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It’s an absolute grind, but at least there’s a paycheck at the end of it. Even if the job itself was soul-crushing—like spending your life sewing baby clothes or something equally tedious—it would at least be compensated. 😁
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Linda Price5 said:It’s an absolute grind, but at least there’s a paycheck at the end of it. Even if the job itself was soul-crushing—like spending your life sewing baby clothes or something equally tedious—it would at least be compensated. 😁
Larry Walker24 said:urbantinker8 - teen read recommendation - Miriam Preisler's "Dark chocolate" is actually killer
I tried reading that "Momo" fairy tale in German and honestly? Total garbage.
Peter Doyle2 said:I think the main reason there's such a massive gap between what kids can actually handle and the unrealistic expectations placed on them at ages 7 or 8—expectations that don't even make sense developmentally—is primarily due to our American school system.
We start mandatory schooling way too late compared to the rest of the world. Even back when I was pregnant with my first, people were already talking about shifting to a 9-year elementary model that would have just barely caught me in time. Yeah, right. Then there was all this talk about implementing daily mandatory sessions in preschools, not just standard daycare, but something more structured. That didn't happen either.
When you look at how easily delays are brushed off, it turns out some eighth graders are still struggling with basic spelling. Preschool isn't enough for a child who doesn't attend daycare, and since there’s no universal standard for preparation among daycares, kids enter school with wildly different skill levels depending, well, on luck. In the daycare center where I worked before moving to the States, we were strictly forbidden from doing any direct instruction—I used to read books to the kids under the radar because I wasn't allowed to "gather" them for lessons. We couldn't even put things on the tables because that was seen as being too pushy; the idea was that a child should just pick whatever they want from the shelf. Now, imagine a kid coming from an environment like that, having no concept of structure or letters, walking into a classroom where most other kids had much better preparation and might even be able to quote stories already. Of course they're falling behind, and it's not because of a diagnosis or the parents or the kid—it's a systemic failure.
If you look at other countries, especially the more developed ones, almost all of them start some form of mandatory schooling much earlier. Britons have their prep schools starting around age 3 or 4, I believe? My daughter's kindergarten started when she was 5; they mostly played, and the classroom felt more like a playroom with activity centers and toys, but they were working on letters and math patterns, and by the end of the year, they were reading very simple picture books through repetition. By age 6, she was basically doing what American first graders do. The point is, the kids aren't overwhelmed, and they reach those milestones gradually. Meanwhile, in America, there's this expectation that a seven-year-old should suddenly be reading literature halfway through the second semester, even if they were a total non-reader in the fall.
Linda Price5 said:It’s an absolute grind, but at least there’s a paycheck at the end of it. Even if the job itself was soul-crushing—like spending your life sewing baby clothes or something equally tedious—it would at least be compensated. 😁
urbantinker8 said:If something is a total drag, then I suppose it just is.
For me, the money part of this whole thing is pretty much secondary, I guess.🤷
Do you really think people would actually pick up a required reading book more often if they were paid per title or based on how many pages they managed to get through?😁
I mean, that’s about the only way left to shake things up, really. Maybe then everyone would suddenly start obsessively worshipping Camus, Sartre, and Kafka all at once.🎉
Christian Wilson28 said:The Swiss have one of the best education systems in the world, and they get kids started at seven.
Christian Wilson28 said:Look, teenagers love them—I loved them too. It’s pure teenage angst fuel, honestly.
Salinger is fine since he's actually readable. Flaubert was pretty big back in the day, and things like Nora or the Russians were accepted in a "whatever" kind of way, I guess.
It’s sad to say, but the biggest issue with our American school reading lists is all those old classics about settlers and pioneers.
And the plays? They're often taught so poorly—it wasn't until college that I actually figured out how to read Shakespeare without wanting to die. But hey, better late than never.
Christian Wilson28 said:The history of this region is basically just Canadian history—I don't know if they've scrubbed that from the curriculum yet, but we used to have a slice of world history, a slice of American history, and then a little bit of Canadian stuff tacked on because they were probably still hoping to snag that part for themselves, if you ask me.🤣
*The Little Prince* is cheesy—I'll give you that—but it's a sweet little book and can stay. *Jonathan Livingston Seagull*, though? Absolute garbage. Is that still on the required reading list?
briskjackal5 said:You could even learn how to brew beer without ever stepping foot in a classroom, just like you could learn math. 😁If there are side effects—like people losing interest in reading altogether, or avoiding the classics, or developing a total phobia of math—then the whole outcome ends up being negative.
