wearyowl29 said:One doesn't automatically lead to the other.
Besides, culture is just too massive and varied for there to be a single answer to that question.

I’m honestly curious about what it actually feels like when you transcend. What's the weather like up there? You know, the atmospheric conditions, visibility, and all that stuff. Hopefully, it won't just be another Kiowa Warrior situation where things get messy. 🕺
wearyowl29 wearyowl29 Regular
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#178 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:I’m honestly curious about what it actually feels like when you transcend. What's the weather like up there? You know, the atmospheric conditions, visibility, and all that stuff. Hopefully, it won't just be another Kiowa Warrior situation where things get messy. 🕺

It’s simple: you fly, then you land. You need decent weather, sure, but really, you just close your eyes and go for it—meditate, visualize, manifest, conjure... whatever works!
goldenjackal6 goldenjackal6 Active Member
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#179 ·
We’re still sitting on the sidelines, maybe a few million years away from actual transcendence.

Despite what everyone wants to believe, humans are basically just primitive pack animals with some pretty half-baked reasoning skills. The only thing making us look sophisticated to the outside world is our toolkit—specifically language and technology.
Lisa Jackson7 Lisa Jackson7 Regular
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#180 ·
Joseph Bailey41 said:That’s exactly it... nobody and nothing exists "outside" because it's simply impossible. Everything that exists is defined by its relationship to something else. I don't think we're necessarily talking about that suffocating, almost parasitic kind of clinging—just basic interconnectedness. It's a concept that science, art, and spirituality can all weigh in on; it really just comes down to what resonates with you personally. For some, religion provides that framework for relating to other people, the world, and life itself. But that hasn't sat well with everyone for a long time, and you can't exactly turn back the clock on history. In my opinion, we don't need to try and transcend our physical reality; we just need to stop being stuck in our own mental trenches. We have to accept that there isn't one single, universal truth for everyone, other than the fact that we are all human.

You're hitting on several different points here... that "basic connectivity" is definitely the goal, but in today's world, it's pretty rare to actually feel that (on an individual level, at least).

It depends on how you see things, and there are definitely other factors at play... traditional religions—specifically Christianity—are basically sitting there as an "upgrade," a "relic," or just a "ceremonial add-on" to this whole thing...

The Wealth of Nations

... and as a "relic," they mostly just maintain a certain balance and act as a reminder of the past (and the future).

If McCarthy is right, then practically nobody is "outside" of this religion in the modern world, or maybe just a tiny handful of people.
I won't get too bogged down in the article/book itself, but the author (who's a Christian) covers a lot of ground, even touching on "left-wing romanticism" instead of—well, maybe a more compromised—"Christian socialism."

In my opinion, it's not about transcending material reality so much as getting out of our own heads—accepting that we don't all share one single truth, other than the fact that we're human.

To me, the ability to "transcend material reality" seems like a fundamental part of being human... from the first crudely carved stones and burial sites to cave paintings and the first spoken words...
Being "stuck in our own mental trenches" feels like a problem that fluctuates in difficulty... the existence of various religions, worldviews, and cultures doesn't necessarily lead to a "war of all against all" in my book.

wearyowl29 said:Religion and culture are both types of Cult; one reaches for transcendence while the other handles the grit of daily life. They intertwine so tightly they're practically siblings, kept alive by our innate need for social connection.

When religion provides that orientation, we end up with these eternal conflicts—internal struggles and external enemies. And political ideologies? They love that. They thrive by parasitizing those feelings of being under threat.

As for beliefs that go beyond the physical realm, there is spirituality, which is distinct from organized religion. Some religions have gotten way too full of themselves, thinking they hold the only monopoly on heaven.
Since spirituality isn't something you can just mass-produce or consume like a fast-food burger, it might actually be completely immune to Mammon and all the other distractions.

Not sure why you're calling them "cults," but yeah, they definitely overlap... just like transcendence and everyday life do.

When religion serves as an orientation...We’re stuck in this endless loop of internal and external enemies—and ideologues absolutely love it because they basically feed off that fear-mongering crap.

Not necessarily...

When you look at beliefs that go beyond this earthly plane, there's spirituality—which is different from organized religions that have somehow convinced themselves they're the only gatekeepers to heaven.
Since spirituality isn't something you can just consume on a mass scale, it might actually be totally immune to Mamone and whatever else is out there.

I don't see religiosity and spirituality as opposites... people who claim to be "spiritual but not religious" have just essentially denied the transcendent side of their own faith and shoved it all into the "spirituality" bucket instead.

The rest of the religious stuff is supposedly "covered" by the social contract... I'm skeptical, but hey, whatever floats your boat...

Also, just because some elite or individual consumes spirituality or culture doesn't mean they're safe from Mamone, Caesar, or whoever the hell the current idol is.

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