Peter Doyle2 said:Honestly, you can say whatever you want about parents, but my folks just didn't read to me—and they certainly didn't make a habit of it. I didn't even really discover the local library until I started school; once I did, though, I guess I was checking out new books practically every single week.
My husband's mom has enough books to start her own library, yet she refuses to touch a Kindle, so my husband has basically only read one book in his entire life—*The Bourne Identity*, lol. Then there’s my cousin, who was devouring comic books since he was five and read an insane amount of stuff, which meant he absolutely hated every required reading assignment in high school; meanwhile, his younger brother never cared for reading at all and probably hasn't finished a single assigned book in his life. It's funny how two kids from the same house can turn out so completely different. 🤔 Yeah, I'm sure it's definitely the parents' fault if the kids find the classics boring or way too dense. 🙄
Did I actually say anywhere that parents are to blame for kids finding classics dull?
Honestly, everyone, let's please stop putting words in my mouth.🙄
What I said was that school definitely isn't—and can't be—the sole reason why people "grow to hate" reading.
School can't really ruin a habit that you never even had to begin with. True, it can encourage someone to develop that habit, but it largely comes down to an individual's interest and the specific book itself. Not every book is wonderful or fun, but then again, they aren't all the most horrific things imaginable either.
Peter Doyle2 and Linda Price5, look—school doesn't really care about a kid whose parents never bothered to read to them, but it is significantly harder to introduce literature to someone who lacks any reading habit whatsoever, including that early experience of looking at picture books as a child.
To me, it seems almost unbelievable when parents don't read to toddlers—it feels like it borders on a form of neglect.☕
Obviously, someone who hasn't read anything from *Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark* to *The Very Hungry Caterpillar* before starting school is unlikely to be thrilled by the titles on a required reading list. But the purpose of these assignments is to introduce readers to some of the canonical works of an era, regardless of whether those specific works appeal to them or not. It's not there to cater to the tastes of an audience that has zero reading experience or even a sense of what they might enjoy reading.
Good grief, we've gone from debating fishing rights to reaching the level of a heated Pinocchio argument.🤦
Anyway, why don't you all give me five to ten suggestions for what would be perfect reading material for your kids, from first grade through senior year of high school, and explain why you chose them.
I'm listening.🍿