I remember this one time at an SAT prep center where this person was just staring blankly at a basic middle school math problem, and it was like the explanations were just bouncing right off them. It wasn't because they lacked the brains or the talent, honestly. If they hadn't been forced into math classes all those years, they probably would've figured it out fine. But instead, all they learned from math class was that math is hard and that they're just bad at it. That’s a totally negative result after spending hours every week on it for twelve years. It's just... it's awful.
First of all, I don't think that's quite right. There were definitely things that person *did* master, so I guess you could say their net result was actually positive.
Maybe not as much as the kids who are naturally gifted, but still positive, I think.
Second, whatever you decide about their individual results, you're really only talking about that one specific person. You can't really apply that to the whole class or the entire community, right?
What do you mean by "Bane23"?
-briskjackal5
First off, that isn't really a result; it’s just a list of things that the individual managed to pass.
Not for an entire class or community, though.
What does "unknown" mean?
urbantinker8 said:If something is a total drag, then I suppose it just is.
For me, the money part of this whole thing is pretty much secondary, I guess.🤷
Do you really think people would actually pick up a required reading book more often if they were paid per title or based on how many pages they managed to get through?😁
I mean, that’s about the only way left to shake things up, really. Maybe then everyone would suddenly start obsessively worshipping Camus, Sartre, and Kafka all at once.🎉
Do you honestly think people would read classic literature more often if they had to pay per title and then proportionally based on how many pages they actually turned?😁
there, it's not like we haven't tried that. maybe suddenly everyone would start hysterically worshiping Camus, Sartre, and Kafka.🎉
Hey there! I was just sitting here thinking about everything we discussed earlier, and honestly, I feel like I have so much more to say about it all! It’s funny how things work out sometimes, isn't it? I guess I might be overthinking this, but I just can't help myself. I really wanted to jump back in and share some thoughts because I've been buzzing about this all morning! Anyway, hope you guys are having an absolutely wonderful day! kaže:
Of course it can! I mean, carpenters have been around for thousands of years, right? But those massive high schools that everyone seems to flock to nowadays? Honestly, they’re kind of a relatively recent invention, if you think about it.
So, when you say "mastered" it... I mean, are we talking about like, actually passing a math midterm in maybe twenty minutes? Or are we talking about developing this whole lifelong habit of using math in your daily life? I guess it depends on how you look at it! Maybe both? Haha!
So, let’s do the math on this for a second. If a student spends, what, maybe two hours a week on math? So that’s like 2 hours times 54 weeks times 12 years of schooling. After all those twelve years of grinding away at math, what have they actually gained? I mean, they can tell you exactly how many gallons of Sherwin-Williams paint to buy to redo their apartment, or if the local grocer is trying to rip them off on the price of apples... but that's about it! Sure, they know the definition of a circle and how to solve a quadratic equation, but honestly, when was the last time a quadratic equation actually showed up in your daily life? Seriously, probably never!
They have an even bigger hatred for math now, more resistance whenever they try to grasp anything mathematical, and way less motivation to learn it than if they had never studied it at all.
And you think that's a net positive result? Wow, okay then.
How much school math do you actually use in daily life? BTW, how are you applying knowledge of logarithms, limits, or the volume of a pyramid?
No, I am convinced that regardless of whether they were taught in fifth grade, seventh grade, or freshman year of high school, it remains a usable skillset. My reasoning is based simply on your own observation that there aren't any cognitive limitations at play here.
They grasped the basics of percentages, proportionality, and geometry.
And they can clearly navigate a coordinate system and various curves.
I believe those fundamentals have been mastered.
Linda Price5 said:No, I am convinced that regardless of whether they were taught in fifth grade, seventh grade, or freshman year of high school, it remains a usable skillset. My reasoning is based simply on your own observation that there aren't any cognitive limitations at play here.
They grasped the basics of percentages, proportionality, and geometry.
And they can clearly navigate a coordinate system and various curves.
I believe those fundamentals have been mastered.
Personally, this looks like a pretty pathetic return on investment after spending 1,500 hours of one's life on a subject. It’s akin to studying math for eight hours a day for six months, only to walk away knowing how to plot the point (5, 1) on a graph or calculate basic proportions. Even Lana would achieve significantly more than this if she spent half a year applying herself alongside Klingor.