#61 ·
I’m posting here because I see many of you offering solid advice, and I think I could use some myself right about now.
To give you a bit of context, I recently found myself in a pretty toxic situation; my previous employer was essentially bottom-of-the-barrel, though looking back, I think I know exactly why things went south.
The guy was cheating on his wife and involved in all sorts of shady business that I happened to be aware of, so I suppose it was in his best interest for me to leave—except he made it incredibly difficult for me to actually resign.
Ultimately, I had to quit just to preserve my own sanity, as the psychological abuse became more than I could bear.
Everything might have turned out fine if the pandemic hadn't hit and completely derailed my plans.
I was weighing an opportunity over in Germany against staying here in the States, but because of my family, I decided to stay put and look for work locally; however, with everything shutting down during the lockdowns, work has been incredibly inconsistent.
I’ve been working for five months now, but my average income hasn't been great, hovering around $4,000 total over that entire period.
Now I find myself in a spot where I’m falling behind on my Chase credit card payments, I'm lagging on my Diner's Club bill, and I'm already dealing with an existing limit at my bank along with some old personal loans.$600/mo.
Basically, I urgently need a loan or some kind of financial lifeline to settle these debts; does anyone have any suggestions or solutions?
Thanks, everyone.
To give you a bit of context, I recently found myself in a pretty toxic situation; my previous employer was essentially bottom-of-the-barrel, though looking back, I think I know exactly why things went south.
The guy was cheating on his wife and involved in all sorts of shady business that I happened to be aware of, so I suppose it was in his best interest for me to leave—except he made it incredibly difficult for me to actually resign.
Ultimately, I had to quit just to preserve my own sanity, as the psychological abuse became more than I could bear.
Everything might have turned out fine if the pandemic hadn't hit and completely derailed my plans.
I was weighing an opportunity over in Germany against staying here in the States, but because of my family, I decided to stay put and look for work locally; however, with everything shutting down during the lockdowns, work has been incredibly inconsistent.
I’ve been working for five months now, but my average income hasn't been great, hovering around $4,000 total over that entire period.
Now I find myself in a spot where I’m falling behind on my Chase credit card payments, I'm lagging on my Diner's Club bill, and I'm already dealing with an existing limit at my bank along with some old personal loans.$600/mo.
Basically, I urgently need a loan or some kind of financial lifeline to settle these debts; does anyone have any suggestions or solutions?
Thanks, everyone.