Richard Lewis16 said:It seems people get pretty touchy the moment someone disagrees with them
Honestly, I’d rather just walk into a local branch by myself than deal with you guys
Or maybe you can tell me how those folks at the bank (the ones actually approving the loan) are going to be wrong, whereas you're somehow infallible... since you're clearly in constant direct contact with bank boards and the SEC, right?
Do I know for a fact that you work with every single lender out there? Can you actually guarantee you'll find the best possible fit for my situation, or do you just have cozy little deals with two major banks while ignoring everyone else and funneling clients toward them?
And besides, if I wanted to hit up seven different banks, it would take me a solid three hours just to sit down and have a real, deep conversation with an individual banker at each one—not just some quick info session, but a serious meeting with someone who actually has authority...
And when a bank sees you're a high-value prospect (which, in my case, I definitely am), they start throwing extra perks and better terms on the table...
As for the rest, I don't handle my own bookkeeping, I use an outside firm, and I painted my apartment myself because, let's face it, it's not exactly rocket science...
My clients don't see the value in paying enough to get the level of service I provide, so I'm doing just fine on my own for now... 😁
If you really want the best outcome for yourself, you should probably just go out and grab it yourself.👍
Look, it’s not that I don't respect the work being put in. That isn't the issue here. The real problem is that you aren't actually forming an opinion based on the facts in front of you. Instead, you're just leaning on a bunch of preconceived notions and biases. You've made up your mind before even looking at the evidence.
I’ve been thinking quite a bit about how we approach sharing our experiences lately. It seems like everyone wants a shortcut to wisdom without actually putting in the work to live through the mess first. Let me tell you something: nothing beats raw, unfiltered experience. I remember back when I was starting out in Chicago, I thought I could just read a few manuals and be ready to tackle the big leagues. I was wrong. Dead wrong. I walked right into a situation that taught me more in twenty minutes than three years of schooling ever could have. You can't simulate the gut punch of a real mistake. We see people online acting like experts because they watched a ten-minute video. It's frustrating. Real insight comes from the scars, the late nights, and the actual consequences of your actions. If you haven't felt the heat, don't pretend you know how to handle the fire. I’m interested in hearing what you all have actually lived through—not the polished, sanitized versions you post on LinkedIn. Give me the grit. Give me the truth.Look, you weren't here at my office, so until you actually show up, you’re just spinning fantasies about how things would go down. I honestly don't get why you're jumping into this conversation all of a sudden. What's the angle here? Are you just looking to stir the pot?
Richard Lewis16 said:It seems people get pretty touchy the moment someone disagrees with them
Honestly, I’d rather just walk into a local branch by myself than deal with you guys
Or maybe you can tell me how those folks at the bank (the ones actually approving the loan) are going to be wrong, whereas you're somehow infallible... since you're clearly in constant direct contact with bank boards and the SEC, right?
Do I know for a fact that you work with every single lender out there? Can you actually guarantee you'll find the best possible fit for my situation, or do you just have cozy little deals with two major banks while ignoring everyone else and funneling clients toward them?
And besides, if I wanted to hit up seven different banks, it would take me a solid three hours just to sit down and have a real, deep conversation with an individual banker at each one—not just some quick info session, but a serious meeting with someone who actually has authority...
And when a bank sees you're a high-value prospect (which, in my case, I definitely am), they start throwing extra perks and better terms on the table...
As for the rest, I don't handle my own bookkeeping, I use an outside firm, and I painted my apartment myself because, let's face it, it's not exactly rocket science...
My clients don't see the value in paying enough to get the level of service I provide, so I'm doing just fine on my own for now... 😁
If you really want the best outcome for yourself, you should probably just go out and grab it yourself.👍
Look, I’ve been in this game for five years now, and I see it all the time. Clients come to me after getting completely brushed off by their banks. They recount these frustrating "experiences" where they felt like just another number, only to walk into my office and realize we’re actually willing to listen and try to fix the mess. It’s a huge relief for them just to be heard. Of course, I really hope these cases are the exception rather than the rule. If this was the norm, it would mean half the people working in retail banking don't have a clue what they're doing. But let's be real—they do know their jobs; it's just that their expertise seems to apply only when it suits them.
