#421 ·
wanderingbadger44 said:For heaven's sake, please explain to me why it would be in a teacher's best interest to force a child to learn something specifically when it goes against what the parent wants. I am genuinely asking you to walk me through that logic.
What exactly is this supposed "teacher's interest" you're talking about?
I could certainly give you plenty of examples regarding a teacher's interest in not pushing back against a parent's wishes.
But I want you to tell me: what is my personal incentive to insist on something that contradicts a parent's will?
Why on earth would I try to force biology on Manchild's kid or John Doe's child—using those specific names Manchild mentioned—or push Faulkner, when at the end of the day, the parent is the customer, and we all know the old adage that the customer is always right?
I clearly see how it benefits society and the community for children to read, to become literate, and to grow more educated. But as for my own personal gain, kill me now, because I simply don't see any.
And if society has such an interest, then society should have the mechanisms in place to make it happen. Instead, society ties my hands behind my back and then expects me to act like it's my personal mission to ensure kids read, even though I have no way to fight for it.
I guess I just live in a fantasy world where people actually do their jobs honestly and provide the service they’re paid for.
I expect a surgeon to operate ethically,
that a dentist doesn't pull the wrong tooth,
that a mechanic fixes the car so it’s actually safe to drive on the highway,
that a chef at a restaurant serves edible food,
that a cashier gives me the correct change,
that a hairstylist tells me she won't dye my hair if it's too damaged, even if it means losing money right then,
that a plumber actually replaces the pipe instead of just charging for it,
and that a teacher actually teaches the child.
Now, I'm certainly no expert on surgery, plumbing, or pedagogy. I can't claim to be an authority on which literature is "best" (I can have a subjective opinion, but I'm not an expert), nor can I dictate what you all decide to feed your children.
If you think I'm naive or overly optimistic for believing that if I work honestly, the rest of the world should follow suit, then fine.
And I know that isn't how it works.
I see proof of that every single day.
I've heard all kinds of demands from parents.
I've heard teachers say, "I don't care, I know better than you," and I've also heard those who just hang their heads and give up—not just on teaching, but on life itself. They end up failing the kids too... like when a helicopter parent complains that their precious little one is "stressed," so the teacher decides to just stop trying altogether.
Parents aren't going to suddenly become more realistic or reasonable in ten years. Honestly, what are you thinking? 🤣
They might actually get worse, because they're being allowed to micromanage schools (just look at how pediatricians were allowed to bypass vaccinations, and now we're dealing with measles outbreaks).
I see disagreements even among literature professors regarding what reading material should be assigned, and I know that can lead to parental manipulation—where people exploit those academic debates to squeeze out better grades or even just to get their kid out of doing any work at all.
And I know there are teachers who simply check out, who welcome the helicopter parents because it's easier to say, "Oh, reading is just too traumatic for my child right now, can't we skip it?"—allowing the kids to just color during class instead of engaging with the book.
And of course, it opens the door for extra income through private tutoring (with a friend, naturally) or SAT prep later on. When you combine that with low salaries, this whole situation really feeds into the private tutoring market.
And let’s not forget how much the public gets fed misinformation just to serve whatever political agenda is currently in power.