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Both types actually exist. The real issue is that once people get "burned out," they usually stop showing up to the temple or attending any programs at all. In our neck of the woods, it mostly comes down to a huge number of former students from Harikes Maharaj's era, back when things were truly fanatic.
I know exactly how that felt, and honestly, massive respect to everyone who stuck it out through those tough times! I actually know a Vaishnava who was a disciple of Harikes Maharaj; he went through that heavy period of losing his own guru, but he eventually found his footing again and took initiation from Sacinandan Swami.
If I had shown up at the doors of ISKCON back then, there wouldn't be any force on earth strong enough to convince me to stay, let alone try to make it work within an organization like that.
It’s all thanks to Krishna that I finally found my way here, even if it took a little longer than expected.
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| When Harikes Maharaj left ISKCON, it hit a lot of people hard, causing many to lose faith in the whole movement. It might seem bizarre looking back from today's perspective, but times were different then, and the way people viewed a guru wasn't what it is now. Back then, they were taught to see the guru as almost being Krishna himself. Nowadays, that entire dynamic has shifted completely. |
Everything you've laid out here is exactly what I've heard from the senior devotees over the years.
As for how we get along with other Vaishnavas, honestly, not much has changed within ISKCON. If you look at the "Siksa outside ISKCON" book published a few years back, it highlights exactly where the friction lies, and I’ve definitely felt that tension in my own life. It's an area where ISKCON here in the States still has some serious homework to do.
I have this little yellow booklet here. Even though the author isn't being overtly offensive to others, the whole vibe feels like they're preaching actual racial segregation laws and keeping everyone strictly separated... basically, I'm right there with you on this one.
The beauty of ISKCON today is that anyone looking to start their bhakti journey is met with such a massive variety of paths. It’s all about finding what resonates with you personally.
Exactly. Once she truly identifies what she wants from her spiritual life, everything changes. That’s when the struggles fade away—no one will be able to drag her down or steer her destiny for her. But like I said, the first step is simply knowing that truth.
Why? She finally arrived!
What? He’s got to figure out how that all fits together.
hers I'll be there.
It’s like looking at a wide spectrum: on one end, you have the more "liberal" influence—think of Bhakt Tirth Swami's vast library of books acting as a guide for spiritual instruction, or the approach taken by Sacinandan Swami. On the other side, you have the more traditionalist, heavyweight perspective represented by the BVKS and their circle.
Just to be clear, I’m not the one making this classification; BVKS actually refers to himself as a "heavy" guru on his own website. It seems like he's just being upfront, giving potential students a heads-up on exactly what they should expect if they decide to become his initiated disciples. Fair enough.
I’m 108% convinced that some people truly need a "heavyweight" guru in this lifetime—someone who steps in to firmly rein in material life and set clear boundaries like, "you can do this, but you can't do that." On the flip side, others definitely need someone who leads with ease, empathy, and a much softer touch.
I'm the kind of person who only ever finds myself drawn to the latter. 🙂