Once upon a time. It’s simply not enough. These people are required to master the entire spectrum of banking products, yet they have zero incentive to actually do it. Why should they bother? Whether they successfully close a loan or fail miserably, their paycheck stays exactly the same. That isn't just my "impression" or a gut feeling—those are cold, hard facts.
Richard Lewis16 said:It seems people get pretty touchy the moment someone disagrees with them
Honestly, I’d rather just walk into a local branch by myself than deal with you guys
Or maybe you can tell me how those folks at the bank (the ones actually approving the loan) are going to be wrong, whereas you're somehow infallible... since you're clearly in constant direct contact with bank boards and the SEC, right?
Do I know for a fact that you work with every single lender out there? Can you actually guarantee you'll find the best possible fit for my situation, or do you just have cozy little deals with two major banks while ignoring everyone else and funneling clients toward them?
And besides, if I wanted to hit up seven different banks, it would take me a solid three hours just to sit down and have a real, deep conversation with an individual banker at each one—not just some quick info session, but a serious meeting with someone who actually has authority...
And when a bank sees you're a high-value prospect (which, in my case, I definitely am), they start throwing extra perks and better terms on the table...
As for the rest, I don't handle my own bookkeeping, I use an outside firm, and I painted my apartment myself because, let's face it, it's not exactly rocket science...
My clients don't see the value in paying enough to get the level of service I provide, so I'm doing just fine on my own for now... 😁
If you really want the best outcome for yourself, you should probably just go out and grab it yourself.👍
Look, let’s get one thing straight: I don’t work for OVB or AWD. It isn't about which one of those outfits is more efficient when it comes to restructuring debt. We operate on a theoretical model involving fourteen different banks—either through direct contracts or brokerage agreements—but in the real world? In actual practice, we mostly deal with four or five of them. Why? Because those few institutions can handle about 90% of our clients' needs. Anything that falls outside that scope gets picked up by the rest. Simple as that.
Richard Lewis16 said:It seems people get pretty touchy the moment someone disagrees with them
Honestly, I’d rather just walk into a local branch by myself than deal with you guys
Or maybe you can tell me how those folks at the bank (the ones actually approving the loan) are going to be wrong, whereas you're somehow infallible... since you're clearly in constant direct contact with bank boards and the SEC, right?
Do I know for a fact that you work with every single lender out there? Can you actually guarantee you'll find the best possible fit for my situation, or do you just have cozy little deals with two major banks while ignoring everyone else and funneling clients toward them?
And besides, if I wanted to hit up seven different banks, it would take me a solid three hours just to sit down and have a real, deep conversation with an individual banker at each one—not just some quick info session, but a serious meeting with someone who actually has authority...
And when a bank sees you're a high-value prospect (which, in my case, I definitely am), they start throwing extra perks and better terms on the table...
As for the rest, I don't handle my own bookkeeping, I use an outside firm, and I painted my apartment myself because, let's face it, it's not exactly rocket science...
My clients don't see the value in paying enough to get the level of service I provide, so I'm doing just fine on my own for now... 😁
If you really want the best outcome for yourself, you should probably just go out and grab it yourself.👍
This is absolutely impossible. If you’re going to try and argue with me, at least use some actual, real-world logic. To hit just four or five shopping malls in one day just to pick up a few things would take an incredible amount of time, let alone trying to swing by seven different banks. It’s just not happening.
Fine, if you really want to go there, I’ll give you an arbitrary example just to see how many "hours" it takes for you to stumble upon the right answer. Let's see what you've got.
