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Thomas Rodriguez14 said:Look, I didn't come here for a lecture. Also, I totally forgot to mention in my last post that back in 2001, he was hospitalized for F25.2—schizoaffective disorder, mixed type, whatever that means. He refused the meds then, too. Things were okay for a bit, but everything went south in 2009 when he started talking nonsense and smashing stuff around the house. We called 911 and they kept him in the hospital for a month. By 2011, things got even worse; he saw a psychiatrist and was on Haldol, then his doctor switched him to clozapine. In 2012, he got Zoloft and Xanax, but he won't take them because he'll just wreck the house—so my question is, would the meds still work if they were hidden in his coffee or tea?
I know exactly how you feel, and if it means anything to you, I truly understand the situation you're in, because my mother-in-law suffers from something very similar. Quite simply, there are some people who refuse any kind of help and don't believe they need therapy at all; they might take their meds for a bit, then stop the moment they feel even slightly better. Personally, I don't think hiding medication in coffee is the answer, because they'll eventually catch on, and then you'll have a massive confrontation on your hands because they'll feel like you're "poisoning" them. I'm not just saying this to say it. Your best bet is to talk to the psychiatrist directly—maybe go see him yourselves—to discuss everything and seek professional advice. We managed to get her to stick to her regimen somehow, but it required constant conversation and explaining things over and over again. Honestly, I practically have to sit right next to her and watch what she does with the pill... because we've dealt with everything from flushing them down the toilet to throwing them in the trash or hiding them. There is one more crucial thing: she is terrified of being hospitalized. She knows that if she doesn't take her medication, she will "lose it" and end up back in the hospital, which happens to her every few months. To be honest, we just don't have the strength anymore to deal with the breaking of things, the running away, the talking to herself, etc. She knows this, and she knows that she either takes the meds or she doesn't. I'm not saying everyone is like this—it probably depends on the stage of the illness—but it is incredibly complicated... especially since your own nerves take such a beating from it all. Good luck...