Look, you've got the entire internet at your fingertips. Everything you could possibly need to know is written out there somewhere—if you actually put in the effort to look, you might just stand a chance. ☕
Richard Lewis16 said:It seems people get pretty touchy the moment someone disagrees with them
Honestly, I’d rather just walk into a local branch by myself than deal with you guys
Or maybe you can tell me how those folks at the bank (the ones actually approving the loan) are going to be wrong, whereas you're somehow infallible... since you're clearly in constant direct contact with bank boards and the SEC, right?
Do I know for a fact that you work with every single lender out there? Can you actually guarantee you'll find the best possible fit for my situation, or do you just have cozy little deals with two major banks while ignoring everyone else and funneling clients toward them?
And besides, if I wanted to hit up seven different banks, it would take me a solid three hours just to sit down and have a real, deep conversation with an individual banker at each one—not just some quick info session, but a serious meeting with someone who actually has authority...
And when a bank sees you're a high-value prospect (which, in my case, I definitely am), they start throwing extra perks and better terms on the table...
As for the rest, I don't handle my own bookkeeping, I use an outside firm, and I painted my apartment myself because, let's face it, it's not exactly rocket science...
My clients don't see the value in paying enough to get the level of service I provide, so I'm doing just fine on my own for now... 😁
If you really want the best outcome for yourself, you should probably just go out and grab it yourself.👍
I’ve already made my point: this only applies to that tiny sliver of the population that actually meets all the ideal criteria. You should consider yourself lucky if you (probably) fall into that category.
I don’t care much for fluff. I prefer to get straight to the point. I’m here to dissect the facts, challenge the consensus, and call out nonsense wherever I find it. My approach is simple: I value depth over speed and substance over style. If you're looking for mindless agreement or shallow takes, you won't find them here. Expect bluntness, expect detail, and expect me to push back when the logic doesn't hold up. Let's get to work. It’s one of those situations. But look, once you’ve already tapped into your credit limit—say you're leaning heavily on a revolving credit line or a high-interest credit card—things get incredibly messy if you decide to go hunting for another unsecured loan. It's a mess.
Richard Lewis16 said:It seems people get pretty touchy the moment someone disagrees with them
Honestly, I’d rather just walk into a local branch by myself than deal with you guys
Or maybe you can tell me how those folks at the bank (the ones actually approving the loan) are going to be wrong, whereas you're somehow infallible... since you're clearly in constant direct contact with bank boards and the SEC, right?
Do I know for a fact that you work with every single lender out there? Can you actually guarantee you'll find the best possible fit for my situation, or do you just have cozy little deals with two major banks while ignoring everyone else and funneling clients toward them?
And besides, if I wanted to hit up seven different banks, it would take me a solid three hours just to sit down and have a real, deep conversation with an individual banker at each one—not just some quick info session, but a serious meeting with someone who actually has authority...
And when a bank sees you're a high-value prospect (which, in my case, I definitely am), they start throwing extra perks and better terms on the table...
As for the rest, I don't handle my own bookkeeping, I use an outside firm, and I painted my apartment myself because, let's face it, it's not exactly rocket science...
My clients don't see the value in paying enough to get the level of service I provide, so I'm doing just fine on my own for now... 😁
If you really want the best outcome for yourself, you should probably just go out and grab it yourself.👍
You know damn well I was exaggerating, but since you’ve got nothing else to work with, you really think that counts as a knockout blow?
Look, you and Patron can keep your high-level macroeconomics if that’s what you want. Personally? I actually value the little guy. I’m talking about the local deli owner who makes a killer sandwich—sure, I could whip one up in my own kitchen, but I’m paying him for the craft. I’m paying the freelance web designer because they bring something to the table that my neighbor’s kid simply couldn't deliver. Even when it comes to real estate, I’ll hire a professional agency instead of just clicking "buy" on an apartment online in three hours flat. There is actual value in specialized work, even if it isn't "efficient" by your standards.
Thanks, later. 👋